zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on May 20, 2011 13:54:25 GMT -5
I wonder if those kids are his?
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Post by Deleted on May 20, 2011 13:58:46 GMT -5
Thanks for the clarification cawiau. She sounds like yet another gem. I bet he wasn't working that extra job so he could have a sports car and NFL sunday ticket. Praise this judge for cutting through the "poor me" act and making an example of another worthless crybaby. Its only a matter of time before she does the same thing to the baby-daddy, and without her "free" $250/week, she won't look nearly as appealing. I agree taht there are useless pieces of garbage out there like that, but I don't understand how the heck they get baby daddy after baby daddy. Your new woman has 4 kids by 4 different guys, doesn't work, and is getting CS from all of them. You knock her up, she has the baby, and then leaves you for another guy and gets child support. And you're surprised?! I work with one of those and funny you mentiopn 4 because she just came back from maternity leave. She just gave birth to number 4 (a girl) by baby daddy number 4 She only works part time, refuse to work any thing over 30 hrs (something about losing benefits) and was bragging on how she got like 12k from her taxes (I don't trust the 12k but that is what she kept on saying)
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on May 20, 2011 13:59:58 GMT -5
We all blame him anyway... Dating out of his league and paying the price now. A) Working 2 jobs to support her taste but she blame him for her cheating for always working. B) Letting her walk all over him to please her only to be told she wanted a real manand he was too nice. We all feel she was cheating way before it broke out and he even suspected. But he stayed for the kids, guess when it all over facebook he couldn't ignore it anymore. Be careful who you friend on facebook, the might reveal a few things you wanted to stay secret! He didnt' date out of his league, he got treated like a cash spewing doormat. More like he dated UNDER his league...
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Post by zibazinski on May 20, 2011 14:02:07 GMT -5
Well, I hope the f-ing he got was worth it. Never seems to be in hind sight, does it?
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Post by Deleted on May 20, 2011 14:08:15 GMT -5
I wonder if those kids are his? I don't think he wants to know and it would kill him if they were not. The way I see it, he is the only father they ever known, he was there from day 1 abd he raised them: they are his kids
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Post by zibazinski on May 20, 2011 16:12:56 GMT -5
I dated a guy who was sure his daughter was not his. I tried to placate him for awhile and even finally used the reasoning that for 15 years she was the only father he knew but he just couldn't let it go. Yes, his wife had had an affair which is why he was suspicious. Finally, he went for some test but, of course, she was old enough to question it and the mom had a huge cow about it when she found out. Kid was his but their relationship is totally ruined. It ate at him and in the end, it only hurt him as well as the young girl. I couldn't even look at him after that and told him our friendship was over forever. Plus, it came out about the mom's affair which hurt both the girl and the son. Douche canoe.
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Post by 8 Bit WWBG on May 21, 2011 10:33:07 GMT -5
That sounds kind of two-faced Zib. I don't think that the mother or daughter get to play the "how can you not trust me" card when said mother had an affair.
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Post by zibazinski on May 21, 2011 10:45:11 GMT -5
The daughter was innocent and got hurt by this very deeply. The mother had had an affair years before so imho THAT was the time to get his daughter checked out, not to let it eat at him for years. It damaged their father/daughter relationship even before the daughter found out why because he treated his daughter "different" than his son.
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Post by zibazinski on May 21, 2011 10:47:38 GMT -5
Yes, the mother had an affair and it was wrong but when it happened was the time to have handled it, not years later. The kid IS his but the way he handled it made him the bad guy in then end to even his son whom he idolized. The feeling is not mutual anymore. So the "gain" did not even remotely offset the "loss."
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