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Post by suesinfl on Nov 24, 2016 2:28:26 GMT -5
A half cup of salt does not taste as good as a half cup of sugar in a dessert. This reminds me of a time when my mother put salt in her coffee and sugar on her fries at McDonalds. Needless to say it was no a happy dinner.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 23, 2016 19:52:42 GMT -5
Thank you everyone for the laughs tonight, I needed it. I have my own horror stories to tell, but I'm too embarrassed. I'm glad to now that I am not the only one who made mistakes.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 23, 2016 16:27:29 GMT -5
Empress, congratulations! Normal hours, hopefully better working conditions, you go girl!
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 23, 2016 16:23:26 GMT -5
Depends on the state. I own the old house - mortgage in my name, had it before we were married. But I wasn't allowed to sign the paperwork without DH. Stupid MO won't let a woman sell property without her husband's permission. I wish I was making that up. Same thing here. I had the mortgage years before I married now XDH, but when I went to refinance at a lower rate, he had to sign the paper work also. He had no claim to the house/mortgage and his income was not used for the refinance. I was not a happy camper at the time and am really mad (understatement) about it now. He won't sign a quick claim paper.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 22, 2016 18:32:59 GMT -5
The last couple of years, I have had no holiday spirit, not sure what is up with that. The kids and I will be going to my oldest DD's house. When the kids were younger, I spent many holidays alone as they went to their father's house. It was hard, but no where close to those that have no one. I often wonder what I will do when my last two are gone and have their own families. I'm sorry for those that will be alone during the holidays.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 21, 2016 19:38:14 GMT -5
The top one looks just like one of my fur babies.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 18, 2016 21:57:35 GMT -5
I have a dilemma this year. I'm new to this position and even though it's a one person office (me) I work in a building with three other government agencies (total of about 19 people), that don't interact with one another. Other than saying "hi" when I pass them in the hallway, I have no idea what there names are. We share a small kitchen, restrooms and a conference room.
Apparently, they have a monthly birthday celebration combined with whatever holiday happens to be in that month. They did a potluck for Thanksgiving/birthday cake luncheon last week and each group got their food and went to there own areas. It was nice, but sitting at my desk alone was not fun.
Fast forward to today. They are planning December's celebration and want to do a gift exchange, but they are not sure if they want to draw names or if we should do the Chinese auction type of thing and the dollar amount is $20 either way.
I don't want to participate in any gift giving, money is tight right now and I don't know these people (many have work in the building/together for years). So I'm at a loss as to what to do.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 17, 2016 21:45:23 GMT -5
Happy Birthday!! Hope today was a wonderful day.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 17, 2016 18:09:14 GMT -5
Best of luck!! You can do this!
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 15, 2016 20:39:29 GMT -5
I can't even begin to tell you how much I admire you and your DH. Such strong people to be able to make these types of decisions when it is such a sad time. Many hugs to you tonight and for the days/weeks/months to come.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 15, 2016 18:56:11 GMT -5
Gwen never had nipple confusion. .. she knew exactly which was mine and which was the "false boob" as we started to call it. She would only take the false boob at daycare and that was after a two week hunger strike. She would scream bloody murder at the grandparents till I came to pick her up. Abby was cool with the bottle. We even switched her to formula at nine months without any issues. Food is food to Abby and it doesn't matter where it comes from. So mad at myself today over our finances. I screwed up big and had to take from our reserve line to cover the difference. I should have put us on a starvation diet starting back when DH started his job. Between daycare costing $750 a month, the dog needing the vet, DH's multiple doctor appointments, Gwen's teeth, the cars and having NO emergency fund because we blew thru that thanks to losing our jobs everything is so upside down right now I want to curl up in a ball and cry. Then I feel like a giant douche because there are people with way worse problems than mine. This house thing has me stressed out. If I had it my way we would wait several more years till we could do a lot of this in cash. Instead we are on my parents' time table. I know the answer is to just find another house but going back to the above and not being a responsible YM-er planning YEARS ahead of time for this very moment we can't exactly afford another house or to rent a house at what they are going for right now, not to mention we have the dogs that DH refuses to give up so we'd be paying out the nose in pet deposits/rent if we could even find someone to rent to us in the first place. I know eventually things will all work out and we'll dig ourselves out of the hole but I totally get why poor people stay poor. Once you start that downward spiral it's really hard to pick things back up again. We are suffering a temporary set back we are fortunate that we started where we did when the poop hit the fan. Other people can't even get started and while I used to go along with the YM crowd now I get it. go easy on yourself. shit happens, you'll get there. Drama, take Swamp's advice. You are not the only one who has had things that messed up the finances. I screwed up my checking account and had to pull from savings. It happens and you will recover from it.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 15, 2016 18:48:31 GMT -5
Dear self, You need to get your act together. You transposed numbers in a major accounting report, tonight you left your phone at work and you screwed up your checking account. I'm thinking I need my meds adjusted back up, but the doctor decided to lower them and I'm not happy with the results.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 15, 2016 18:40:30 GMT -5
Is there even a lawyer involved? As far as I know, at least around here, civil suits don't always require a lawyer. Any old twaddlehead can go file one and then the burden of proof is on them. BTDT.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 15, 2016 17:21:52 GMT -5
Athena, I cried at work this morning when I read your first post and then again when I read your afternoon post. I'm sorry I couldn't tell you how sorry I am for the loss of your DH, but at least his no longer in pain. You are an amazing woman.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 14, 2016 18:25:39 GMT -5
Neither of the girls have kids and they both have them. It makes me feel better than expecting them to remember pills. DD is on the Merina and had some cramping for the first few days, but the peace of mind at not having to remember to take a pill, is remarkable. She was on Depo before this and likes it, but her migraines are returning.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 13, 2016 4:05:19 GMT -5
I hated when my across the neighbors had teen boys with big trucks. Every. Flipping. Weekend. But thankfully come Sunday afternoon, my mailbox would be fixed......somewhat.
Sorry you are having to deal with this.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 12, 2016 16:58:37 GMT -5
I refuse to ever even have a boyfriend and will never be married. I stick with a friend with benefits. I lay down rules in the beginning. It has to be monogamous and if one isn't feeling it, we call it quits and remain friends. Not all people can do that, but it works for me. I would love this type of relationship. Or like Drama said, I'd have an ISO like crone. I just have no idea on how to start. I'm a mess this weekend, so don't mind me.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 12, 2016 16:50:41 GMT -5
Your family needs a restraining order, although it may not be worth the paper it is written on. You can request that she can't come within 500/1000 feet of any of you, no contact what ever and hopefully it will scare her.
But my experience with the X it was not helpful, only made the anger more intense.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 12, 2016 8:17:21 GMT -5
Me too! Have no desire to get married. Like Zib, I was the caregiver for my DH and I won't ever do that again. I know the toll it takes on everyone. It would be nice to have someone to watch football games with or watch the election results.......but I do love my independence. This is the first time in 51 years I have no one to answer to and no one to tell me what I should or shouldn't do. It's my life and I'll live it as I see fit. Bolded....So much this; that's really all I want.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 12, 2016 7:34:55 GMT -5
My father was enlisted, but never left U.S. soil during WWII and my youngest brother was a medic during Vietnam, but again never left U.S. soil. Although he was in the Reserves for years. I am so grateful to those that have served and are still serving. Because of them, I have the freedom to voice my opinion openly (within reason), vote how I choose, and to live my life as I see fit. Thank you if you have served, or had relatives that have/are serving.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 12, 2016 7:11:36 GMT -5
The house is beautiful even if it is only part done. I can't wait to see the completed pictures. The room with the fireplace would be my haven. Great work!!
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 12, 2016 7:06:10 GMT -5
I hope that those with DHs that are having a hard time can/will work things out.
For me, I was having a pity party last night about being alone. I don't want to be married, BTDT and am lucky to have gotten out alive, but I was wishing that I had someone to spend some time with especially when both kids are gone for the weekend.
It's been 12 years, but I don't think I could live with someone again, but I would like their company at times. Ugggh, I'm still having a pity party.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 12, 2016 6:56:23 GMT -5
I'm glad they have you and that you're there for them. Just keep telling them that. Mid, so much this! It's a hard place to be on both sides. Keep in contact and tell them that you are there for them. I wish all of you the best.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 8, 2016 20:35:33 GMT -5
I refuse to get married because I don't play well with others. I did 2x, first was too young (18) for reasons to get out of my house, it was hard but the best for both of us and we remained friends. Second time was a disaster from after about 4 years, but I tried. Never again.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 8, 2016 19:49:49 GMT -5
And the reasons i abhor donald trump are so deeply personal that to me it would indicate he did not respect me or care about me as a person. DH took it as a personal attack that I voted for Hillary because of how it affects his job. I told him I understood those reasons well, but there were other things that I could not vote for at all. So when he came home with only a small fraction of his check last month he yelled at me and said it was because of "people like you that voted for these politicians". Ughghgh. I am not discussing specifics with him again. Where is Drama's 2x4 I know that he is stressed about the changes that he is going through, but I would not have put up with that.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 8, 2016 19:45:25 GMT -5
We are at 25 weeks 3 days now... I still think it is too early! Waiting to hear some more info from her. Dear Carlie, you need to stay put and cook a bit longer. Quit stressing mom and dad out; you have plenty of time for that as you go from a baby to toddler, to elementary school, middle school and high school years. Carl, wishing you and Mrs. C the best.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 8, 2016 19:35:55 GMT -5
Why are everyones' husbands being total buttfaces? No husband, but two teens (19 and 14) that sure fit into this description.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 8, 2016 17:50:25 GMT -5
Thank you both. DD's migraines are returning again after she went off the pill and now has a marina (?). The doctor suggested that she try a gluten free diet. She usually eats pretty good, little junk food, fresh meat and veggies, with a little pasta/rice thrown in. I was just wondering if anyone else had any experience with different foods.
We are just having a hard time figuring out the triggers, although I have noticed that stress/lack of sleep does not help.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 6, 2016 19:22:36 GMT -5
Why in the world is my iPAD refusing to fall back one hour? I even rebooted and still no deal. Doesn't this bloody thing know it is not nice to mess with the easily confused? My kids looked at me when I asked them if they turned back their clocks. I forgot that their cell phones automatically switch times.
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Post by suesinfl on Nov 6, 2016 11:08:24 GMT -5
So peeps, tell me about what foods/recipes to eliminate gluten from your diet. I have done my research, but want to hear from others that have first hand knowledge. I know that we have several members that are/have been dealing with this issue.
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