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Post by chiver78 on Sept 19, 2024 7:28:49 GMT -5
we're getting rain today, for the first time in a month. I'm very happy that it's also a daycare day for the pups. they would be pouting at me all day, and I have shit to do. I've got a half page of questions already about yesterday's bullshit.
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Post by finnime on Sept 19, 2024 7:42:02 GMT -5
azucena, your posts paint a clear picture of the terrible burdens nut has placed on BT. Your responses to her show BT that there is a navigable path out, and that you won't disappear. I'm glad BT has you in her corner.
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Post by azucena on Sept 19, 2024 8:49:54 GMT -5
Not enough coffee in the world to get me thru this work day. Both phsyically and mentally exhausted.
Haircut after work will provide some self care.
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Post by andi9899 on Sept 19, 2024 8:59:50 GMT -5
Didn't they email you one when you booked the flight? Forward that. If you have to upload it to something, PDF it and then upload. Don’t have email anymore You can get it from your deleted emails. You should also have created a login with the airline where you can recover it. If you have sn app, you should be able to get it from there too.
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Post by daisylu on Sept 19, 2024 9:01:54 GMT -5
Taking a mental health day. Which has DH concerned because I am actually taking a day off.
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Post by jerseygirl on Sept 19, 2024 9:19:17 GMT -5
You can get it from your deleted emails. You should also have created a login with the airline where you can recover it. If you have sn app, you should be able to get it from there too. I finally reached someone and got the receipt Thanks for suggestions
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Post by bean29 on Sept 19, 2024 9:20:08 GMT -5
I did put older son on a list because I wasn't sure if he'd have vision insurance after this year since I'm dropping him, but now that I think about it, I'm pretty sure his dad does so he should still be covered in 2025. For myself it doesn't really matter. If they squeak me in towards the end of this year so I can use 2024 insurance then I'll just have the same problem next year with not being able to get in for the year since the appointments have to be at least a year apart. I guess it's possible something could open up in Sept or Oct giving me time. I would verify how your vision insurance works, ours can be used any time during the year, it is not required to be exactly one year from prior visit.
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Post by minnesotapaintlady on Sept 19, 2024 9:20:51 GMT -5
I've been trying to walk a lot more and yesterday I bought my first pair of shoes that wasn't paid for by work in probably 15-20 years. I feel like I live in the shoe store with how often I'm in there buying the kids shoes, but I didn't even know where the woman's section was!
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Post by TheOtherMe on Sept 19, 2024 9:22:25 GMT -5
Not enough coffee in the world to get me thru this work day. Both phsyically and mentally exhausted. Haircut after work will provide some self care. You must take care of yourself to be of use to any of the 3 children in your life. What I would give to see BT pat you on the head. She knows you are looking out for her best interests. It's obvious her mom is trying to manipulate her any way she can. This is so difficult for everyone and then to think of the kids still living there.
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Post by minnesotapaintlady on Sept 19, 2024 9:25:14 GMT -5
I did put older son on a list because I wasn't sure if he'd have vision insurance after this year since I'm dropping him, but now that I think about it, I'm pretty sure his dad does so he should still be covered in 2025. For myself it doesn't really matter. If they squeak me in towards the end of this year so I can use 2024 insurance then I'll just have the same problem next year with not being able to get in for the year since the appointments have to be at least a year apart. I guess it's possible something could open up in Sept or Oct giving me time. I would verify how your vision insurance works, ours can be used any time during the year, it is not required to be exactly one year from prior visit. My appointments are partially (maybe even entirely) covered by medical insurance due to extra stuff needing to be done for cataracts and something with my retina in one eye and it has to be a year for those tests to be redone.
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Post by The Walk of the Penguin Mich on Sept 19, 2024 9:35:35 GMT -5
I would verify how your vision insurance works, ours can be used any time during the year, it is not required to be exactly one year from prior visit. My appointments are partially (maybe even entirely) covered by medical insurance due to extra stuff needing to be done for cataracts and something with my retina in one eye and it has to be a year for those tests to be redone. I make appointments on my way out for the following year. Right now, my dentist is booking 7-8 months out, it’s crazy. Same with my GP.
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Post by daisylu on Sept 19, 2024 10:36:43 GMT -5
My appointments are partially (maybe even entirely) covered by medical insurance due to extra stuff needing to be done for cataracts and something with my retina in one eye and it has to be a year for those tests to be redone. I make appointments on my way out for the following year. Right now, my dentist is booking 7-8 months out, it’s crazy. Same with my GP. Same in this area. For routine stuff I make the appt on my way out. Dental appointments are the worst, even a cleaning is months out.
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Post by azucena on Sept 19, 2024 11:04:19 GMT -5
Bio nut has officially declared war. I called oral surgeon this morning in last ditch effort to check on paperwork. Was put on hold 10 mins and supervisor came on and said bio mom called yesterday and I'm not allowed to make any other appts and said they can no longer talk to me. Lady was kind enough to tell me that medical release is still needed. I'm still on hold bc I asked them to check if they at least have Medicaid referral.
So, so tempted to figure out how to call in and report welfare fraud in retribution as I'm sure nut is still getting paid each month for teen as one of her kids even though teen isn't living there and nut has not provided a dime for her since March. So far my heart is winning bc that will likely only punish Teen's poor, unfortunate younger siblings who are still in the home.
Writing up email to legal aid lawyer as we speak. Besides that I can only pray that this latest negligence is enough to give me and/or teen medical rights.
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Post by Peace77 on Sept 19, 2024 11:30:15 GMT -5
Bio nut has officially declared war. I called oral surgeon this morning in last ditch effort to check on paperwork. Was put on hold 10 mins and supervisor came on and said bio mom called yesterday and I'm not allowed to make any other appts and said they can no longer talk to me. Lady was kind enough to tell me that medical release is still needed. I'm still on hold bc I asked them to check if they at least have Medicaid referral. So, so tempted to figure out how to call in and report welfare fraud in retribution as I'm sure nut is still getting paid each month for teen as one of her kids even though teen isn't living there and nut has not provided a dime for her since March. So far my heart is winning bc that will likely only punish Teen's poor, unfortunate younger siblings who are still in the home. Writing up email to legal aid lawyer as we speak. Besides that I can only pray that this latest negligence is enough to give me and/or teen medical rights. Bless you for continuing to try and advocate for BT. Hope that bio nut can grow a heart as hers seems to be missing entirely.
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Post by The Walk of the Penguin Mich on Sept 19, 2024 11:46:52 GMT -5
Bio nut has officially declared war. I called oral surgeon this morning in last ditch effort to check on paperwork. Was put on hold 10 mins and supervisor came on and said bio mom called yesterday and I'm not allowed to make any other appts and said they can no longer talk to me. Lady was kind enough to tell me that medical release is still needed. I'm still on hold bc I asked them to check if they at least have Medicaid referral. So, so tempted to figure out how to call in and report welfare fraud in retribution as I'm sure nut is still getting paid each month for teen as one of her kids even though teen isn't living there and nut has not provided a dime for her since March. So far my heart is winning bc that will likely only punish Teen's poor, unfortunate younger siblings who are still in the home. Writing up email to legal aid lawyer as we speak. Besides that I can only pray that this latest negligence is enough to give me and/or teen medical rights. This is so wrong! Why is nut using her daughter as a weapon against you…..at her expense? Dang, she’s vindictive!
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Post by andi9899 on Sept 19, 2024 11:51:14 GMT -5
I'm so ready for this house crap to be over. Can we just fast forward to 10/11 and be done with it?
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Post by azucena on Sept 19, 2024 11:53:43 GMT -5
Bio nut has officially declared war. I called oral surgeon this morning in last ditch effort to check on paperwork. Was put on hold 10 mins and supervisor came on and said bio mom called yesterday and I'm not allowed to make any other appts and said they can no longer talk to me. Lady was kind enough to tell me that medical release is still needed. I'm still on hold bc I asked them to check if they at least have Medicaid referral. So, so tempted to figure out how to call in and report welfare fraud in retribution as I'm sure nut is still getting paid each month for teen as one of her kids even though teen isn't living there and nut has not provided a dime for her since March. So far my heart is winning bc that will likely only punish Teen's poor, unfortunate younger siblings who are still in the home. Writing up email to legal aid lawyer as we speak. Besides that I can only pray that this latest negligence is enough to give me and/or teen medical rights. This is so wrong! Why is nut using her daughter as a weapon against you…..at her expense? Dang, she’s vindictive! Teen and I have decided it's half against me and half about forcing teen to give up and return back to her (note that I'm purposefully not using the word home) so teen can resume childcare, household chores, etc. Would also allow nut to save face in front of her family some of whom have begun to question why a 'good kid' like teen would leave.
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Post by The Walk of the Penguin Mich on Sept 19, 2024 12:11:55 GMT -5
This is so wrong! Why is nut using her daughter as a weapon against you…..at her expense? Dang, she’s vindictive! Teen and I have decided it's half against me and half about forcing teen to give up and return back to her (note that I'm purposefully not using the word home) so teen can resume childcare, household chores, etc. Would also allow nut to save face in front of her family some of whom have begun to question why a 'good kid' like teen would leave. How did BT wind up in foster care? Why are her siblings still there?
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Post by Cheesy FL-Vol on Sept 19, 2024 13:07:23 GMT -5
We need more birds over here to eat the &%$^()* flying spiders!
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Post by raeoflyte on Sept 19, 2024 13:20:16 GMT -5
This is so wrong! Why is nut using her daughter as a weapon against you…..at her expense? Dang, she’s vindictive! Teen and I have decided it's half against me and half about forcing teen to give up and return back to her (note that I'm purposefully not using the word home) so teen can resume childcare, household chores, etc. Would also allow nut to save face in front of her family some of whom have begun to question why a 'good kid' like teen would leave. I think that makes the most sense.
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Post by raeoflyte on Sept 19, 2024 13:21:26 GMT -5
Teen and I have decided it's half against me and half about forcing teen to give up and return back to her (note that I'm purposefully not using the word home) so teen can resume childcare, household chores, etc. Would also allow nut to save face in front of her family some of whom have begun to question why a 'good kid' like teen would leave. How did BT wind up in foster care? Why are her siblings still there? She's not in foster care. If she was the state would have medical poa.
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Post by azucena on Sept 19, 2024 13:33:06 GMT -5
Teen and I have decided it's half against me and half about forcing teen to give up and return back to her (note that I'm purposefully not using the word home) so teen can resume childcare, household chores, etc. Would also allow nut to save face in front of her family some of whom have begun to question why a 'good kid' like teen would leave. How did BT wind up in foster care? Why are her siblings still there? Long story that I chronicled more in WIR parent thread. Teen reported mom abusing her and her siblings to me, I hotlined and alerted school, they hotlined, elementary school hotlined after 9 yo sister showed up at school with bruises and corroborated story, DSS made second home visit in front of mom without older siblings so younger ones recanted. DSS showed up here and did 5 min home visit said welp she's safe, case closed. DH and I were like wait, we have no legal or medical rights. DSS was like, maybe if you ask her mom nicely she'll sign something. Nut just called and yelled at me about upcoming therapy appt. I hung up so she was gracious enough to put her threats in writing via text which have now been fwd'd to social worker.
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Post by Cheesy FL-Vol on Sept 19, 2024 13:36:42 GMT -5
How is BT in your household to begin with? I don't know the back story either.
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Post by TheOtherMe on Sept 19, 2024 13:56:08 GMT -5
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Post by wvugurl26 on Sept 19, 2024 14:04:30 GMT -5
I'm hanging out in the breakfast nook killing a few minutes. My room was being cleaned when I returned. The app and the sign at check in say housekeeping every other day but I've gotten it daily. In July, I got no housekeeping. I've given up trying to figure it out.
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Post by countrygirl2 on Sept 19, 2024 14:18:21 GMT -5
Been up doing tasks this morning.
Wrote out 3 checks and made up a pickup order for Walmart today so I didn't have to go in shopping. I am going to have to go in and get a pair of kitty nail trimmers though. They. were going to mail in October! I have 2 pair somewhere, but who knows where and I need them now.
I ordered some healthy snacks for everyone, hubs, DD, and grandson, I'm trying to get back into cooking. I mean we went to Subway yesterday and 2 sandwiches plus 3 drinks was $29+, that is ridiculous. I imagine its the same price in Sullivan.
I just baked a cake because little guy will be over tomorrow night, it may be gone by then, if so will bake another. Son really likes pineapple upside down cake. We are going over for dinner Saturday. Hubs bought a temporary tarp building for the tool trailer so he can get into it, there are things in it we need to use. Until we sell some houses no garage will be built, so at least next summer I'm sure.
I'm waiting on hubs to paint a section of ceiling so I can do the trim and sidewalls. Probably only the hall and entry way today. Just have to see what we get done. Ceilings are so hard to paint, hubs has to do that.
I'm going to order some organizing trays for my cabinets for small items. I straightened the food cabinet in the laundry room, its better, going to have to do that all over in my kitchen.
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Post by countrygirl2 on Sept 19, 2024 14:25:46 GMT -5
We are looking at TSP with water to clean grease off the kitchen ceiling. That's going to be a tough one. I can wash down the walls and cabinets. Paint just doesn't adhere that well if you don't.
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Post by toomuchreality on Sept 19, 2024 14:37:09 GMT -5
We need more birds over here to eat the &%$^()* flying spiders! 😳😳😳 Terrifying!
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Post by Cheesy FL-Vol on Sept 19, 2024 14:48:15 GMT -5
Yep! I went down to get a package amazon was delivering and as I was heading back up the stairs, one about the size of a quarter went flying off the gutter (ballooning), flew back up and then started flying back down towards me. It landed on the landing I was standing on (dumbstruck)and scuttled underneath! I about shit. There was different spider hanging out right at the top of stair gate latch that I nearly put my hand on!
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Post by Opti on Sept 19, 2024 14:51:30 GMT -5
Yep! I went down to get a package amazon was delivering and as I was heading back up the stairs, one about the size of a quarter went flying off the gutter (ballooning), flew back up and then started flying back down towards me. It landed on the landing I was standing on (dumbstruck)and scuttled underneath! I about shit. There was different spider hanging out right at the top of stair gate latch that I nearly put my hand on! Yikes. Is this a new thing?
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