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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2014 13:22:16 GMT -5
You don't pay a hooker for sex. You pay them to go away afterwards. So you are saying if you didn't pay a hooker - she will stay forever and become your piece of furniture? No! Her 'manager' would blow your brain out and THAT is what you are paying for to NOT to happen. Right? Hooker furniture. I like it. A place to put my remote.
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Post by hoops902 on Apr 23, 2014 13:23:02 GMT -5
::No! Her 'manager' would blow your brain out ::
Why would the manager do that? That's what I hired the hooker to do.
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 23, 2014 13:25:03 GMT -5
She isn't a GF. She's an on again, off again "person" because the word to describe her behavior isn't a nice one.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2014 13:25:49 GMT -5
::No! Her 'manager' would blow your brain out :: Why would the manager do that? That's what I hired the hooker to do. A two for one deal? Some guys are into that.
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 23, 2014 13:26:00 GMT -5
That is exactly what he is dating. Unfortunately. I hope she is hot but something tells me she is not. Ok, she's a hooker. As is every woman who has ever received a gift from a man they were in a relationship with since that's the criteria. So now that we've established most of you are hookers, let's start revealing what your prices are! I'm VERY expensive!! But I'm old and don't have much time left.
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Post by tloonya on Apr 23, 2014 13:26:08 GMT -5
That is exactly what he is dating. Unfortunately. I hope she is hot but something tells me she is not. Ok, she's a hooker. As is every woman who has ever received a gift from a man they were in a relationship with since that's the criteria. So now that we've established most of you are hookers, let's start revealing what your prices are! I am priceless because I do not accept gifts. Never. Hated everything was given to me so declined. Since then not even my mother gives me gifts. I would accept large cash sum ...but it is just me. hoopsie, why are you so bent over this...GF? Do you like gifts?
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Post by tloonya on Apr 23, 2014 13:27:34 GMT -5
::No! Her 'manager' would blow your brain out :: Why would the manager do that? That's what I hired the hooker to do. We are talking 'if you didn't pay her'. You are doing it again? Reading fast, replying even faster without getting deep into a problem
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Post by Blonde Granny on Apr 23, 2014 13:28:35 GMT -5
No matter what he gives her even via mom, it won't be enough. So now the son is paying or sex? We call those women hookers. Is that what he's dating? A hooker? He's in college and not much money. Pick some flowers, get a 50 cent card from dollar store and call it good. I wouldn't expect a huge gift from a guy in college. People can complain that it isn't fair all they want. That doesn't change the reality that at that age pretty much most women worth dating are going to expect their boyfriend to get them SOMETHING for their birthday. He's got money for all this other stuff he wants to do. He is eating "all those meals outside the dining hall because the food is gross", weight room, extracurriculars, etc. He has money to spend on himself. Choosing to spend nothing on a gf is basically a big waving flag that she doesn't mean anything to him. It doesn't have to be a huge gift, on that I agree. But it can't be nothing if you expect to keep any girl around. In response to Loony - I agree nobody is owed a gift. That doesn't change the reality that it's expected in most relationships. There is what SHOULD happen, and there's reality. Reality is that most are going to expect their bf to get them something on their birthday. I agree, a Coach handbag is just the ticket!!!! Quick, get moving on that Mom, your boy needs to impress his girl toy.
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Post by hoops902 on Apr 23, 2014 13:28:39 GMT -5
::why are you so bent over this...GF? Do you like gifts?::
I already said I'm pretty much anti-gift across the board. That doesn't change the fact that I accept that gift giving on a birthday is a common social norm. I don't exchange gifts with anyone other than some kids in the family that I buy for. It's a matter of what's realistic though.
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Post by tloonya on Apr 23, 2014 13:28:56 GMT -5
Ok, she's a hooker. As is every woman who has ever received a gift from a man they were in a relationship with since that's the criteria. So now that we've established most of you are hookers, let's start revealing what your prices are! I'm VERY expensive!! But I'm old and don't have much time left. Are you jacking up your price because you are 'limited addition'?
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Post by hoops902 on Apr 23, 2014 13:29:50 GMT -5
::No! Her 'manager' would blow your brain out :: Why would the manager do that? That's what I hired the hooker to do. We are talking 'if you didn't pay her'. You are doing it again? Reading fast, replying even faster without getting deep into a problem Nope, I read it. I hired the hooker, and if I don't pay her the manager is going to blow my brains out. But I'd have already gotten my brains blown out by the hooker, so why is the manager giving me another?
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Post by Blonde Granny on Apr 23, 2014 13:30:57 GMT -5
And Loony, it's not a "manager" it's called a Pimp!
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Post by tloonya on Apr 23, 2014 13:32:32 GMT -5
::why are you so bent over this...GF? Do you like gifts?:: I already said I'm pretty much anti-gift across the board. That doesn't change the fact that I accept that gift giving on a birthday is a common social norm. I don't exchange gifts with anyone other than some kids in the family that I buy for. It's a matter of what's realistic though. Realistic thought is: if you are boomerang-dating a college boy - expect nothing more than card and hug for your friggin BDay! Realistic thought #2: if you are gift hungry whore - find your self an old man and get showered with Coach purses any time you want. If you are smart and pretty enough should I add...
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 23, 2014 13:33:12 GMT -5
I'm VERY expensive!! But I'm old and don't have much time left. Are you jacking up your price because you are 'limited addition'? No, I've upped it because I'm old and don't have much time left!!
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Post by tloonya on Apr 23, 2014 13:33:59 GMT -5
And Loony, it's not a "manager" it's called a Pimp! I knew it was something like 'pump'...but I forgot the name. Thanks, I appreciate the info. We were sharing our prices here...you missed it
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Post by tloonya on Apr 23, 2014 13:36:05 GMT -5
Are you jacking up your price because you are 'limited addition'? No, I've upped it because I'm old and don't have much time left!! That's what I meant like there is soon going to be none of this to enjoy ...like limited edition...
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 23, 2014 13:37:01 GMT -5
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Post by Blonde Granny on Apr 23, 2014 13:37:40 GMT -5
...and not having to be bothered with it anymore....priceless!!!
Now, back to what to buy for a birthday present for a boomerang girl when the BF doesn't have any money or doesn't want to spend what he does have.
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Post by bean29 on Apr 23, 2014 13:40:55 GMT -5
No matter what he gives her even via mom, it won't be enough. So now the son is paying or sex? We call those women hookers. Is that what he's dating? A hooker? He's in college and not much money. Pick some flowers, get a 50 cent card from dollar store and call it good. I wouldn't expect a huge gift from a guy in college. That is exactly what he is dating. Unfortunately. I hope she is hot but something tells me she is not. I would say she is cute, DD dosn't think so. Zib, I pretty much agree. I am afraid to paint the picture too plainly for fear it might be revealed to one of them and they might get mad. For the record my DS did not bring this up to me, My laptop was silling on the dining room table and I was checking Proboards and I overheard her tempertantrum. I don't think my Son would discuss gifts with her in advance. I think my Son is good looking, but he is kind of short. He says he has no lack of opportunity at school. I think she pretty much glues herself to his side. His school is only an hour or so from us, so I think if he tells her he is not comming home for the weekend she shows up there. Honestly when I told my husband, he stopped and looked at me and said "What did I give you for your birthday?" We didn't celebrate my B-Day b/c My Dad's wake was on my B-Day and the entombment was the following day. I did not mind. I do have a very special piece of jewelry he bought me this year "just because". We are kind of at the point where we have enough $$ to buy whatever we want, so gifts are hard to buy for each other. We did not even go out as a family for my Son's b-day b/c he had a tournament or something and then we got into the holidays etc. It was not a big deal to him either. This girl just needs constant attention. I am not going to comment on this anymore. It is kind of like beating a dead horse. I was just frustrated when I posted last weekend. I still am, but my son is the only one who can do anything about it. ETA: About my birthday...I was blown away by the number of people who wished me a Happy Birthday at the wake- Aunts, Uncles, cousins frieds and in-laws. I was also impressed with the facebook wishes too. That was enough for me. I just don't get the materialism, but I guess maybe that comes with maturity.
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 23, 2014 13:43:33 GMT -5
True. Men and men to be sometimes think with the wrong head. Sigh.
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Post by tloonya on Apr 23, 2014 13:58:56 GMT -5
True. Men and men to be sometimes think with the wrong head. Sigh. But they don't have to. There are so many people in college to meet and to party with...and no gifts nesesary.
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 23, 2014 14:03:45 GMT -5
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Post by steff on Apr 23, 2014 14:18:51 GMT -5
Buy him a box of condoms & tell him when he gives her bday gift to her, to make sure & wrap it up because getting knocked up would mean he could never afford her expensive taste.
As a mom of a son, there really should be some course offered on how to run off a gf that is into you kid for all the wrong reasons. took me 3 months of subtle conversations to get kiddo to the last gf who was doing all she could to "change" him while making him take her out to dinner every night. the gf now is MUCH better than the last one.
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Post by geenamercile on Apr 23, 2014 17:34:28 GMT -5
YOU do it, not your Mommy. Absolutely. The problem is with the son expecting his family to buy his girlfriend gifts on his behalf. Yes but if the dad has laid down the law that the son is not to work while in college, and that all of the money he makes during the summer goes to tuition/room and board/books then the question who is funding the social/life aspect of college. My personal opinion is that either the parents fund some discretionary or let the son get a job so he can fund his own. Personally DH and I both got an allowance while in college per month. For me my car payment, insurance, extra food, hygiene stuff, movie tickets, pizza runs, gas for the car, and yes gifts for people had to come out of it. I also worked to supplement that allowance some as well. Either way the son should be budgeting his money and making plans for the birthday present before the day of. Before labeling her as a gold digger I wonder what has she bought the son as a gifts? I don't think it is unrealistic to expect your boyfriend/girlfriend to spend or do a comparable amount for you as you do for them when it comes to giving gifts.
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