zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Feb 10, 2014 17:01:35 GMT -5
Is this the same poster? I thought it was someone else.
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comom1
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Post by comom1 on Feb 10, 2014 20:08:19 GMT -5
Nancy's right, pink. You need to get ready for that phone call. We had a couple that moved in to our building last year. They were there three weeks and the cops were there four times for domestic violence. The last time, he put her in the hospital. Her mom came and got her things and took her back to her hometown. Last I heard, she had gone back to the boyfriend. She won't leave until she's in a body bag.
Has your daughter gone to counseling to understand why she's making these choices? Can you convince her to go, or if she has, to go again?
Good luck to you. You must be a wreck worrying about her. Counseling helped my oldest when she was making some really lousy choices. She's back to her old self again and it's wonderful.
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zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Feb 11, 2014 8:50:07 GMT -5
I worry about what that little boy is seeing. First the dangerous situation from someone who is supposed to protect him and then, that its okay to abuse women, in any way.
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NancysSummerSip
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Feb 11, 2014 10:44:22 GMT -5
We're being pretty harsh on the guy based on a couple posts about how Pink feels about him. Mother in Laws never like the schmuck who impregnates their daughter out of wedlock and screws up their life. She hasn't said he's ever hit her. She's said he's young, duh, so is Pink's daughter. She's said he drinks, I'm betting Pink's daughter does too, they're young twenty somethings, lots of them drink fairly regularly. She's said he has issues. So does Pink's daughter. Maybe the guy really is a raging asshole that's just looking for an excuse to beat the hell out of Pink's daughter. Or, it's just as likely that he's just a dumb kid with a lot of growing up to do, exactly like Pink's daughter but with a penis. Dark, you could be right either way. And here's my reasons for wanting the DD out of there: it has less to do with her than the kids. I'll say it again: the kids are not at fault in this situation. I'm being hard on the butthole boyfriend, I'll grant you that. But he's not going to change, judging from what we know. Pink's DD has a support system, even if it's one she does not appreciate at the moment. Whether it be rage or stupidity on his part, it's immaterial. The kids, both the little one she has and the one she is carrying, need to get out of there. Three people have the very real possibility of injury or death here. Two of them have no say in this matter. At this stage, although I was not for it at the beginning of this thread, I'd do what I needed to do to get them to a safe, if temporary place, long enough to sort it out. The DD has made her choices and she has to make new ones in order to get this solved. The children have no choices.
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