renegadepatio
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patio
Aug 19, 2012 21:02:59 GMT -5
Post by renegadepatio on Aug 19, 2012 21:02:59 GMT -5
thank you all, it has been a week we got the obit. in the paper this sunday, we are making plans for the benefit in MN. I was thinking about her before i went with son, dil and grandson, oh he is talking more and more, (he is 2) she is the first of the cousins to die, i have like 50 cousins and 150 second cousins (appears the kids of aunts and uncles were busy). Also my neices and nephews have lost an aunt, something that we, my brothers and sisters havent yet to happen, we have lost uncles but not aunts. It is just strange sometimes what you think about. Again i want to thank you all when you post here i so like reading them and coming back again to reread them, they always make me feel good
Oh i have to go in for another petscan next monday. i will update after chemo on thursday. that is the 30th
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mmhmm
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patio
Aug 19, 2012 21:06:29 GMT -5
Post by mmhmm on Aug 19, 2012 21:06:29 GMT -5
Will look forward to hearing good news from the PET scan, Rene. You're an amazing woman, so I know in my heart you'll do amazing things.
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b2r
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Aug 19, 2012 21:14:18 GMT -5
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Jaguar
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patio
Aug 20, 2012 6:23:00 GMT -5
Post by Jaguar on Aug 20, 2012 6:23:00 GMT -5
Rene, Namaste ~ Wishing you bundles of Healing Love.
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autoguy
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patio
Aug 20, 2012 16:27:43 GMT -5
Post by autoguy on Aug 20, 2012 16:27:43 GMT -5
My condolences to you and your family. Take care of yourself. Will you let us know when you are doing the benefit in MN?
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renegadepatio
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patio
Aug 20, 2012 21:10:23 GMT -5
Post by renegadepatio on Aug 20, 2012 21:10:23 GMT -5
autoguy yes i will post it here, they are narrowing down the day.
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patio
Aug 22, 2012 13:25:03 GMT -5
Post by mox on Aug 22, 2012 13:25:03 GMT -5
patio, I am so sorry to read about the passing of your sister. Glad you could be there for her and I'm sure it provided her great comfort. Hold onto the wonderful memories as I am sure there are many. Take care of yourself now and know that there are many here supporting you, praying for you, and sending well wishes your way.
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patio
Aug 22, 2012 13:34:59 GMT -5
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patio
Aug 26, 2012 13:50:02 GMT -5
Post by mox on Aug 26, 2012 13:50:02 GMT -5
"What Cancer Cannot Do" Author Unknown Cancer is so limited. . .It cannot cripple love, It cannot shatter hope, It cannot corrode faith, It cannot eat away peace, It cannot kill friendship, It cannot silence courage, It cannot invade the soul, It cannot reduce eternal life, It cannot destroy confidence, It cannot shut out memories, It cannot quench the spirit, It cannot lessen the power of the resurrection.
"Though the physical body may be destroyed by disease, the spirit can remain triumphant. If disease has invaded your body, refuse to let it touch your spirit. Your body can be severely afflicted, and you may have a struggle, but if you keep trusting God's love, your spirit will remain strong."
"Why must I bear this pain? I cannot tell; I only know my Lord does all things well. And so I trust in God, my all in all. For He will bring me through, whatever befall."
community.tasteofhome.com/thread/5577005.aspx
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patio
Aug 26, 2012 13:52:17 GMT -5
Post by femmefatale on Aug 26, 2012 13:52:17 GMT -5
My condolences to you and the Family, patio...
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Peace Of Mind
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Aug 26, 2012 14:46:35 GMT -5
Post by Peace Of Mind on Aug 26, 2012 14:46:35 GMT -5
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Jaguar
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patio
Aug 26, 2012 14:58:10 GMT -5
Post by Jaguar on Aug 26, 2012 14:58:10 GMT -5
POM honey I'm having a real problem as well with your links. I'm seeing the picture, but I cannot get a link to post as a picture on here. Send both your picture links to SL maybe she can figure it out for you.
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Peace Of Mind
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patio
Aug 26, 2012 15:01:18 GMT -5
Post by Peace Of Mind on Aug 26, 2012 15:01:18 GMT -5
Thank you, Sugi! I thought it was just me as I'm not very good at this. I put a link to click on (above the picture I just added) and it's safe.
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Jaguar
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patio
Aug 26, 2012 15:07:23 GMT -5
Post by Jaguar on Aug 26, 2012 15:07:23 GMT -5
Rene, Namaste ~ Wishing You Bundles Of Healing Love.
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renegadepatio
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patio
Aug 30, 2012 18:55:50 GMT -5
Post by renegadepatio on Aug 30, 2012 18:55:50 GMT -5
I went in on monday for a PET scan, today i had a doctors appointment and chemo. The PET scan showed some 2 interesting things. First tumor and nodes are still shrinking, but tumor has not shrunk enough for surgery yet, still good news. 2nd news is that i have a node on the right side that is still growing, and he is not sure why that would be growing when everything else is shrinking. So he is sending me for a biopsy next week, he is concerned that it is a different cancer, but he still thinks that chemo should be killing it off. I have one more chemo treatment and then i cant have anymore, but he says i can have radiation treatments on the tumor.
Oh yeah and the cancer has NOT spread anywhere else, which is good news so it appears i will be sticking around for a while yet. So even though i am treatable and not cureable, I seem to be doing ok.
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renegadepatio
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patio
Aug 30, 2012 18:59:42 GMT -5
Post by renegadepatio on Aug 30, 2012 18:59:42 GMT -5
Autoguy, They have come up with Sept 23, 2pm at the Lakeville, VFW. The address is 8970 upper 208th street, Lakeville MN. Starts at 2pm.
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patio
Aug 30, 2012 20:26:51 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2012 20:26:51 GMT -5
Patty, I know you have gone through some tough times, with your family, life and all...but I just want you to know, you are one of the most real ladies I have had the priveledge of running into.
You would probably look cute without hair.
Always...be well.
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mmhmm
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Aug 30, 2012 20:46:44 GMT -5
Post by mmhmm on Aug 30, 2012 20:46:44 GMT -5
She is, isn't she, Robert? Rene is someone I can see myself lounging with by the pool, cold drink in hand and having a good laugh. She's the kind of person one wants to be around.
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patio
Sept 3, 2012 8:06:35 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2012 8:06:35 GMT -5
God with you, Pati, outnumbers every cancer cell's success.. They will fail.Praying- Still.
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Sept 3, 2012 16:13:27 GMT -5
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Sept 4, 2012 8:55:47 GMT -5
Post by b2r on Sept 4, 2012 8:55:47 GMT -5
Be[shadow=black,left,300]STRONG[/shadow]Patti!
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Sept 4, 2012 16:15:31 GMT -5
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renegadepatio
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Sept 6, 2012 18:50:04 GMT -5
Post by renegadepatio on Sept 6, 2012 18:50:04 GMT -5
glad it was a long weekend, boy did/do i need it. i havent been to work all week, not feeling the greatest, pain and upset stomach, plus somewhere i swear i have lost my mind. i cant stop crying and its not that i am in that much pain. I had a biosy on the node that is still growing on my neck. Doctor doesnt know why that one should keep growing and all the other ones are shrinking, did that on monday so i am sure i wont know what is going on until i go for last chemo on the 20th, i am not sure if i am doign the last one, this one was so bad on my body and brain that i am not sure i can go through it one more time. I am just so tired of being tired. But at least i am alive
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patio
Sept 6, 2012 19:20:30 GMT -5
Post by femmefatale on Sept 6, 2012 19:20:30 GMT -5
I second this...Perfect, Sugi. I am sending positive vibes your way, Pati...
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patio
Sept 6, 2012 19:55:47 GMT -5
Post by busymom on Sept 6, 2012 19:55:47 GMT -5
Praying for you Pati! You do whatever you need to!
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Sept 6, 2012 20:32:06 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Sept 6, 2012 20:32:06 GMT -5
Sending positive vibes your way, Pati.
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Sept 6, 2012 21:57:23 GMT -5
Post by b2r on Sept 6, 2012 21:57:23 GMT -5
Sending You Calming - Positive Energy!
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Sept 7, 2012 0:32:58 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Sept 7, 2012 0:32:58 GMT -5
Hey hey patiohhhh! I can't wait to find out what your little peanut is going to be this halloween. As always, sending you positive thoughts.
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