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Post by busymom on Jul 31, 2022 12:34:34 GMT -5
Good Afternoon Kids! DD is gone visiting some old college friends this weekend. Hope she drives back home before the storms hit today. We're forecast for large hail & possible tornadoes close to dinner time. Sharon , he's still in the hospital. I'd hoped to go visit today, but now with the updated weather forecast, that's not likely. I'm not happy with the hospital, or Medicare right now. The moral to the story of what's going on right now is: don't retire poor. Even in a state like ours, which is more generous than average, there are some problems that Medicare & social services can't or won't help with. He needs to either recover more, or I'm frankly not sure what's going to happen at this point. Prayers are always appreciated! Is he on Medicare or Medicaid? Well, since he's past retirement age, I suppose it's a little of both. But, with no assets, it's hard when someone has major health issues...
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Post by TheOtherMe on Jul 31, 2022 12:35:46 GMT -5
Yes. Sounds like he is probably on Medicaid and they aren't will to do a whole lot from my experience when I was a rep payee.
I'm sorry.
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Jul 31, 2022 13:14:39 GMT -5
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Jul 31, 2022 13:15:37 GMT -5
Sorry I missed brunch, but I brought snacks. We decided to do Costco this morning...next weekend will be bonkers, since school starts on the 9th.
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Post by Sharon on Jul 31, 2022 15:52:45 GMT -5
Is he on Medicare or Medicaid? Well, since he's past retirement age, I suppose it's a little of both. But, with no assets, it's hard when someone has major health issues... Have you checked to see if he is dual eligible. That means eligible for both Medicare and the state medicaid program. The medicaid eligibility is determined by state requirements. In my state the way it works it Medicare is primary insurance and Medicaid is secondary. This may be worth your time to research and figure out.
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Post by toomuchreality on Jul 31, 2022 16:48:59 GMT -5
Yeah that! Looks delicious!
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Jul 31, 2022 19:01:26 GMT -5
Well, the lawn is mowed and edged. Dishwasher run and laundry done for today. Pizza was good, though a little salty for my taste. No more food until after blood work tomorrow morning. Having ice water now. Ice water is good. Even at 7 pm it was still hot out there.
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Post by toomuchreality on Jul 31, 2022 21:21:54 GMT -5
Aw, poor baby! Does she have one of those sets of wheels so she can get around on her own? Nope. It's been getting progressively worse. All four legs. She gets afraid to move, but does much better if the floor isn't slippery. This evening she was standing like a statue, after I let them out. She was afraid to move, so I went out and got her. Another time, her front legs were sliding out from under her and she didn't know what to do. Other times, she walks okay. She has an appointment with a Neurologist on Tuesday. I think she is 16yrs old. I feel so bad for her and for DD1 (dog mom). DD1 doesn't have human children, so pups are her world. She would do anything for them. I hope they can figure out a way to help her. My grand dog was doing so much better by the time her moms got home today. She's still struggling, but not nearly as bad. It was such a relief to see her walk by herself and not be "frozen" and have to carry her. She took her meds for me, which was also a relief. Seeing a pet struggle is heartbreaking. Knowing their time with you isn't much longer. 💔
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Post by Sharon on Jul 31, 2022 21:27:34 GMT -5
I had a late afternoon nap and it did me a world of good. It wasn't planned I just fell asleep sitting on the couch. Now for an early bedtime and hopefully I will be ready for the week come Monday morning.
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Post by busymom on Jul 31, 2022 21:40:38 GMT -5
Well, since he's past retirement age, I suppose it's a little of both. But, with no assets, it's hard when someone has major health issues... Have you checked to see if he is dual eligible. That means eligible for both Medicare and the state medicaid program. The medicaid eligibility is determined by state requirements. In my state the way it works it Medicare is primary insurance and Medicaid is secondary. This may be worth your time to research and figure out. I will check this out. Thank you. Unfortunately, it amazes me the services that people need that aren't included with a lot of these programs. I'll be getting in touch with his social worker this week.
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Post by busymom on Aug 1, 2022 18:39:42 GMT -5
Ok, so I heard back from Dr. Doom tonight. It turns out the supplemental insurance he's on through the state will take care of things. Of course, I spent a good chunk of today finding that out myself, before I heard from the doctor. I'm very thankful for the insurance coverage, but seriously annoyed that the doctor didn't call me once he found out things would be ok. I need a nap...
Oh, and we have a new over 100 degree heat index that is supposed to arrive tomorrow. That means I need to be extra careful to keep DS hydrated. Not to mention, weather like that is one of my migraine triggers, so other than a morning appointment that DS has scheduled, I have no major plans for the day.
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Post by TheOtherMe on Aug 1, 2022 20:21:55 GMT -5
I am glad your relative can get the medical care he needs.
It's supposed to be that hot around here for the next several days. Happy I did the grocery pick up today
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Post by Sharon on Aug 1, 2022 22:39:14 GMT -5
busymom good news that your relative will be able to get the treatment that he needs. I had the kids for a little over an hour tonight. DD needed a break so she went to the water zumba class at the local pool. DGS1 was busy being all boy tonight. He kept getting in trouble for saying butt. That's a forbidden word in their house and he knows it, but just had to push the buttons and boundaries. DD hasn't heard yet if he will be allowed into pre-school this fall.
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Post by toomuchreality on Aug 1, 2022 23:32:28 GMT -5
YIKES! A scary type rain storm has hit our area. It's coming down really hard! And there is a ton of thunder and lightning in the air. I had fallen asleep, but woke up to the sound of the storm. I'm glad I'm not out in it! It sounds wicked!
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Post by busymom on Aug 2, 2022 14:49:06 GMT -5
Hope everything is ok at your house, toomuchreality! Any damage? Good Afternoon Kids! It is hotter than you-know-where right now, with a nasty-hot heat index. And why today, of all days, did the guys come back to work on the new deck on the property behind ours? The deck is one story high, so if any of those guys pass out & fall, I'll be the unfortunate person who sees it, and gets to call 911. If I owned my own company, on a day this hot I'd tell my people who work outdoors to take the day off.
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Post by TheOtherMe on Aug 2, 2022 16:00:58 GMT -5
It's that kind of hot here, too. I ran an errand and the car was miserable when I got in, even though it was in the garage.
The humidity is ridiculous.
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Post by toomuchreality on Aug 2, 2022 18:21:16 GMT -5
Hope everything is ok at your house, toomuchreality! Any damage? Good Afternoon Kids! It is hotter than you-know-where right now, with a nasty-hot heat index. And why today, of all days, did the guys come back to work on the new deck on the property behind ours? The deck is one story high, so if any of those guys pass out & fall, I'll be the unfortunate person who sees it, and gets to call 911. If I owned my own company, on a day this hot I'd tell my people who work outdoors to take the day off. I haven't been outside yet, today. But I assume everything is okay. Thanks for asking. I hope you don't have to call for help, for anyone! And that the workers are all safe, so they can get that deck complete soon. We're supposed to be cooler today. Only 97° was predicted.
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Post by busymom on Aug 2, 2022 20:14:10 GMT -5
Well, crud! DD just called, and her air conditioning has gone out. I'm driving over with my largest fan to try & help out. I can't even imagine what the wait might be if she needs a new AC unit.
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Post by toomuchreality on Aug 2, 2022 21:06:31 GMT -5
Well, crud! DD just called, and her air conditioning has gone out. I'm driving over with my largest fan to try & help out. I can't even imagine what the wait might be if she needs a new AC unit. Ugh!
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Post by snapdragon on Aug 4, 2022 12:41:52 GMT -5
Hi Everyone! I have moved my portable AC into the bedroom and it has made a big difference in sleep for me the last few days. But the weather also cooperated and it went into the low eighties and upper seventies from the mid 90's. Thought it will be going back up starting tomorrow through most of next week. Take care and keep cool as much as possible.
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Post by toomuchreality on Aug 4, 2022 13:11:09 GMT -5
Hi Everyone! I have moved my portable AC into the bedroom and it has made a big difference in sleep for me the last few days. But the weather also cooperated and it went into the low eighties and upper seventies from the mid 90's. Thought it will be going back up starting tomorrow through most of next week. Take care and keep cool as much as possible. I'm glad to hear you're getting some better sleep! I hope it continues.
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Post by busymom on Aug 4, 2022 13:24:04 GMT -5
Good Afternoon Kids! I'm really pleased with the company that'll be installing DD's new air conditioner this weekend. They put in a temporary room unit so she won't cook. At least one room in her house will be comfortable, and she's also using the fan I brought over to blow the cool air down her hallway to try & make the rest of the house more comfortable.
The latest on my relative is they're trying to get him off of the feeding tube. Everything is a process...
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Post by toomuchreality on Aug 4, 2022 17:41:09 GMT -5
Good Afternoon Kids! I'm really pleased with the company that'll be installing DD's new air conditioner this weekend. They put in a temporary room unit so she won't cook. At least one room in her house will be comfortable, and she's also using the fan I brought over to blow the cool air down her hallway to try & make the rest of the house more comfortable. The latest on my relative is they're trying to get him off of the feeding tube. Everything is a process... It's nice, that they brought her a portable unit, to at least cool off one room. I'm glad she'll be able to get her a/c fixed, this weekend. That will be a relief. Glad your relative is still hanging in there. Hugs
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Post by toomuchreality on Aug 5, 2022 11:45:02 GMT -5
I agree with you about the temps. Esp since I went through menopause and put on weight. But I prefer driving when there's no snow, or ice. Or even rain, if I'm in a hurry. How have you been? I hope you enjoy your weekend! ♡♡♡
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Post by busymom on Aug 5, 2022 16:24:26 GMT -5
I see you got a picture of my "older" dog. And yes, he likes to chill in the evening. He'll probably have a nice after-dinner snooze, too.
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Aug 5, 2022 18:32:47 GMT -5
Peeps, hello to y'all! Still feels like a hundred out there. I pulled a bucket of weeds just for fun. Having some frozen yogurt now as a reward.
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Post by toomuchreality on Aug 5, 2022 18:42:38 GMT -5
Peeps, hello to y'all! Still feels like a hundred out there. I pulled a bucket of weeds just for fun. Having some frozen yogurt now as a reward. Oh, yeah. I'm pretty jealous about that bucket of fun you had, let me tell ya! (Sarcasm) And that frozen yogurt reward too. (Personally, I hate yogurt, in any form.) But if you like it, then I'm glad you enjoy it. - That part, I meant! 😊
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Post by busymom on Aug 6, 2022 9:13:23 GMT -5
Good Morning Kids! Ok, whoever has been praying for rain can stop now. It's coming down HARD. The good news on my relative is, the feeding tube has been removed, and he might get to go back to his nursing home today.
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