DebMD (banned)
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 11:49:26 GMT -5
lipstick on collar different perfume/cologne unusual car mileage
Whatelse...
other than getting a private detective?
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Post by efco on Jan 19, 2011 11:49:58 GMT -5
Lying eyes.
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Post by Miss Tequila on Jan 19, 2011 11:50:49 GMT -5
Getting a shower as soon as he gets home from a night out with the guys
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Jan 19, 2011 11:52:41 GMT -5
Screens all phone calls before answering them if you are around, deletes cell phone and email history. DH is lucky I am not a suspicious person because I send him out on an errand and he doesn't come back for several hours. I said a lot of women would start to suspect he is cheating. I fear that he is impulse shopping.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 11:55:25 GMT -5
I'd say trust your gut. If you think he's cheating he probably is.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 12:06:54 GMT -5
lipstick on collar Back in the old days we had a red cross worker in our shop. She & hubby were friends of mine & my ex. On her last day (about 3pm) she snuck up on me & kissed me on the collar of my shirt (it was white btw). She laughed & said "Let's see you explain that to your wife". I laughed & didn't think any more of it.......until I got home. Ahhhhhhh fond memories of the ex.
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 19, 2011 12:17:11 GMT -5
Finding unusual objects in your car. Like a pen with her name on it, or an earring that is not yours. He constantly accuses you of cheating on him. What beerwench said. Trust your gut.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 12:24:40 GMT -5
You get a karma for saying I'm right! That doesn't happen every day, you know....
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 19, 2011 12:34:46 GMT -5
Aw, thanks beerwench! Gotcha back
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 12:38:40 GMT -5
Thanks chicka! Or do you prefer green?
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 12:44:11 GMT -5
Getting a shower as soon as he gets home from a night out with the guys LMAO.....There's a steakhouse I go to with my friends occasionally, that has a separate smoking bar (there are some loopholes in NY's law). Usually, we eat and then go there for a cigar and scotch, and hours of bs'ing. So when I get home from there, I'll take a shower. The first time I went there, I came home and told my ex I was going to take a shower. She came out with the "whose the bitch?" line. So I went over, sat on her lap and let her inhale. Every other time that I went, I did the same thing as soon as I got home, so she'd complain that I needed to take a shower.
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DebMD (banned)
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 12:46:46 GMT -5
beer gut intuition
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 12:48:20 GMT -5
Oh yeah -- finding condoms in her overnight bag when she was supposed to be having a girls' night with her friend.....
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 12:48:32 GMT -5
Deb, I'll make sure to give you a karma too once my powers are restored.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 13:08:58 GMT -5
Credit card charges... If there's restaurant charges for lunch that's more than the average cost for one lunch. Other charges that you don't see the goods making it home.
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 19, 2011 13:14:49 GMT -5
Thanks chicka! Or do you prefer green? Either one. I am easy! Oh, did I say that out loud
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 19, 2011 13:17:58 GMT -5
Oh yeah -- finding condoms in her overnight bag when she was supposed to be having a girls' night with her friend..... Or the t-shirt he used to....um...."clean-up" tossed in the laundry. Not only gross, but true
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 13:18:13 GMT -5
You'll fit in nicely around here.
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 13:18:58 GMT -5
Oh yeah -- finding condoms in her overnight bag when she was supposed to be having a girls' night with her friend..... Or the t-shirt he used to....um...."clean-up" tossed in the laundry. Not only gross, but true Yeah....I wish mine weren't true......
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DebMD (banned)
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 13:25:18 GMT -5
Beer back to you Rose the credit card thing
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Post by greeneyedchicka on Jan 19, 2011 13:26:51 GMT -5
Or the t-shirt he used to....um...."clean-up" tossed in the laundry. Not only gross, but true Yeah....I wish mine weren't true...... Me too J, me too. But from what I have read, you are much better off for it, and I have to agree that I am too. Just horrible ways to find out.
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 13:28:23 GMT -5
Agreed.
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Post by jennml on Jan 19, 2011 13:45:45 GMT -5
Poor, J Sounds like your better off. I don't really need proof. If I'm going down the "questioning, can't trust him" road I figure the relationship is pretty much doomed. I refuse to be that girl...the one checking cell phones, searching through his wallet, or tailing his car. So far I've gone with my gut, said "Adios" and I've been right every time
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 13:50:03 GMT -5
Poor, J Sounds like your better off. I don't really need proof. If I'm going down the "questioning, can't trust him" road I figure the relationship is pretty much doomed. I refuse to be that girl...the one checking cell phones, searching through his wallet, or tailing his car. So far I've gone with my gut, said "Adios" and I've been right every time I wasn't even really checking. It was a couple of days after she had told me that we should delay the wedding. I happened to see the corner of the condom wrapper poking out from her clothes in the bag while I was getting ready for work. Once I got to work I became suspicious -- all of a sudden I couldn't view anything on her facebook page (not even her friends list), and she had changed her email password. When I got home, I saw she had changed her password on our laotop. Then we ended up having the talk.
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Post by efco on Jan 19, 2011 13:54:34 GMT -5
One time I suspected an ex-girlfriend of mine of cheating on me, so I tailed her for six nights straight. Turns out . . . she was. With a couple of guys, actually. . . so . mystery solved.
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DebMD (banned)
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 14:01:23 GMT -5
J EFCO at least you had proof.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 14:03:38 GMT -5
Tell Us J ... were there clues BEFORE seeing condom wrappers? EFCO...What were your suspicions???
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Post by jennml on Jan 19, 2011 14:04:17 GMT -5
I wasn't even really checking. It was a couple of days after she had told me that we should delay the wedding. I happened to see the corner of the condom wrapper poking out from her clothes in the bag while I was getting ready for work. Once I got to work I became suspicious -- all of a sudden I couldn't view anything on her facebook page (not even her friends list), and she had changed her email password. When I got home, I saw she had changed her password on our laotop. Then we ended up having the talk. I can't even imagine how horrible that all must've been. I just don't understand cheating...just be single. Then you can screw whoever you want, whenever you want.
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 14:05:14 GMT -5
Not for me. She claimed that she had never met the guy before that night (though they had been talking for awhile), and that she didn't go through with it. The first part I believe. Not 100% sure on the second part.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 14:07:16 GMT -5
So the other party chooses not to come clean and break it off and resorts to cheating..
Looking for clues....
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