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Post by AgeOfEnlightenmentSCP on May 9, 2013 9:14:38 GMT -5
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Post by EVT1 on May 9, 2013 9:32:40 GMT -5
I knew the minute you saw the photo you would be all over it. No way some hood rat can be a hero-right Good job.
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Post by swamp on May 9, 2013 9:34:03 GMT -5
<p>just because someone has a felony conviction doesn't make them a bad person all around. </p>
ETA: Maybe this guy was an Eagle Scout when he was a teen?
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Post by jkapp on May 9, 2013 10:06:38 GMT -5
I knew the minute you saw the photo you would be all over it. No way some hood rat can be a hero-right Good job. It's usually only a matter of time before some dirt is dug up on anyone who is in the spotlight. For some reason, the only thing people love more than a hero is to watch a hero fall.
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2013 10:09:52 GMT -5
There is a certain irony to this.
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Post by EVT1 on May 9, 2013 10:11:56 GMT -5
Yep- and it's kind of irrelevant to the story. If someone hauls a baby out of a burning building some asshole is always going to point out that 20 years ago they got caught with weed.
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Post by AgeOfEnlightenmentSCP on May 9, 2013 10:22:31 GMT -5
I knew the minute you saw the photo you would be all over it. No way some hood rat can be a hero-right Good job. Moses was a murderer. God does His will through imperfect people all the time. It was just a let down.
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Post by AgeOfEnlightenmentSCP on May 9, 2013 10:30:00 GMT -5
Yep- and it's kind of irrelevant to the story. If someone hauls a baby out of a burning building some asshole is always going to point out that 20 years ago they got caught with weed. He didn't get caught with weed. He beat his wife to a pulp. This is a systemic problem, and not something I'd automatically file under "nobody's perfect" and "anyone can change" - both true. This is a problem of our system. Somewhere around the second charge for beating your wife, you need to do hard time. Third time? Nice knowing you. Goodbye. You shouldn't get a forth and fifth chance.
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Post by swamp on May 9, 2013 10:33:16 GMT -5
If he beat her to a pulp, he would have gone away for much longer than 8 months. Not that what he did was OK, but we don't know how bad the injuries were.
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Post by Jaguar on May 9, 2013 10:42:29 GMT -5
We can't pick and choose who our heroes will be.
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Post by jkapp on May 9, 2013 11:09:19 GMT -5
Yep- and it's kind of irrelevant to the story. If someone hauls a baby out of a burning building some asshole is always going to point out that 20 years ago they got caught with weed. He didn't get caught with weed. He beat his wife to a pulp. This is a systemic problem, and not something I'd automatically file under "nobody's perfect" and "anyone can change" - both true. This is a problem of our system. Somewhere around the second charge for beating your wife, you need to do hard time. Third time? Nice knowing you. Goodbye. You shouldn't get a forth and fifth chance. I suppose there's one silver lining...at least he still sounds better than the Castro guy
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2013 11:39:49 GMT -5
This is my favourite thing that you have ever said. I'd actually give you a bunch of karma if we still had that system.
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Post by EVT1 on May 9, 2013 11:47:54 GMT -5
What difference does it make? A bad guy can't do a good thing and get any credit- just shit on? "This is a problem of our system. Somewhere around the second charge for beating your wife, you need to do hard time. Third time? Nice knowing you. Goodbye. You shouldn't get a forth and fifth chance." As for a 4th of 5th chance? He served his time- and he might do something bad again- maybe he won't. So are you (PBP) willing to spend the money to lock up that many people for the rest of their lives? You own prison stock? It could have been worse- he could have murdered some kid on neighborhood watch like the other guy charged with a felony and accused of domestic violence
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2013 11:55:18 GMT -5
What difference does it make? A bad guy can't do a good thing and get any credit- just shit on? "This is a problem of our system. Somewhere around the second charge for beating your wife, you need to do hard time. Third time? Nice knowing you. Goodbye. You shouldn't get a forth and fifth chance." As for a 4th of 5th chance? He served his time- and he might do something bad again- maybe he won't. So are you (PBP) willing to spend the money to lock up that many people for the rest of their lives? You own prison stock? so how many bites of the apple do we allow then? is there a limit in your eyes? or do we continue to set them free to probably harm someone else down the road where does his freedom end, and the safety of the community begin?
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Post by The Captain on May 9, 2013 11:56:40 GMT -5
"This is a systemic problem, and not something I'd automatically file under "nobody's perfect" and "anyone can change" - both true. This is a problem of our system. Somewhere around the second charge for beating your wife, you need to do hard time. Third time? Nice knowing you. Goodbye. You shouldn't get a forth and fifth chance."
Again with the broad statements, what are the details? I'm not defending him, we just don't know how serious it was.
Wonder if the sentiment would be the same about a woman slapping a man. No it's not right, but is it worth of doing hard time for the rest of your life if you've slapped someone three times?
And yes, I will say he is a hero, he had no idea if there was a nutcase with a gun behind that girl. What he did was a good thing.
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Post by The Captain on May 9, 2013 11:58:07 GMT -5
OMG - I'm actually in agreement with EVT1 on a topic, is that one of the 7 signs?
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Post by steff on May 9, 2013 12:01:22 GMT -5
This is exactly why more random folks don't step in and try to help in a bad situation now days. Because no matter how incredible your act in the current moment, someone is going to dig thru everything & show that you aren't a great person after all.
While Mr Ramsey has had issues in his past, I'm going to focus on the good he did this week by not ignoring a plea for help & not worrying about what folks would say if they dug up his history. He stepped up & did the right thing & the result was beyond what anyone could have hoped for. 3 young women & 1 child are safe & free.
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2013 12:11:45 GMT -5
So it's okay if he only beat up his wife a little bit??
Serious enough that he it is accurate to say he is a Felon and Serial Domestic Abuser.
The bad stuff was already all there. By doing this good thing he now gets to say he has been an ass at times and an idiot but on this one day he got to prove that he isn't all bad and he saved 3 women and a little girl gave them their lives back. Just maybe that helps to balance his ledger out a bit.
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Post by steff on May 9, 2013 12:12:25 GMT -5
Charles Ramsey -- the hero who helped free Amanda Berry and 2 other women in Ohio -- tells TMZ ... he's not ashamed that media outlets have uncovered the domestic violence arrests in his past, claiming he used the incidents to grow into a better person. After Ramsey exploded into viral superstardom thanks to his heroic actions (and follow-up interviews), several websites posted the details from 3 separate domestic violence arrests involving an ex-wife that all took place between 1997 and 2003. We spoke to Ramsey, who told us ... "I've made amends with the people involved and we've all moved on and grown up." Ramsey adds, "Those incidents helped me become the man I am today and are the reason why I try to help the community as much as I can ... Including those women." "If I had so much hatred for women, I would have minded my own business this week and walked away instead of risking my life to save someone else." For her part, Ramsey's ex-wife says Charles eventually apologized for the domestic incidents and the two are now on an "okay basis." Read more: www.tmz.com/2013/05/09/charles-ramsey-domestic-violence-arrest-ohio-hero/#ixzz2SogE2vjX
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Post by mmhmm on May 9, 2013 12:13:23 GMT -5
As is so often true, paul, your hyperbole saps the meaning from anything you bring here, rendering the vast majority of it just pap. There is no evidence Mr. Ramsey beat anyone "to a pulp". He's been convicted, more than once, of domestic abuse. That's all we know, and you don't know any more than the rest of us. Your input would be a great deal more valuable if it wasn't inevitably laced with overstatement and superfluous sensationalism.<br>
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Post by The Captain on May 9, 2013 12:18:15 GMT -5
So it's okay if he only beat up his wife a little bit?? No, and you know that.Serious enough that he it is accurate to say he is a Felon and Serial Domestic Abuser. And an 18yo who sleeps with a 16yo is a rapist and child molester in some states with a Felony charge and a lifetime requirement to be registered as a sex offender - even if he later marries that same 16yo who gave consent in the first place. Would you lock him up for life and say he isn't capable of changing or doing good deeds? The bad stuff was already all there. By doing this good thing he now gets to say he has been an ass at times and an idiot but on this one day he got to prove that he isn't all bad and he saved 3 women and a little girl gave them their lives back. Just maybe that helps to balance his ledger out a bit.
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2013 12:24:21 GMT -5
We aren't talking about rape laws, we are talking about domestic abuse laws. Which domestic abuse law do you think is too harsh or irrelevant? Just how much do you think it is okay for a man to abuse his wife?
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2013 12:26:12 GMT -5
Even Ramsey did not try to say his convictions were wrong or irrelevant. He said he learned and grew from there and that isn't who he is today.
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Post by swamp on May 9, 2013 12:40:04 GMT -5
It's never OK to hit your spouse. The comment was in response Paul's comment that "he beat his wife to a pulp." Um, no he didn't. If he did, he would have gone to prison for much longer.
It was a misdemeanor assualt that was elevated to a felony because of a prior conviction.
Are you just looking to argue with me for the sake of arguing?
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Post by swamp on May 9, 2013 12:42:32 GMT -5
Even Ramsey did not try to say his convictions were wrong or irrelevant. He said he learned and grew from there and that isn't who he is today. nobody's excusing what he did. we're pointing out paul's bullshit. He's a flawed dude who did something great. Kind of like lots of other people.
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Post by billisonboard on May 9, 2013 12:44:01 GMT -5
... Just maybe that helps to balance his ledger out a bit. Wonder what it looks like on the ledger of those who felt the need to publish the information?
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Post by The Captain on May 9, 2013 12:47:05 GMT -5
I'm not saying spousal abuse is right, it clearly is not. There are degrees of abuse and the punishment should fit the crime. We don't know the circumstances. However there were unsupported, wild assed statements about him beating his wife to a pulp then speculating that happened three times and saying why wasn't this guy put away for life.
Abuse is not right, but like many crimes there are degrees of severity. In this guys case it appears that the impact on his life was such that he (hopefully) was able to turn things around.
I also notice there are no comments on a woman slapping a man, that's abuse but we don't see women going to prison for it, do we?
I just think it's better to know the details before declaring the man a monster.
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2013 12:54:33 GMT -5
I wasn't arguing with you in particular. The majority of stuff Paul says I disagree with. Saying that domestic violence is not on par to being caught with some weed is one thing I tend to agree with.
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Post by kittensaver on May 9, 2013 13:10:31 GMT -5
So - what is the point? I guy with a negative history is not capable of stepping up and helping someone out in an emergency? I don't think so . . .
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Post by Tennesseer on May 9, 2013 13:25:50 GMT -5
Damn uppity black people trying to help.
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