ZaireinHD
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Post by ZaireinHD on Mar 23, 2012 7:35:42 GMT -5
I see. I'm no teckky so I don't know the proper terms but there is help there somewhere. Usually its a (?) on all my programs. Good luck! advise given to me |
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ZaireinHD
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Post by ZaireinHD on Mar 23, 2012 7:37:12 GMT -5
Z: Click on "Start" (The Windows icon in the lower left corner of your monitor ) --->>  A small pop-up window will appear. Then click on "Help and Support" - the BLUE circile with the white question mark --->>  In the search bar, type in (in just a few words) what it is you're looking for or trying to do). Another screen will pop up with steps to follow. advise given to me on same subject from two members |
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Post by ZaireinHD on Mar 23, 2012 7:39:53 GMT -5
Thanks SL found the Help in Excel that you pointed out usually it doesn't help with my questions - which is why I just stopped using it altogether. now that I know the answer to creating boarders in excel I went to the help and typed in boarders - no matches came up lines - answers to charts and tables came up then gave up cause it was taking up too much time. my reply looks clear to me: 1-I said thank you 2- explained the outcome 3- explained why I didn't think of the provided answer |
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Post by ZaireinHD on Mar 23, 2012 8:36:30 GMT -5
Now I see members that cruise by that don’t know me – or have read my comments - BUT DO know the MOB members and read what they say – read how they mock me – now I’m the bad guy and looks like a new member has joined the MOB. Members post telling me people are gonna say intentionally mean and rude statements They also say people honestly want to help (even though I’m not looking / asking for help) Then some say the combined of the two - that members want to help and they say it in a rude manor They say oh people just come by to read the insane madness here for entertainment M said ..or someone said only I can make me happy So just change my way of thinking – stop trying to explain to MOB members – and just post because when I do try to explain - it's not read - twisted - I miss interpret and think it's an attack - fir e back a reply - told I don't get it - I'll never change - can't handle responses then don't post personal shit - MOB always has final say - then I don't agree - turns to I don't listen and don't take advise given MOB wins - I just want to talk  |
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Mar 23, 2012 8:53:05 GMT -5
You follow advice on the stupid shit, Zaire. We aren't talking about your dang Excel spread sheet and not posting alcohol in the Coffee Shop. Are you really this......I don't even have words! We are talking about REAL LIFE and a REAL LIFE you are impacting with your childish and insulting behavior. Not some dumb jpeg.
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Post by ZaireinHD on Mar 23, 2012 10:02:26 GMT -5
I'm accused of not taking advise ok show me when I've asked for help with my watch I ignored the help? show me when I've asked for help with stains in plastic bowls I ignored the help? show me when I've asked for help about leap year I ignored the help? show me when I've asked for help about cleaning up dust around the apartment I ignored the help? -----------------------  I see. You take our advice for the really IMPORTANT stuff, like dust and stains on Tupperware. here found it Actually this reminds me of a Temp job I had. My manger asked me for a report / I created the report and gave it to her. She said I didn’t ask you for this report I said oh I thought you asked in the email you sent to me She said no I didn’t ask for this report I printed the email and she still denied and said well someone else sent this email!! She did this to me and her other employee – we were like it’s difficult working for her. So I have to change my way of thinking – to maybe stop caring / trying to prove a point MOB members have made up there minds |
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Post by ZaireinHD on Mar 23, 2012 10:32:06 GMT -5
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Post by ZaireinHD on Mar 23, 2012 10:52:26 GMT -5
AHHH now wait –  it’s other members that I care about – the one’s passing by it’s there vote I argue for – but then again it doesn’t matter because the MOB has already spoken then jumps in and will rush others off to stay away continue to speak negatively so when a new member jumps in 1- even if new member reads from the beginning my explanations will be forgotten because MOB members would have drilled in what a loser I am 2- even if new member starts at the end MOB members will over power my responses / using their popular status and bang I’m a loser… so then back to stop caring – can’t fight the MOB they are always right and I'm wrong I live in a space and time where nothing matters and MOB lives where things do matter.  and to fit in here I have to consider that things do matter - that people do care about different things and I have to watch what I say! |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 23, 2012 20:03:34 GMT -5
What/who is this MOB you keep talking about?
Zaire, I gotta be honest and tell you........... you're tripping! Know your audience. Most people that these boards attract aren't going to give you dap if you're talking about looking for other women when you have a woman at home. We know men notice good-looking women even when they have one at home, but it's inappropriate to make a big deal out of it, and nobody wants to hear what size her breasts are. Well most people don't.
That may be the kind of conversations you have with your friends IRL, but it's just not going to go over very well here. You need to have those conversations either with like-minded people that are open about it or people that won't openly disagree with you, if you don't want to hear it. I think those people are scarce on here.
Now you're going on and on about whether you take advice and a MOB.......... Really?? It's not about fitting in, it's about knowing your audience if you care about the reaction you'll get when you say something. If you don't care what people think and say in response, that's different. You obviously care.
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Post by weltschmerz on Mar 23, 2012 20:52:24 GMT -5
show me when I've asked for help with my watch I ignored the help?
show me when I've asked for help with stains in plastic bowls I ignored the help?
show me when I've asked for help about leap year I ignored the help?
show me when I've asked for help about cleaning up dust around the apartment I ignored the help?
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Nobody gives a damn about the stains on your Tupperwear. Your LIFE is a train wreck, and you ignore all advice to make it better.
It's tantamount to the dam breaking, the water is rising, and instead of rescuing pets and family mementoes, you brag about saving a sandwich.
I don't expect you to get it. You suffer from exceptionally concrete thinking.
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Post by femmefatale on Mar 23, 2012 22:27:17 GMT -5
Lmao! Weltz...I love your way with words.
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Post by Jaguar on Mar 23, 2012 22:31:24 GMT -5
Lmao! Weltz...I love your way with words.  |
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Mar 23, 2012 22:34:13 GMT -5
LMAO!!! I hope that's not a typo!  |
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Post by femmefatale on Mar 23, 2012 22:36:01 GMT -5
LMAO!!! I hope that's not a typo! |
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Post by Opti on Mar 23, 2012 22:39:06 GMT -5
LMAO!!! I hope that's not a typo! And I was hoping it was a typo. Plastic underwear sounds so hot and painful.  |
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Post by moon/Laura on Mar 24, 2012 12:56:05 GMT -5
OK. This is where it ends. I have spent nearly 2 hrs reading through the two "Zaire threads".
I have had to remove at least 100 posts that were stalking or harassing in nature. The same old stuff has been said over and over. Quotes from other threads are being pasted in here completely out of context.
Most of all, NOTHING is being accomplished. Zaire, while I respect your desire to "journal", you need to do so privately. You don't want to hear any of the good advice anyone has given you- and there has been a lot of it.
Mainly, if you are not happy in your current situation, LEAVE IT. Then, and *only* then should you be worrying about dating someone else or whatever. You refuse to do that. You'd prefer to have your cake and eat it too.
Enough is enough. Show is over.
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