Zaire All About Nothing Journal

[weltschmerz]

usually I've logged off and your popularity and you've posted several times the same thing about that trip.
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Huh? My popularity? What in God's name are you talking about? This isn't high school, Zaire, although you often act like it. "Mods! How come the popular kids can do it?"

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 18, 2012 23:07:15 GMT -5 weltschmerz said:

I wasn't talking about hooking up with women and getting upset I didn't speak the language.
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You were talking about hoping to hook up, not that you did hook up.
This entire converstion is clearly pointless. We're all wrong. You're right.

WOW
the entire conversation is clearly pointless?
why is it a problem? why can't we just talk?
we obviously remember one conversation I had with Moxie differently.
my goodness I know where to find that thread but it's a seriously long running thread and will take time to find the posts. so we'll just think the conversation I had with Moxie and not you - differently

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 18, 2012 23:12:24 GMT -5 weltschmerz said:

usually I've logged off and your popularity and you've posted several times the same thing about that trip.
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Huh? My popularity? What in God's name are you talking about? This isn't high school, Zaire, although you often act like it. "Mods! How come the popular kids can do it?"

you're the one with the great memory- right?
I've mentioned how popular members can post negative remarks about me and others will follow. that's what I'm talking about..

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

Weltz, dont' waste any more time or energy - Really. It's exhausting.

[ZaireinHD]

Dec 17, 2011 14:19:36 GMT -5 @member2 said:

I went and read the spin off episodes of an Assistants life on EE and just kept shaking my head at how crazy it was...talk about being completely unsatisfied with every aspect of life and a nit picking things like what shoes another employee is wearing and reporting folks for dress code at work? I mean seriously?

I think you have your self worth tied up entirely too much to what others think about you or what they see you as or what you do for them & how much they appreciate it....as I said before, the only person who can make you happy is you...the only person who completes you is you.... the only person who can make you content and happy is you.... someone else can't do all of that for you, it has to come from within you....

and on a personal shallow note....dude you are WAY too high maintenance for a man....play with your show cars, nail car show models and let the poor girlfriend go already....

[weltschmerz]

Mar 18, 2012 23:08:45 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

Quit while you're ahead, Weltz. You're arguing with a brick wall. I'd hate to to see you accidently say something probably shouldn't. It's a losing battle.

You're absolutely right, SL.
I concede, Zaire. We're ALL wrong. You're right. You were always right. You have healthy intrapersonal relationships, a strong sense of independence and knowing who you are, a steely resolve and determination and a commitment to doing the right thing.
The only thing lacking in your life was knowledge about getting stains out of Tupperwear and dust.
We've clearly misjudged you. A thousand apologies.

[ZaireinHD]

that was so over the top welts and uncalled for!

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

Dec 15, 2011, 9:57pm, mmhmm wrote:

Zaire, I'm going to spell something out for you very clearly. You do not tell others where they can post. You are the one who decided to air your personal laundry on these boards. Nobody twisted your arm to get you to do so. Now that it's here, people are going to comment on it, and voice their opinions. If you don't like that, I'd suggest you not choose this medium in which to air said personal laundry.

mmhmm, P&M Moderator

Zaire: If you put something on an open message board, you're going to get responses. Not all of them are going to tell you what you what you want to hear. You can't expect everyone to agree with you. You want them to go find your previous posts. What for? THEY remember what you said - even if you don't. If you don't like the negative feeback, then do as I suggested before.

Keep your thoughts written down on a PRIVATE journal, in whatever document program you have on your computer. That way you can review it and go back and see what you wrote a month ago without demanding that people here do it for you.

As long as you post these things here, you have to accept the fact that people are going to comment - and even say things you don't want to hear if they don't agree. But you cannot tell them not to post or only to post what you want to hear. That's not going to happen.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 18, 2012 13:07:10 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

Zaire,
As long as you post it all here, you're not going to be able to stop anyone else from commenting, or control what they say. If you're not going to follow any advice that's been given or even listen to what people are trying to tell you, then don't put it out there for the world to read.

Hmmm...that's twice from you and 3 times total. to me this sounds like I'm being told what I can post?

I understand that public posting is uncontrollable. The way I see it look at this is I'm having a conversation with members and they give me feedback. They can say it anyway they want to and moderators don't see a problem with that.
OK
the way moderators see it - it's only me that takes it too far in my responses to post only I fine offensive. so I'm the one that gets the warning
Cool it Zaire!
OK
it was suggested for me to start this journal - I took the advise
I don't want to start a for my eyes only journal - then I'm talking to myself?
what does that do for me?
why is it a problem for me to express?

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 18, 2012 14:29:24 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Mood: Normal
Subject: help offered

work stuff posted has already happened. so I don't know what help I'm supposed to be asking for. work stuff posted is most likely something I've already gone over with work wife as we shake our head at the employees we have to work with. I feel that I can share these stories here. They are funny to me. but I get I'm miserable at work? No far from the truth. I told the Sales envelop story to 3 co workers during a time they were venting about an experience they had. everyone laughed. I post is here and I'm looking for help or I'm angry, or upset, or miserable. NO - I didn't use caps, bold, underline, not yelling or cursing. but I'm miserable?
that's why I thought of the mood and subject for some posts. guess it's not working? and still ....I'm accused of being angry ALL the time. no not true - accused of NOT taking the help provided. when I ask for help I use the help and I post thanks and I post out come of how I was helped. and STILL I get I don't use the help given to me? why is that?
creating this entire Journal was a suggestion...
other members don't have to go through such explaining when asking for help and posting results.
other members don't get insulted first before getting advise
other members can post their day share with us and it's seen just as that - sharing
but I do that and I'm reaching for help or I'm angry
other members can and have started threads and long running threads to vent
but when I do it - member don't post in it - ok fine I'll post in it

I'm here just like everybody else having a conversation with members

[Green Eyed Lady]

Zaire? If I may? I don't think anybody is telling you NOT to post. I think they are just saying that you can't expect people not to reply and that you aren't going to like some of those replies. This is a message board and you can't say..."People? I'm venting and journaling my days but you can't post unless you are on board with what I'm saying." You know it doesn't work that way.

Nobody is telling you that you can't post. It was suggested that if you just wish to journal and you are not looking for comments, feedback or suggestions, then use a personal venue of some sort. If you DO want comments, feedback and suggestions, you are going to have to accept that some of those comments and feedback are not going to be positive because of the nature of some of your journaling.

I agree that some of the nastiness posted isn't helping. There's something to be said for the old adage "If you can't say something nice.....". But that's just not the way of message boards. As you and I talked about before, some of your posts evoke visceral reactions. I've explained why and you said you understood what I was saying.

You can use the ignore button so as to not read those posters you do not wish to read. The same can be said to the posters who do not wish to read what you post. They can use it just as easily. Post away if that's what you wish to do. People are just trying to remind you that others have that same right - within bounds of the COC, of course.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 1:06:19 GMT -5 Green Eyed Lady said:

Zaire? If I may? I don't think anybody is telling you NOT to post. I think they are just saying that you can't expect people not to reply and that you aren't going to like some of those replies. This is a message board and you can't say..."People? I'm venting and journaling my days but you can't post unless you are on board with what I'm saying." You know it doesn't work that way.

so that's what's going on?
OK - I get that!

[ZaireinHD]

Mood: Awake
Subject: Breakfast

so needed this early morning!
didn't sleep well over night and woke up too early this morning
I'm sooo going home for lunch today.
Now I'm at work prepping for the conference call and I 100% forgot I have a new employee starting
Geez! actually two employees starting today!
Guess it was good I got here early!

[ZaireinHD]

Oct 1, 2011 3:50:05 GMT -5 @rj said:

And when he doesnt like what he hears here, he will start another thread on another board. he would be money ahead to just rent a girlfriend when he wants one and svae all the other possible women the trouble.

[ZaireinHD]

Oct 2, 2011 20:40:36 GMT -5 @rj said:

And no sex with your new roommate, he will think thats creepy

[ZaireinHD]

Oct 3, 2011 18:28:30 GMT -5 @rj said:

Oct 3, 2011 15:43:49 GMT -5 @member said:

"Now if you're just a parasitic tool who is willing to use a woman so he can get half his bills paid and easy access to pu$$y, then by all means carry on."

Water all over the monitor!

LOL that was good.

[ZaireinHD]

Oct 3, 2011 19:17:05 GMT -5 @rj said:

LOL, I think you are full of shit







oops, poop

[ZaireinHD]

Oct 4, 2011 11:50:01 GMT -5 @rj said:

No, you just dont like the advice thats given unless someone tells you to go ahead and dip your wick but keep your girlfriend around for support and the wick dipping when you cant find another sucker lady

[ZaireinHD]

Oct 6, 2011 20:47:33 GMT -5 @rj said:

He doesnt know what he wants to be when he grows up, here is a quote from another thread. So I dont not think he is telling the truth here

[ZaireinHD]

Feb 17, 2012 14:06:22 GMT -5 @rj said:

LOL you have to know Z

[ZaireinHD]

Feb 17, 2012 13:59:38 GMT -5 @rj said:

Feb 17, 2012 13:58:24 GMT -5 ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ said:

How do you get up in the morning and make it through your day, Z? It seems everyone in your office does something daily just to p!ss you off.

Its not just his office, its every where he goes

[ZaireinHD]

Feb 17, 2012 13:56:53 GMT -5 @rj said:

Feb 17, 2012 11:07:45 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

It's been fun meeting you GEL
but I have to stay off this thread for a while cause it's bad public relations for me.

LOL translated, His girl friend found out he is flirting again

Feb 17, 2012 14:26:39 GMT -5 @rj said:

Feb 17, 2012 14:25:03 GMT -5 Green Eyed Lady said:

I have a question. I use the "new topics" button to see who's talking where and what I might like to join in on. I just saw a thread appear in the "new topics" section and went to read. The time between the last post and the post right before it is like a month. Do any of you search through pages and pages of old threads to bring back up and comment on? Am I the only one that thinks this is really strange?

There are a few that do. Z is good for that when he gets bored

[ZaireinHD]

Mood: Funny
Subject: Comedy Skit

In Love: Hello Mayor, can you please stop beating up on the town bum?
Mayor: oh honey dumpling you know how much fun I have beating up those people.
In Love: yes I do see you are having fun. But people are beginning to talk and can see you doing so.
Mayor: OH now there kind don't belong in our community and I can say what I pretty much want
In Love: ok Mayor you're right you're not the one in the wrong anyway

[ZaireinHD]

what's this now?

[ZaireinHD]

Feb 19, 2012 13:31:27 GMT -5 @rj said:

So this is just more babble from a man that thinks the whole world is against him and cant figure out why.

Its no wonder you cant have a good day.

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 1, 2012 21:55:57 GMT -5 @rj said:

No, he is looking to be dating while he has a common law wife. He has 2439 post that say that. He is scum

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 1, 2012 22:03:48 GMT -5 @rj said:

Mar 1, 2012 22:03:15 GMT -5 @Member said:

Rick, did you honestly just call him scum?

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 8:33:59 GMT -5 @rj said:

Thanks for bringing this to the front. I hope you now understand

that you're protected, can say what you want, follow me around, being sarcastic as you want towards me?
I sure do! as it was just made clear to me.
I'm wrong for trying to stop it.
It's a public forum and people can say and do as they feel directed towards me.
If I don't want the feedback OR can't handle the feedback

get thicker skin Zaire or don't post or use the ignore.
you're a model member Rick

[ZaireinHD]

Jan 20, 2012 12:37:25 GMT -5 @rj said:

Jan 19, 2012 20:14:30 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

WELL - WELL - WELL
guess what I read / found on MSN tonight!!!
Looks like I was right for talking to the boss about a co-works over sexy dress.
so to the member that had such a problem with me going to the boss to report the co-worker .... here is MY backup....and support I was right and you are just looking for drama

You have got to be kidding me, you go around trying to find things to snitch on your coworkers. Where I would you wouldnt last a day, they would turn you into a mop

[ZaireinHD]

Mar 19, 2012 8:52:24 GMT -5 @rj said:

Sorry you don't like the blunt answers from me, but I don't flower up anything I say because you are sensitive. There is really no way to misunderstand what I'm say. You aren't the only one who has ever been in a situation like you are in. Its the Way you handle it that shows your true character. Its all on you.