Zaire All About Nothing Journal

[Opti]

Mar 22, 2012 18:07:29 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Mar 22, 2012 18:00:38 GMT -5 Opti said:

Z, being an indecent ass as per your sentence is not against the CoC.
Why would anyone "talk" to a mod given one has been reading the thread? Were you an only child? The reason I ask is it feels you are unaware the world is not as concerned about you as you think it is.

Its been interesting, but frankly its a lot like us sensible folks that read P&M. We read when we feel like it and when it is crazy we stop.
No Mods involved. Disappointing for those who like conspiracy theories or like to play victim but true nonetheless.

see there - again with twisting
I know members have gone to moderator complaining about members
and how or what they post they don't like
that's probably part of the reason the coc was updated to include this!

Ah, the patented Zaire twisting.

Members have gone to moderators complaining about other posters in the past.
TRUE

How this links to your posting or existence? A mystery or perhaps
only understood in the Zaire Zone.

[weltschmerz]

Mar 22, 2012 17:51:35 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Aug 3, 2011 20:17:33 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

And that's why I'm perfectly happy with my perky little pair of 34B's. I don't have to worry about back-pain, straps cutting into my skin, or having trouble finding a bra that fits and yet is still pretty. No enhancement surgery for this girl.

now I have to find where I posted members have been here for years (MSN days) posting personal stuff - I'm just doing it now very rapidly.
I'm like reading the archives here getting to know people.
this is how I speak to people in person that I know

it hasn't come up as a problem before - again with people I know in person.

How you can compare the two is beyond me! Like I said...no insight. A woman posting about whether or not she'd have breast enhancement is much different than you ogling the receptionist's D cups and wondering if she's into you WHILE YOU HAVE A WIFE AT HOME! How can you not see the problem, here?
Posting about going to Brazil and hoping the women will be all over you because they'll take you for a rapper WHILE YOU HAVE a WIFE AT HOME, just makes you a louse. However, feel free to cry victim and how everyone is ganging up on you.
Clueless.

[wvugurl26]

Some women can choose the appropriate underwear to wear under light/white pants. So sorry you haven't met any. And honestly what are you 14? Real men can control their words and actions even if a woman is provactively dressed. Grow up already!

[wvugurl26]

Mar 22, 2012 19:02:16 GMT -5 @rj said:

Mar 22, 2012 14:45:20 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

I've been told by 2 other guys that the highlight of coming into the office is to see the pictures on my backgrounds on the computer.
I have pictures I take when I enter the car shows
one guy almost walked into my cube wall because the picture on the screen caught his attention as he walked by.
he said laughing the picture is a safety hazard!
the pictures are NOT half naked women either

so in person speaking this way is ok
not ok speaking what men do - how men are here is ok
understood

I'm surprised you have never been brought up for sexual harassment. If you worked for me you would have already and been fired.

Yeah at my job too

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

And why was a post of mine (From an entirely different section and thread) brought here to be quoted? That discussion was an entirely different topic than this - and was a health-related topic. Talk using things out of context.

[Jaguar]

Message deleted by Sugilite .

[femmefatale]

Y'all are all giving him what he wants.

[femmefatale]

Mar 22, 2012 19:29:01 GMT -5 @rj said:

Mar 22, 2012 19:26:59 GMT -5 @femmefatale said:

Y'all are all giving him what he wants.

LOL funny you say that now

Don't start with me, Rick. I can say anything when I feel the need to, just like you. Got a problem with it?

[femmefatale]

Mar 22, 2012 19:46:25 GMT -5 @rj said:

Mar 22, 2012 19:43:51 GMT -5 @femmefatale said:

Don't start with me, Rick. I can say anything when I feel the need to, just like you. Got a problem with it?

Oh No, not a problem at all.. I have never had a problem with you. I dont alway agree

No sense in staying around and

[Deleted]

What was this thread suppose to be about again?

[femmefatale]

Mar 22, 2012 19:48:07 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

What was this thread suppose to be about again?

LOL!

[femmefatale]

Mar 22, 2012 19:50:10 GMT -5 @rj said:

Mar 22, 2012 19:48:07 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

What was this thread suppose to be about again?

Z like boobs, and thay dont have to be on women

Wouldn't that make them MOOBS?

[Deleted]

Oh. I don't wanna talk about boobs OR moobs. Moving right along.........

[Deleted]

Mar 22, 2012 19:59:34 GMT -5 @rj said:

Mar 22, 2012 19:57:11 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

Oh. I don't wanna talk about boobs OR moobs. Moving right along.........

Oh dont worry, we are trying to explain to him he need to focus on his wifes and leave others alone

I thought we already went through that sometime last year. Well, not about boobs specifically, just women in general.

[femmefatale]

Mar 22, 2012 19:57:11 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

Oh. I don't wanna talk about boobs OR moobs. Moving right along.........

Lmao! But, why not?

[wvugurl26]

Mar 22, 2012 20:06:00 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

Mar 22, 2012 19:59:34 GMT -5 @rj said:

Oh dont worry, we are trying to explain to him he need to focus on his wifes and leave others alone

I thought we already went through that sometime last year. Well, not about boobs specifically, just women in general.

Apparently it didn't sink in!

[Deleted]

Mar 22, 2012 20:06:19 GMT -5 @femmefatale said:

Mar 22, 2012 19:57:11 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

Oh. I don't wanna talk about boobs OR moobs. Moving right along.........

Lmao! But, why not?

LOL. Well, I assume we'd be talking about some random woman's boobs and how they look. I don't really care about that and it's not a conversation I'm interested in. I'd care if we were talking about something related to women's health though. Moobs aren't cute, so I really don't want to talk about them.

[ZaireinHD]

see I'm reading a lot of questions
but there is no point in answering
I can see MOB members have already made up their mind about me.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 19:16:03 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

And why was a post of mine (From an entirely different section and thread) brought here to be quoted? That discussion was an entirely different topic than this - and was a health-related topic. Talk using things out of context.

well one answer to a MOB member wouldn't hurt

I brought up your comment (from another thread) because I wanted to show that members (you) talk about personal stuff. Since I'm being attacked about bringing up personal stuff.

[ZaireinHD]

Dec 15, 2011 13:45:52 GMT -5 Opti said:

Complaining about the same person same post again is just whiny. It certainly isn't classy.

At this time saying I want to slap you and make you cry isn't against the CoC. It isn't possible to do in cyberspace so a pretty weak threat. Calling people names, crazy bitch, is against the CoC.

You are the person who doesn't see you need to take on a type of responsibility you've never done.

[ZaireinHD]

Dec 14, 2011 3:55:34 GMT -5 Opti said:

Geez. You keep saying we can't read and understand your posts,
but honestly you can't read and understand the word most?

Do you want to solve your problems or do you want to whine about them and waste time on deciphering motives of other posters?
You know some people post to slam some people post to play with the troll and you yourself post to manipulate people into posting
again. Unlike TG, your fishing expedition to get her to post again
looks like a fail. ThankGod.

Somewhere deep down you do want help but actions and here since
we are looking for a change in your perspective matter. Your attitudes appear not to have changed very much if at all. Just because you are responsible at your job what does that have to do
with you being responsible for your own happiness? Nothing. At. All.

Why do people post this?
that I'm not understanding what's being told.

Because its true and most of us are in shock it remains true.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 19:17:11 GMT -5 @rj said:

He is always the victim. He will find a quote from someplave to make it sound like he is right

[weltschmerz]

I brought up your comment (from another thread) because I wanted to show that members (you) talk about personal stuff. Since I'm being attacked about bringing up personal stuff.
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Pathological inability to connect the dots.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 9:17:58 GMT -5 Green Eyed Lady said:

See, Zaire? You accuse others of not reading/understanding what you are posting but you are deliberating misinterpreting what others post.

Rick did not say you shouldn't post. He said "IF YOU DO NOT WANT COMMENTS then quit posting."

If you wish for people to truly read and try to understand your posts, you are going to have to give others the same consideration. This is about the 10th time I've seen you DELIBERATELY misinterpret someones post and about the 10th time I've seen you say that you've been told to stop posting.

You aren't being honest, Zaire. If this type of dishonestly permeates into the rest of your life, I'm not surprised you are at such an impasse.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 6:50:08 GMT -5 @rj said:

I've finally learned my expensive lesson about statements like this are NOT to be taken at face value.

2009 I went on vacation to Rio De Janerio on ONLY statements like similar.
"it's a mans paradise"
"ALL the women are beautiful"
"there are...it's difficult to find any fat women"
"US currency is treated like gold"
"because I'm a tall black guy Everyone will think I'm a Rapper or basketball player"
"our 3 star hotel costs the same as there 5 star hotel"
"spending American money women will be all over me"
pfft yea right!
I didn't tell too many people where I was going, so 3 days before I left I found out Portuguese is there language. The Travel agency I went to didn't tell me that!

[Opti]

Mar 22, 2012 21:21:15 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Dec 15, 2011 13:45:52 GMT -5 Opti said:

Complaining about the same person same post again is just whiny. It certainly isn't classy.

At this time saying I want to slap you and make you cry isn't against the CoC. It isn't possible to do in cyberspace so a pretty weak threat. Calling people names, crazy bitch, is against the CoC.

You are the person who doesn't see you need to take on a type of responsibility you've never done.

Well SL, I've been Zaired too.
At first I thought he had mashed in another poster's reply from this thread into an old quote from me, but this appears to be from sometime he was wanting to get another poster banned because they said they wanted to slap him and make him cry?

Taken totally out of context from an entirely different thread I'm not sure what if anything he's trying to prove but perhaps the flung mud will settle a bit by tomorrow after work?

[Green Eyed Lady]

What? Is there something about my post you wish to discuss? Because I'm absolutely sure you don't understand a word I said. Before, I just thought you were being deliberately obtuse. Now I'm not so sure.

I tried to explain to you on a number of times why your posts are offensive and elicit such a reaction. You did not listen to me. You just keep on offending. I took leave on this thread because I don't believe in ganging up on people, no matter how ridiculous they are acting. Going around being an angry little ankle biter is not my style.

But? If you are going to use my posts in some lame effort to prove your point, I'm going to come back and you aren't going to like what I have to say. I tried my best to be kind to the underdog here. Not only was it not appreciated, it was totally ignored. You are doing this on purpose and I get that. You are doing this for attention. I get that, too. You are about to get it. I'm sick of reading about your horrendous treatment of women and you acting like it's some kind of friggin badge of honor or accomplishment. I wouldn't treat a cockroach the way you treat the woman you live with.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 11:01:59 GMT -5 weltschmerz said:

THANK YOU!!
"Everyone will think I'm a rapper, American money is like gold, and the beautiful women will be all over me."
Yet he denied posting it. I knew I wasn't hallucinating or dreaming.
He even denied bemoaning the fact they speak Portugese there.
I couldn't be bothered to look for the post but I'm glad you did.

[Green Eyed Lady]

Funny thing is? If he were talking about race, religion or sexual orientation, every dang poster on this board would be in here raising hell. But since it's just about women....


Thanks to the men who have the balls to stand up.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 5:59:16 GMT -5 @rj said:

Oh great, the Pitty party is still going