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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 6:51:13 GMT -5
It's been long hours in the hospital. Posting here keeps me sane.
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Post by wvugurl26 on May 29, 2014 6:54:42 GMT -5
Lots of good thoughts coming your way. I hope everything goes smoothly for you guys.
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Post by milee on May 29, 2014 7:09:50 GMT -5
Sorry you and DF are going through this. It's a weird feeling to be both totally bored and a little terrified all at the same time.
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Post by Peace77 on May 29, 2014 7:13:53 GMT -5
You will get through this.
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Post by Deleted on May 29, 2014 7:17:56 GMT -5
You're welcome! We're in your computer whenever you need us.
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 7:33:35 GMT -5
Keeps me sane. Thanks to all. He's cranky but super tired. I can't even get him to walk the halls. His neck is killing him from the SWAN. I'm so glad this isn't my kid. How parents of sick kids do it is amazing. My hat is off to them.
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Post by wvugurl26 on May 29, 2014 7:35:46 GMT -5
That SWAN thing is pretty big and floppy. I know that was a good step for my grandpa when he got rid of it after his surgery.
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 7:38:27 GMT -5
We are hoping it comes off today. Not that you can sleep much in a hospital but when your neck is distorted, ugh.
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Post by wvugurl26 on May 29, 2014 7:40:28 GMT -5
That should help make him a little more comfortable and make moving easier. It is definitely a hassle and uncomfortable. I hope it does get removed today.
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Post by NoNamePerson on May 29, 2014 7:43:10 GMT -5
You're welcome! We're in your computer whenever you need us.
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Post by Nazgul Girl on May 29, 2014 7:45:35 GMT -5
Best wishes to both of you and hope he feels better when he gets that thing off.
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 7:46:23 GMT -5
He needs to walk. He's getting weaker but he can't with his neck in pain. Wish that doctor would get here. I know they have lives but..... I don't feel like being reasonable.
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on May 29, 2014 7:51:11 GMT -5
Yeah, he needs to be up and walking. My Dad had a stroke 4+ years ago and the amount of weight he lost in those first 2 days was damn scary. Dad could "afford" the weight to an extent but he still looks different physically. Good luck Zib, we've got your back on this, as much as we can. And prayers too.
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 7:54:46 GMT -5
He can't afford to lose any weight. 8 pounds in a few days. He's maybe at 143 and 6 ft tall.
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Post by Deleted on May 29, 2014 7:57:31 GMT -5
He can't afford to lose any weight. 8 pounds in a few days. He's maybe at 143 and 6 ft tall. Whoa. That's pretty skinny.
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on May 29, 2014 7:58:01 GMT -5
He can't afford to lose any weight. 8 pounds in a few days. He's maybe at 143 and 6 ft tall. Hell, get the dieticians in there too. Dad was 6 feet and about 225-230 when he had the stroke. I think he's hovering around 200 now but he's made some diet and exercise changes, thanks to Mom.
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Post by mmhmm on May 29, 2014 8:02:29 GMT -5
I'm sorry you're going through this, zib, and I hope the SWAN can come out today so your DF will get up and be more active. That's the key to getting better but it's darned uncomfortable at first. Glad you have everyone here to help distract you! Hugs, hon.
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 8:02:50 GMT -5
He can't eat the stuff that's in here. It's heart healthy but he also has diabetes, high potassium, and digestive issues. I know how and what to feed him.
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Post by Blonde Granny on May 29, 2014 8:04:35 GMT -5
Zib....are there plans for him to leave the hospital soon? If so, you can disregard what I'm going to say:
His DD is a royal pain, and without being married you have no legal standing. If this situation doesn't turn out well, she may likely be calling the shots and pushing you aside.
So......if you want to get married now, I'd call the a local TV station for starters. They can make a commotion that just might get someone from the local marriage license dept. to come down to the hospital to issue the license. Get your dress ready, get the rings, and have the hospital chaplain perform the short service. Give the TV station permission to follow all this and show the results on air. You'll be amazed how quickly this can be put together once you get some publicity on your situation.
Go for it girl!!!!
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Post by Deleted on May 29, 2014 8:06:49 GMT -5
zibazinski, I hope it all goes well. What is the SWAN. Did he get a catheter in the heart? I hope this is a planned test and not a surprise for you!
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 8:07:24 GMT -5
I have all the legal papers and we will get the license as soon as we get out of here.
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 8:11:23 GMT -5
No heart catheter. Not a huge surprise but I guess we both had our hands over our ears when it came to the transplant issues.
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Post by Deleted on May 29, 2014 8:14:30 GMT -5
I guess I do not know your history. What did he have transplanted?
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Post by Cookies Galore on May 29, 2014 8:18:55 GMT -5
Zib, can you get a waiver for the three-day waiting period?
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Post by Deleted on May 29, 2014 8:19:49 GMT -5
I have really missed something. What is going on?
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 8:22:50 GMT -5
If he can't go with me to get the license, we aren't getting married. Because that means he is at deaths door so I have more on my mind than marriage.
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on May 29, 2014 8:22:59 GMT -5
I have really missed something. What is going on? As I understand it - Zib's DF's has a heart issue that requires replacement. And he had some kind of attack which put him in the hospital instead of on a plane for Rome with Zib. And now they're scrambling to figure out how quickly they can get married. IN the meantime, Zib's sitting with him in the hospital. Some of this came out on Carl's house thread, I think around page 58/59. Towards the end at any rate.
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Post by zibazinski on May 29, 2014 8:24:33 GMT -5
That's it in a nutshell.
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on May 29, 2014 8:26:35 GMT -5
Sorry if I spoke out of turn Zib. No harm meant.
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Post by mmhmm on May 29, 2014 8:27:25 GMT -5
He can't eat the stuff that's in here. It's heart healthy but he also has diabetes, high potassium, and digestive issues. I know how and what to feed him. Get a stat consult with the hospital dietitian, zib. They'll work with you to see he gets the proper nourishment.
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