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Post by Reckless Roselia on Feb 16, 2013 14:07:16 GMT -5
The lady in question won't be a bright bulb if she equates bad boys to boys that her. Bad boys are players in short.
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Post by Virgil Showlion on Feb 16, 2013 14:10:45 GMT -5
Bad boys, bad boys, how'd they getcha ex? How'd they getcha ex, was it just good sex? Bad boys, bad boys.  |
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Post by Jaguar on Feb 16, 2013 14:16:30 GMT -5
Bad boys, bad boys, how'd they getcha ex? How'd they getcha ex, was it just good sex? Bad boys, bad boys.
Virgil hon, don't quit your day job. 
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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2013 14:18:37 GMT -5
The lady in question won't be a bright bulb if she equates bad boys to boys that her. Bad boys are players in short. Sure and every guy that dumps her or moves on is a player? Is that how it works? lol SING IT VIRGIL!  |
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Post by ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ on Feb 16, 2013 14:23:43 GMT -5
Thank you for that, Virgil  - now I'm going to be having the theme song from "Cops" running through my head all day. 
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 16, 2013 14:29:29 GMT -5
A relationship with a bad boy cannot be long lasting. It's not supposed to be. |
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Post by Robert not Bobby on Feb 16, 2013 17:01:41 GMT -5
Because I will do things to you that you will never forget...and I can string a sentence together.
Seriously, what do you mean by Bad Guys: guys who have been in jail? Guys who smash their significant others face in, just for fun? Guys that don't have a job and live off of you? Guys who are always on the run?
Bad guys...uhmm, hmmm.
Ladies, if you are sane, you don't want to meet a bad guy. Some edge, some excitement , sure, but not a bad guy.
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Reckless Roselia
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Post by Reckless Roselia on Feb 16, 2013 17:18:37 GMT -5
The lady in question won't be a bright bulb if she equates bad boys to boys that her. Bad boys are players in short. Is that how it works? lol SING IT VIRGIL! Says who? No one is promoting that. |
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 16, 2013 17:22:44 GMT -5
Well, I certainly don't mean a serial killer, a guy who wants to cook meth in my kitchen or sleep with my sister.
That being said, if I'm looking for a casual relationship with lots of great sex, I'm not going to go for a "nice guy" who is looking for a long-term commitment, marriage and dreams of growing old together. That would be stringing him along and would make ME a player. Not to mention that it's just mean.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2013 18:29:26 GMT -5
Because I will do things to you that you will never forget...and I can string a sentence together. Seriously, what do you mean by Bad Guys: guys who have been in jail? Guys who smash their significant others face in, just for fun? Guys that don't have a job and live off of you? Guys who are always on the run? Bad guys...uhmm, hmmm. Ladies, if you are sane, you don't want to meet a bad guy. Some edge, some excitement , sure, but not a bad guy. lol Robert, a bad boy to me would be one with an edge and a tough guy persona. You could be a bad boy for all I know, are you Robert? |
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Post by zibazinski on Feb 16, 2013 20:36:52 GMT -5
The smart thing is to date the bad boy for fun but marry the nerd for stability! My roommate did just that and she's the happiest woman I know.
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Post by ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ on Feb 16, 2013 21:14:40 GMT -5
I agree about dating the "bad boy" for the fun or excitement - but I don't agree about marrying the nerd for stability - that's not the basis for a good marriage - first there has to be love - even the rakishly good-looking GQ-type guy can be the perfect match - if you're compatible and faithful - and love each other. All nerds aren't necessarily the good guy just because they're nerds (or the quiet type).
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Post by zibazinski on Feb 16, 2013 21:25:54 GMT -5
Yeah they are. They don't cheat, they make good husbands and fathers, and are eternally grateful you married/rescued them! |
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Post by ZaireinHD on Feb 16, 2013 22:01:49 GMT -5
bad guy not an abusive guy - big difference there is someone for everyone marry a bad guy? guess they can find a gal for them as well. break up and THEN call him a bad guy? that's a tough call  |
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Post by zibazinski on Feb 17, 2013 6:07:18 GMT -5
There's all sorts of bad guys, that's true. My idea could be totally different from another's.
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Reckless Roselia
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Post by Reckless Roselia on Feb 17, 2013 7:45:04 GMT -5
Why do bad boys fall for the good girls?
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Post by zibazinski on Feb 17, 2013 9:29:04 GMT -5
Forbidden fruit.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2013 10:11:42 GMT -5
"Good girls" are a challenge.
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Post by ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ on Feb 17, 2013 10:21:29 GMT -5
It worked for Danny & Sandy:
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Post by Robert not Bobby on Feb 17, 2013 18:03:55 GMT -5
Because I will do things to you that you will never forget...and I can string a sentence together. Seriously, what do you mean by Bad Guys: guys who have been in jail? Guys who smash their significant others face in, just for fun? Guys that don't have a job and live off of you? Guys who are always on the run? Bad guys...uhmm, hmmm. Ladies, if you are sane, you don't want to meet a bad guy. Some edge, some excitement , sure, but not a bad guy. lol Robert, a bad boy to me would be one with an edge and a tough guy persona. You could be a bad boy for all I know, are you Robert? At 44, I'm hardly a boy...and I have my boys to worry about (so far so good)...but yeah, I would turn your world upside down. I'm good at that, while it lasts. I may be going through a mid life change. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2013 18:21:16 GMT -5
Why do bad boys fall for the good girls? Bad boys don't fall for good girls, good girls aren't even a challenge, they are easy pickings, Bad boys don't go for bad girls as they are a challenge and they are too busy scamming good guys, it's a process. |
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Post by Robert not Bobby on Feb 17, 2013 19:40:09 GMT -5
Apple you know that looks nothing like you...still. you are not bad looking.
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Post by mmhmm on Feb 17, 2013 23:23:37 GMT -5
Heh. My kitten looks nothing like me, either, Robert. Doesn't look a thing like any of our cats, either. I really don't see the relevance. It's an avatar.  |
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Feb 18, 2013 0:36:43 GMT -5
My eye doesn't look like me either. |
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Feb 18, 2013 0:39:43 GMT -5
And may I say, Z? Some women don't want bad boys for sex or for anything else. Except perhaps as a friend. Some women (me) would like a good man who treats me as well as I'd treat him. I dont' need anymore adventure, thanks.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2013 1:10:42 GMT -5
Apple you know that looks nothing like you...still. you are not bad looking. You are very boyish with your backhanded compliments, some things never change. At least my photo isn't from 1973. |
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Post by ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ on Feb 18, 2013 1:27:01 GMT -5
And looks - or what a person does, can be deceiving. I had a (male) friend in high school - strictly buddies (and he was also a friend of my brother's - they both had motorcycles so they hung out a lot). He was never interested in being a part of the "in-crowd". He was more of a rebel type (what you would call a "bad boy", I guess - always living on the edge and kind of a daredevil - as well as getting into minor scrapes with the law.)
After H/S, we sort of drifted apart - but kept in touch. He trained to become a mechanic and then because of his love of motorcycles and his love of adventure, he ended up joining a biker gang (an offshoot of the HA). He had the long hair, tattoo's, the whole package.
But privately, he was one of the sweetest, nicest guys you could ever meet. He wound up owning his own motorcycle shop, and married the complete opposite of what you would expect - a really nice "good girl" type - she was a very conservative business woman (accounting, I think) - his total opposite.
They have a wonderful marriage and their kids are all grown and doing well.
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Post by Virgil Showlion on Feb 18, 2013 4:30:02 GMT -5
Apple you know that looks nothing like you...still. you are not bad looking. You are very boyish with your backhanded compliments, some things never change. At least my photo isn't from 1973. Take it as a complement, believe me. Whenever Zaire shows off his avatar, the first thing people ask him is "Why are you wearing red boots?"  |
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Post by Reckless Roselia on Feb 18, 2013 6:04:37 GMT -5
Why do bad boys fall for the good girls? Bad boys don't fall for good girls, good girls aren't even a challenge, they are easy pickings, Bad boys don't go for bad girls as they are a challenge and they are too busy scamming good guys, it's a process. Vulnerable is the keyword then. Books based on the good girl and bad boy sell ... ever come across a bad girl and bad boy book or a good girl and good boy one? Maybe but not as much. |
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Post by ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ on Feb 18, 2013 11:42:47 GMT -5
Meh - to each his/her own. People have different reasons for being attracted to someone else - or a particular "type". If they're happy, what does it matter to anyone else but them? It's our own lives and relationships we should be focused on. The straight-laced conservative couple can have the same happiness or problems as the bad boy/good girl couple - or the bad boy/bad girl couple. Who are we to judge why someone's attracted to someone else?
Live and let live.
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