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Post by MJ2.0 on Jan 1, 2016 15:13:54 GMT -5
5 other texts to 5 different people, to clarify.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 1, 2016 15:55:34 GMT -5
Well, I wouldn't have but it's a new era. I hope it works out for you. Good luck.
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Jan 1, 2016 21:40:20 GMT -5
Just sent him a HNY text ... and like 5 others that I failed to send earlier. Response?
And are you feeling better?
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Post by obelisk on Jan 1, 2016 23:13:46 GMT -5
The guy likes you if he throws a rock at you!
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Post by mroped on Jan 1, 2016 23:20:49 GMT -5
If he grabs you vigorously by the hand, reels you in his arms and then in a Joey Tribiani voice is asking : " How YOU doin'?" then he likes you! If not...well, there is a next time!
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Post by mamasita99 on Jan 2, 2016 8:10:08 GMT -5
And, in defense of Meetup, I spent my NYE with a group that I met through a hiking group. I chatted with a few people on my first hike, then when something similar came up they thought of me and invited me to that activity. I had met the party host a few times through the Meetup group so she invited me. I had a blast, got to know some of the members better and met a bunch more! And no, we did not hike or do anything related to our Meetup! So the Meetup group had a positive "ripple effect" for me.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2016 9:39:32 GMT -5
Meetup certainly can evolve that way. It also might not. When it was first mentioned, I thought it sounded as if the person mentioning it was thinking of it more as a 'hook up' site... I might have been reading in too much and thus why I asked for clarification.
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Post by tloonya on Jan 2, 2016 10:32:08 GMT -5
Just sent him a HNY text ... and like 5 others that I failed to send earlier. Haven't you thought why ta heck he didn't send me HNY text? I hope he had a decency to reply. Had he?
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Post by MJ2.0 on Jan 2, 2016 11:11:55 GMT -5
Just sent him a HNY text ... and like 5 others that I failed to send earlier. Response?
And are you feeling better? No, but it's whatever. He could either be busy or not interested. Either way, I did all I'm going to do here. If we happen to talk and hang out at another event, that's fine. If not, that's fine too. I have too much going on to get hung up over a guy. People will do what they do, so I'm going to keep on doing what I do and try to expand my overall social circle in the process.
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Post by andi9899 on Jan 2, 2016 11:14:09 GMT -5
Too bad you don't live here, I know all kinds of people. I could introduce you to a bunch of them. How much Spanish do you know?
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Post by MJ2.0 on Jan 2, 2016 11:22:39 GMT -5
Lol trust me there are tons of Spanish speaking men here... unfortunately they are men I want nothing to do with! Hablo Español un poco .... un piqueno!!! Lol
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Post by tloonya on Jan 2, 2016 11:27:20 GMT -5
Lol trust me there are tons of Spanish speaking men here... unfortunately they are men I want nothing to do with! Hablo Español un poco .... un piqueno!!! Lol What about ones from Spain, not Mexico?
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Post by andi9899 on Jan 2, 2016 11:28:13 GMT -5
Lol trust me there are tons of Spanish speaking men here... unfortunately they are men I want nothing to do with! Hablo Español un poco .... un piqueno!!! Lol I hear you. And not everyone I know speaks Spanish. Hell, my family doesn't other than my grandparents. I actually haven't dated a hispanic guy in a long time. I'm thinking about trying it again, but I haven't decided yet.
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Post by andi9899 on Jan 2, 2016 11:31:05 GMT -5
Lol trust me there are tons of Spanish speaking men here... unfortunately they are men I want nothing to do with! Hablo Español un poco .... un piqueno!!! Lol What about ones from Spain, not Mexico? I'm not 100% sure where MJ is, but if it's the area that I think it is, she's probably talking about Puerto Rican men.
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Post by MJ2.0 on Jan 2, 2016 11:52:13 GMT -5
What about ones from Spain, not Mexico? I'm not 100% sure where MJ is, but if it's the area that I think it is, she's probably talking about Puerto Rican men. More from PR than Europe. There is also a big pocket of illegals in the college town near me. There also pockets of middle and upper middle class Portuguese in NJ towns like Paterson and Union. The Portuguese people I've met are nice enough but seem to really want to stick to their own.
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Post by simser on Jan 2, 2016 13:01:33 GMT -5
Is he still out of the country? I put my phone on airplane mode whenever I leave the country and do not receive texts. So he may not be getting them.
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Post by MJ2.0 on Jan 2, 2016 14:27:01 GMT -5
Is he still out of the country? I put my phone on airplane mode whenever I leave the country and do not receive texts. So he may not be getting them. It's possible. He uses Google Hangouts for texting in the US. I use it but it's notorious for not giving me message notifications, so that could be the case as well. Either way, I'm good.
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Post by tloonya on Jan 2, 2016 14:48:33 GMT -5
Is he still out of the country? I put my phone on airplane mode whenever I leave the country and do not receive texts. So he may not be getting them. It's possible. He uses Google Hangouts for texting in the US. I use it but it's notorious for not giving me message notifications, so that could be the case as well. Either way, I'm good. Hey, do you know how to delete someone from Google Hangout. I have added and now I need to get rid of it.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2016 14:48:56 GMT -5
Is he still out of the country? I put my phone on airplane mode whenever I leave the country and do not receive texts. So he may not be getting them. Don't do that!! That kind of stuff is silly for women to do. He didn't reply and that is fine. Take it for what it is. Don't make excuses so she can dwell on it even longer and give him more time than he deserves.
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Post by MJ2.0 on Jan 2, 2016 15:12:38 GMT -5
Is he still out of the country? I put my phone on airplane mode whenever I leave the country and do not receive texts. So he may not be getting them. Don't do that!! That kind of stuff is silly for women to do. He didn't reply and that is fine. Take it for what it is. Don't make excuses so she can dwell on it even longer and give him more time than he deserves. If you had read my past two posts, you would know that I'm not dwelling on anything.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2016 15:15:38 GMT -5
Don't do that!! That kind of stuff is silly for women to do. He didn't reply and that is fine. Take it for what it is. Don't make excuses so she can dwell on it even longer and give him more time than he deserves. If you had read my past two posts, you would know that I'm not dwelling on anything. That's why I didn't post to you.
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Post by tloonya on Jan 19, 2016 14:07:10 GMT -5
So he is a gonner? I haven't seen you in a while so I was wondering IF...
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Post by MJ2.0 on Jan 19, 2016 14:15:28 GMT -5
OMG, this is over. Go harass a bank teller or give a Nigerian prince your routing number or something.
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Post by tallguy on Jan 19, 2016 14:48:36 GMT -5
Lol trust me there are tons of Spanish speaking men here... unfortunately they are men I want nothing to do with!
Hablo Español un poco .... un piqueno!!! Lol I would guess you don't have that many Mexican men where you are, but it may be the same thing as a cultural bias.
I lived in Mexico for a couple months each of three different years. The saying I was told was that a marriage between an American man and a Mexican woman was made in heaven. A marriage between a Mexican man and an American woman was made in hell. So yeah, I get it.
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Post by tloonya on Jan 20, 2016 10:55:52 GMT -5
OMG, this is over. Go harass a bank teller or give a Nigerian prince your routing number or something. I would demand that hug back. Just sayin'
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Post by tloonya on Jan 20, 2016 10:57:13 GMT -5
Or wait for Benji's Single YMers club to open, I bet there will be fun! For everyone. I am getting divorce so I can enter.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2016 10:59:15 GMT -5
Or wait for Benji's Single YMers club to open, I bet there will be fun! For everyone. I am getting divorce so I can enter. Wait! What? Say it ain't so!
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Post by tloonya on Jan 20, 2016 11:02:12 GMT -5
Or wait for Benji's Single YMers club to open, I bet there will be fun! For everyone. I am getting divorce so I can enter. Wait! What? Say it ain't so! How YET am I supposed to get IN? Any suggestions? Unless he will call it ingles and old sluts club...I think he might just do that. WWYD
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2016 11:05:07 GMT -5
oh!! I thought you were announcing you are getting a divorce!!! don't scare me like that!!!
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Post by tloonya on Jan 20, 2016 11:05:47 GMT -5
oh!! I thought you were announcing you are getting a divorce!!! don't scare me like that!!! lol why?
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