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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2014 13:58:15 GMT -5
I still don't know. I have a month to think it through. I'm preoccupied at the moment. On straight cleanliness and care things I have no argument. I am still hung up on it aging her. We will have a conversation on it later this/next week and I'll let you know what comes from that. This week is planning next school year
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2014 15:14:59 GMT -5
I don't see how a nose piercing is 'aging' someone? belly button, yeah, nose, no.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2014 15:24:23 GMT -5
I don't think many 13 year olds are 'allowed' to have nose piercings. The nose piercings, in addition to the C cups, may lend to the impression that she is older than she is...
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2014 15:57:41 GMT -5
I don't think many 13 year olds are 'allowed' to have nose piercings. The nose piercings, in addition to the C cups, may lend to the impression that she looks older than she is... I think the nose piercing is standard in some ethnicities...I've seen plenty around me.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2014 18:05:11 GMT -5
Yes...but we don't know what the "norm" is where she is.
If the "norm" is that 16 year olds have their noses done but 13 year olds don't, then the first impression for some people seeing someone who has their nose pierced is that she must be 16.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2014 18:20:56 GMT -5
"You can wait a few years until you're 18, and then do what you want"
I know you mean legally she can do what she wants... But I would hope that no parent thinks their kid can do as they please just for turning 18. It sounds so uncaring.
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Post by truthbound on May 13, 2014 4:24:37 GMT -5
I would say you can do what you want when you are 18 and not here. Don't ask me again.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2014 6:34:54 GMT -5
I would say you can do what you want when you are 18 and not here. Don't ask me again. That's not really my style.
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Post by whoisjohngalt on May 14, 2014 10:16:08 GMT -5
All this talk about it actually made me want to get one.
I think my husband will have a heart attack if I tell him.
for those who have it - did it hurt and what did you have to do for cleaning part (I am super lazy)
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Post by Deleted on May 15, 2014 2:33:21 GMT -5
Piercing ears or nose at 13 I would say yes. I did not allow: - Ear gauging. I just don't like how it looks. Seems like something you would definitely regret later.
- Eyebrow Piercing. I can't even look at someone with eyebrow piercings it makes me cringe so bad. I must have had some kind of childhood eyebrow trauma.
- Tongue piercing. Don't know anyone that didn't have infections and problems with it.
- Tattoos. Not on my dime.
- Bellybutton piercing. Same as above
Since they have grown up they both let the ear piercings close. Neither ever got the nose piercing. One got her nipples and belly button pierced and a year later let them all close up. I guess they weren't as cool as she thought. Both have gotten tattoos & both want more.
I also don't argue about hair color. They were allowed to do crazy stuff with hair if they wanted.
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Post by truthbound on May 19, 2014 4:47:29 GMT -5
I would say you can do what you want when you are 18 and not here. Don't ask me again. That's not really my style. I am not surprised.
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