Zaire All About Nothing Journal

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 18, 2012 23:04:10 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Mar 18, 2012 22:58:03 GMT -5 weltschmerz said:

you have such a great memory
post it! find the thread and post it!
let me see this trip and me actually saying I'm looking to hook up with women.
since it's posted all over and multiple times I would think it's not heard to find?
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It was a long time ago, and I have better things to do, Zaire. How do I know you didn't delete it?
It was ONE post about your trip to Brazil. You were hoping to meet hot Brazilian babes, and you had no idea they spoke Portugese there. You were bemoaning the fact that it's impossible to meet women if you don't speak the language.
I remember thinking "What a dick! He has a live-in girlfriend at home".

Ha HA HAaa - gotcha!
no it wasn't me bemoaning - you're twisting it and fortunately I'm still here to correct. usually I've logged off and your popularity and you've posted several times the same thing about that trip.

that conversation you've stated so many times was a conversation I was having with a member no longer here - Moxie.
I was talking about my trip to Brazil and the experience I had going to a place that was outside of my norm.
I wasn't talking about hooking up with women and getting upset I didn't speak the language.

doesn't look like I denied having the conversation to me.

[ZaireinHD]

<<Zaire just stop and continue about your business - the trip was explained on the spot and weltz still twisted the story
MOB members won and have made up their minds >>

[ZaireinHD]

POTD ...well I guess for tomorrow too

Mar 22, 2012 18:00:38 GMT -5 Opti said:

Z, being an indecent ass as per your sentence is not against the CoC.
Why would anyone "talk" to a mod given one has been reading the thread? Were you an only child? The reason I ask is it feels you are unaware the world is not as concerned about you as you think it is.

Its been interesting, but frankly its a lot like us sensible folks that read P&M. We read when we feel like it and when it is crazy we stop.
No Mods involved. Disappointing for those who like conspiracy theories or like to play victim but true nonetheless.

[ZaireinHD]

Nov 27, 2011 18:53:34 GMT -5 @rj said:

Psst, a little secret, he wont listen, he wants someone to wave the majic wand and make it all better.

[ZaireinHD]

Dec 11, 2011 14:07:46 GMT -5 mmhmm said:

First of all, saying "yes" all the time is not a responsible act. Responsible people know when to say "no". Enablers are those who always say "yes". Enabling another's scurious behavior is NOT responsible.

Secondly, it appears you don't go to anyone for help. You don't seem to give attention to anything anyone else says. Going to another for help means you accept you don't have the answers and are looking for options. You haven't done that. Every time you're given an option you find some reason why that won't work. Perhaps, to admit you can't be the be-all-end-all of every little thing for every little person is too much for you? Maybe ... just maybe, you don't have all the answers. Maybe ... just maybe you haven't even figured out the questions yet.

Just food for thought. I bowed out of this thread some time ago for the reasons stated above. Teaching a rock to knit isn't my idea of time well spent.

[ZaireinHD]

Dec 11, 2011 16:44:14 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

I only ask for help from those I feel that can help me.
I would ask my x-best friend all the time
she was a huge help to to
now she's gone.
I don't go to just anyone for help.
no point in ask'n a homeless guy to buy me lunch
but ask a homeless guy where can I go to get a free lunch is different.

[chiver78]

Z, what's your reason for quoting posts with no commentary? you seem to do that a lot.

-chiver mod

[ZaireinHD]

at first I thought to answer questions using other posts - so this way I couldn't be accused of lying
then Rick started doing it in this thread
then it just turned into reminders of what is being said about me

[chiver78]

I see. well, I've got to say that it's a bit jarring to have posts quoted that have nothing to do with whatever you're talking about in your own posts, mixed in. definitely makes things difficult to follow for those that are trying to catch up.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 22:44:54 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

at first I thought to answer questions using other posts - so this way I couldn't be accused of lying
then Rick started doing it in this thread
then it just turned into reminders of what is being said about me

like to add:
they are reminders to me of advise given
I can remember some things but not sure how it was posted
I've been told I post all over (I don't agree with that)
so these RECENT post with no comment are answers AND reminders on how to conduct myself here

Plus members don't read back ....well maybe
or I can answer with other posts
for example:
I was asked if I'm a only child?
I was told I'm a kid
I've posted answers to both - but I can't find the posts fast enough
but I see it doesn't matter because popular members word is bond

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 22:48:24 GMT -5 chiver78 said:

I see. well, I've got to say that it's a bit jarring to have posts quoted that have nothing to do with whatever you're talking about in your own posts, mixed in. definitely makes things difficult to follow for those that are trying to catch up.

1- I see this is a member post and not a moderator
so I don't feel threatened - thank you
2- I did see a member post what is this thread about pages ago
I didn't respond to it though I wanted to
at first I was going to answer with a quote
but then that didn't feel right - then I was just gonna answer her -
but then I felt it was a trap to answer as MOB members would twist what I would have said to turn her against me -
then I thought the subject "Journal" was the answer

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

Chiver, I suggested to Z a while back that he use whatever document program he has on his computer to keep a private journal for what he thinks about when he sees women - since a lot of members here are finding his posts disturbing/offensive, and they're starting to express their distain. They're also expressing their frustration due to the fact that Z will not even listen or try to do anything (work-related) that they've suggested. Many of his problems that are job-related are easy fixes, if he'd just learn to focus and try some new tecniques to make his tasks easier. But he doesn't even give them a try.

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And for Zaire: Some of the things your quoting go back months ago - most people have completely moved on and forgotten those discussions. Also, a lot of them have nothing to do with whatever your current rant is, and come from entirely different threads. Sometimes you don't even show the name of the person you're quoting.

In the beginning, people really were trying to help you and guide you in the right direction to make your job/life easier - but you do not listen or even try any suggestions. Then you're back here a few days later going on about the same things.

[ZaireinHD]

the not showing name part
ok - that was because I was thinking I was told not to name names - also I didn't want to name names of members and what they are saying about me. because I was warned to stop evoking members to post. well I think i was warned?

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 22, 2012 23:17:13 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

Chiver, I suggested to Z a while back that he use whatever document program he has on his computer to keep a private journal for what he thinks about when he sees women - since a lot of member here are finding his posts disturbing, and they're starting to express their distain. They're also expressing their frustration due to the fact that Z will not even listen or try to do anything (work-related) that they've suggested..

don't get mad....wait - sorry can't say that
I did post your work related answer SL!
see this is why I repost comments
To me I answered your answer to my problem about how to create a BORDER.
I posted the top 5 answers to the question from the help menu
I posted how it didn't answer the question
I posted the correct answer I found on my own
I said several times thank you for trying to help

and still I'm accused of NOT taking the advise given!!

[tallguy]

Mar 22, 2012 22:35:05 GMT -5 chiver78 said:

Z, what's your reason for quoting posts with no commentary? you seem to do that a lot.

-chiver mod

Are you really suggesting that there should be method to the madness? Have you not been here at all the last several months? This is who and what he is. Things make sense only to him, and that is how it will always remain.

I applaud, by the way, the recent enlightenment on the parts of the new converts to the, "What a ridiculous and unbelievable waste of time and effort" school of thought with regard to this thread. All I can say further is, "It's about damn time!" ;D

[ZaireinHD]

see chiver that is a perfect example
I'm accused of not taking advise!
1- I tried to post in a way I recognize the advise given
2- I explained I already knew about the advise and it normally doesn't help
3- I thanked SL for offering
4 - I THOUGHT I explained I understood the advise she gave me
5- I thought I explained how her advise didn't help AND connected why it didn't help in the past

and STILL I accused of NOT taking work advise

now is a perfect example of this is where I would bring up the posts
to show what happened
but SL has already spoken - no one will go back and see for themselves I did listen
no one probably wants to go back - so I would bring to fron t now
bit there is no point as I've done this before and still SL's point I don't listen to advise will remain

[ZaireinHD]

AHH!

I see
this is also the part where I'm accused of not being able to handle responses. and I can't tell members not to post. and I'm told if I don't want /can't handle responses don't post..... right

LOL - no you're not gonna start that
I do see member post comments and NOT moderator (well only on moderator question)
no one is threatening me - I can see that
I can handle the responses - it just frustrating that all
we're just talking here
just as MOB members are frustrated going in circles so am I

as just said I'm not complaining for comments made - frustrated yes
but I am not the one telling members not to post OR suggesting not to post

[Green Eyed Lady]

I'm kinda slow.

[ZaireinHD]

SL post 410 I would normally answer in several ways
but I see it's pointless


LOL - too funny


right now I want to post several comments of members saying
"he will never change"
"he just doesn't get it"
"stay away"

and yes some can be found in this thread and other threads around

[ZaireinHD]

actually now thinking about it<<Zaire ponders>>

there are code of conduct rules
and there are unspoken rules
I think it's the unspoken rules I'm breaking

[Peace Of Mind]

Z. Step. Away. From. The. Computer! <<tries to slide Z's cheese back on his cra cker>>

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

I found a new word that works for c r ac k er, POM - "Triscuit" ;D

[Deleted]

This is one weird thread.

[tallguy]

Mar 23, 2012 0:54:42 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

This is one weird thread.

What? You don't go for, "Stream-of-unconsciousness" BS and mind-numbing self-delusion? Why not?

[ZaireinHD]

Some tea with lemon before bed
GF is snoring too loud and my brain is still buzzing with thoughts to fall asleep

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 13:19:41 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

OH Rick - you're so helpful
Thank you so much for answering / providing your opinion
you're great - buddy
;D

[ZaireinHD]

Nice Breakfast needed this morning

[ZaireinHD]

time to step back and try to figure out what's going on

I remember Back in the Coffee shop I posted something like

Tonight is a good night for a drink and posts a whiskey bottle

I was quickly told no alcohol in the coffee shop

But it started by saying “you won’t know this but”

So I haven’t posted any alcohol any more there anymore
1- That was a unspoken rule
2- Also it was advise given AND FOLLOWED

And yet I’m still and constantly accused of NOT taken ANY advise given

so it must be I’m obviously breaking unspoken rules here.
Are there public forum rules?
Are there rules of this group that have been posting with each other for years?
is there a general flow of conversation that's unspoken but new people just somehow know about?

[ZaireinHD]

MOB members accuse me of not taking advise given
I post I understand and I post follow up to the advise given like a progress report
I post a direct response
I do listen and understand
And what happens? Nothing
Which is the very same thing I’m accused of…..Hmmmm.


MOB members still accuse me of not listening
I posted and named actual thread I STARTED as A question
And Weltz still mocks me – laughs at me – other members read her comment mocking and laughing and I still get accused not taking advise.
SL is stuck on I don’t take advise – there is no changing her mind – and she has given advise in the threads I actually asked for help and STILL says I don’t listen


And that’s why I say to SL – you’re confused and don’t understand.

But she’s part of the MOB and stuck in a single train of thought - just like members say I’m not gonna change – well looks like MOB members are not gonna change either + MOB members are growing!

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 21, 2012 9:33:51 GMT -5 Green Eyed Lady said:

Your "help" function can assist you in a much shorter time - it's just like google. Click on help and type in "reduce".

advise given to me