NomoreDramaQ1015
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Jan 19, 2011 14:54:22 GMT -5
as bottom line to dissolve their relationship IF that is what J wanted to do,
Just me, but I am figuring if you go out and boink a person who is NOT your fiance, that YOU have pretty much dissolved the relationship.
But instead of owning up and being the bad guy you do it passive aggressive so you can feel better about yourself.
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The J
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 14:54:48 GMT -5
You can swallow my sword anytime...... As long as there are strict guidelines about who gets what entryway, and clear communication before any shifting happens, I suppose if the chick is hot enough........ Awww, you do love me!! You are hot.......
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 14:55:22 GMT -5
Sorry about People being cheated on...Looking for STAIGHT UP CLUES
Less sex.....etc
From others so if it happens we know what to look for.
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NomoreDramaQ1015
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Jan 19, 2011 14:56:42 GMT -5
Like what? Life isn't like romance novels ya know. Sometimes it isn't always clear the other person is cheating right off the bat.
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 19, 2011 14:56:58 GMT -5
Awww, you do love me!! You are hot....... <<CL looks around for spy cams>> How did you know?
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Post by imawino on Jan 19, 2011 14:57:58 GMT -5
::Life isn't like romance novels ya know.::
This fact disappoints me daily.
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Jan 19, 2011 15:01:40 GMT -5
I want to know why all the men on these shows don't buy some rubbers? After having 6 illegitmate children you'd think they would learn.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 15:02:10 GMT -5
To me J was spnked enuf with that.
There were other clues for him and others that cheating was in the works.
A LIST OF !00 CLUES TO CHEATING [would be a start from combined experiences}
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 19, 2011 15:02:52 GMT -5
::Life isn't like romance novels ya know.:: This fact disappoints me daily. Me too ... or Soap Operas! They seem to always have amazing sex on Soap Operas! I'd kill someone if my life was like a soap. they annoy the crap out of me.
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 15:03:23 GMT -5
Our sex life was normal. What else should I have been looking for oh wise one? Remember those dirty pics we were talking about.... How can I say no to you?
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 19, 2011 15:04:17 GMT -5
<<best innocent look>>
No, no I don't.....
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Post by jennml on Jan 19, 2011 15:04:30 GMT -5
How's this for a clue: ExBF never introduces me to any of his friends or family and is constantly receiving calls from his ExGF, which he would take despite me being right there next to him. He'd even tell her he was with me and to stop calling. Finding out that these calls continued and that his friends had "arranged" for them to run into each other so they could "talk." Final straw: Heading into the movie theater ExBF gets stopped by a group of three people who are clearly friends. I stand awkwardly beside him waiting for an intro., which never comes. He hustles me away...in the theater he says "you're going to be mad...that girl with the white jacket...that's my Ex that keeps calling." Yeah mad was an understatement. This "relationship" only lasted 2 months...although he protests his innocence to this day.
ETA: so the clue here --> keeps you separated from his family anf friends (although this could also be the case if you're the other woman)
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 15:05:02 GMT -5
<<best innocent look>> No, no I don't..... Well, they're the ones I took from your bushes the other day.
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Jan 19, 2011 15:07:55 GMT -5
You know, like with a real person and stuffYou mean the SIMS avatars aren't real!
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Post by jennml on Jan 19, 2011 15:08:05 GMT -5
Deb, have you even been in a real relationship? You know, like with a real person and stuff? You sound like a fucking moron!
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Post by efco on Jan 19, 2011 15:08:45 GMT -5
No name calling, MM.
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 15:09:55 GMT -5
Deb, have you even been in a real relationship? You know, like with a real person and stuff? Does tall_guy count?
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 19, 2011 15:10:39 GMT -5
<<best innocent look>> No, no I don't..... Why didn't you tell me!?!? I need to do some yardwork. Well, they're the ones I took from your bushes the other day.
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 15:11:51 GMT -5
I was planning on leaving some hedgeclippers for you next time
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Jan 19, 2011 15:13:52 GMT -5
I'm sorry you had to find out this wayPlease tell me at least the WoW avatars are real! I don't think I could stand anymore heartbreak! Man it would be awesome if DH was an avatar, then I could just shut off my computer and he'd go "poof" whenever he annoys me.
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DebMD (banned)
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 15:14:26 GMT -5
Jenn
This is the sort of info and anything else I'm looking for thanx.
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Jan 19, 2011 15:14:31 GMT -5
Just when I thought I needed my junior high school English textbook to figure out what Deb was saying, Swampy comes along and provided a simple translation. Yay!!!!!!!!!
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 19, 2011 15:15:46 GMT -5
I was planning on leaving some hedgeclippers for you next time #sick# bite me. You knew I was lazy
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 15:16:36 GMT -5
I was planning on leaving some hedgeclippers for you next time bite me. You knew I was lazy You trim, I bite. Or nibble. Your choice
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 19, 2011 15:17:52 GMT -5
bite me. You knew I was lazy You trim, I bite. Or nibble. Your choice I don't know........sounds like a lot of manual labor to me........is it really worth it?
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Post by The J on Jan 19, 2011 15:18:59 GMT -5
You trim, I bite. Or nibble. Your choice I don't know........sounds like a lot of manual labor to me........is it really worth it? Completely and utterly.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Jan 19, 2011 15:19:39 GMT -5
Jenn post # 73
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Jan 19, 2011 15:21:36 GMT -5
Avatars do what you tell them to do too.
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Post by efco on Jan 19, 2011 15:21:55 GMT -5
No name calling, MM. ha! You'll know when I'm namecallng! I did report you because you are in direct violation of the CoC.
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Post by Cookies Galore on Jan 19, 2011 15:22:04 GMT -5
::Life isn't like romance novels ya know.:: This fact disappoints me daily. Me too ... or Soap Operas! They seem to always have amazing sex on Soap Operas! God no! They're always "making love," even if it's with someone they just met at the gas station. BF and I love each other very much, but "making love" is the furthest thing from what we do!
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