Players on feelings

[moon/Laura]

I think, looney, that you need to just drop it. people have explained to the best of their ability what it means and you are now hounding people to tell you EXACTLY what they do. Enough. 

[NoNamePerson]

Aug 10, 2016 21:41:18 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Aug 10, 2016 13:29:30 GMT -5 NoNamePerson said:

And I just lust a lot!!

Whats your 'game'? Do you 'play' women? How?

I have no clue what you are asking  I was replying (quote) to a poster who said they "crush" a lot. I just changed that to "lust" a lot - you know "playing the field instead of falling in LOVE and boo hooing cause someone doesn't call me back after two dates. 

[Deleted]

In my experience there are two kinds of players:

The Boomhower (taken from King of the Hill): this is the guy that asks out every girl in the bar/club until one will go home with him. This one strangely lacks in confidence and makes up for it by badly asking out every girl that crosses his path. They take "keep talking, eventually someone is going to like what you say" to a new level. I have had two friends that fit this category, and they are both happily married now.

The Con Artist: this one studies the crowd until they find the perfect target and they are some of the most intelligent, quick thinking people you will meet. They find common interests and play on them until they get a number or the girl to go home with them. I have also had two friends that fit this profile, they are still single and I'm guessing will settle down in their 40's.

[Deleted]

Aug 10, 2016 12:02:32 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

Aug 10, 2016 11:32:05 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

I'm not a player, I just crush a lot.

So now I have been walking around the house singing that song and the girls are over it.

Love this song, one of those you just have to sing along to when it comes on the radio! It just takes me back to the late 90's.

[MJ2.0]

Aug 11, 2016 9:21:27 GMT -5 @aj said:

Aug 10, 2016 12:02:32 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

So now I have been walking around the house singing that song and the girls are over it.

Love this song, one of those you just have to sing along to when it comes on the radio! It just takes me back to the late 90's.

Boricua! Morena!

[andi9899]

Aug 10, 2016 21:37:48 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Aug 10, 2016 11:32:05 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

I'm not a player, I just crush a lot.

What do you do to us women so we can say 'he played me' at the end?

I'm not a he and I don't like girls.

[tloonya]

Aug 11, 2016 5:17:30 GMT -5 moon/Laura said:

I think, looney, that you need to just drop it. people have explained to the best of their ability what it means and you are now hounding people to tell you EXACTLY what they do. Enough. 

Let me tell you something about ENOUGH!

I am a member of 3 forums where there aren't any monitoring and people there doing just fine.

Members are dealing with trolling by blocking trolls or not responding to something they don't want

to respond to. I am so shocked that someone has a guts to come and tell me ENOUGH!.

Whats next? I will get a pm with numbers of post I am allowed to post 'allowed' by mods?

I am really feeling like I am back to Soviet Union.

It is unheard of!!! I haven't gotten my answer and people still coming and we are searching...

It is not enough, not for me. And no, I do not wait for apologies.

BTW we had lost a lot of good people lately due to 'regime'. So maybe enough of control?

I believe no member was hurt during this conversation.

[tloonya]

Aug 11, 2016 9:12:17 GMT -5 @aj said:

In my experience there are two kinds of players:

The Boomhower (taken from King of the Hill): this is the guy that asks out every girl in the bar/club until one will go home with him. This one strangely lacks in confidence and makes up for it by badly asking out every girl that crosses his path. They take "keep talking, eventually someone is going to like what you say" to a new level. I have had two friends that fit this category, and they are both happily married now.

The Con Artist: this one studies the crowd until they find the perfect target and they are some of the most intelligent, quick thinking people you will meet. They find common interests and play on them until they get a number or the girl to go home with them. I have also had two friends that fit this profile, they are still single and I'm guessing will settle down in their 40's.

I would call first just a dog who is wanting to get laid. If woman is agreeing - its not a game. Its fun (hopefully).

The Con Artist is to me someone that gets to a woman to get sex and money from them and maybe even more.

Con Artist to me is a job. And they 'working' 24/7...when 'playing' is just some sort of relationships when there is

no feelings but time killing together and when 'better' someone comes along - first got passed for next.

And first feeling they had been played. Which I disagree with. Idk

[moon/Laura]

Glad you're not waiting for an apology, because you'll not be getting one.

You hound people over and over and it's just ridiculous. Specifically, I mean insisting that a brand new member PM you with exactly what they do to "play someone". It's way out of line as far as I'm concerned. So yes, it is absolutely enough.

[moon/Laura]

Oh, another thing about those other forums you mentioned...If they really have few or no rules, then they probably aren't abiding by the PB terms of service. Eventually it will bite them in the ass. Personally, I don't want our forum shut down, and that's why I *do* have rules. 

Seems to me that you just want to argue all the time, call names, and generally think you're above it all. In other words, you thrive on the very chaos those other forums provide. So why are you here if you think it's so horrible? 

[tloonya]

Aug 11, 2016 14:54:16 GMT -5 moon/Laura said:

Oh, another thing about those other forums you mentioned...If they really have few or no rules, then they probably aren't abiding by the PB terms of service. Eventually it will bite them in the ass. Personally, I don't want our forum shut down, and that's why I *do* have rules. 

Seems to me that you just want to argue all the time, call names, and generally think you're above it all. In other words, you thrive on the very chaos those other forums provide. So why are you here if you think it's so horrible? 

I have never thought it's horrible in here.
I just saying it is ridiculous to reprimand
the way you did it.
And no those aren't pro boards forums and
They had been around some even longer
than this one.
If I had asked someone to pm me - it wasn't an
order. It was a free will action. You shouldn't
have protect people like that.
Btw I do not keep tabs on people about how
new or old they are!
It's apparently your job.

[tloonya]

I think I've got my answer!!!!!!!! Not that I was dying for it but!

 A few weeks ago I professed my feelings to him, and you know what that marker said? He said we should end our arrangement because he was "getting serious with another girl". So many questions ran through my mind: Why is he treetrunking me if he's been involved with another girl? If he dun't like me back why has he been treetrunking me? What does she have that I don't have?
For treetrunks sake men pay to be in my presence. I have been proposed to by four different men. I have been offered positions as a live-in girlfriend. Although I just retired from exotic dancing for the summer, I still work as a paid companion. I am funny, I can be smart, I have a big heart, and I am beautiful & sexy I've been told. So how is the other girl better than me? What does she have that I don't?
I JUST DON'T GET IT.

Oh and get this: a few days ago he texted me asking to hookup this weekend, as if he never left me for another lady. #DoucheBagOfTheYear #WhyIsThisHappeningToMe #FML #ForeverAlone

This is killing me. Why do bad things happen to good people?

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Go it? Agree?

[MJ2.0]

Lol.... "For treetrunks sake"!

[tloonya]

Aug 12, 2016 16:07:15 GMT -5 MJ2.0 said:

Lol.... "For treetrunks sake"!

How about 'marker'? I still don't know what it means...

'Butter' is 'shit' that I know...cookiemonster is a bitch.

They have their own 'corrector' that does it and it is sometimes TOO funny.

There is one 67 y/old lady who cursing like a sailor. Her posts are all like

'stop this butter you treeetrunken cookiemonsters'...I am wetting myself

reading her posts. It is like she is from 'Lord of the ring' cookiemonster...

[ZaireinHD]

Aug 11, 2016 12:35:42 GMT -5 tloonya said:

The Con Artist is to me someone that gets to a woman to get sex and money from them and maybe even more.

Con Artist to me is a job. And they 'working' 24/7...when 'playing' is just some sort of relationships when there is

no feelings but time killing together and when 'better' someone comes along - first got passed for next.

And first feeling they had been played. Which I disagree with. Idk

ahhh! now I get it! I think?

I think I see what the problem is or what the disconnection is?

tloonya is taking the word played seriously by definition. while others have been explaining their point of view of being played as the slang term definition.

Slang - a type of language that consists of words and phrases that are regarded as very informal, are more common in speech than writing, and are typically restricted to a particular context or group of people.

oh that's funny! when in the hood!

[ZaireinHD]

Aug 11, 2016 14:54:16 GMT -5 moon/Laura said:

Oh, another thing about those other forums you mentioned...If they really have few or no rules, then they probably aren't abiding by the PB terms of service. Eventually it will bite them in the ass. Personally, I don't want our forum shut down, and that's why I *do* have rules. 

Seems to me that you just want to argue all the time, call names, and generally think you're above it all. In other words, you thrive on the very chaos those other forums provide. So why are you here if you think it's so horrible? 

I think tloonya is not causing trouble and pretty much just wants to keep her threads going.

however it does get my goat when members compare our environment to other forums. by throwing shade to our community.

and even worse when this comparison comes from us first timers (been here since the beginning 2010)

us first timers should remember we were just like that of those other forums - breaking the pro-board rules, arguing, cussing, insults, and all kinds of other shit. remember we had the off section of sex chat! then got some complains and that section was sign in only, so those that were there had to seriously intended to be there. AND STILL that wasn't enough to stop the complaints! and the whistleblowers!

besides those other forums with members running around start'n shit causing headaches on the mods. tloonya on your side of the fence it may look like there isn't a problem because from your point of view you don't see those mods are in hell! same as the mods here back in the day. ain't nobody get'n paid for this!

it would be nice! that when someone here makes a comparison (not a complaint - I see it as a comparison) about another board(s) conducting business like a Mad Max lawless movie. that other forum needs a whistle blower to the Pro-Board police. and watch how fast that other board changes it's tune!

[NoNamePerson]

Aug 19, 2016 1:06:12 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Aug 11, 2016 12:35:42 GMT -5 tloonya said:

The Con Artist is to me someone that gets to a woman to get sex and money from them and maybe even more.

Con Artist to me is a job. And they 'working' 24/7...when 'playing' is just some sort of relationships when there is

no feelings but time killing together and when 'better' someone comes along - first got passed for next.

And first feeling they had been played. Which I disagree with. Idk

ahhh! now I get it! I think?

I think I see what the problem is or what the disconnection is?

tloonya is taking the word played seriously by definition. while others have been explaining their point of view of being played as the slang term definition.

Slang - a type of language that consists of words and phrases that are regarded as very informal, are more common in speech than writing, and are typically restricted to a particular context or group of people.

oh that's funny! when in the hood!

I truly want to commend you for trying to explain loonies post to us. You are a brave soul!!!   In the future could you possibly jump in as the first poster and explain things up front.   Just yanking you chain Z!!

[tloonya]

Aug 19, 2016 1:06:12 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Aug 11, 2016 12:35:42 GMT -5 tloonya said:

The Con Artist is to me someone that gets to a woman to get sex and money from them and maybe even more.

Con Artist to me is a job. And they 'working' 24/7...when 'playing' is just some sort of relationships when there is

no feelings but time killing together and when 'better' someone comes along - first got passed for next.

And first feeling they had been played. Which I disagree with. Idk

ahhh! now I get it! I think?

I think I see what the problem is or what the disconnection is?

tloonya is taking the word played seriously by definition. while others have been explaining their point of view of being played as the slang term definition.

Slang - a type of language that consists of words and phrases that are regarded as very informal, are more common in speech than writing, and are typically restricted to a particular context or group of people.

oh that's funny! when in the hood!

Are you married?

[tloonya]

Aug 19, 2016 7:33:06 GMT -5 NoNamePerson said:

Aug 19, 2016 1:06:12 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

ahhh! now I get it! I think?

I think I see what the problem is or what the disconnection is?

tloonya is taking the word played seriously by definition. while others have been explaining their point of view of being played as the slang term definition.

Slang - a type of language that consists of words and phrases that are regarded as very informal, are more common in speech than writing, and are typically restricted to a particular context or group of people.

oh that's funny! when in the hood!

I truly want to commend you for trying to explain loonies post to us. You are a brave soul!!!   In the future could you possibly jump in as the first poster and explain things up front.   Just yanking you chain Z!!

It is calling for nicely put 'smartass'...but it was funny actually.

Too bad Z isn't here enough...

[tloonya]

I had actually got some explanation of the player. An example was the guy died and his second family no one knew about came to the funeral and his daughter find out about it by looking at the boy her age who looked exactly like her father.

So she went and asked and actually it was a happy end because they all welcome the guy into the family.

Too bad old player never lived to see it.

THAT was a game long as life.

[tloonya]

Aug 19, 2016 1:35:01 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

Aug 11, 2016 14:54:16 GMT -5 moon/Laura said:

Oh, another thing about those other forums you mentioned...If they really have few or no rules, then they probably aren't abiding by the PB terms of service. Eventually it will bite them in the ass. Personally, I don't want our forum shut down, and that's why I *do* have rules. 

Seems to me that you just want to argue all the time, call names, and generally think you're above it all. In other words, you thrive on the very chaos those other forums provide. So why are you here if you think it's so horrible? 

I think tloonya is not causing trouble and pretty much just wants to keep her threads going.

however it does get my goat when members compare our environment to other forums. by throwing shade to our community.

and even worse when this comparison comes from us first timers (been here since the beginning 2010)

us first timers should remember we were just like that of those other forums - breaking the pro-board rules, arguing, cussing, insults, and all kinds of other shit. remember we had the off section of sex chat! then got some complains and that section was sign in only, so those that were there had to seriously intended to be there. AND STILL that wasn't enough to stop the complaints! and the whistleblowers!

besides those other forums with members running around start'n shit causing headaches on the mods. tloonya on your side of the fence it may look like there isn't a problem because from your point of view you don't see those mods are in hell! same as the mods here back in the day. ain't nobody get'n paid for this!

it would be nice! that when someone here makes a comparison (not a complaint - I see it as a comparison) about another board(s) conducting business like a Mad Max lawless movie. that other forum needs a whistle blower to the Pro-Board police. and watch how fast that other board changes it's tune!

Tell her Z that those forums aren't mess at all. I think because when people are watching after themselves they are more responsible not to get into stupid insulting arguments and they just blocking offenders. Those leave because no one cares about their comments.

I had blocked one pest and then accidentally logged out so I saw that she was continue to follow my every post and making nasty comments about it. Didn't bother me at all. I haven't seen it, and I still don't see it.

However Laura automatically for no reason without any knowledge assumed that I am 'thriving in the chaos those forums provide'!

Total bull! There is NO chaos. But she wouldn't believe it. Mods here are Gods. It is ever rhymes!