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Post by countrygirl2 on Jul 8, 2023 16:05:27 GMT -5
Good idea Stew. Could see if he can get the yellow in deviled eggs and things. Might help his manual dexterity too. He likes to help, he takes dad and moms trash out now. And he picks up after himself. You don't have to nag, just get his attention, LOL! He is actually a little sweetheart. Oh yes, he gets aggravating at times but if he were a perfect kid, I would worry about him. He has so much energy. We need to play catch and stuff like that also. He is just a chatterbox, he is so full of information he wants to get out. He has been watching about black holes and white holes. He has been drawing diagrams for me and explaining how it works. He can't hold still and can't stop talking, we do have to turn him off at times, LOL! There are some excellent programs on UTube that even I can understand. But he loves that stuff and about galaxies and distant stars and things, he just eats it up. But he worries about man and why we have wars and global warming and why people are so mean to people. I have to be careful, he gets very intense and will even start tearing up. He has learned a ton about Russian history and other countries. If I had had the information at my fingertips like now I was just like him. I hope he is able to do more with his curiosity. I just love that part about him. His mom and dad feed all that and will give him any opportunities they can. I am so glad they can do that and we will help if needed.
I haven't made it out yet. I am doing more laundry, turned on the oven cleaning function. And I pulled the fridge out to clean under it. Not bad at all, some dust and I will mop, the kitchen needs it anyway. I need to change out the band aid on my arm, its bloody this morning. I read just keep it clean and moist. Said vaseline is as good as any antibiotic and I know its going to take time to heal it. It is completely raw. There is a little flap of skin but will only cover a bit of it.
I did find a used serger with differential feed for here, it was quite inexpensive and a Viking Husqvarna. I don't need a bunch of functions on it, only one. I do need to order a manual for it or rather print one out. The sewing shop said I can print it online so I will. They all thread differently so I need that.
Ok, onward and upward. I love this little place for now. It's pretty and in good condition for its age. Hubs fixed the leading faucet in the tub, put in a new set. We had a toilet not flushing good, so he bought a cleaner that he ran way down the toilet. We think something was dropped in it so now it works fine. And there is nothing else here that doesn't work, so that is good. The car we bought used is a good one too. I have not had to buy gas yet, we take it on all our errands and still only a little under half a tank of gas. The thing gets over 30mpg, so that is economical. So far things are working out ok.
Hubs fell at the house. He said he got a glass of water with ice and dropped it and mopped it all up. Said he went to get another and slipped on some water and fell. He hit his knee, elbow, and side on the tile. He said he hurt so bad he threw a towel over it and left it for then. He sat down, said nothing is broken and he is ok, but it really hurt like hell when it happened. I am so glad he wasn't hurt. He said by then he said to hell with fixing dinner but was starving so went to the little restaurant down the road for dinner. I'm glad he did, met some guys and had dinner and I know enjoyed himself. He said I figured she didn't have air conditioning is why I didn't go up there. Well all he had to do was ask me I knew she did. Sometimes words unsaid, jeez.
But he and the kitties are ok, but I sure miss him. He is working his butt off on the house. The gal had put rocks around flower beds she created and it was awful to mow around. He said he took the trailer up and cleaned them all out and was working on digging out a stump that is in the driveway. It's kind of over but does need removed. He said he got the tractor stuck on it and just quit he was so worn out. He is doing a lot that just increases the price and will make it really show well. It had leaked from the icemaker and he had to replace the floor under the fridge. He said it was a mess. So he is working hard on it. That is the kind of stuff that would cost us a small fortune and suck up any profit. It has a good roof, new windows, 8 year old furnace and AC, now new waterheater, stove, and dishwasher, so it will sell well.
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Post by Opti on Jul 8, 2023 16:06:26 GMT -5
Keep a book or journal of incidents showing he should not live on his own. This qualifies. Mister needs to address the fact his dad should not live alone and can be a danger to himself and others. That is not a normal reaction to being asked to get ice. I don’t think dropping an ice bin necessarily means a person can’t live by themself. We all drop things. Breaking a window and saying “God” told him to do it, yes. But not dropping the ice. Mister knows his Dad shouldn’t live alone. That’s why his brother and Horseface have an excuse to live for free in Mr. Messy’s house. And as long as Mister is here when he brings him over here, I no longer care what they do. My attitude still sucks because of the way he treated DD and my Grandchildren last weekend, so it’s best that I just stay away from him. My Grandmomma taught me to keep my mouth shut if I don’t have anything nice to say, and I don’t want her to reach down from heaven and pinch me for acting ugly with Mr. Messy. So, this was an accident in your opinion? The way you wrote it, it did not seem that way to me. Sorry if I had the wrong impression. After the toilet plunging incident its hard to assume he does smart things.
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Post by countrygirl2 on Jul 8, 2023 16:09:09 GMT -5
I would still keep a journal like suggested. When you start adding all this dysfunction up it is a different story. One thing on its own but all this stuff. Something is definitely wrong with the way his brain is wired. I cannot believe he has always functioned like that.
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Post by minnesotapaintlady on Jul 8, 2023 16:13:34 GMT -5
We welcomed a new dog to the family today. He's seven years old, border collie and chihuahua mix, and named Bear. His person passed away about a week ago. He's trying to figure out WTF just happened. I'm trying to figure out how this cross ever happened!
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Post by Pink Cashmere on Jul 8, 2023 16:13:38 GMT -5
I don’t think dropping an ice bin necessarily means a person can’t live by themself. We all drop things. Breaking a window and saying “God” told him to do it, yes. But not dropping the ice. Mister knows his Dad shouldn’t live alone. That’s why his brother and Horseface have an excuse to live for free in Mr. Messy’s house. And as long as Mister is here when he brings him over here, I no longer care what they do. My attitude still sucks because of the way he treated DD and my Grandchildren last weekend, so it’s best that I just stay away from him. My Grandmomma taught me to keep my mouth shut if I don’t have anything nice to say, and I don’t want her to reach down from heaven and pinch me for acting ugly with Mr. Messy. So, this was an accident in your opinion? The way you wrote it, it did not seem that way to me. Sorry if I had the wrong impression. After the toilet plunging incident it’s hard to assume he does smart things. I tried to refrain from saying I don’t necessarily think it was an accident. Truth is, I wouldn’t be surprised if he did it on purpose since I wouldn’t get him some ice. But I also recognize that I’m not seeing him a very favorable light right now, which could make me biased.
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Post by Opti on Jul 8, 2023 16:22:48 GMT -5
We welcomed a new dog to the family today. He's seven years old, border collie and chihuahua mix, and named Bear. His person passed away about a week ago. He's trying to figure out WTF just happened. Poor baby. How is he with your other dog?
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Post by Pink Cashmere on Jul 8, 2023 16:25:18 GMT -5
I would still keep a journal like suggested. When you start adding all this dysfunction up it is a different story. One thing on its own but all this stuff. Something is definitely wrong with the way his brain is wired. I cannot believe he has always functioned like that. Some things were apparently wrong with his brain or personality before the added complication of dementia. That has been made very clear. His wife always intervened and helped maintain the good image people had of him, including with their sons. Brother figured it out years before Mister did, and Mister didn’t believe him when he would try to tell Mister truths about their Dad. Mister started seeing the truth for himself after their Mom was first hospitalized last August. He’s so horrible that he will try to put his sons against one another by telling half truths and outright lies, and it use to work until Mister caught on. What kind of parent does that?! Just like all the ice he dumped in the floor today, he made messes like that when his wife was alive and she would pester him until he cleaned it up or cleaned it up herself, even though her mobility wasn’t good. A lot of things he does, Mister says he’s always done, Mister’s Mom just handled it. Well, she’s gone and I’m not her. Even when he first started to show signs of what I thought was early dementia last year, I kept saying here that he was a good man. I no longer think that.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2023 16:29:54 GMT -5
Good idea Stew. Could see if he can get the yellow in deviled eggs and things. Might help his manual dexterity too. He likes to help, he takes dad and moms trash out now. And he picks up after himself. You don't have to nag, just get his attention, LOL! He is actually a little sweetheart. Oh yes, he gets aggravating at times but if he were a perfect kid, I would worry about him. He has so much energy. We need to play catch and stuff like that also. He is just a chatterbox, he is so full of information he wants to get out. He has been watching about black holes and white holes. He has been drawing diagrams for me and explaining how it works. He can't hold still and can't stop talking, we do have to turn him off at times, LOL! There are some excellent programs on UTube that even I can understand. But he loves that stuff and about galaxies and distant stars and things, he just eats it up. But he worries about man and why we have wars and global warming and why people are so mean to people. I have to be careful, he gets very intense and will even start tearing up. He has learned a ton about Russian history and other countries. If I had had the information at my fingertips like now I was just like him. I hope he is able to do more with his curiosity. I just love that part about him. His mom and dad feed all that and will give him any opportunities they can. I am so glad they can do that and we will help if needed. I haven't made it out yet. I am doing more laundry, turned on the oven cleaning function. And I pulled the fridge out to clean under it. Not bad at all, some dust and I will mop, the kitchen needs it anyway. I need to change out the band aid on my arm, its bloody this morning. I read just keep it clean and moist. Said vaseline is as good as any antibiotic and I know its going to take time to heal it. It is completely raw. There is a little flap of skin but will only cover a bit of it. I did find a used serger with differential feed for here, it was quite inexpensive and a Viking Husqvarna. I don't need a bunch of functions on it, only one. I do need to order a manual for it or rather print one out. The sewing shop said I can print it online so I will. They all thread differently so I need that. Ok, onward and upward. I love this little place for now. It's pretty and in good condition for its age. Hubs fixed the leading faucet in the tub, put in a new set. We had a toilet not flushing good, so he bought a cleaner that he ran way down the toilet. We think something was dropped in it so now it works fine. And there is nothing else here that doesn't work, so that is good. The car we bought used is a good one too. I have not had to buy gas yet, we take it on all our errands and still only a little under half a tank of gas. The thing gets over 30mpg, so that is economical. So far things are working out ok. Hubs fell at the house. He said he got a glass of water with ice and dropped it and mopped it all up. Said he went to get another and slipped on some water and fell. He hit his knee, elbow, and side on the tile. He said he hurt so bad he threw a towel over it and left it for then. He sat down, said nothing is broken and he is ok, but it really hurt like hell when it happened. I am so glad he wasn't hurt. He said by then he said to hell with fixing dinner but was starving so went to the little restaurant down the road for dinner. I'm glad he did, met some guys and had dinner and I know enjoyed himself. He said I figured she didn't have air conditioning is why I didn't go up there. Well all he had to do was ask me I knew she did. Sometimes words unsaid, jeez. But he and the kitties are ok, but I sure miss him. He is working his butt off on the house. The gal had put rocks around flower beds she created and it was awful to mow around. He said he took the trailer up and cleaned them all out and was working on digging out a stump that is in the driveway. It's kind of over but does need removed. He said he got the tractor stuck on it and just quit he was so worn out. He is doing a lot that just increases the price and will make it really show well. It had leaked from the icemaker and he had to replace the floor under the fridge. He said it was a mess. So he is working hard on it. That is the kind of stuff that would cost us a small fortune and suck up any profit. It has a good roof, new windows, 8 year old furnace and AC, now new waterheater, stove, and dishwasher, so it will sell well. I know you have been working together to improve his printing. What if he works hard at that and you make cupcakes so he could use some of those little icing squeeze things from the grocery store to personalize cupcakes for you and your daughter and his mom and dad? I'm thinking he might be kind of proud of that
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2023 16:33:53 GMT -5
We welcomed a new dog to the family today. He's seven years old, border collie and chihuahua mix, and named Bear. His person passed away about a week ago. He's trying to figure out WTF just happened. I'm trying to figure out how this cross ever happened! Yeah, I'm getting a weird mental image. What was it Jeff Goldblum's character said in the original Jurassic Park? Nature will find a way or something like that.
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Post by Pink Cashmere on Jul 8, 2023 16:45:17 GMT -5
Mister just left to go to a few stores. The cable and Internet are out, so Kiddo is sleep lol. So is Mr. Messy. Idc if Kiddo wakes up before Mister gets back, but I sure hope his Dad doesn’t wake up before then and start bugging me.
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Jul 8, 2023 16:50:17 GMT -5
Your guess is as good as mine as to why he did it. Document it how? Keep a book or journal of incidents showing he should not live on his own. This qualifies. Mister needs to address the fact his dad should not live alone and can be a danger to himself and others. That is not a normal reaction to being asked to get ice. I think you're reaching here. Did he the ice on purpose? I guess I interpreted it as it was an accident.
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Jul 8, 2023 16:54:13 GMT -5
Commercial plane tickets are stupidly expensive. I don't know how middle income or lower people can afford to fly. I just had to pay an extra $300 for DH and I to sit together on the flights we're taking next week. Good thing he asked me a question about layover time and I noticed we didn't have seats chosen yet. When DD#2 and I fly just the two of us, we don't care if we're not right next to each other. DH hates flying, so he does not want to sit by himself. He hates flying, but he's the one who insisted we fly and not take our fifth wheel.
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Post by cooper88 on Jul 8, 2023 16:55:06 GMT -5
We welcomed a new dog to the family today. He's seven years old, border collie and chihuahua mix, and named Bear. His person passed away about a week ago. He's trying to figure out WTF just happened. Poor baby. How is he with your other dog? He's doing well. They are still checking each other out, but they're not fighting, so that's good.
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Jul 8, 2023 16:56:26 GMT -5
Keep a book or journal of incidents showing he should not live on his own. This qualifies. Mister needs to address the fact his dad should not live alone and can be a danger to himself and others. That is not a normal reaction to being asked to get ice. I don’t think dropping an ice bin necessarily means a person can’t live by themself. We all drop things. Breaking a window and saying “God” told him to do it, yes. But not dropping the ice. Mister knows his Dad shouldn’t live alone. That’s why his brother and Horseface have an excuse to live for free in Mr. Messy’s house. And as long as Mister is here when he brings him over here, I no longer care what they do. My attitude still sucks because of the way he treated DD and my Grandchildren last weekend, so it’s best that I just stay away from him. My Grandmomma taught me to keep my mouth shut if I don’t have anything nice to say, and I don’t want her to reach down from heaven and pinch me for acting ugly with Mr. Messy. Ah, okay...I forgot about the dementia part. That makes the "documenting" comment make more sense.
I bet Mister's brother appreciates you and Mister giving him a break every other weekend.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2023 16:59:04 GMT -5
Keep a book or journal of incidents showing he should not live on his own. This qualifies. Mister needs to address the fact his dad should not live alone and can be a danger to himself and others. That is not a normal reaction to being asked to get ice. I think you're reaching here. Did he the ice on purpose? I guess I interpreted it as it was an accident. I felt it was intentional, but as in "I'm an ahole" versus "I'm mentally incompetent". Sort of payback mode, if that makes sense. Being a jerk is not the same as being demented, unfortunately.
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Post by NastyWoman on Jul 8, 2023 17:01:57 GMT -5
I'm trying to figure out how this cross ever happened! Yeah, I'm getting a weird mental image. What was it Jeff Goldblum's character said in the original Jurassic Park? Nature will find a way or something like that.Yep, that was Goldblum. You can learn a lot from movies if you are paying attention. Another one from the same movie was don't use an outhouse when trying to run away from a T-rex Not sure how this ties in with this canine cross but it is good to remember anyway.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2023 17:09:30 GMT -5
Yeah, I'm getting a weird mental image. What was it Jeff Goldblum's character said in the original Jurassic Park? Nature will find a way or something like that.Yep, that was Goldblum. You can learn a lot from movies if you are paying attention. Another one from the same movie was don't use an outhouse when trying to run away from a T-rex Not sure how this ties in with this canine cross but it is good to remember anyway. I learned a lot from Jurassic Park, even more from The Big Chill.
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Post by raeoflyte on Jul 8, 2023 17:23:23 GMT -5
Remembering that choices aren't always great for young kids. Had to beg/bribe niblings to the pool but they enjoyed it. Will do the same for a neighborhood bike ride/scavenger hunt after dinner. Then movie/reading bed time. Pray for me. I don't know how many more times I can be asked why.
My kiddo is home sick. Dh is home with them today and dsis will go over to stay with them tomorrow until I'm home.
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Post by giramomma on Jul 8, 2023 17:28:32 GMT -5
Remembering that choices aren't always great for young kids. Had to beg/bribe niblings to the pool but they enjoyed it. Will do the same for a neighborhood bike ride/scavenger hunt after dinner. Then movie/reading bed time. Pray for me. I don't know how many more times I can be asked why.
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Post by Pink Cashmere on Jul 8, 2023 17:33:05 GMT -5
I think you're reaching here. Did he the ice on purpose? I guess I interpreted it as it was an accident. I felt it was intentional, but as in "I'm an ahole" versus "I'm mentally incompetent". Sort of payback mode, if that makes sense. Being a jerk is not the same as being demented, unfortunately. It’s very difficult to tell what’s what with him. He’s always been selfish. That’s fact, and I won’t reveal how I know it is. He’s always been gossipy and the kind of person that smiles in your face and talks bad about you behind your back. For at least 5 years, he’s told Mister half truths to get Mister on his side when he would get mad at Brother, and in his own words, he doesn’t have to tell the whole story if he doesn’t want to. He’s always been messy as far as housekeeping. He’s always been horrible with money. He’s always been inappropriate. He’s always wanted someone to tell him what to do and when to do it, like he doesn’t have his own brain. On top of me being pissed about him being so rude last weekend, I’m also pissed that he apparently was wandering around the back of the house naked. Mister saw him. DD and my Grandbabies were at the other end of the house and didn’t see him, but what if they had? I don’t want to see that myself, and have had to tell Mister to tell him to close the damn bathroom door when he is pissing. Baby Sister’s husband had to keep getting on him when he was staying with them, about having some damn clothes on. His response to that was “he’s just mad because my dick is bigger than his”. REALLY?! I guess last weekend was the last straw for me with him. I’d already started distancing myself from him when he was talking about remarrying when he was in his wife’s hospital room with Brother, and her body wasn’t even cold yet. And he kept talking about that shit to Mister, while we were making arrangements for her funeral, and to his wife’s only sister the day of the funeral, saying he was going to marry his deceased wife’s best friend. And then when we were taking him, the Aunt and Kiddo home after the family had gathered at our house after the funeral, I had to interrupt him because he was trying to talk about masturbating with the Aunt, despite me and Kiddo being in the car. And he’s gotten creepy with talking about how beautiful I am every time he sees me. I DON’T WANT TO HEAR IT! So clearly, my current level of dislike for him has been brewing for a long time, for many reasons. I walked through the den earlier today, and he was telling Mister how crazy he was about the girls’ Mom. I just kept walking. This was after the ice got dumped in the kitchen floor.
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Post by wvugurl26 on Jul 8, 2023 17:34:32 GMT -5
Having a snack and a drink with DH. We have a dinner reservation but it's later.
It was one of my grandma's favorites. The last time we went she was with us. I guess there's going to be a lot of these firsts.
The house listing went live today.
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Jul 8, 2023 17:48:50 GMT -5
Having a snack and a drink with DH. We have a dinner reservation but it's later. It was one of my grandma's favorites. The last time we went she was with us. I guess there's going to be a lot of these firsts. The house listing went live today.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2023 17:52:31 GMT -5
I felt it was intentional, but as in "I'm an ahole" versus "I'm mentally incompetent". Sort of payback mode, if that makes sense. Being a jerk is not the same as being demented, unfortunately. It’s very difficult to tell what’s what with him. He’s always been selfish. That’s fact, and I won’t reveal how I know it is. He’s always been gossipy and the kind of person that smiles in your face and talks bad about you behind your back. For at least 5 years, he’s told Mister half truths to get Mister on his side when he would get mad at Brother, and in his own words, he doesn’t have to tell the whole story if he doesn’t want to. He’s always been messy as far as housekeeping. He’s always been horrible with money. He’s always been inappropriate. He’s always wanted someone to tell him what to do and when to do it, like he doesn’t have his own brain. On top of me being pissed about him being so rude last weekend, I’m also pissed that he apparently was wandering around the back of the house naked. Mister saw him. DD and my Grandbabies were at the other end of the house and didn’t see him, but what if they had? I don’t want to see that myself, and have had to tell Mister to tell him to close the damn bathroom door when he is pissing. Baby Sister’s husband had to keep getting on him when he was staying with them, about having some damn clothes on. His response to that was “he’s just mad because my dick is bigger than his”. REALLY?! I guess last weekend was the last straw for me with him. I’d already started distancing myself from him when he was talking about remarrying when he was in his wife’s hospital room with Brother, and her body wasn’t even cold yet. And he kept talking about that shit to Mister, while we were making arrangements for her funeral, and to his wife’s only sister the day of the funeral, saying he was going to marry his deceased wife’s best friend. And then when we were taking him, the Aunt and Kiddo home after the family had gathered at our house after the funeral, I had to interrupt him because he was trying to talk about masturbating with the Aunt, despite me and Kiddo being in the car. And he’s gotten creepy with talking about how beautiful I am every time he sees me. I DON’T WANT TO HEAR IT! So clearly, my current level of dislike for him has been brewing for a long time, for many reasons. I walked through the den earlier today, and he was telling Mister how crazy he was about the girls’ Mom. I just kept walking. This was after the ice got dumped in the kitchen floor. I hear you, and you know I've said before he is an exhibitionist and a sexual pervert too. There are tough choices coming soon enough for you and Mister. I know that you and Mister will protect the young people in your world in a way that you and I were not protected.
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Post by taz157 on Jul 8, 2023 17:56:07 GMT -5
We welcomed a new dog to the family today. He's seven years old, border collie and chihuahua mix, and named Bear. His person passed away about a week ago. He's trying to figure out WTF just happened. We need pictures!! 😁
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Post by cooper88 on Jul 8, 2023 18:03:09 GMT -5
taz157 Will do once he settles down enough to get a good picture.
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Post by taz157 on Jul 8, 2023 18:05:01 GMT -5
I found out earlier this week that Hand, Foot, Mouth disease was going around D2’s daycare. On Friday, DD2 was the only one in her class. Guess who has it now???
She also has a cold too so she’s has a rash on parts of her body (back of knees, over some of her knuckles on her hands, 1 of her elbow creases, and bumps on part of here-and-there on her legs), a cough and a runny nose. Overall, she could be better but much worse temperament too.
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Post by Pink Cashmere on Jul 8, 2023 18:31:48 GMT -5
It’s very difficult to tell what’s what with him. He’s always been selfish. That’s fact, and I won’t reveal how I know it is. He’s always been gossipy and the kind of person that smiles in your face and talks bad about you behind your back. For at least 5 years, he’s told Mister half truths to get Mister on his side when he would get mad at Brother, and in his own words, he doesn’t have to tell the whole story if he doesn’t want to. He’s always been messy as far as housekeeping. He’s always been horrible with money. He’s always been inappropriate. He’s always wanted someone to tell him what to do and when to do it, like he doesn’t have his own brain. On top of me being pissed about him being so rude last weekend, I’m also pissed that he apparently was wandering around the back of the house naked. Mister saw him. DD and my Grandbabies were at the other end of the house and didn’t see him, but what if they had? I don’t want to see that myself, and have had to tell Mister to tell him to close the damn bathroom door when he is pissing. Baby Sister’s husband had to keep getting on him when he was staying with them, about having some damn clothes on. His response to that was “he’s just mad because my dick is bigger than his”. REALLY?! I guess last weekend was the last straw for me with him. I’d already started distancing myself from him when he was talking about remarrying when he was in his wife’s hospital room with Brother, and her body wasn’t even cold yet. And he kept talking about that shit to Mister, while we were making arrangements for her funeral, and to his wife’s only sister the day of the funeral, saying he was going to marry his deceased wife’s best friend. And then when we were taking him, the Aunt and Kiddo home after the family had gathered at our house after the funeral, I had to interrupt him because he was trying to talk about masturbating with the Aunt, despite me and Kiddo being in the car. And he’s gotten creepy with talking about how beautiful I am every time he sees me. I DON’T WANT TO HEAR IT! So clearly, my current level of dislike for him has been brewing for a long time, for many reasons. I walked through the den earlier today, and he was telling Mister how crazy he was about the girls’ Mom. I just kept walking. This was after the ice got dumped in the kitchen floor. I hear you, and you know I've said before he is an exhibitionist and a sexual pervert too. There are tough choices coming soon enough for you and Mister. I know that you and Mister will protect the young people in your world in a way that you and I were not protected. Well, when it comes to children, some things aren’t up for polite discussion, or discussion at all, and definitely not an option. Imma just leave it at that. If I see him nekkid, it’s going to be a major problem and Mister is going to have to figure some shit out, because he’s already been warned several times about that, here AND at his baby sister’s house. Idc what he does at home, and Idc about dementia when it comes to certain things.
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azucena
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Post by azucena on Jul 8, 2023 18:37:17 GMT -5
Everything so 'spensive! Spent $100 on road trip and hotel snacks and drinks and know that I didn't get nearly enough. How is everything $7+ at walmart?
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weltschmerz
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Post by weltschmerz on Jul 8, 2023 18:47:30 GMT -5
Yep, that was Goldblum. You can learn a lot from movies if you are paying attention. Another one from the same movie was don't use an outhouse when trying to run away from a T-rex Not sure how this ties in with this canine cross but it is good to remember anyway. I learned a lot from Jurassic Park, even more from The Big Chill. ....or The Matrix Agent Smith : I'd like to share a revelation that I've had during my time here. It came to me when I tried to classify your species and I realized that you're not actually mammals. Every mammal on this planet instinctively develops a natural equilibrium with the surrounding environment but you humans do not. You move to an area and you multiply and multiply until every natural resource is consumed and the only way you can survive is to spread to another area. There is another organism on this planet that follows the same pattern. Do you know what it is? A virus. Human beings are a disease, a cancer of this planet. You're a plague and we are the cure.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2023 19:15:03 GMT -5
Having a snack and a drink with DH. We have a dinner reservation but it's later. It was one of my grandma's favorites. The last time we went she was with us. I guess there's going to be a lot of these firsts. The house listing went live today.
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