raeoflyte
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Post by raeoflyte on Nov 27, 2013 12:46:45 GMT -5
I can't remember her screen name now. But she did get divorced and was living on her own for the first time ever I think. Posters really piled on her which I really didn't get, but I'd love to get an update from her too. Queen of Credit Cards. She got piled on because she said that because she is female, she deserves to be taken care of. I didn't have that take on it. She WANTED someone to take care of her, but she had spent her entire life taking care of her spouses, kids, and then grandchild. I guess I just relate. I don't need to be taken care of, but it sure would be nice to have a break sometimes.
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Miss Tequila
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Post by Miss Tequila on Nov 27, 2013 12:57:05 GMT -5
Queen of Credit Cards. She got piled on because she said that because she is female, she deserves to be taken care of. I didn't have that take on it. She WANTED someone to take care of her, but she had spent her entire life taking care of her spouses, kids, and then grandchild. I guess I just relate. I don't need to be taken care of, but it sure would be nice to have a break sometimes. To me, it was her attitude over NOT being the stay at home wife that she wanted to be (her kids were older). She was so resentful because she had to work...I mean, god forbid a woman work!
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raeoflyte
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Post by raeoflyte on Nov 27, 2013 13:36:39 GMT -5
I didn't have that take on it. She WANTED someone to take care of her, but she had spent her entire life taking care of her spouses, kids, and then grandchild. I guess I just relate. I don't need to be taken care of, but it sure would be nice to have a break sometimes. To me, it was her attitude over NOT being the stay at home wife that she wanted to be (her kids were older). She was so resentful because she had to work...I mean, god forbid a woman work! Yes, but if you discuss and agree on a plan with your spouse (any plan, not just a sahs plan) and then one partner decides not to hold up their side of the agreement that easily leads to resentment and that is what I read into her posts.
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ZaireinHD
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Post by ZaireinHD on Nov 29, 2013 18:09:48 GMT -5
She got piled on because she said that because she is female, porn!
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