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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2013 19:34:46 GMT -5
Which is another reason prenups are a good idea because its there, in writing what is going to happen if and when. I don't think it would have mattered.
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Post by zibazinski on Oct 14, 2013 20:23:22 GMT -5
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Post by Nazgul Girl on Oct 14, 2013 20:52:43 GMT -5
Uh boy. Well, you may hear from your father when he figures out that timid souls might get taken less often then those that go out and sweat and bleed in the marriage arena, or whatever. Plus, you're really not a timid soul. You're sticking up for your views, and you probably have a lot of your old man's spirit in you.
I do hope that you and your father will be able to make up down the road. Sometimes disagreements about things go on for too long, such as the rift between my DD and her father ( my first husband ), and it becomes irreparable. She saw him for the first time ( except at her aunt's memorial service 2 years ago ) in five years, for lunch with his mother. That's too long. On the other hand, they've gotten to the point where they text and talk on the phone every couple of months, so that's progress. Sloowww progress.
You're probably so sad because the marriage reminds you of the pain that you and your sister experienced when your father and mother divorced.
You will be okay, and your father will be a wiser ( and probably poorer ) man in about six to eight months after the nuptuals.
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