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Post by suesinfl on Nov 6, 2016 3:14:29 GMT -5
Dear kids, I'm tired, really tired. You need to figure out your issues and learn to deal with each other. If I had the funds, I'd take a long weekend away. Oh who am I kidding, I wouldn't even get out of town before I felt guilty about leaving you both at home, not to mention the disaster I would come home to. The fantasy is nice though. Signed, The Referee You wanna visit here? Not a fantasy destination, but it is quiet. Dear planet, I finally reached the end of my employment rope today. I just cannot remain at this job any longer. I will be spending the weekend (tonight and tomorrow) doing the financial math and working on a way out. It's just awful - childish, juvenile, tech-lacking (and I am an OLD person saying that!), paper-heavy, but mostly because it is a no-one-gives-a damn, slapdash-work-is-fine kind of place. I am so freaking done. I am just not contributing as I should or as I know I can. So it is time to cut my losses and go. I did learn a lot from this experience; mostly what not to do when it comes to personal happiness on the job. I can do this, I have to do this and I will do this.Thanks for the offer, I'm not looking for a fantasy vacation, just different walls to look at. Take the bolded part to heart, if your not happy with where you are and can afford to cut your losses, then do so. We spend so much time at work and some of us bring that home, if your not happy, then your home life is not happy either. You did learn a lot, whether through job experience(skills) or what to do/not to do) you will always take that with you. There is something out there that is just waiting for someone like you. You can do this!
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 5, 2016 4:40:00 GMT -5
Dear fur baby Parker, to say I'm not happy with you is putting it mildly. Twice yesterday evening you knocked out the screen of the living room window. The first time was because you spotted the cat in the front yard, (cat friendly, my behind). The second time was because DS and his friends were playing basketball in the road. The window is now closed and I'm not a happy camper. The weather is wonderful.
You then proceeded to escape your kennel, chew my slippers, and knocked over the trash can. You are pushing your luck and it's a good thing that these behaviors can be corrected plus the fact that you have stolen my heart.
Poor Lucy thinks that I am mad with her when I keep telling you NO. She takes raised voices personally, whether in frustration or happiness when the "noise" is in the house.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 4, 2016 21:56:19 GMT -5
I came across some multiple birth certificates, multiple SS #s/payments, multiple marriage certificates, multiple checking accounts (that had less than $ 10) when I was cleaning out my EX MIL's stuff that I was like . Now these records were from the 1940-1950, it was crazy. No way that she could have pulled these things off now.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 4, 2016 21:32:25 GMT -5
Grow older, but never grow up! It's what keeps you young.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 4, 2016 20:01:58 GMT -5
Dear kids, I'm tired, really tired. You need to figure out your issues and learn to deal with each other. If I had the funds, I'd take a long weekend away. Oh who am I kidding, I wouldn't even get out of town before I felt guilty about leaving you both at home, not to mention the disaster I would come home to. The fantasy is nice though. Signed, The Referee The commercial Calgon take me away comes to mind. Shows my age doesn't it. I remember those commercials and yes it does come to mind and does show our age.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 4, 2016 18:17:39 GMT -5
I tried years ago, but could only find my mother’s father and her mother’s first name. My father’s history, I have no idea. I have his father’s first and last name, but only his mother’s first name.
They had no siblings that lived past 2 years old, and I could not find any records for them. I’m sure if I was really diligent, I could find something, but I have no interest at this point.
I have naively believed that my father said that we were part Indian from upstate NY, but have never found anything to support that. Considering my maiden name and the spelling, I really doubt his claims.
My parents were born in 1926 and were never close to their extended family, so I never had any contact with anyone that they were related to include my grandparents.
I may just have to start researching again. Although I’m not too sure that I want to find out where I came from.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 4, 2016 17:51:49 GMT -5
Dear kids,
I'm tired, really tired. You need to figure out your issues and learn to deal with each other. If I had the funds, I'd take a long weekend away. Oh who am I kidding, I wouldn't even get out of town before I felt guilty about leaving you both at home, not to mention the disaster I would come home to.
The fantasy is nice though.
Signed, The Referee
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 3, 2016 19:59:48 GMT -5
Dear Nurse Practitioner,
I love you, I really do, but after 5 years of seeing you, I beginning to think that you don’t hear what I am saying. I told you at my first visit many years ago, that my blood work never comes in at what is considered “normal”. I told you my medical history and you have copies of my previous blood work.
After all these years and having blood work done every 6 months, you want to send me to a hematologist because you can’t figure out why my results are all over the place. We talked 6 weeks ago and I signed a paper that I feel fine and do not believe I need to see a specialist.
Monday, we talked again about the latest results and you wanted to again send me to a specialist; I said no. Today your assistant called to schedule an appointment with a specialist.
What part of my test results that have never fit into the so called normal range do you not understand? I feel fine and am not having any of the symptoms of a blood disease.
Yes, I know that my iron and B12 are low, which is normal for me.
I thank you for your concern, but I know my body better than you do.
Signed,
Hating the medical profession right now.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 3, 2016 19:02:01 GMT -5
Taz that sucks, I hope things get worked out.
NNP, NO NO snow!! We get flurries about every 10 yrs or so and we do get freezing temps a few days out of the year, so I do have a couple of light weight jackets and some sweaters....they have lasted me for years.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 3, 2016 18:25:36 GMT -5
All the flipping time, but thankfully DD works PT and pays for most of her extras. High school for DS, he's killing me . The clubs/sports programs say "it's only monthly dues of $5-$10,or school fee of $50, but then we find out that he has to have special clothes/equipment/or money for other things. I don't even want to go into the fundraising that they have, yes, have to participate in. I hope they remember what I have done for them when I'm old and ready to live in a cardboard box under the bridge eating cat food.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 2, 2016 19:22:54 GMT -5
Not-so-dear Life, Please spare me. I can't handle it anymore There is only so much energy and patience I have to deal with the constant rocks that are thrown my way. I am a person....with emotions....and hope for a smoother path "sometimes". Is that too much to ask? Once upon a time I used to have real zest for life and all that came with it. Not so anymore. So Please.Let.me.Be. For once. Signed Someone who cannot and refuses to adult anymore Dear life, leave swasat alone, she's had enough of your crap and needs a break. This is not a request, but an order! I hope things settle down soon.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 2, 2016 16:59:34 GMT -5
Happy, happy birthday!!
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 2, 2016 16:48:01 GMT -5
Bob Ross, you have the weirdest/greatest sense of humor and I can always count on you for a laugh, thanks.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 2, 2016 16:45:20 GMT -5
I totally agree, but my dogs were in MY house and were not near the door. They were laying on the floor/couch totally oblivious to there surroundings. Maybe the kids are scared of dogs themselves? My nephew is about 3 and is just terrified of any dog for some reason. Not that it has stopped his grandmother (BIL's mom) from putting him down for a nap with the dog on the bed beside him on his last visit. I told my parents who had dropped him off there (Sis & BIL were on vacation and my parents had the kids) that they're lucky it was them dropping him off and not me because when they arrived and the dog wasn't put away and was all over the kid and he was looking at them all freaked out they still left him there. I wouldn't have. Wouldn't have held my tongue either. She knows how he feels about the dog and his parents have told her repeatedly about it. Sorry about the rant, but it makes me crazy that she can't be bothered to respect that the kid is genuinely freaked out and forcing it won't work with him. I can understand if the kids were afraid of dogs and am glad the father would be looking out for them, but it was the tone of his voice (disgust) when he mention the breed that I took offense to.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 1, 2016 19:58:46 GMT -5
Dear Sis, I know you want to be a Grandma and have grandkids that you see on a regular basis. But you are delusional if you think that your eldest DD and her DH are in any way shape or form capable of caring for and raising a child. They have not even shown that they can live independently. I would consider it a blessing that the doctor told DD that she should never become pregnant because of the medication she is taking. I would NOT be encouraging her to think of adoption. Hopefully there is no adoption agency on this planet who would consider them for placement and hopefully this does not happen as some private adoption through your church either. You have always lived in an alternate universe I don't know why I should think that now is any different. Signed, Sis with her mouth hanging open in disbelief. Backstory: My niece operates at about the level of a 13-14 year old emotionally. Her husband as cerebral palsy and other issues from being born 3 months pre-mature 40ish years ago. Neither one drive. They had an apartment for a few months after they were married but were evicted for not paying the bills and have lived with my sis ever since. Sis in her fantasy land encouraged this marriage because she wanted her DD to be married and happy. Hugs Sharon, sometimes people/parents don't want to see the truth. I wish them all the best, but maybe your sis can find an organization that can partner adults with children that need a "grandparent" type person.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 1, 2016 19:51:19 GMT -5
I always taught my kids to be very careful approaching any dogs but especially those who might not see them coming. Then to ask their owner if touching them was okay as well as letting the dog sniff the back of their hand and not make any sudden moves. I hope that's what this was about. I totally agree, but my dogs were in MY house and were not near the door. They were laying on the floor/couch totally oblivious to there surroundings.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 1, 2016 19:42:43 GMT -5
I want to thank everyone that has posted pictures of their children in their costumes. My kids are in their teen and I miss some of the times when they were young. My oldest DD sent me pictures of my grandkids dressed up. GS is 4 and the twins are 2.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 1, 2016 19:37:37 GMT -5
We've done that with Parker, at first it was just about 10-20 mins., but now it is more like two hours and he has done fine. I just think that the first few days was too much of an change for him and he needed to get use to our "rules and routines". He has actually been sleeping with DS in his trashed room and has been fine. This morning I found Parker in his kennel sleeping and no damage. How old is he? Jackson is only 5 months old and teething. I worry about how much damage I'm going to find with him loose. He has most of his big boy teeth in, but he still chews on everything he doesn't get in trouble for chewing. According to his adoption papers Parker is about 2yrs old but acts more like a puppy (he still pees like a girl).We have no idea of his history since he was picked up by animal center and then transferred to the Human Society. I would probably test Jackson out in shorter periods of time. I was told to get "kong" toys for chewing, although I haven't yet.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 1, 2016 19:07:42 GMT -5
Thing 1 asked if she should leave Jackson while she goes to get food or put him in his kennel for 15 minutes. I told her that he has to be left unattended at some point, so leave him out. Pray for the safety of my house that a puppy tornado doesn't take place while she's gone. We've done that with Parker, at first it was just about 10-20 mins., but now it is more like two hours and he has done fine. I just think that the first few days was too much of an change for him and he needed to get use to our "rules and routines". He has actually been sleeping with DS in his trashed room and has been fine. This morning I found Parker in his kennel sleeping and no damage.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 1, 2016 18:58:00 GMT -5
Dear father of a trick or treater, I am hoping that you are just ignorant (you need to be educated) or maybe you had a bad experience with pit bulls (I’m sorry). My American Pit Bull Terrier and American Staffordshire Terrier were laying on the floor sleeping or just resting, not barking (they VERY seldom bark) and not near the door. Why did you tell your son to not approach the door and that you would, because you saw two pit bulls in the house through the open window that is near the door?? I had several kids and parents comment last night on how well behaved and beautiful my dogs are. Why did you scare your son? If you had a bad experience, I can understand the hesitation and I am sorry, but if you are ignorant, you sir, are a dumb ass and that is just a nice way of saying f-off. I despise people that lump certain breeds as being dangerous. It is all in the upbringing/training/knowledge of the owners, and not the dogs.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 31, 2016 18:51:19 GMT -5
In our schools, the comments are limited to what is offered in a drop down list for teacher comments when filling out the report card/progress report. Such as, talks too much (DS has had more of his share) good student, etc. The teachers cannot put in their own comments. If there is an issue, they can either contact you (not likely) or you have to contact them for a conference.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 29, 2016 15:19:20 GMT -5
Steff, it's the same in my house at times. Drives my up the frigging wall.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 29, 2016 7:54:02 GMT -5
Holy crap! I have been playing fetch for the last hour trying to wear this dog out. It doesn't sound like much, but it entails pretty much wrestling this dog for the toy back so that he can go get it again. I'm sweating! Parker, is that you Late yesterday was his first day as part of our family (adoption process took awhile due to scheduling conflicts on both sides). It was a looooooong day, but he is already learning manners and Lucy's (other dog) routine.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 25, 2016 21:31:51 GMT -5
That doesn't look comfortable, nice butt crack though lmao! well, he is a plumber... I'll probably make the pic go poof soon, especially after posting the caption I used on FB with the pic, but I said something like "I'm going to need a bigger crate soon, if they ALL keep fucking up!" lol... Eh, keep the puppies out and just put him in there.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 25, 2016 19:00:08 GMT -5
That must be one big ass crate. That doesn't look comfortable, nice butt crack though
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 25, 2016 18:58:31 GMT -5
That must be one big ass crate. I recently had a situation where I had to keep all the animals with me (big dog and 4 cats) all day for several days since it wasn't safe for them to be left at home alone. No problem, I have a huge crate with a divider in it; the dog could go in one half, then I could partition it with divider and put the 4 cats and their food and litter in the other half. Slight problem, the crate was too big to be set up in my (not small) SUV. Fortunately I had a smaller crate I could stuff the cats in and took my chances and left the dog loose in the back of my car. Cheaper solution than buying a new monster SUV that could handle the crate. WOW I can't even imagine.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 25, 2016 17:28:22 GMT -5
I think I will be ok (financially) without him. It does hurt to think about. As if the finances somehow are the most important thing we have to deal with after our spouse is gone... No, they're not the most important but it sure beats adding financial worries onto the body blow of losing a spouse. DH and I were watching HGTV in our travels earlier this month and a couple was looking for an apartment in Barcelona where they could live for a year while the husband wrote a book. I was mildly jealous and then I realized that after DH is gone I can choose any European city and park myself in an Airbnb place for a month if I want. And yes, I talk about this with DH and he supports it. In the meantime, if I need counseling or other support, I can get it and still pay the mortgage. It won't bring DH back but I'll have a better life after he's gone with money than without it. Athena, I am so impressed with how open you and your DH, I mean you both know the outcome, but still, being able to talk about your future without him is wonderful. You know that he approves of what you want to do and you don't have to wonder/feel guilty enjoying your life.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 25, 2016 17:14:52 GMT -5
That must be one big ass crate.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 25, 2016 17:01:26 GMT -5
I check mine, but have never found a mistake.
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Post by suesinfl on Oct 23, 2016 2:58:20 GMT -5
Today (ok, yesterday) was National Pit Bull Day, so this is how DD and I celebrated! Parker – Saved in his final hours www.thehsmc.org/parker-saved-in-his-final-hours/Parker is a 2 year old American Staffordshire Terrier mix. He has the best personality anyone could ever want in dog! He is happy and healthy, and ready to go home with you. We rescued him from Animal Services, he was set to be euthanized that day, and we just couldn’t leave this wonderful boy behind. He was attacked by something while he was out on the streets, not sure what, but it gave him some decent gashes on his neck that we have stitched up and they are healing nicely. Please come meet Parker, he will bring you such joy we are sure. He will be the newest member to our household! I can't figure out how to post a picture, though. We do need to see how he reacts with our American Pit, but they did great at the pet fair today. The Humane Society needs come and check out the house, yard, etc., which will be fine and then he can come live with us!!
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