zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Jul 5, 2015 18:19:23 GMT -5
I'll be fun on a singles website. I refuse to date ever again a man who cannot dance. I was the envy of all my girlfriends that last four guys I dated because they danced while their jackass husbands just stood around looking dumb while their wives danced with each other.
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honeysalt
Junior Member
Joined: Jun 3, 2015 21:59:46 GMT -5
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Post by honeysalt on Jul 5, 2015 20:04:27 GMT -5
Dating taught me that a lot of my rules didn't matter, at least not in the way I thought they did. For example, I am a homebody and need a lot of alone time. I thought I needed someone like me, but found out that really social partners who like to do their own thing with their friends work just as well for me as fellow homebodies. In the end, my checklist boiled down to someone I didn't want to change in any major way and someone who would allow me to be myself and life the lifestyle I want to live. My marriage isn't perfect, but I accept my DH as he is most of the time, and we give each other the support and space to live the way we want to live.
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