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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 10:53:19 GMT -5
So sorry for your loss.
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Post by resolution on Dec 6, 2012 10:56:58 GMT -5
I am very sorry for you loss. You will be in my prayers.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 11:02:23 GMT -5
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Post by Angel! on Dec 6, 2012 11:05:47 GMT -5
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Post by drivingaround on Dec 6, 2012 11:18:57 GMT -5
My deepest sympathy for you and your family. Definitely vent and express all the emotions you want here, we're may be a virtual family but caring and loving all the same!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 11:23:59 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by movingforward on Dec 6, 2012 11:25:43 GMT -5
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by lurkyloo on Dec 6, 2012 11:34:50 GMT -5
I am so sorry That is far too young We're here, any time you need to vent or talk or just be distracted.
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Post by b2r on Dec 6, 2012 11:44:54 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 11:45:18 GMT -5
ICN, I'm so sorry you lost your husband. The advice in your OP echoed what I've been thinking about these past several days. My dear Grandma's heart stopped on Monday but they brought her back. The took her off life support Monday night. It greatly surprised the Doctors, but Tuesday she was awake and talking a little. I had the chance to spend Tuesday with her in that state, knowing it was likely to be the last time. The suddeness of Monday made me fully appreciate Tuesday and how the difference between the two feels. I'm very sorry you didn't get a "last time" with your husband. I didn't share my story to take anything away from the pain of yours. I just wanted you to know just how much I understand the OP. Your words were exactly what I've been thinking about these last few days. Reading them made my tears start back up. I'll be thinking of you ICN. Take care.
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Post by MB-NY on Dec 6, 2012 11:56:46 GMT -5
I'm sorry for you loss. I appreciate the thoughts you've posted. It does make you think.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 12:24:24 GMT -5
ICN I am so sorry for your loss. How are your kids doing? I can't even imagine the pain you are going through. We may not know people here in real life, but we are an online family. We are here for you whenever you need us.
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Post by kgb18 on Dec 6, 2012 12:25:09 GMT -5
Oh ICN, I'm so very sorry for you.
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Post by Lizard Queen on Dec 6, 2012 12:36:20 GMT -5
OMG, 42 is way too young! I'm so very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences. Live your life NOW. Don't worry so much about the future that you forget to enjoy life with the people who love you now! This is so true. It seems like people on this board have a tendency to forget this--me included. Thank you for the reminder.
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Post by kent on Dec 6, 2012 12:42:55 GMT -5
From our house to yours.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 12:44:00 GMT -5
I too am sorry for your loss.
Yes, people often don't live until retirement age and sometimes I think we place too much emphasis on the "future" that none of us even know if we will have.
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Post by busymom on Dec 6, 2012 12:50:23 GMT -5
What shocking news, ICN! I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please check in when you can with the gang here. If nothing else, we're good at virtual <HUGS>. We care!
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Post by kittensaver on Dec 6, 2012 13:04:41 GMT -5
ICN I'm so sorry this has happened! Hugs and love and prayers going out to you.
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Post by t-dog on Dec 6, 2012 13:17:10 GMT -5
ICN I too am very sorry for your loss. I get how hard the not knowing is. It took the coroner nearly 6 months to finalize an autopsy for my DH, so for a good long time I too did not know the how/why. I will be thinking of you.
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Post by snapdragon on Dec 6, 2012 13:21:49 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 13:24:16 GMT -5
ICN - Sorry to hear that...prayers and positive mojo to you and your family...
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2012 13:24:35 GMT -5
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry! What happened ICN? If you need to talk we are here. This is a community and we all truly do care about one another.
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Post by zibazinski on Dec 6, 2012 13:56:55 GMT -5
Sroo. Good way of expressing what we are all feeling.
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Post by CarolinaKat on Dec 6, 2012 13:58:56 GMT -5
Oh my goodness, I can't express how sorry I am for your loss. As for this, even if you don't feel like you or we are close. I think we are close with everyone in this community. The wins you share with us turn in to our wins, and individual losses turn in to our losses. Please reach out whenever you need to. Just what Sroo said. She said it perfectly. DF calls all of you my internet friends.
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Post by cottoncandyclouds on Dec 6, 2012 14:23:27 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss Insert, I wish there was something I could say that would make this all better but there isn't. I can however, tell you that it is okay for you to go through the grieving cycle. You should also try to put off any big decisions until you are of sound mind.
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Dec 6, 2012 14:52:02 GMT -5
Oh my goodness, I can't express how sorry I am for your loss. As for this, even if you don't feel like you or we are close. I think we are close with everyone in this community. The wins you share with us turn in to our wins, and individual losses turn in to our losses. Please reach out whenever you need to. I agree with Sroo and I remember you, ICN. Don't you have 5 kids? I am so sorry for your loss. There has just been too much loss here.
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Post by dannylion on Dec 6, 2012 14:55:58 GMT -5
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Sending good thoughts to you and all concerned for peace and comfort.
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Post by Jake 48 on Dec 6, 2012 14:57:25 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss, my prayers for you and your family
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Post by p8nt on Dec 6, 2012 15:34:39 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you to find strength to get through the coming holiday season.
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Post by redkitty on Dec 6, 2012 15:41:22 GMT -5
I'm sorry for your loss.
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