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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 20, 2011 10:36:46 GMT -5
Octo Mom In Trouble For Spanking Her Kid.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:37:56 GMT -5
kate Goslien, not octomom.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:38:32 GMT -5
Parents should do what they think is right for their family. Period. End of story.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:38:33 GMT -5
Yes. Children should be beaten daily to teach them who is in charge.
Is that what you were looking for?
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Post by efco on Jan 20, 2011 10:40:16 GMT -5
yes. you cannot reason with a two year old.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 20, 2011 10:40:22 GMT -5
There may be no reasoning in a very small child. A Time Out..chair/corner may do instead of a spanking.
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 20, 2011 10:41:19 GMT -5
Your parents should've spanked you more. How's that?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:41:21 GMT -5
I hope I don't ever have to spank my daughter and my plan is to not spank her, but I will not say that I will unequivocally not ever spank her. I am only human and not always the person I want to be.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:42:05 GMT -5
There may be no reasoning in a very small child. A Time Out..chair/corner may do instead of a spanking. There MAY be no reasoning with a small child? Have you ever spent time with a kid?! Holy crap, you need to get out more.......
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 20, 2011 10:42:25 GMT -5
Discipline a child and they will not venture far as adults. But do not exasperate the child.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:42:48 GMT -5
I hope I don't ever have to spank my daughter and my plan is to not spank her, but I will not say that I will unequivocally not ever spank her. I am only human and not always the person I want to be. Just wait until she tells you NO, kicks you, and then spits at you.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:43:51 GMT -5
Discipline a child and they will not venture far as adults. But do not exasperate the child. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! <<snort, gasp, choke>> HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA <<fall on floor>> <<gasp>> HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Oh, you're serious.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 20, 2011 10:44:42 GMT -5
POTD!!!!!!
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:44:44 GMT -5
Kate Gosslin should spank Jon Gosselin and tell him to put his dingle back in his pants and quit acting like a teenager and get back home and raise all these children he helped create. Kate shouldn't have been such a controlling anal bitch and let him help her without telling him what a screw up he was and that he couldn't do anything right. It takes two to tango, and neither of them can dance.
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Post by efco on Jan 20, 2011 10:44:56 GMT -5
kate and jon should jump into shark infested waters for a swim. Same with oprah.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 20, 2011 10:46:43 GMT -5
Missed opportunity of behavior control if that is happening.[spitting/biting,etc]
Like Archie...I'd prefer to never lay hands on a child.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:47:12 GMT -5
By the way... check out this video of Kate spanking her daughter. it is not pretty tinyurl.com/4qjenaw
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:47:52 GMT -5
Missed opportunity of behavior control if that is happening.[spitting/biting,etc] Like Archie...I'd prefer to never lay hands on a child. I must have missed the clues and given her permission to act that way.
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 20, 2011 10:49:14 GMT -5
Missed opportunity of behavior control if that is happening.[spitting/biting,etc] Like Archie...I'd prefer to never lay hands on a child. I must have missed the clues and given her permission to act that way. Early POTD for you!! ;D
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Post by Taxman10 on Jan 20, 2011 10:55:23 GMT -5
I hope I don't ever have to spank my daughter and my plan is to not spank her, but I will not say that I will unequivocally not ever spank her. I am only human and not always the person I want to be. Just wait until she tells you NO, kicks you, and then spits at you. then over the knee she will go!! this ought to get a lot of responses. my vote is yes, but just b/c we do it doesn't mean you have to.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 20, 2011 10:55:58 GMT -5
#11 Snerdley, you have the POTD as far as I'm concerned. You said it perfectly.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:56:48 GMT -5
I hope I don't ever have to spank my daughter and my plan is to not spank her, but I will not say that I will unequivocally not ever spank her. I am only human and not always the person I want to be. Just wait until she tells you NO, kicks you, and then spits at you. That is why I can't say for sure that I will never spank. I have a breaking point and I get angry just like everyone else.
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Post by thyme4change on Jan 20, 2011 10:57:41 GMT -5
Archie - that is the most disturbing video I've seen in a long time.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:58:48 GMT -5
Archie - that is the most disturbing video I've seen in a long time. I know. I can't get it out of my brain.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:59:44 GMT -5
SERIOUSLY?!?! You honestly believe that those kids would be better off living under the same roof with two parents who cannot stand each other?
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 20, 2011 11:00:29 GMT -5
Why would you do that on camera?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 11:00:49 GMT -5
which is why I didn't watch it. I had been previously warned that Deb's video's can be quite graphic.
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Post by thyme4change on Jan 20, 2011 11:03:12 GMT -5
Archie's link goes to a Rick Astley video.
The video Deb posted is almost 2 years old.
Another pointless post.
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Jan 20, 2011 11:05:10 GMT -5
<<Spit water on monitor, exalt Swamp>>
My generation got the spankings, mainly because I think our parents knew nothing of time outs, reasoning, reverse psychology, etc. Discipline, however, was something they understood.
I do not have children, but I do have the common sense to see that some posters here get it. It is never any sane parent's stated intention to lay a hand on a child. A light but firm tap (or several) on the butt will probably not turn a child into an ax murderer. Lengthy and sustained beatings over the course of an entire childhood are another matter, and at the opposite end of a very long spectrum.
I am not against corporal punishment if used sparingly and as a last resort, and at an age when a child understands the point being reasoned. I have no comprehension of what that age might be; my guess is, it can vary with the individual child.
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Post by ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ on Jan 20, 2011 11:06:11 GMT -5
The first lesson to teach a toddler is the meaning of the word "NO"- and that when you say it, you mean NO. Rinse and repeat as necessary - and add a time-out for emphasis as needed. Spanking as they get older might be a necessary evil to instill in them just who's in charge.
I see too many younger moms & dads these days in stores/restaurants and other public places who have their heads so far up their arse thinking their child is perfect, they allow them to act up/tear around/scream without removing them from the situation and disciplining them. I'd rather see a parent drag a kid kicking and screaming from a public place than be subjected to listening to them throw a tantrum.
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