Ejection...eviction...whatever

[justme]

They may take our melons (that we've thrown at them), but they'll never take our house!!

[tloonya]

Jun 12, 2014 13:50:31 GMT -5 bean29 said:

My eviction (small claims action) was not filed in Milwaukee County, but just for curiosity sake I went to Milwaukee County Clerk of Circuit Court.

So you can get info on small claims, it asks if you wish to file a small claims action or if someone filed a small claims action...then gives you info.

Looney.  Your Mother Needs to be Represented by a Lawyer.

I advise you to find out if there is a county web site where you can get info and see what you can find out.

Seems like your Mom's BF lost his case already.

WHY is my Mom needs to be represented at all by anywho?
I can take her and leave with her...
She is a third wheel. They got in fight and she flew and love is over, right?
WHY lawyer?

For BF - I have NO idea...he said nothing will take him out of that house.
What am I supposed to do? Or Mom?

[tloonya]

Jun 12, 2014 13:53:21 GMT -5 mcsangel2 said:

Looney, you are making things worse for them by not taking this seriously.

Read post #46 again.

They need to hire a lawyer and a REAL interpreter. Ten days is going to go by pretty fast.

She gave them 20 days. They went to a lawyer, too much money...blah blah...
Now it is 10 days...
Maybe there going to be 5 days?

[Rocky Mtn Saver]

Jun 12, 2014 14:08:21 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Jun 12, 2014 13:50:31 GMT -5 bean29 said:

My eviction (small claims action) was not filed in Milwaukee County, but just for curiosity sake I went to Milwaukee County Clerk of Circuit Court.

So you can get info on small claims, it asks if you wish to file a small claims action or if someone filed a small claims action...then gives you info.

Looney.  Your Mother Needs to be Represented by a Lawyer.

I advise you to find out if there is a county web site where you can get info and see what you can find out.

Seems like your Mom's BF lost his case already.

WHY is my Mom needs to be represented at all by anywho?
I can take her and leave with her...
She is a third wheel. They got in fight and she flew and love is over, right?
WHY lawyer?

For BF - I have NO idea...he said nothing will take him out of that house.
What am I supposed to do? Or Mom?

Stay out of the way when the poo-poo hits the fan, I suppose.

[justme]

If they don't do anything, they might as well start packing. The clock is already ticking on the default judgment. 

[Deleted]

Jun 12, 2014 14:08:21 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Jun 12, 2014 13:50:31 GMT -5 bean29 said:

My eviction (small claims action) was not filed in Milwaukee County, but just for curiosity sake I went to Milwaukee County Clerk of Circuit Court.

So you can get info on small claims, it asks if you wish to file a small claims action or if someone filed a small claims action...then gives you info.

Looney.  Your Mother Needs to be Represented by a Lawyer.

I advise you to find out if there is a county web site where you can get info and see what you can find out.

Seems like your Mom's BF lost his case already.

WHY is my Mom needs to be represented at all by anywho?
I can take her and leave with her...
She is a third wheel. They got in fight and she flew and love is over, right?
WHY lawyer?

For BF - I have NO idea...he said nothing will take him out of that house.
What am I supposed to do? Or Mom?

You said she won't go??  If she wants to stay she's going to have to fight legally.  Putting freaking bars on the windows isn't going to do anything.  They're just wasting money there.  It's not like the police are going to have a hard time getting an elderly couple out.  If they want to go all David Koresh, then that's their prerogative, but it's pretty damn stupid if you ask me. 

[Rocky Mtn Saver]

Jun 12, 2014 13:13:57 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Jun 12, 2014 13:03:40 GMT -5 Rocky Mtn Saver said:

He had decades to fix the divorce situation, as I recall. 

Why are you saying decades?

They lived for years because getting citizenship is not a quick process. I say about 8 years...at least.

After she left him he found my Mom. What decades

You said he came here at 40, then got married.  She left after 15 years, so he was around 60?  Now he's in his low-80's.  Even a decade or two is still a darn long time to resolve his anger enough to fill out a few divorce papers. 

[tloonya]

Jun 12, 2014 14:18:59 GMT -5 Rocky Mtn Saver said:

Jun 12, 2014 13:13:57 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Why are you saying decades?

They lived for years because getting citizenship is not a quick process. I say about 8 years...at least.

After she left him he found my Mom. What decades

You said he came here at 40, then got married.  She left after 15 years, so he was around 60?  Now he's in his low-80's.  Even a decade or two is still a darn long time to resolve his anger enough to fill out a few divorce papers. 

He was married to Ds mom, then he married floozy...he had no time to think. He was making money...

[Rocky Mtn Saver]

He had time to think about how to game the system to avoid giving his wife any money.  Perhaps some of that time might have been better spent in figuring out how to get a divorce in the least damaging manner. 

Now he has plenty of time to think.  He's still making lousy choices, though.  Your mom notwithstanding, of course.  She seems like a nice lady to deal with all of this for someone who never cared to protect her future. 

[greeniis10]

What is the daughter's GOAL with the eviction?  Does she really hate her dad and want him out on the street?  What is the reason behind evicting him?  I guess that's what I'm missing here...

[Rocky Mtn Saver]

I wondered that as well.  I don't think we're likely to really find out since all we have is Looney's uhm... limited... perspective. 

[greeniis10]

Well, from what I think I've gathered from this thread: daughter is from his first wife, whom he then left (and divorced) for the 2nd wife that married him only for legal papers and then left him.  So, the daughter may be harboring long-term hurt and resentment against her dad for leaving her mom all those years ago and is trying to get back at him, maybe?  IDK. 

[tloonya]

Jun 12, 2014 14:46:14 GMT -5 greeniis10 said:

What is the daughter's GOAL with the eviction?  Does she really hate her dad and want him out on the street?  What is the reason behind evicting him?  I guess that's what I'm missing here...

That is the hardest of all to figure out!
She has 20 cats. She might had lost her job and she needs money NOW! And she was fine when she didn't need it so much.

[mollyanna58]

Jun 12, 2014 14:09:50 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Jun 12, 2014 13:53:21 GMT -5 mcsangel2 said:

She gave them 20 days. They went to a lawyer, too much money...blah blah...

Doing nothing is not an option.  If he doesn't want to pay a lawyer, he will be removed from the house.  He may be removed even if he does pay a lawyer.

If your mother won't leave him, help her pack up all her non-essentials now and put the boxes neatly in a corner of the house somewhere.  Then that stuff will be done, and you'll only have to pack up her clothing etc when they do get kicked out. 

[Bonny]

1. I told you in your last thread to expect retaliation from the daughter when he revoked the POA.

2. You mother needs legal representation ASAP. The daughter has commenced eviction actions against your mother as well as the BF. This legal action if completed will show up on a credit report and WILL affect your mother's ability to rent from another landlord. THIS IS IMPORTANT!!! Stop messing around!

Why is the daughter doing this? My guess is that she's been partially subsidizing the costs of either father's living situation or the house. Maybe not. Maybe she's just really angry with the interference. But it really doesn't matter. She's entitled to do it based on her ownership. Now whether "Floozy" wife can sue her for engaging in fraud and defrauding her of her share of ownership is another matter.

Again, What a tangled web we weave when we attempt to deceive.

[Rocky Mtn Saver]

Jun 12, 2014 15:01:10 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Jun 12, 2014 14:46:14 GMT -5 greeniis10 said:

What is the daughter's GOAL with the eviction?  Does she really hate her dad and want him out on the street?  What is the reason behind evicting him?  I guess that's what I'm missing here...

That is the hardest of all to figure out!
She has 20 cats. She might had lost her job and she needs money NOW! And she was fine when she didn't need it so much.

You keep saying, 'she might have lost her job'.  Is there any concrete reason to believe this, or are you just speculating with as much insight as we have out here in internet land? 

[greeniis10]

Huh, well, it sounds like there is no verbal communication between the father and the daugther.  Did she stop communicating with him when it was pointed out to her that money was missing from the bank account?  Or did that happen sometime else?

And, yes, I wonder too if she did lose her job or what...

[NomoreDramaQ1015]

I'm confused on Loony's hysterics about the POA. The father was very ill, if something happened and he was incapable of making decisions who was supposed to be assigned to do that?

I wouldn't assign my parent's elderly SO to be the POA because I could run into the issue of them also ending up being unable to make decisions. I sure as hell would not assign a perfect stranger like Loony to be the POA.

And since boyfriend is still married technically speaking his "ex" has the right to make decisions for him if they can find her. Getting a POA naming the daughter makes the most sense.

[Bonny]

Jun 12, 2014 15:24:55 GMT -5 NomoreDramaQ1015 said:

I'm confused on Loony's hysterics about the POA. The father was very ill, if something happened and he was incapable of making decisions who was supposed to be assigned to do that?

I wouldn't assign my parent's elderly SO to be the POA because I could run into the issue of them also ending up being unable to make decisions. I sure as hell would not assign a perfect stranger like Loony to be the POA.

And since boyfriend is still married technically speaking his "ex" has the right to make decisions for him if they can find her. Getting a POA naming the daughter makes the most sense.

IIRC, the POA allowed the daughter to have access to Dad's bank accounts. In lieu of rent he was still paying house expenses such as taxes, insurance et cetera from a union (?) pension. Daughter would give him an allowance.

Revoking the POA could have cut off access to funds to maintain the house.

[Deleted]

Jun 12, 2014 14:34:50 GMT -5 tloonya said:

Jun 12, 2014 14:18:59 GMT -5 Rocky Mtn Saver said:

You said he came here at 40, then got married.  She left after 15 years, so he was around 60?  Now he's in his low-80's.  Even a decade or two is still a darn long time to resolve his anger enough to fill out a few divorce papers. 

He was married to Ds mom, then he married floozy...he had no time to think. He was making money...

It's not that hard to get divorced.

[steff]

In Georgia, once you've been served & the eviction date is set, a deputy and the owner show up & they put your shit on the side of the road.  Then the whole neighborhood goes thru your shit.  We've even seen them do it to businesses. 

[zibazinski]

Well, it seems you have two choices. You can take them both in and be responsible for both of them. Or you can take your mom in and let her boyfriend reap what he has sowed. He seems to have a history of screwing women for his own benefit and it looks like one "got even."

[seriousthistime]

Loony, you wrote:

Me and mom went to see an apartment. BF said over his dead body! He said he will burn house down.
Mom said it will be good for daughter because insurance will pay her money. He said there is no law to evict him because he said 'after my death'.

And:

I think 'Young Philadelphia lawyer is evicting her 81 y/old father after stroke, 2 cancers and hernia surgery...from the house he signed over to her'
will make a lot of heads turn!
OR
81 y/old stroke, cancer surviver is thrown out of his own home by his young LAWYER daughter...
pick any one!


More likely is this:  

81-year-old man convicted of arson sentenced to prison.  His mistress/accomplice convicted of aiding and abetting, also sentenced to prison. Story at 11.

(The good thing is that neither one will have to worry about where to live.)