Anne_in_VA
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Post by Anne_in_VA on Oct 22, 2017 16:21:16 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that Carl. I hope everything gets better for you two.
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mmhmm
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Post by mmhmm on Oct 22, 2017 17:34:43 GMT -5
Sorry MJ, did not mean to take attention away from your OP. And everyone thank you for your concerns; we are just trying to figure things out and what would be in the best interest of everyone moving forward. One day at a time. I'll be thinking of you, Carl. It's difficult but it's not impossible. Taking it a day at a time is the best you can do.
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Post by Opti on Oct 22, 2017 17:57:16 GMT -5
Carl I hope you post some more about your situation in a separate thread or even an ongoing one. A couple of the most stressful periods in a marriage are the first year and the first year with the first child. I know you think a lot on things, but since you worked out before maybe wait a little longer?
Good luck whatever you decide.
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MJ2.0
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Post by MJ2.0 on Oct 23, 2017 10:29:06 GMT -5
We are in the process, it is not perfect but it is amicable and civilized. The Haitian - they say not to consider divorce until the baby is a year old. I can't like/emphasize this enough (although I didn't follow this advice because things were shitty well before that). You're still adjusting to the massive monkey wrench in your life. But "they" don't know everything. You know what's best for you and how to best move forward whatever you decide.
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geenamercile
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Post by geenamercile on Oct 23, 2017 16:01:23 GMT -5
Maybe it is the season because DH and I have talked about getting a divorce or not to lately.
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MJ2.0
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Post by MJ2.0 on Oct 23, 2017 18:29:31 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that Geena. Hoping for the best for everyone.
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taz157
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Post by taz157 on Oct 23, 2017 18:41:53 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that Geena. Hoping for the best for everyone. Yeah that. 🤗
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Post by thyme4change on Oct 23, 2017 22:04:36 GMT -5
Ooff - I better get off this thread. Divorce is contagious.
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Wisconsin Beth
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on Oct 24, 2017 5:38:16 GMT -5
Hugs for everyone that needs them.
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Post by resolution on Oct 24, 2017 7:39:42 GMT -5
Hugs for everyone that needs them. I hope things improve.
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