InsertCoolName
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Post by InsertCoolName on Dec 6, 2012 9:10:22 GMT -5
My husband died.
I don't know how. he was at a truck stop south of toledo and just gone.
If you love someone, don't just tell them. SHOW them. Everyday. Every moment.
My moments are gone.
It sucks.
I know you all don't know me and I'm probably not one of your friends. But don't let stupid shit get in the way. Life is short. Too short, he was only 42.
Live your life NOW. Don't worry so much about the future that you forget to enjoy life with the people who love you now!
Now is what counts. Not later. Because you could lose your later. And it hurts.
Thank you all for being my entertainment these past few years. Nothing really matters really.
Sorry.
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cranberry49
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Post by cranberry49 on Dec 6, 2012 9:15:43 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss and what you are saying about loving for the now, is exactly right! I wish you the best...
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 9:18:16 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for you loss. It's so easy to forget how quickly we can lose those close to us, you think they're going to be there forever and then...they're not.
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MarleyKeezy78
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Post by MarleyKeezy78 on Dec 6, 2012 9:24:43 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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CarolinaKat
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Post by CarolinaKat on Dec 6, 2012 9:26:01 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss ICN. We're here if you need to 'talk' about it.
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sheilaincali
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Post by sheilaincali on Dec 6, 2012 9:28:24 GMT -5
So very sorry for your loss.
I second CarolinaKat- feel free to vent, talk, etc as much as you need.
Will keep you in my thoughts.
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wvugurl26
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Post by wvugurl26 on Dec 6, 2012 9:29:10 GMT -5
I'm very sorry for your loss.
We are always here for you to vent.
It is a very good reminder for everyone that nothing is promised.
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thyme4change
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Post by thyme4change on Dec 6, 2012 9:29:53 GMT -5
Oh my goodness. What a terrible loss for you. I'm so sorry to hear of your husbands passing. It is always sad, but especially so when the person is so young.
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daisylu
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Post by daisylu on Dec 6, 2012 9:29:57 GMT -5
So sorry for your loss, ICN.
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saveinla
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Post by saveinla on Dec 6, 2012 9:31:43 GMT -5
I am really sorry for your loss
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moneyminded
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Post by moneyminded on Dec 6, 2012 9:32:16 GMT -5
I am so sorry to hear your husband passed. You are right, life is too short. We take advantage of the days we are given when we don't know if we have one more day on this earth or even if our loved ones do. We need to live or lives, enjoy our days and be happy we are alive when we wake up each morning. We need to make the most of every breath we are given. We need to make a difference in this world, whether a kind word to a stranger, a smile to pass along or a touch on the shoulder as we pass by a family member. I'll be thinking of you today ICN.
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NancysSummerSip
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Dec 6, 2012 9:34:34 GMT -5
Aw, ICN, I am sorry. . And you could not have said it better. Life is extremely short, and it's also good, and we don't always appreciate those factors until the lives of those we love are gone.
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taz157
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Post by taz157 on Dec 6, 2012 9:35:22 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for you loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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jeffreymo
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Post by jeffreymo on Dec 6, 2012 9:38:35 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers and I will take your message to heart.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 9:39:10 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss
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Waffle
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Post by Waffle on Dec 6, 2012 9:42:48 GMT -5
I'm so sorry. Vent all you need to. There are people on this board that are great at being supportive.
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Wisconsin Beth
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on Dec 6, 2012 9:45:34 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss ICN. We're here if you need to 'talk' about it. I'm so sorry for your loss. And we're here for you.
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skubikky
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Post by skubikky on Dec 6, 2012 9:45:44 GMT -5
So sorry ICN, please accept my condolences.
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zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Dec 6, 2012 9:59:17 GMT -5
I'm so sorry. I make sure that DF knows how I feel all the time. I used to think too much but after not being lived for many years, he is starving for it. You remind us all how lucky we are and how precious life is.
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Formerly SK
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Post by Formerly SK on Dec 6, 2012 10:02:51 GMT -5
I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself.
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Post by 973beachbum on Dec 6, 2012 10:03:16 GMT -5
42 is so young... Not knowing "how" he died must be gut wrenching. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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muttleynfelix
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Post by muttleynfelix on Dec 6, 2012 10:04:20 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss. Lots of hugs and prayers sent your way.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 10:06:29 GMT -5
I am so sorry ICN.
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Apple
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Post by Apple on Dec 6, 2012 10:11:49 GMT -5
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Post by swasat on Dec 6, 2012 10:16:48 GMT -5
Oh my God. I am SO SO sorry for your loss. We are all here, ready to listen. kdamron has been venting out here as well and the board has been so supportive of her. I hope you feel free to do the same. Did you at least get the body? Sorry if I am being nosy but not knowing how he died and not even seeing him towards the end sounds very painful for me. I sincerely hope you were able to have a funeral for him.
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Sam_2.0
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Post by Sam_2.0 on Dec 6, 2012 10:23:20 GMT -5
ICN - so so sorry to hear of your husband's loss I will be praying for you & the kids.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 10:30:20 GMT -5
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Chocolate Lover
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Dec 6, 2012 10:36:55 GMT -5
I'm so sorry ICN
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swamp
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Post by swamp on Dec 6, 2012 10:47:42 GMT -5
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zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Dec 6, 2012 10:52:25 GMT -5
You and KD need to talk. You may both be able to help each other.
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