Sammy
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Post by Sammy on Jan 19, 2011 18:56:25 GMT -5
Wow, Deb, imagine that...... people are actually sort of paying attention to you. Queen of the jugular vein, expert in nonsense, tops in posting a lot and saying nothing. Isn't it heaven the mods are new and don't know you like I do? Feeling free? Having fun? Wait, it isn't over yet. You know kiddies, remember the past and remember that interacting with her is a huge mistake. No response, no ammunition for little Deb. Oh, unless you want to turn the tables on the Debster and psychoanalyze her. Now there's a challenge. Later ladies and gents. PS, I read Deb reported MM? BAWAHAHAHAHAHA
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Post by Befferz on Jan 19, 2011 18:56:35 GMT -5
Thyme Mt theory- Those that were cheated on had enough clues to see them if they knew what the clues were AND I was hoping that enough examples could be posted to they could see. And that theory has been proven (long before today) to be false in many cases, except perhaps in hindsight. And not always even then. Next theory? Or do we even want to know?
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Post by kygirl on Jan 19, 2011 19:48:47 GMT -5
Thyme Mt theory- Those that were cheated on had enough clues to see them if they knew what the clues were AND I was hoping that enough examples could be posted to they could see. This is such a general statement that is so very wrong. Why are you blaming the ones that were cheated on, and not the ones who did the cheating? I dated a guy for 6 years and almost married him. Instead, he cheated, the relationship ended, and 4 months later he married her. And even using hindsight, there wasn't/isn't a single clue that I can see.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 19:58:44 GMT -5
I think she may be implying that if one is cheated on it is because they drove their SO to cheat...
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Post by rick on Jan 19, 2011 20:04:43 GMT -5
I dont have a license, will someone drive me
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Post by kygirl on Jan 19, 2011 20:10:18 GMT -5
I think she may be implying that if one is cheated on it is because they drove their SO to cheat... Statements like this make me absolutely crazy! People cheat because they choose to cheat. If they are no longer happy in the relationship, then they should end it and be single. Then they are free to have sex with whomever they choose.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 20:16:27 GMT -5
I am in the Twilight Zone Dododododododo.
(Pretend that is the theme music)
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ihearyou2
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Post by ihearyou2 on Jan 19, 2011 20:17:34 GMT -5
Deb works in the morgue, what does cheating on one's spouse have to do with dead people, holy shit..she's sicker then I thought...
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Post by rick on Jan 19, 2011 20:19:46 GMT -5
But its not cheating if they are dear, Right?
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swamp
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Post by swamp on Jan 19, 2011 20:22:16 GMT -5
But its not cheating if they are dear, Right? It may not be cheating, but it's really twisted. I think I would prefer my husband boff a living person, if he's gonna boff someone other than me.
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Jan 19, 2011 20:22:46 GMT -5
<<Nancy hears Dark call her a four-letter word>>
You tawkin' to this freelance hack over here, buddy? ;D
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 20:25:55 GMT -5
Note to Deb: GET A F&$KING LIFE!
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Jan 19, 2011 20:27:59 GMT -5
Cheaters cheat because they are immature and selfish. Plain and simple. It is no reflection on the other person unless total neglect for many years is a factor. And I mean total neglect - in every way, not just sexual.
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Post by kygirl on Jan 19, 2011 20:29:50 GMT -5
Cheaters cheat because they are immature and selfish. Plain and simple. It is no reflection on the other person unless total neglect for many years is a factor. And I mean total neglect - in every way, not just sexual. Very well said! I couldn't agree more.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2011 20:36:10 GMT -5
Cheaters cheat because they are immature and selfish. Plain and simple. It is no reflection on the other person unless total neglect for many years is a factor. And I mean total neglect - in every way, not just sexual. I couldn't agree more. And those who try to place the blame on the other party as a way to rationalize it or make themself feel better or less at fault are spineless a$$holes in addition to being immature and selfish!
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Post by Beemermom on Jan 19, 2011 20:36:52 GMT -5
I find it in extremely poor taste to start a thread like this knowing that one of your "friends" is hurting from this situation....if one of your friends just recently lost a child to violence...would you start a thread about it?
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swamp
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Post by swamp on Jan 19, 2011 20:57:22 GMT -5
I find it in extremely poor taste to start a thread like this knowing that one of your "friends" is hurting from this situation....if one of your friends just recently lost a child to violence...would you start a thread about it? Assuming they have friends...............
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The J
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 20:58:44 GMT -5
I find it in extremely poor taste to start a thread like this knowing that one of your "friends" is hurting from this situation....if one of your friends just recently lost a child to violence...would you start a thread about it? Deb? Probably.
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ken a.k.a OMK
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Post by ken a.k.a OMK on Jan 19, 2011 21:02:11 GMT -5
So this is where all the action was today.
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Post by Lindz85 on Jan 19, 2011 21:05:16 GMT -5
Hey J, sorry about what happened to you. My ex-fiance cheated on me too. With one of my friends. I followed my gut instinct and checked into it and discovered the whole thing. I can understand how you felt, not sure how long ago it was for you but it was a little over a year ago that it happened to me. He went on to date this girl that was supposed to be my friend and they just recently had a kid.
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The J
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 21:08:10 GMT -5
Hey J, sorry about what happened to you. My ex-fiance cheated on me too. With one of my friends. I followed my gut instinct and checked into it and discovered the whole thing. I can understand how you felt, not sure how long ago it was for you but it was a little over a year ago that it happened to me. He went on to date this girl that was supposed to be my friend and they just recently had a kid. Ouch. I'm sorry to hear that. This was september. The wedding was supposed to be december. No clue if she stayed with him....
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Post by Lindz85 on Jan 19, 2011 21:23:11 GMT -5
We had so many mutual friends... it's hard not to hear about it. Some people would just blurt things out. But anyways, I've realized now how miserable I would've been with him. It was a good thing that it happened. How are you doing? I was a complete wreck when it all happened. It took me a few months to finally not cry about it. I actually ran into him at the grocery store on Christmas Eve.
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 21:28:23 GMT -5
lifegoeson -- check your personal messages.
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Post by Regie on Jan 19, 2011 21:44:56 GMT -5
I have a clue. If you are posting on a message board of random strangers demanding clues on how to tell your spouse might be cheating, take that as a sign. If you refuse to accept that some times there may be no clue, take that as a sign. If after you have pissed a few people off by telling them it was their fault and there were clues they just missed, take that as a sign. If you use a lame excuse of writing an article after another poster asks if that is what you are doing, take that as a sign.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 19, 2011 21:50:24 GMT -5
J read post #300
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Post by cronewitch on Jan 19, 2011 21:50:34 GMT -5
My ex cheated on me once in 17 years. He didn't tell me until after the divorce. There wasn't any clues.
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The J
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 21:52:14 GMT -5
I read it. You really don't want me to respond.
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swamp
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Post by swamp on Jan 19, 2011 22:01:55 GMT -5
I have a clue. If you are posting on a message board of random strangers demanding clues on how to tell your spouse might be cheating, take that as a sign. If you refuse to accept that some times there may be no clue, take that as a sign. If after you have pissed a few people off by telling them it was their fault and there were clues they just missed, take that as a sign. If you use a lame excuse of writing an article after another poster asks if that is what you are doing, take that as a sign. Karma for you!
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Post by Apple on Jan 19, 2011 22:57:25 GMT -5
apple will volunteer to take the place of Beemer's teddy bear
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Post by Befferz on Jan 19, 2011 23:00:28 GMT -5
channeling Bill Engvall...
Here's your sign!
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