Miss Tequila
Distinguished Associate
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
Posts: 20,602
|
Post by Miss Tequila on Mar 2, 2014 15:47:29 GMT -5
Another first world complaint: My pregnant SIL who has pleaded poverty and what not about not having money to buy baby things is now getting a big big surprise baby shower. She has pleaded poverty, even saying that she would cloth diaper, because she was so poor. Even though she scoffed at me when I used them. Oh, and by the way, can she have mine? Our entire basement is filled with stuff that we've been keeping just for her. And now she's getting everything new. When most everything I had, I bought used or got as hand me downs. My in-laws didn't throw me a shower. And they always keep telling me that they love me and that I'm their daughter too now. Bullshit. Their real daughter gets the baby shower, but the daughter-in-law doesn't. And you know that the grandparents are going to be the constant free babysitter for their real daughter, while we (because of distance too, to be fair) never got the free childcare that every one else seems to get. Imagine that, people being completely responsible for caring for their children!! They currently live 10 hours away from the grandparents, but as soon as they found out that they are pregnant, they decided to move back. Wonder why? Not to mentioned, how fucking gauche it is to have your mother throw your own baby shower. Can we say gift grab? And how the fuck do you get accidentally pregnant? Both of them are in the arts, and they have no money. I guess whatever it is I do, my money, directly or indirectly, will be helping them out. Yes, I'm bitter, and yes, I'm angry. I'm confused by your posts...you seem angry that your MIL gave SIL a showr and not you but then you say it is tacky for the mother to throw the shower. Did you want MIL to throw you a shower?
|
|
Miss Tequila
Distinguished Associate
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
Posts: 20,602
|
Post by Miss Tequila on Mar 2, 2014 15:49:23 GMT -5
If she has a form of autism, regular social interactions may not work. You may just have to firmly say no, and stick to your guns. I know half a dozen people who are autistic. They are very sweet, and loving people. None of them act like your SIL. A lot of her symptoms do not match the autism spectrum but do match a huge sense of entitlement. She flat out told us that now she is family and it is our responsibility to support her and take care of her because of her disability, and then a few weeks after getting engaged she quit her job and told us it was because she could. I am doing ok saying no, but the rest of the family is not able to do it and keeps asking me to help them say no. But they have to be able to do it for themselves. Wow....I would not only love telling her no I would love telling her what an entitled bitxh she is!
|
|
grits
Senior Member
Joined: Dec 17, 2012 13:43:33 GMT -5
Posts: 3,185
|
Post by grits on Mar 2, 2014 16:08:22 GMT -5
rainyday, you cannot fix dysfunction. Also, nobody is obligated to do things for us. If they choose too, great. If they don't, we'll get our feelings hurt but bitterness is a choice. I have spent the last 33 years dumping painful memories, and not putting myself in the place for my family to hurt me. You cannot make someone treat you fairly. Bitterness only hurt me not them. They were sleeping at night, and rocking along with no feelings of guilt at all. I choose to let it go. I changed the relationships, and no longer put myself in harms way. Plus, I am now out of the drama loop. My parents reaped theirs, and my siblings will too. One question, no friends or relatives on your side offered to host a shower for you?
|
|
Sunnyday
Well-Known Member
Joined: Aug 3, 2013 0:36:39 GMT -5
Posts: 1,425
|
Post by Sunnyday on Mar 2, 2014 19:04:29 GMT -5
Another first world complaint: My pregnant SIL who has pleaded poverty and what not about not having money to buy baby things is now getting a big big surprise baby shower. She has pleaded poverty, even saying that she would cloth diaper, because she was so poor. Even though she scoffed at me when I used them. Oh, and by the way, can she have mine? Our entire basement is filled with stuff that we've been keeping just for her. And now she's getting everything new. When most everything I had, I bought used or got as hand me downs. My in-laws didn't throw me a shower. And they always keep telling me that they love me and that I'm their daughter too now. Bullshit. Their real daughter gets the baby shower, but the daughter-in-law doesn't. And you know that the grandparents are going to be the constant free babysitter for their real daughter, while we (because of distance too, to be fair) never got the free childcare that every one else seems to get. Imagine that, people being completely responsible for caring for their children!! They currently live 10 hours away from the grandparents, but as soon as they found out that they are pregnant, they decided to move back. Wonder why? Not to mentioned, how fucking gauche it is to have your mother throw your own baby shower. Can we say gift grab? And how the fuck do you get accidentally pregnant? Both of them are in the arts, and they have no money. I guess whatever it is I do, my money, directly or indirectly, will be helping them out. Yes, I'm bitter, and yes, I'm angry. I'm confused by your posts...you seem angry that your MIL gave SIL a showr and not you but then you say it is tacky for the mother to throw the shower. Did you want MIL to throw you a shower? Holy shit! This is the first world whine thread.. we get complain about shit that isn't important, and then get validated. But if it's really important for you to know why. It is tacky for family members to give the baby showers. They are suppose to be given by non-family members. But the mores are changing. I can accept that family members give baby showers for other family members. I have never had a baby shower. And I would have been completely okay with never havin one. But things should be done fairly. They should have thrown me one too. Iy's obviously too late now. I'm two and done.
|
|
Sunnyday
Well-Known Member
Joined: Aug 3, 2013 0:36:39 GMT -5
Posts: 1,425
|
Post by Sunnyday on Mar 2, 2014 20:08:43 GMT -5
rainyday, you cannot fix dysfunction. Also, nobody is obligated to do things for us. If they choose too, great. If they don't, we'll get our feelings hurt but bitterness is a choice. I have spent the last 33 years dumping painful memories, and not putting myself in the place for my family to hurt me. You cannot make someone treat you fairly. Bitterness only hurt me not them. They were sleeping at night, and rocking along with no feelings of guilt at all. I choose to let it go. I changed the relationships, and no longer put myself in harms way. Plus, I am now out of the drama loop. My parents reaped theirs, and my siblings will too. One question, no friends or relatives on your side offered to host a shower for you? Sorry, I forgot to answer your question. I moved midway through my first pregnancy. And I'm new to this country. And my friends are all over. My mother is dead. But we've been here three and a half years now (2 1/2 at the birth of my second child), and while we didn't have a shower, our neighbors bought us stuff. we got 4 presents. I was grateful and blown by their generosity. But if I compared with others, I probably didn't do so well in the gift department. I'm not angry and bitter about anyone having baby showers as I was never angry and bitter about not having one. Actually, baby showers seem like a form of torture to me. it's the principle of having MIL throw one for her daughter but not me, the woman carrying her son's child, that pissed me off.
|
|
Lizard Queen
Senior Associate
103/2024
Joined: Jan 17, 2011 22:19:13 GMT -5
Posts: 14,659
|
Post by Lizard Queen on Mar 2, 2014 20:32:58 GMT -5
I hear you, Rainy day. My husband just has one brother, and their dad is remarried. It just kind of hurts when their step mom so obviously prefers the other couple. I know she's just a stepmother in law, but completely forgets my birthday, while gushed over BIL, and definitely doesn't forget SIL's b-day. I'm not talking about a gift or anything, but a simple happy birthday on Facebook would have been nice!
|
|
Miss Tequila
Distinguished Associate
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
Posts: 20,602
|
Post by Miss Tequila on Mar 2, 2014 20:36:59 GMT -5
I'm confused by your posts...you seem angry that your MIL gave SIL a showr and not you but then you say it is tacky for the mother to throw the shower. Did you want MIL to throw you a shower? Holy shit! This is the first world whine thread.. we get complain about shit that isn't important, and then get validated. But if it's really important for you to know why. It is tacky for family members to give the baby showers. They are suppose to be given by non-family members. But the mores are changing. I can accept that family members give baby showers for other family members. I have never had a baby shower. And I would have been completely okay with never havin one. But things should be done fairly. They should have thrown me one too. Iy's obviously too late now. I'm two and done. I was confused by your conflicting views on the mom throwing the shower so I asked. I can't validate something that I don't understand.
|
|
Miss Tequila
Distinguished Associate
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
Posts: 20,602
|
Post by Miss Tequila on Mar 2, 2014 20:47:27 GMT -5
Oh I went through all that, treated like crap. But funny how things turn out sometimes. Favored SIL hated FIL, took half their savings when her hubby died, long story. Remarried in months, now they have no contact with her or only grand daughter sadly. Now we moved back and MIL has to depend on me, I think its ironic of all that happened. Remember how they say what goes around comes around. I have to smile to myself sometimes.
I will look out for her, take care of her finances, do things that need done later, and I am nice about it, she will not move in with us. I told hubby not going to happen or I would walk, but he went through my mom moving in so already had enough of that situation for a few years so we are on the same page.
Just wait, this stuff generally has a way of sorting itself out. MIL has memory issues, but I would bet she remembers a lot of stuff that happened back then. I try to be nice to everyone as you just never know. How did she have access to the parents' money?
|
|
milee
Senior Associate
Joined: Jan 17, 2012 13:20:00 GMT -5
Posts: 12,344
|
Post by milee on Mar 2, 2014 20:55:16 GMT -5
My MIL doesn't have any daughters but if she did, it wouldn't occur to me to expect her to treat them and me completely the same. Maybe my expectations are too low. I was just happy when one of my husband's brothers married a Greek woman so I (as the tacky American who had stolen her favorite son away) was no longer the least favorite DIL. My MIL still clutches her pearls when she exclaims in her plummy English accent about how the grandchildren produced by that Greek woman came out with "all that horrid dark hair!"
|
|
Sunnyday
Well-Known Member
Joined: Aug 3, 2013 0:36:39 GMT -5
Posts: 1,425
|
Post by Sunnyday on Mar 2, 2014 21:09:33 GMT -5
My MIL doesn't have any daughters but if she did, it wouldn't occur to me to expect her to treat them and me completely the same. Maybe my expectations are too low. I was just happy when one of my husband's brothers married a Greek woman so I (as the tacky American who had stolen her favorite son away) was no longer the least favorite DIL. My MIL still clutches her pearls when she exclaims in her plummy English accent about how the grandchildren produced by that Greek woman came out with "all that horrid dark hair!" I didn't expect them to treat me the same. I just can't imagine how you can feel the same for your daughter who you've known for 28 years and a DIL, who you've known for only 7. But then you [you being my MIL] should not telling me over and over again, when you grab me in your uncomfortable bear hugs that last over a minute, that you love me just like a daughter. And that we.were all the same in her eyes. It's the principle that kills me. I always inwardly rolled my eyes when she told me that, and Now it's like pretty obvious that it isn't true.
|
|
Lizard Queen
Senior Associate
103/2024
Joined: Jan 17, 2011 22:19:13 GMT -5
Posts: 14,659
|
Post by Lizard Queen on Mar 2, 2014 21:10:46 GMT -5
This discussion about MIL's reminded me of another thing from stepMIL. This one is stupid, but makes me feel horrible, so I think it fits in this thread. My SIL has 2 girls slightly older than my oldest. She informed me that stepMIL always buys the grandkids their first pair of shoes when they start walking. Apparently, she did this for all 5 of her grandkids, as well as SIL's 2, as well as my oldest. She did not buy any for my younger son. This is a total whine on my part, because he was able to wear the hand-me-down ones just fine from his older brother. I wouldn't have given it a 2nd thought had SIL not mentioned that all the grandkids got their own first shoes, but now it makes me feel like absolute shit. (Like I said, its stupid.)
|
|
Miss Tequila
Distinguished Associate
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
Posts: 20,602
|
Post by Miss Tequila on Mar 2, 2014 21:13:18 GMT -5
I'm going to get lambasted since apparently we are only supposed to validate in this thread....but I have absolutely no sympathy that shift their money to their heirs. They aren't trying to screw over the government, they are trying to screw over the taxpayers. That kind if stuff pisses me off.
|
|
swamp
Community Leader
THEY’RE EATING THE DOGS!!!!!!!
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 16:03:22 GMT -5
Posts: 45,617
|
Post by swamp on Mar 2, 2014 21:16:35 GMT -5
I'm going to get lambasted since apparently we are only supposed to validate in this thread....but I have absolutely no sympathy that shift their money to their heirs. They aren't trying to screw over the government, they are trying to screw over the taxpayers. That kind if stuff pisses me off. And I hear it daily from clients who want me to do something "so the government doesn't take all of granny's money when she goes in the nursi g home." The fact that 24 hour nursing care is expensive is lost on them.
|
|
Miss Tequila
Distinguished Associate
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
Posts: 20,602
|
Post by Miss Tequila on Mar 2, 2014 21:19:07 GMT -5
I'm going to get lambasted since apparently we are only supposed to validate in this thread....but I have absolutely no sympathy that shift their money to their heirs. They aren't trying to screw over the government, they are trying to screw over the taxpayers. That kind if stuff pisses me off. And I hear it daily from clients who want me to do something "so the government doesn't take all of granny's money when she goes in the nursi g home." The fact that 24 hour nursing care is expensive is lost on them. Ugh...Im not sure i could restrain myself from telling them what I think of them!
|
|
Sunnyday
Well-Known Member
Joined: Aug 3, 2013 0:36:39 GMT -5
Posts: 1,425
|
Post by Sunnyday on Mar 2, 2014 21:21:14 GMT -5
But Miss Tequila, I explained my conflicting views, and I really want my validation now!!!! lol But back to your other point, people minimizing their tax burden is your bread and butter, is it not? You are an accountant, right? Or did I mix you up with another Miss alcoholic beverage?
|
|
sarcasticgirl
Junior Associate
Joined: Jan 4, 2011 14:39:51 GMT -5
Posts: 5,155
Location: Chicago
|
Post by sarcasticgirl on Mar 2, 2014 21:24:05 GMT -5
This is way serious for a first world whine... Either that or I am seriously off by complaining about too much lobster and getting burnt after forgetting sunscreen. Sent from my Nexus 4 using proboards
|
|
Sunnyday
Well-Known Member
Joined: Aug 3, 2013 0:36:39 GMT -5
Posts: 1,425
|
Post by Sunnyday on Mar 2, 2014 21:24:38 GMT -5
This discussion about MIL's reminded me of another thing from stepMIL. This one is stupid, but makes me feel horrible, so I think it fits in this thread. My SIL has 2 girls slightly older than my oldest. She informed me that stepMIL always buys the grandkids their first pair of shoes when they start walking. Apparently, she did this for all 5 of her grandkids, as well as SIL's 2, as well as my oldest. She did not buy any for my younger son. This is a total whine on my part, because he was able to wear the hand-me-down ones just fine from his older brother. I wouldn't have given it a 2nd thought had SIL not mentioned that all the grandkids got their own first shoes, but now it makes me feel like absolute shit. (Like I said, its stupid.) I hear ya! It's not that big of a deal, but still. It's the principle. Things should be fair! You, as an adult, can get over it, but what the children, when they realize that stepIL has favorites, and it's not them. That would be hurtful for any child.
|
|
swamp
Community Leader
THEY’RE EATING THE DOGS!!!!!!!
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 16:03:22 GMT -5
Posts: 45,617
|
Post by swamp on Mar 2, 2014 21:26:23 GMT -5
My MIL doesn't have any daughters but if she did, it wouldn't occur to me to expect her to treat them and me completely the same. Maybe my expectations are too low. I was just happy when one of my husband's brothers married a Greek woman so I (as the tacky American who had stolen her favorite son away) was no longer the least favorite DIL. My MIL still clutches her pearls when she exclaims in her plummy English accent about how the grandchildren produced by that Greek woman came out with "all that horrid dark hair!" Could you please tell your MIL thereis nothing wrong with lots of dark hair, please and thank you.
|
|
Sunnyday
Well-Known Member
Joined: Aug 3, 2013 0:36:39 GMT -5
Posts: 1,425
|
Post by Sunnyday on Mar 2, 2014 21:27:58 GMT -5
This is way serious for a first world whine... Either that or I am seriously off by complaining about too much lobster and getting burnt after forgetting sunscreen. Sent from my Nexus 4 using proboards It is too serious for what I thought was suppose to be a rainbows and unicorn thread, but it took a typical YM turn. we can be a curmudgeonly group!
|
|
milee
Senior Associate
Joined: Jan 17, 2012 13:20:00 GMT -5
Posts: 12,344
|
Post by milee on Mar 2, 2014 21:30:38 GMT -5
My MIL doesn't have any daughters but if she did, it wouldn't occur to me to expect her to treat them and me completely the same. Maybe my expectations are too low. I was just happy when one of my husband's brothers married a Greek woman so I (as the tacky American who had stolen her favorite son away) was no longer the least favorite DIL. My MIL still clutches her pearls when she exclaims in her plummy English accent about how the grandchildren produced by that Greek woman came out with "all that horrid dark hair!" I didn't expect them to treat me the same. I just can't imagine how you can feel the same for your daughter who you've known for 28 years and a DIL, who you've known for only 7. But then you [you being my MIL] should not telling me over and over again, when you grab me in your uncomfortable bear hugs that last over a minute, that you love me just like a daughter. And that we.were all the same in her eyes. It's the principle that kills me. I always inwardly rolled my eyes when she told me that, and Now it's like pretty obvious that it isn't true. Ah, I see. Just like my Swiss-French friend who was always surprised and dismayed that when Americans asked him how he was doing, they didn't seem to really want to know the answer...
To your MIL, this phrase "I love you like a daughter" does not mean you are equal to a daughter or maybe even that she loves you the same as she does her daughter. Here's my guess at the actual translation, "I really, really, really like you! I'm so happy I got you instead of one of the crazy girls that some of my friends' sons have ended up with. Sheesh, some of those nutballs belong in a mental institution. Anyway, I'm so glad you're my daughter in law and I truly love you absolutely as much as a mother in law whose son you have stolen away possibly could love an interloper. Sorry, have to run now because I think my real daughter - the one I carried and birthed from my loins - might need a refill of water. Coming, honey!"
|
|
milee
Senior Associate
Joined: Jan 17, 2012 13:20:00 GMT -5
Posts: 12,344
|
Post by milee on Mar 2, 2014 21:32:22 GMT -5
My MIL doesn't have any daughters but if she did, it wouldn't occur to me to expect her to treat them and me completely the same. Maybe my expectations are too low. I was just happy when one of my husband's brothers married a Greek woman so I (as the tacky American who had stolen her favorite son away) was no longer the least favorite DIL. My MIL still clutches her pearls when she exclaims in her plummy English accent about how the grandchildren produced by that Greek woman came out with "all that horrid dark hair!" Could you please tell your MIL thereis nothing wrong with lots of dark hair, please and thank you. Trust me, you're preaching to the choir. I think the Greek woman (and her children) are gorgeous and that frankly, my BIL is lucky to have her. But this would probably not be helpful information to tell MIL, especially coming from me.
|
|
Miss Tequila
Distinguished Associate
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
Posts: 20,602
|
Post by Miss Tequila on Mar 2, 2014 21:35:23 GMT -5
But Miss Tequila, I explained my conflicting views, and I really want my validation now!!!! lol But back to your other point, people minimizing their tax burden is your bread and butter, is it not? You are an accountant, right? Or did I mix you up with another Miss alcoholic beverage? I'm in finance and part of my job is to structure deals in the most favorable tax light. That is far different than shielding assets. Shielding assets is committing fraud. ETA: the tax impact of a deal is just one component...didn't mean to sound like I look at the tax impact and nothing else.
|
|
grits
Senior Member
Joined: Dec 17, 2012 13:43:33 GMT -5
Posts: 3,185
|
Post by grits on Mar 2, 2014 21:41:07 GMT -5
rainyday, you cannot fix dysfunction. Also, nobody is obligated to do things for us. If they choose too, great. If they don't, we'll get our feelings hurt but bitterness is a choice. I have spent the last 33 years dumping painful memories, and not putting myself in the place for my family to hurt me. You cannot make someone treat you fairly. Bitterness only hurt me not them. They were sleeping at night, and rocking along with no feelings of guilt at all. I choose to let it go. I changed the relationships, and no longer put myself in harms way. Plus, I am now out of the drama loop. My parents reaped theirs, and my siblings will too. One question, no friends or relatives on your side offered to host a shower for you? Sorry, I forgot to answer your question. I moved midway through my first pregnancy. And I'm new to this country. And my friends are all over. My mother is dead. But we've been here three and a half years now (2 1/2 at the birth of my second child), and while we didn't have a shower, our neighbors bought us stuff. we got 4 presents. I was grateful and blown by their generosity. But if I compared with others, I probably didn't do so well in the gift department. I'm not angry and bitter about anyone having baby showers as I was never angry and bitter about not having one. Actually, baby showers seem like a form of torture to me. it's the principle of having MIL throw one for her daughter but not me, the woman carrying her son's child, that pissed me off. I had gathered the last part. Like I said before, you cannot fix dysfunction. You have to set your own boundaries, and decide what you will, and will not let get to you. My own siblings are very dysfunctional. I choose what I will, and will not let get to me. In the USA it is frowned upon for close relatives of the bride or mother to be to give the shower. The fact that her own mother is giving the shower is more to be pitied than envied.
|
|
Miss Tequila
Distinguished Associate
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
Posts: 20,602
|
Post by Miss Tequila on Mar 2, 2014 21:41:16 GMT -5
Could you please tell your MIL thereis nothing wrong with lots of dark hair, please and thank you. Trust me, you're preaching to the choir. I think the Greek woman (and her children) are gorgeous and that frankly, my BIL is lucky to have her. But this would probably not be helpful information to tell MIL, especially coming from me.
I think MIl is nuts! I think most Greek guys are gorgeous!!
|
|
cael
Junior Associate
Joined: Dec 20, 2010 9:12:36 GMT -5
Posts: 5,745
|
Post by cael on Mar 3, 2014 8:50:39 GMT -5
I think my Greek DH is gorgeous! ...when he has a haircut and wants to dress remotely nicely. My whine today - we have a shitload of discord in my office, basically because of my 'new' boss (he's been here almost 3yrs now) and an idiot he hired and stuck us with despite repeated warnings about her. So today we're doing a stupid team building exercise with some therapist from the EAP. no desire whatsoever to hold hands and sing kumbaya with these idiots. I have 2 coworkers in here I love but the boss and the idiot... nope. Wouldn't blink if I never saw either of them again. Really have no desire to try and play nice today.
|
|
NoNamePerson
Distinguished Associate
Is There Anybody OUT There?
Joined: Dec 17, 2010 17:03:17 GMT -5
Posts: 26,214
Location: WITNESS PROTECTION
|
Post by NoNamePerson on Mar 3, 2014 9:45:34 GMT -5
I think my Greek DH is gorgeous! ...when he has a haircut and wants to dress remotely nicely. My whine today - we have a shitload of discord in my office, basically because of my 'new' boss (he's been here almost 3yrs now) and an idiot he hired and stuck us with despite repeated warnings about her. So today we're doing a stupid team building exercise with some therapist from the EAP. no desire whatsoever to hold hands and sing kumbaya with these idiots. I have 2 coworkers in here I love but the boss and the idiot... nope. Wouldn't blink if I never saw either of them again. Really have no desire to try and play nice today. Nothing to add but that just gave me a big morning laugh.
|
|
cael
Junior Associate
Joined: Dec 20, 2010 9:12:36 GMT -5
Posts: 5,745
|
Post by cael on Mar 3, 2014 9:47:47 GMT -5
I aim to please! this shindig is starting soon.... we'll see what happens.
|
|
NoNamePerson
Distinguished Associate
Is There Anybody OUT There?
Joined: Dec 17, 2010 17:03:17 GMT -5
Posts: 26,214
Location: WITNESS PROTECTION
|
Post by NoNamePerson on Mar 3, 2014 9:49:25 GMT -5
Sing Loud and Proud then
|
|
NancysSummerSip
Community Leader
Joined: Dec 19, 2010 19:19:42 GMT -5
Posts: 36,687
Today's Mood: Full of piss and vinegar
Favorite Drink: Anything with ice
|
Post by NancysSummerSip on Mar 3, 2014 11:20:57 GMT -5
My whines for the day: 1) office manager (aka The Hag) is out sick. It's like a vacation day in here. 2) I got a sunburn at a swim meet this weekend. Ouchie. And now it's starting to itch. Double ouchie.
|
|
Wisconsin Beth
Distinguished Associate
No, we don't walk away. But when we're holding on to something precious, we run.
Joined: Dec 20, 2010 11:59:36 GMT -5
Posts: 30,626
|
Post by Wisconsin Beth on Mar 3, 2014 11:51:14 GMT -5
My whines for the day: 1) office manager (aka The Hag) is out sick. It's like a vacation day in here. 2) I got a sunburn at a swim meet this weekend. Ouchie. And now it's starting to itch. Double ouchie. Speaking as someone stuck in the polar vortex, it serves you right to be sunburnt!
|
|