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Yeah, I would guess the bank's preferred response to that request (if they were allowed to be open about it) would be somewhere between, "Are you f***ing kidding?" and, "Not a chance in hell!" Both would be followed by uproarious laughter in her face and and much ridicule after she left.
By the way, none of you would have been alone with your reaction even a couple days ago.
And I would guess their actual response would be something along the lines of, "We would be happy to help you with refinancing paperwork to see if you qualify."
I had refi with my current lender without them asking me documents or anything. So I am seriously considering talking to them about it without a second thought of them being difficult. And I am with Chase and not anybody illigal or shady. Apparently they like me...lol
It sounds like there is way more to the story than you originally shared. That’s OK, but you situation when from simple to incredibly complex in just a couple of days. The quality of advice given can only be based on what you tell us (a bunch of random strangers on the internet).
Hopefully we have at least given you a few things to think about, but I have a feeling there are very rough roads ahead for you. All you can do is be as proactive as possible and try to stay on top of your situation the best you can.
Darling! Life isn’t as complicated as people making it to be. The only bad thing is when someone having sudden death in a family. Besides that - I don’t see a huge deal in living life! The only problem in person’s life is a person. But does it have to be? No!
And I would guess their actual response would be something along the lines of, "We would be happy to help you with refinancing paperwork to see if you qualify."
I had refi with my current lender without them asking me documents or anything. So I am seriously considering talking to them about it without a second thought of them being difficult. And I am with Chase and not anybody illigal or shady. Apparently they like me...lol
A lender working to ensure repayment of a loan is not illegal, shady, nor them being difficult. It is them being responsible to those who have deposited money with them.
I had refi with my current lender without them asking me documents or anything. So I am seriously considering talking to them about it without a second thought of them being difficult. And I am with Chase and not anybody illigal or shady. Apparently they like me...lol
A lender working to ensure repayment of a loan is not illegal, shady, nor them being difficult. It is them being responsible to those who have deposited money with them.
As I said my refi was done without ANY prove of income. I am sure most wouldn’t believe me. But it doesn’t matter. It’s been done around 2010...
A lender working to ensure repayment of a loan is not illegal, shady, nor them being difficult. It is them being responsible to those who have deposited money with them.
As I said my refi was done without ANY prove of income. I am sure most wouldn’t believe me. But it doesn’t matter. It’s been done around 2010...
Did your prior refi involve a change in the individuals involved?
A lender working to ensure repayment of a loan is not illegal, shady, nor them being difficult. It is them being responsible to those who have deposited money with them.
As I said my refi was done without ANY prove of income. I am sure most wouldn’t believe me. But it doesn’t matter. It’s been done around 2010...
I did one of those with Chase too, at the same time, and spent over a month arguing with them about doing EXACTLY what you are trying to do. I was at first told by someone that I could probably have it in only my name and remove the ex. Ultimately they would not allow ANY such change on that type of streamlined refinance. YOUR ENTIRE PRIOR EXPERIENCE IS IRRELEVANT.
As I said my refi was done without ANY prove of income. I am sure most wouldn’t believe me. But it doesn’t matter. It’s been done around 2010...
Did your prior refi involve a change in the individuals involved?
No. Refi was done for both me an ex but we could both be in a worse shape than I am alone now. Just saying that I was kind of shocked myself they did whaaat? Just like that...🤷♀️
As I said my refi was done without ANY prove of income. I am sure most wouldn’t believe me. But it doesn’t matter. It’s been done around 2010...
I did one of those with Chase too, at the same time, and spent over a month arguing with them about doing EXACTLY what you are trying to do. I was at first told by someone that I could probably have it in only my name and remove the ex. Ultimately they would not allow ANY such change on that type of streamlined refinance. YOUR ENTIRE PRIOR EXPERIENCE IS IRRELEVANT.
Noted. Will see. Honestly I don’t think they will be happy and said ‘sure go ahead’ plus lawyer said letter would help. Lawyer also said we can do it without asking BUT at some point they might pull out 2 deeds and be like...WTF? I might going to end up just forget the whole thing fir now. If NESARA/GESARA happens - it might be not even needed.
I did one of those with Chase too, at the same time, and spent over a month arguing with them about doing EXACTLY what you are trying to do. I was at first told by someone that I could probably have it in only my name and remove the ex. Ultimately they would not allow ANY such change on that type of streamlined refinance. YOUR ENTIRE PRIOR EXPERIENCE IS IRRELEVANT.
Noted. Will see. Honestly I don’t think they will be happy and said ‘sure go ahead’ plus lawyer said letter would help. Lawyer also said we can do it without asking BUT at some point they might pull out 2 deeds and be like...WTF? I might going to end up just forget the whole thing fir now. If NESARA/GESARA happens - it might be not even needed.
Spoke with my cousin who is trying to pass bars to become a lawyer and who had been with her firm forever now - and she showed me this moment I had missed which says: Husband agrees to transfer title of the property to a wife.
So she told me that all I need is a Quick Claim Deed and I can be worry free!
Spoke with my cousin who is trying to pass bars to become a lawyer and who had been with her firm forever now - and she showed me this moment I had missed which says: Husband agrees to transfer title of the property to a wife.
So she told me that all I need is a Quick Claim Deed and I can be worry free!
Spoke with my cousin who is trying to pass bars to become a lawyer and who had been with her firm forever now - and she showed me this moment I had missed which says: Husband agrees to transfer title of the property to a wife.
So she told me that all I need is a Quick Claim Deed and I can be worry free!
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Spoke with my cousin who is trying to pass bars to become a lawyer and who had been with her firm forever now - and she showed me this moment I had missed which says: Husband agrees to transfer title of the property to a wife.
So she told me that all I need is a Quick Claim Deed and I can be worry free!
Did she suggest how quickly you should get one?
No, just quickly.
Also, and I am trying not to quote the OP here, we really are completely back to square one, aren't we?
Spoke with my cousin who is trying to pass bars to become a lawyer and who had been with her firm forever now - and she showed me this moment I had missed which says: Husband agrees to transfer title of the property to a wife.
So she told me that all I need is a Quick Claim Deed and I can be worry free!
Spoke with my cousin who is trying to pass bars to become a lawyer and who had been with her firm forever now - and she showed me this moment I had missed which says: Husband agrees to transfer title of the property to a wife.
So she told me that all I need is a Quick Claim Deed and I can be worry free!
Did she suggest how quickly you should get one?
She said it’s better to do BEFORE ex will move back in. 😂
Spoke with my cousin who is trying to pass bars to become a lawyer and who had been with her firm forever now - and she showed me this moment I had missed which says: Husband agrees to transfer title of the property to a wife.
So she told me that all I need is a Quick Claim Deed and I can be worry free!
This won't happen to be Your Cousin Minny?
If it’ll make you happy - yes. Though her name isn’t Minny but whatever floats your boat hon...
Just spoke with someone who said HE (ex) has to sign for you to sleep peacefully...and I know deep inside it’s what’s right... Except... Even Divorce Property Agreement says husband transfers title to the house to the wife HE NEEDS TO SIGN! Right?
I’ve told by a lawyer that they can ENFORCE him to sign... and it’ll cost both of us IF he will resist.
So! My question...how can he resist? Can he resist? How can lawyers MAKE him to sign?
Yeah...his drive-by-lawyer over the phone bozo said to him he is forever entitled to the half of the property...and he lives by it! He told me first - this lawyer said he prepared documents that makes his new wife having nothing to do with his possessions before this marriage. NOW ex says it was only about his SS benefits end crap...
Tomorrow I am meeting a lawyer but you guys always have something to say. Thanks
Why don't you reread the other dozen times when people have already answered this?
Because I am feeling like people like to repeat themselves...and I am giving people the opportunity. Doesn’t seem like anybody has anything better to do anyway🤷♀️
Why don't you reread the other dozen times when people have already answered this?
Because I am feeling like people like to repeat themselves...and I am giving people the opportunity. Doesn’t seem like anybody has anything better to do anyway🤷♀️
P.S. Btw if you can please find me a post that says ANYTHING on HOW TO make him sign because he refusing.
P.P.S. I had JUST found out that saying that my cousin pointed it to me so this post was NOT the same but I appreciate your time ‘letting me have it’. I know you had many other things to do BUT you gave it to me and I am feeling special. 😘