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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:13:22 GMT -5
Exactly! Us humans are so unpredictable sometimes.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:14:01 GMT -5
Exactly! Us humans are so unpredictable sometimes. Yes you are.
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Post by The J on Jan 20, 2011 10:14:30 GMT -5
Aargh!!! Well, then ladies, maybe we should start a new thread. How do you find a guy that won't ever cheat on you? What should you look for? Here's a tip: if he cheated before, there's a good chance he'll cheat again. If you were the other woman before, you're really a moron if you assume that there won't be another "other woman" in the future.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:15:37 GMT -5
Aargh!!! Well, then ladies, maybe we should start a new thread. How do you find a guy that won't ever cheat on you? What should you look for? Here's a tip: if he cheated before, there's a good chance he'll cheat again. If you were the other woman before, you're really a moron if you assume that there won't be another "other woman" in the future. Karma for you! ETA: Crap! I can't Karma right now!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:17:07 GMT -5
You flatter me. Keep it up!
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 20, 2011 10:17:41 GMT -5
On this thread OR ANY if I have never THREATENED ANYONE ... as alluded to by another poster!!!! You said "be friends MM, it's a small world" which could imply that you'll hunt her down and try to do her some kind of harm (whether physical or try to get her fired or start trouble with her DH, whatever). That sounds like a threat to me. Is that clear enough?
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Post by efco on Jan 20, 2011 10:18:57 GMT -5
J That reminded me of what happened to my dumb cousin. Long story short....she had an affair with a married man. He eventually left his wife to marry my cousin. Some years later she (my cousin) was devastated to find out he was having an affair with another woman. For the life of me, I have no idea why she was surprised.
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 20, 2011 10:20:49 GMT -5
<<chicka slowly opens the door and peeks in>> Is it safe? Wow, leave for a night and things sure do get heated. in response to J's last post. 100% agree!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:21:16 GMT -5
Because she didn't recognize the signs, duh!
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:21:49 GMT -5
J That reminded me of what happened to my dumb cousin. Long story short....she had an affair with a married man. He eventually left his wife to marry my cousin. Some years later she (my cousin) was devastated to find out he was having an affair with another woman. For the life of me, I have no idea why she was surprised. Did you tell her she was an idiot? I probably would have.......
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 20, 2011 10:25:24 GMT -5
DF's dad all over again. I think that is why DF is such a good person. Saw what being a bad person can do to a family. Loved his dad but didn't trust or repect him. Still very painful for him. When his dad died, he was in the process of leaving another wife for another woman.
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 20, 2011 10:25:41 GMT -5
Aargh!!! Well, then ladies, maybe we should start a new thread. How do you find a guy that won't ever cheat on you? What should you look for? A woman
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Post by efco on Jan 20, 2011 10:25:41 GMT -5
Nope. I told her what I thought when she married the guy.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:29:06 GMT -5
No, that won't work either. I just heard this morning that Melissa Etheridge cheated on her wife and that's why they're getting divorced.
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Post by imawino on Jan 20, 2011 10:30:41 GMT -5
"How do you find a guy that won't ever cheat on you? What should you look for? "
A robot or a eunuch. What, those options aren't appealing to you?
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 20, 2011 10:32:45 GMT -5
No, that won't work either. I just heard this morning that Melissa Etheridge cheated on her wife and that's why they're getting divorced. I wonder if she was the "guy" in the relationship? Yes, yes women can be just as sleezy.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:33:52 GMT -5
"How do you find a guy that won't ever cheat on you? What should you look for? " A robot or a eunuch. What, those options aren't appealing to you? eunuchs still have fingers, tongues, and access to toys........while technically, that's not sex, I would be none too pleased to find DH having oral sex with another woman.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 10:34:23 GMT -5
No, that won't work either. I just heard this morning that Melissa Etheridge cheated on her wife and that's why they're getting divorced. I wonder if she was the "guy" in the relationship? Yes, yes women can be just as sleezy. Have you seen her? I'm pretty sure she was the "guy."
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 10:37:16 GMT -5
D'oh!
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 20, 2011 10:52:22 GMT -5
Very true swamp. I honestly haven't seen her in a while, nor do I pay attention to celebrity couples, sooooo.... Please do...........not whip me....
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 20, 2011 10:58:50 GMT -5
She was the guy so does that mean she is automatically the cheater? Well, anyone remember the joke about how homosexuals should be just as miserable in divorce besides making lawyers richer as heterosexuals?
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 20, 2011 10:59:22 GMT -5
Marriage, I mean.
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Post by The J on Jan 20, 2011 11:05:01 GMT -5
I think it's more the lack of sex drive.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 11:21:01 GMT -5
She was the guy so does that mean she is automatically the cheater? Well, anyone remember the joke about how homosexuals should be just as miserable in divorce besides making lawyers richer as heterosexuals? No. I was being facetious.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 20, 2011 11:21:32 GMT -5
Thank-you, Artemis.
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Post by swamp on Jan 20, 2011 11:23:07 GMT -5
He spends so much time in another town that he joins a gym, finds an apartment and hires a "housekeeper". Now the spouse has become the housekeeper/bookkeeper in their home, and he treats you as a hired employee. This usually fits with someone who normally travels a lot. Calls come in asking if you are the housekeeper. Mysterious calls saying you need to go to such and such a restaurant to catch that person. After a few yrs., OW starts calling to make sure her house (your home) is in order. The borken record phrase becomes he is a married man until she says he is married to her. Their minister calls and says just because you own proerty together doesn't mean you are married. See Tips below. You are regularly scheduled out of the home for several hours either work or sports. The toothpaste he uses is different; and he is freshly brushed when he gets home especially if he has very poor oral hygeine. You come home and your dresser is covered with a blanket. A few tips. Make sure you have a will with an attorney. Make sure your tax returns are married, filing jointly. I had to use this to prove I was married. Be sure to have a financial advisor that the two of you see regularly. The FA won't get involved except for the fact that you two are clients together. Do not leave the real property as that can be used against you in court. The only settlement is for the person who left the marriage to sign off on everything. Check the mileage on the car. Secretly, get one of those Iphone aps that you can view your house. He threatens you if you say you are going to install a security video system. I've got a marriage license and pictures of me at a church in a white dress standing next to a dude in a tux and surrounded by people in matching outfits to prove I'm married.
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Post by The J on Jan 20, 2011 11:45:19 GMT -5
You're still with him?
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 20, 2011 11:47:04 GMT -5
It sure sounds like it. I hope we're mistaken.
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