Zaire All About Nothing Journal

[Green Eyed Lady]

actually I saw you had joined the MOB the other day
I felt bad then - but I was not convenience you completely joined
I was going to show that Weltz is wrong
but now I see there really is no point to try and change your opinion

Nice try. Get caught in a big fib and try to deflect the blame on to someone else. Won't work. I'm smarter than you.

Take care and good luck (especially to your lady).

[Peace Of Mind]

My only comment is that brunch was fantastic! <<slowly backs out of Z's thread>>

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 12:56:49 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

I wonder what his live-in g/f (who he's still sleeping with even though he said it's over) would think if she could read some of what he posts.

Zaire, if you want to dog around on your girlfriend that's your business - but posting about it is NOT cool - and some of the things you talk about shows that you have little or no respect for women.

[And I'm posting as any other member here when I say this, not as a Mod - so it's just my personal opinion]

I don't have to have sex with my female friends
I am not gay
I see that women wear sexy clothing to work
I don't hide the fact that I see other women and find them sexy / attractive
I let GF know what I see and she understands and has changed her dress at work

for example: she has this v-neck sweater she USED to wear with a bra to work- she is a full b cup
she was filing at work in the 3rd drawer - so the sweater drops down for everyone to see down her top
a guy noticed and he went into the isle pretending like he was reading notes in a folder
GF saw him standing there and looked up and caught him looking
went up to him and said if you don't stop looking down my top we can continue this in HR! - he went away.
I said she was wrong for that
women know what they are wearing before they go out
after that she wears the fitted top under the sweater

cleavage is the most sexiest look a woman has
so fine this is offensive to you?
speaking and saying what I actually see?
never was a problem in person when speaking to women in person - but ok
I'll stop sharing

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 14:32:22 GMT -5 @femmefatale said:

Mar 22, 2012 14:24:45 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

actually I saw you had joined the MOB the other day
I felt bad then - but I was not convenience you completely joined
I was going to show that Weltz is wrong
but now I see there really is no point to try and change your opinion

Z....I had your back when I saw someone harrassing you because I felt like you deserve the right to express how you feel. But, I must admit, it is a bit troubling for anyone to sit here and see you discussing boobs and etc...when you have made it abundantly clear that you do have a woman. I don't know if it is attention you are seeking or you are just lonely. Nonetheless, don't you know that some o the stuff you are dragging out here is a bit on the well......weird side? It's ok if you wanna think this stuff or whatev. But come on man, there are just some things you need to keep private. Know what I mean? I'm telling you this for your own benefit. The journal is fine if you are talking about your moods or whatever, but come on now and chill with the posts about bra sizes and whether she's into you or not? Are you being fo' real here? Because if you are, I certainly got the wrong vibe about you in the beginning. I actually felt sorry for you, but now I'm seeing what peeps are talking about. Sorry. You need to speak to a therapist, i think. I don't mean that harshly, but just for your own good. This message board is not the place for this.

I've been told by 2 other guys that the highlight of coming into the office is to see the pictures on my backgrounds on the computer.
I have pictures I take when I enter the car shows
one guy almost walked into my cube wall because the picture on the screen caught his attention as he walked by.
he said laughing the picture is a safety hazard!
the pictures are NOT half naked women either

so in person speaking this way is ok
not ok speaking what men do - how men are here is ok
understood

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

went up to him and said if you don't stop looking down my top we can continue this in HR! - he went away.
I said she was wrong for that

No she wasn't - She should have.

ok I'll stop sharing

Good - right now I really want to reach through my monitor and smack you upside the head and across the face.

[Again, my opinion as one of the female posters here]

[femmefatale]

Quote:
went up to him and said if you don't stop looking down my top we can continue this in HR! - he went away.
I said she was wrong for that


No she wasn't - She should have.

I agree, Lass. Damn, Z! You don't have much respect for women. I'm done with this. Wow....Your gf completely had the right to feel harrassed. I am going to zip my mouth shut for what I'd really like to say here. Have a good day. All i can say is Dayum!!!!!

[ZaireinHD]

I've been thinking of a parental digression advisory? or the viewers digression / warning as a signature
I see now it just about mandatory!!

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 5:59:16 GMT -5 @rj said:

Oh great, the Pitty party is still going

Your support will be missed

[femmefatale]

Mar 22, 2012 15:07:34 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

I've been thinking of a parental digression advisory? or the viewers digression / warning as a signature
I see now it just about mandatory!!

Zaire, you just don't get it.

[weltschmerz]

Get help. Seriously.

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

Best to back out of the thread now, Femme. Nothing's ever going to change - and he never will get it.

[ZaireinHD]

<<Zaire these are people from various areas and not from your area - tone it down as talking to complete strangers>>
ok - fine - I understand
so the story here should go

I saw a woman running for the bus. Normally bus drivers will wait. as she was approaching going towards the driver side - so I would think the driver saw her. but what ever the reason the driver took off and she didn't make it.
I was a few cars back and when I got to her stop - I said to her jump in and we'll catch your bus.
she gets in
I weave through traffic to catch and pass the bus and stopped to drop her off two stops up (or maybe one - I don't know the stops)
she said thanks I saved her lots of time as she gets out

[weltschmerz]

Mar 22, 2012 15:07:34 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

I've been thinking of a parental digression advisory? or the viewers digression / warning as a signature
I see now it just about mandatory!!

Speaking of digression....it's one thing you're really good at. Instead of addressing the issue, you post something about a woman missing the bus.

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

Would you have offered a guy a lift to his next stop if he missed his bus??

[femmefatale]

Mar 22, 2012 15:20:43 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

Best to back out of the thread now, Femme. Nothing's ever going to change - and he never will get it.

I know. It's like I'm beting my head against a brick wall...

LOL!

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 15:48:40 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

Would you have offered a guy a lift to his next stop if he missed his bus??

that was a recent this week story.

YES I would offer!
yes I have given dudes a ride.
also I gave a ride to a guy I saw broke down on the highway walking away from his car and gave him a ride to the next gas station (out of my way cause it was past my exit)
he was very thankful and gave me two bottles of anti-freeze purchased from the gas station
(I didn't ask but he offered and didn't need it - but it was something we were talking about)

[Green Eyed Lady]

SL? I owe you a huge apology. I was sort of put off at your posts in here the other day, but you were EXACTLY right. We are just giving the dude someone to talk to. You were right. I was wrong. Sorry.

[ZaireinHD]

now that it's brought up
I know not to tell "my" version of the bus stop story to my work wife
oh geez! now you're gonna tell me work wife is offensive?

I know not to tell my female co-worker the story because she would find it offensive.
because of her I stopped showing certain car show pictures on my computer because she finds them offensive. The ones with women in bikini top and jeans next to my car. I said ok
so I show the ones with women pulled from the crowd next to my car. but either way none of the guys have a problem with the pictures I show at work - including my boss and his boss. I also had a car magazine cover picture on my computer and another women made a comment about it - which brought it to my attention she kinda didn't like it. so I deleted it.

I'm gonna type up a different version of the bus stop story and send it to email contacts (well it's NOT a big list like 10 or 12 guys and 3 or 4 women)
subject: is this story offensive to you?
I would like to see the answers

[ZaireinHD]

OH well SL
looks like it's just you and me now?
this is the time where I would think the ignore Zaire is in full effect.
Zaire is a indecent ass! complaints are flying off the handle to the mods to ban Zaire!
the reason why I posted two subject STARTING with Zaire - so members will know I'm posting (especially with this thread)
but for some reason if I don't make the ignore option.
when the New Topic shows Zaire I would think no one is reading g this crap.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 16:08:32 GMT -5 Green Eyed Lady said:

SL? I owe you a huge apology. I was sort of put off at your posts in here the other day, but you were EXACTLY right. We are just giving the dude someone to talk to. You were right. I was wrong. Sorry.

That's why I post here
to talk to others

I wonder if I can find a certain post?
brb...

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

Zaire is a indecent ass! complaints are flying off the handle to the mods to ban Zaire!

Whaatt??? As I said earlier, my posts are my own personal opinion only just like everyone else posting here - not that of a moderator.


ETA: If I were acting in a mod capacity, my posts would be signed.

[Opti]

Mar 22, 2012 14:34:34 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Mar 22, 2012 12:56:49 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

I wonder what his live-in g/f (who he's still sleeping with even though he said it's over) would think if she could read some of what he posts.

Zaire, if you want to dog around on your girlfriend that's your business - but posting about it is NOT cool - and some of the things you talk about shows that you have little or no respect for women.

[And I'm posting as any other member here when I say this, not as a Mod - so it's just my personal opinion]

I don't have to have sex with my female friends
I am not gay
I see that women wear sexy clothing to work
I don't hide the fact that I see other women and find them sexy / attractive
I let GF know what I see and she understands and has changed her dress at work

for example: she has this v-neck sweater she USED to wear with a bra to work- she is a full b cup
she was filing at work in the 3rd drawer - so the sweater drops down for everyone to see down her top
a guy noticed and he went into the isle pretending like he was reading notes in a folder
GF saw him standing there and looked up and caught him looking
went up to him and said if you don't stop looking down my top we can continue this in HR! - he went away.
I said she was wrong for that
women know what they are wearing before they go out
after that she wears the fitted top under the sweater

cleavage is the most sexiest look a woman has
so fine this is offensive to you?
speaking and saying what I actually see?
never was a problem in person when speaking to women in person - but ok
I'll stop sharing

FYI, Most gay men notice when women wear sexy clothes too.
Most however, are into the aesthetics as opposed to hoping the hot girl wants them.

I guess you've never been to a sexual harassment seminar? US Society has decided the workplace should be sexual harassment free and that includes looking down a woman's top or staring at a man's package.

You gave your gf the wrong advice. Women should dress in a way that they don't give free shows while doing their normal work unless of course that's what they want to do or they work in a strip club. If she isn't wise enough at her age to wear a bra or shirts or camis with questionable attire she should expect that kind of attention even if it shouldn't happen.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 16:32:48 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

Zaire is a indecent ass! complaints are flying off the handle to the mods to ban Zaire!

Whaatt??? As I said earlier, my posts are my own personal opinion only just like everyone else posting here - not that of a moderator.


ETA: If I were acting in a mod capacity, my posts would be signed.

sorry that's not ....wasn't my intentions
I am thankful you mentioned you're posting as a member not a moderator.
that quoted statement of mine is about members are probably going and have been going to moderators to have me banned.

[ZaireinHD]

Aug 3, 2011 20:17:33 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

And that's why I'm perfectly happy with my perky little pair of 34B's. I don't have to worry about back-pain, straps cutting into my skin, or having trouble finding a bra that fits and yet is still pretty. No enhancement surgery for this girl.

now I have to find where I posted members have been here for years (MSN days) posting personal stuff - I'm just doing it now very rapidly.
I'm like reading the archives here getting to know people.
this is how I speak to people in person that I know
it hasn't come up as a problem before - again with people I know in person.

[ZaireinHD]

<<in one whoop MOB membership has probably doubled>>


actually I give - MOB members win!

[Opti]

Mar 22, 2012 17:45:54 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Mar 22, 2012 16:32:48 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

Whaatt??? As I said earlier, my posts are my own personal opinion only just like everyone else posting here - not that of a moderator.


ETA: If I were acting in a mod capacity, my posts would be signed.

sorry that's not ....wasn't my intentions
I am thankful you mentioned you're posting as a member not a moderator.
that quoted statement of mine is about members are probably going and have been going to moderators to have me banned.

Z, being an indecent ass as per your sentence is not against the CoC.
Why would anyone "talk" to a mod given one has been reading the thread? Were you an only child? The reason I ask is it feels you are unaware the world is not as concerned about you as you think it is.

Its been interesting, but frankly its a lot like us sensible folks that read P&M. We read when we feel like it and when it is crazy we stop.
No Mods involved. Disappointing for those who like conspiracy theories or like to play victim but true nonetheless.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 17:16:22 GMT -5 Opti said:

You gave your gf the wrong advice. Women should dress in a way that they don't give free shows while doing their normal work unless of course that's what they want to do or they work in a strip club. If she isn't wise enough at her age to wear a bra or shirts or camis with questionable attire she should expect that kind of attention even if it shouldn't happen.

dang I just read this post....after I said I give up!
Hmmm.....ok
last thing
YES this is my thinking why I said GF was wrong
"women should expect that kind of attention even if it shouldn't happen"
women know what they look like when they leave out in the morning / out the home. that's why I have a problem with the way some dress - then women get all upset from men looking!
ok - a problem I have is with the white pants! IMO 90% of white pants are see through - I know it's NOT just me that can see through white pants - but yet women wear them and their whatever is under them show.

[ZaireinHD]

Deleted - Zaire miss understood quoted comment

[ZaireinHD]

ok - now I give up
MOB members have already made up your minds about me
negative
I just want to talk - I'm not breaking the COC

[ZaireinHD]

SL I know you have to read my comments
so I don't expect you're gonna reply as a member
but when I don't see your moderator tag in your reply
I'll think you're posting as a member.

done fighting the MOB