How expensive can a divorce be

[quotequeen]

May 10, 2012 15:27:39 GMT -5 973beachbum said:

What does this even mean? The average number of children in families without children is zero isn't it?

If you include all families in the denominator the result will be lower than if you include only families with children.

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:28:34 GMT -5 Miss Tequila said:

May 10, 2012 15:27:42 GMT -5 Taxman10 said:

you want me to post some pictures?? naked people or OTYM'ers who think they are hot, but really aren't??

Go for both...

[Miss Tequila]

May 10, 2012 15:31:48 GMT -5 Taxman10 said:

May 10, 2012 15:28:34 GMT -5 Miss Tequila said:

Go for both...

Unless you meant me, of course...then I will kick you in the nuts

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:27:45 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

ETA: That was for Taxman a couple of posts back. Eh, I probably should've chosen another emoticon.

can you believe that some people think i cross the line?? i know right...I'm clearly on the correct side...where ever that is...

[Miss Tequila]

May 10, 2012 15:27:45 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

ETA: That was for Taxman a couple of posts back. Eh, I probably should've chosen another emoticon.

Pink, LMAO!!!

[muttleynfelix]

May 10, 2012 15:13:13 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

Of course, last night I spent an hour sitting by toilet, I couldn't even get enough energy to sit out side with DH and DS.

I'm sorry. Was the last one as hard on you as this one? They say the second one is easier. I know mine was.

Thanks. The first 2 trimesters with DS were rough, but I felt great the last trimester. I'm only 6 weeks along and so far this is worse partly because my DS doesn't get why mom isn't up to playing, but partly because I do feel sicker. So, who knows why? maybe I'm carrying a girl this time or God forbid multiples. It is hard because I feel like I'm letting my family down. DH warmed up some onion rings last night for supper and I had to go eat in the bedroom because the smell of onion rings nearly did me in. Anyway, I probably complain too much here because not too many people know in real life and probably the people on YM/WIR are getting sick of me complaing as well.

[Taxman10]

See my warning in post 1059

[The J]

Taxman -- this board is subject to the same pg-13 guidelines as the rest of the forum. Cross the line again and you earn yourself time off.

For everyone else, the fact that this is an off-topic board does not mean that threads are free to simply turn into EE-style sex chats.

-- The mOd of YM

[8 Bit WWBG]

...:::"Seriously...do you guys only date women that don't like sex??? This is a serious question...but if you are doing it right how could she not like it and want to experience that often?":::...

OK, why not. As its been explained to me, it is that the way many women are wired, they are unable to consider "getting in the mood" when they are stressed, and/or their needs are not being met. They need to be relaxed/not-stressed to get in the mood. Many men, meanwhile, crave the sex to relax. Its a vicious mismatch.

I have been told that some also view it as "yet another thing that someone is demanding of me when all I want to do is relax". Its not that they don't like it per se, but when time is scarce and there are so many leisure possibilities competing for time, she isn't going to choose sex every time.

I guess its like how if you only have one date night a month, you simply can't do everything. Some times you'll want to use it and go all out, but other times you might just go catch a movie or go to bed and sleep.

Speaking just about DW, she does seem to enjoy it once she brings herself to allow herself to enjoy it (and those of you who know me know the lengths I go to to make SURE she is taken care of). But I can kind of get that she just doesn't want to try sometimes.

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:38:01 GMT -5 The J said:

Taxman -- this board is subject to the same pg-13 guidelines as the rest of the forum. Cross the line again and you earn yourself time off.

For everyone else, the fact that this is an off-topic board does not mean that threads are free to simply turn into EE-style sex chats.

-- The mOd of YM

O Captain! my Captain! our fearful trip is done;
The ship has weathered every rack, the prize we sought is won;
The port is near, the bells I hear, the people all exulting,
While follow eyes the steady keel, the vessel grim and daring:


But O heart! heart! heart!
O the bleeding drops of red,
Where on the deck my Captain lies,
Fallen cold and dead.

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:41:36 GMT -5 8 Bit WWBG said:

...:::"Seriously...do you guys only date women that don't like sex??? This is a serious question...but if you are doing it right how could she not like it and want to experience that often?":::...

OK, why not. As its been explained to me, it is that the way many women are wired, they are unable to consider "getting in the mood" when they are stressed, and/or their needs are not being met. They need to be relaxed/not-stressed to get in the mood. Many men, meanwhile, crave the sex to relax. Its a vicious mismatch.

I have been told that some also view it as "yet another thing that someone is demanding of me when all I want to do is relax". Its not that they don't like it per se, but when time is scarce and there are so many leisure possibilities competing for time, she isn't going to choose sex every time.

I guess its like how if you only have one date night a month, you simply can't do everything. Some times you'll want to use it and go all out, but other times you might just go catch a movie or go to bed and sleep.

Speaking just about DW, she does seem to enjoy it once she brings herself to allow herself to enjoy it (and those of you who know me know the lengths I go to to make SURE she is taken care of). But I can kind of get that she just doesn't want to try sometimes.

Hey cut out the s3x talk, gosh darn it.

[Deleted]

[Epiphany]

May 10, 2012 15:41:36 GMT -5 8 Bit WWBG said:

OK, why not. As its been explained to me, it is that the way many women are wired, they are unable to consider "getting in the mood" when they are stressed, and/or their needs are not being met. They need to be relaxed/not-stressed to get in the mood. Many men, meanwhile, crave the sex to relax. Its a vicious mismatch.

DH and I are opposite so I would not assume it's a woman thing. I like sex to relax when I'm stressed and when DH is stressed sex is the furthest thing from what he wants to do. So again, generalizing your relationship to all womanhood doesn't work out

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:44:56 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

stop being frowny -- get back on topic.

Carl is getting a divorce. how much will it cost?? We need a lawyer to answer that.

Hey J - how much will you charge Carl to handle his divorce??

[Sum Dum Gai]

In 14 years of marriage, I've never went more than 4 days without sex with my partner. How do you fellas go months?

Have her push an 8.5 pound baby out of there then see if she'll let you go to town 4 days later.

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:47:54 GMT -5 Epiphany said:

May 10, 2012 15:41:36 GMT -5 8 Bit WWBG said:

OK, why not. As its been explained to me, it is that the way many women are wired, they are unable to consider "getting in the mood" when they are stressed, and/or their needs are not being met. They need to be relaxed/not-stressed to get in the mood. Many men, meanwhile, crave the sex to relax. Its a vicious mismatch.

DH and I are opposite so I would not assume it's a woman thing. I like sex to relax when I'm stressed and when DH is stressed sex is the furthest thing from what he wants to do. So again, generalizing your relationship to all womanhood doesn't work out

hey - this isn't "how does everyone enjoy their coitus?"

this is "how much does a divorce cost?"

we're still waiting for J's answer....

[Wisconsin Beth]

I don't think The J's in the correct state to answer Carl.

[TD2K]

May 10, 2012 14:07:22 GMT -5 Savoir Faire-Demogague in NJ said:

May 10, 2012 14:03:59 GMT -5 Miss Tequila said:

"And as we ALL know, MEN certainly never exaggerate about their sexual conquests... no no. "

And they all measure in centimeters, not inches :-p

I can only speak for myself. I've dated extensively, which by no means has anything to do with getting action. I've just said I have dated extensively.

living.msn.com/love-relationships/the-heart-beat-blog-post?post=a83e6528-9581-4c01-850b-4ffdc506ded3

Mark your calendars: a new study in the United Kingdom revealed that women's sexual appetite peaks at 11 p.m. on Saturdays.
Makes sense for a lot of us. The stresses of the workweek are gone, and by that time, you've probably had a glass of wine or two.


SF, maybe it's time to upgrade from lunch on Tuesday for a sandwich and coffee

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:51:36 GMT -5 Wisconsin Beth said:

I don't think The J's in the correct state to answer Carl.

Aren't they both in NY??

[quotequeen]

May 10, 2012 15:51:36 GMT -5 Wisconsin Beth said:

I don't think The J's in the correct state to answer Carl.

He is but he's not a divorce attorney so I'm not sure it would be a great choice.

[andi9899]

It is hard because I feel like I'm letting my family down

Get that thought right out of your head! I know, easier said than done. Mine were close together too. They are 19 months apart, so I've totally been where you are. Hugs!

[Bob Ross]

Message deleted by mmhmm. Let's keep the drug mentions out of here, as well. Thanks.

[Wisconsin Beth]

May 10, 2012 15:53:17 GMT -5 Taxman10 said:

May 10, 2012 15:51:36 GMT -5 Wisconsin Beth said:

I don't think The J's in the correct state to answer Carl.

Aren't they both in NY??

I thought he was in CT or PA? Clearly, I'm wrong.

[Firebird]

May 10, 2012 15:38:01 GMT -5 The J said:

Taxman -- this board is subject to the same pg-13 guidelines as the rest of the forum. Cross the line again and you earn yourself time off.

For everyone else, the fact that this is an off-topic board does not mean that threads are free to simply turn into EE-style sex chats.

-- The mOd of YM

Thanks, J.

[andi9899]

May 10, 2012 15:48:10 GMT -5 Taxman10 said:

May 10, 2012 15:44:56 GMT -5 @pinkcshmere said:

stop being frowny -- get back on topic.

Carl is getting a divorce. how much will it cost?? We need a lawyer to answer that.

Hey J - how much will you charge Carl to handle his divorce??

I just flashed back to the part at the very end of TMZ where the guy shouts "I'm a lawyer!"

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:58:32 GMT -5 Firebird said:

May 10, 2012 15:38:01 GMT -5 The J said:

Taxman -- this board is subject to the same pg-13 guidelines as the rest of the forum. Cross the line again and you earn yourself time off.

For everyone else, the fact that this is an off-topic board does not mean that threads are free to simply turn into EE-style sex chats.

-- The mOd of YM

Thanks, J.

Thanks, FB.

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:59:37 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

May 10, 2012 15:48:10 GMT -5 Taxman10 said:

stop being frowny -- get back on topic.

Carl is getting a divorce. how much will it cost?? We need a lawyer to answer that.

Hey J - how much will you charge Carl to handle his divorce??

I just flashed back to the part at the very end of TMZ where the guy shouts "I'm a lawyer!"

I love TMZ, but that's not the point.

Carl needs a divorce lawyer....J if you won't handle his case, can you recommend one of your law school buddies??

[Firebird]

Look, it's just a personal preference. I don't like to read graphic sex talk, especially when I'm at work. That's why I avoid such threads, and it gets a little frustrating when they are interwoven into threads like this one.

The talk about fertility cycles and condom tampering is legit because that directly relates to the subject at hand. But offering each other BJs and talking about the merits of different kinds of p*rn is going a little too far, IMO.

[wvugurl26]

Uh considering he went to law school a long fucking way from NY....

He needs counseling before he needs a divorce lawyer.

[Taxman10]

May 10, 2012 15:38:01 GMT -5 The J said:

Taxman -- this board is subject to the same pg-13 guidelines as the rest of the forum. Cross the line again and you earn yourself time off.

For everyone else, the fact that this is an off-topic board does not mean that threads are free to simply turn into EE-style sex chats.

-- The mOd of YM

as I recall, aren't you the guy who used to go around spanking people?? giving them "j'ings"