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Post by KindeBabe's Kupid Kiss on Nov 7, 2011 21:18:58 GMT -5
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lilyofcourse
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Post by lilyofcourse on Nov 8, 2011 9:08:40 GMT -5
I was married the first time because I thought I was in love and I thought it was just what was expected of me. It was the next step. I was ready to get married. I chose the wrong one to marry.
If I marry again it will have to be some one very special. He'll have to be more my equal this time. The same values, morals, and spiritual ties I guess you could say. I dont know that I'll ever marry again. So if I do he'll have to be awfully special.
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Bluerobin
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Post by Bluerobin on Nov 8, 2011 9:12:18 GMT -5
Crabby was HOT! HOT! HOT! I also thought she had money. She thought I did. We were both dispointed financially.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 8, 2011 9:14:53 GMT -5
I got married because I wanted to have children. DH and I were happily cohabitating DINKS for YEARS until my biological clock reared it's ugly head. It all worked out because he wasn't averse to the idea either!  |
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Post by ride on Nov 8, 2011 9:22:21 GMT -5
I wanted to spend my life with this gal, that didn't work out so well. I will not be getting marries again-EVER!!!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 8, 2011 9:23:16 GMT -5
The presents! I needed a new china set.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 8, 2011 9:23:36 GMT -5
LOL Arch!
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dancinmama
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Post by dancinmama on Nov 8, 2011 9:38:38 GMT -5
Good question because when I met my later-to-be DH, it was the farthest thing from my mind. I guess it all boils down to the fact that I met a great guy. Thirty two years later we're still together, so I'd say it's been a pretty good ride. ;D
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dancinmama
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Post by dancinmama on Nov 8, 2011 9:39:51 GMT -5
The presents! I needed a new china set. Geez, you really expected people to buy you that expensive stuff?  |
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ride
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Post by ride on Nov 8, 2011 10:01:04 GMT -5
The best part of my marriage was my wedding day. What a party we threw. No stuffy sit down chicken or beef meal. Food stations where you had many choices where they would cook right in front of you. Eight hour open bar, swimming pools, Live band. Oh opening the envelopes was kinda fun too ;D
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PK Bucko
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Post by PK Bucko on Nov 8, 2011 10:19:50 GMT -5
BECAUSE I KNEW IT WOULD BE WEDDED BLISS FROM THAT DAY THROUGH THE REST OF MY LIFE.
I think the real reason was love or some other such delusion.
If I'm ever in a position to think about doing it again. I won't.
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ride
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Post by ride on Nov 8, 2011 10:22:33 GMT -5
Men and women are not innately intended to spend their entire adult lives together
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Bluerobin
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Post by Bluerobin on Nov 8, 2011 12:13:44 GMT -5
Dancin, same for us. 33 in March! Nothin but bliss, bliss, bliss!
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Post by buzzaboo on Nov 8, 2011 12:17:32 GMT -5
I'll let you know when I try to remember myself...  |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 8, 2011 12:18:12 GMT -5
Welcome buzz!  Not having a great day, huh? |
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Post by buzzaboo on Nov 8, 2011 12:27:21 GMT -5
Hey beer! I'm upright and breathing so it's a good day lol
Hope you are having a great day!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 8, 2011 12:29:02 GMT -5
Well....I haven't gotten busted for posting here on company time yet, so it is a great day!! |
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Post by buzzaboo on Nov 8, 2011 12:45:56 GMT -5
That is always makes for a good day! I'm off today so I don't have to worry about that lol
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domic
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Post by domic on Nov 8, 2011 17:46:45 GMT -5
Because she was so cute in those yellow shorts.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 8, 2011 18:07:20 GMT -5
I'm trying to remember.
The first time I was just young and easily coersed.
The second time, I was young and easily...hey wait I see a pattern here.
Marriage is not something I would do again.
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weltschmerz
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Post by weltschmerz on Nov 8, 2011 22:53:57 GMT -5
I married my first husband to get away from my parents. Living together was not an option. I was a good Christian girl.
Second was for love. That lasted 11 years.
I won't be doing it again. Ever.
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Post by mmhmm on Nov 8, 2011 22:59:19 GMT -5
First time, stupidity and the desire to get away from my parents.
Second time, because the greatest guy in the world asked me. We were married for 37 years and it was never anything but good. He was very, very special.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 8, 2011 23:06:42 GMT -5
First time, stupidity and the desire to get away from my parents. Second time, because the greatest guy in the world asked me. We were married for 37 years and it was never anything but good. He was very, very special. aww... yay for 37 years of good.  |
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steff
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Post by steff on Nov 8, 2011 23:12:15 GMT -5
Got knocked up  Married 18 years last month ;D |
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Post by moon/Laura on Nov 9, 2011 11:15:09 GMT -5
Because I thought it would be my only chance. i wanted kids. I shoulda listened to the gut saying "you're not in love"
15yrs later, i'm still stuck. at least i have my son..
no, i doubt i'll do it again once i get out.
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PK Bucko
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Post by PK Bucko on Nov 10, 2011 10:48:06 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2011 10:50:58 GMT -5
LOOVE it!  |
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Post by quince on Nov 10, 2011 19:22:44 GMT -5
Getting married because it's important to him, and affords some legal and financial benefits and protections.
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Post by femmefatale on Nov 10, 2011 23:02:58 GMT -5
I'm not even going there...LOL  |
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Post by moon/Laura on Nov 11, 2011 14:46:40 GMT -5
Getting married because it's important to him, and affords some legal and financial benefits and protections. all the wrong reasons.. |
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