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[Jaguar]

Apr 20, 2012 23:13:12 GMT -5 @femmefatale said:

Apr 20, 2012 23:06:20 GMT -5 Peace Of Mind said:

I was just back reading and I agree with the choices you were given. I'm glad you are enjoying the wine tasting. ;D

I am loving wine, POM...Much better than whiskey...let me teell ya!

[Jaguar]

It's Saturday, were drunk and I'm stuck.


Namaste Sweet Friends, Have A Fabulously Awesome & Joyful Saturday. .

[Jaguar]

Special K 4 U Femme ~~

[femmefatale]

It's Saturday, were drunk and I'm stuck.

That be meh, Sug! I owe ya some karma, tomorrow. i NEED to got ot bed now...ugh!

[Jaguar]

Apr 20, 2012 23:34:49 GMT -5 @femmefatale said:

It's Saturday, were drunk and I'm stuck.

That be meh, Sug! I owe ya some karma, tomorrow. i NEED to got ot bed now...ugh!

Well here is another one 4 U Femme. ~~

[femmefatale]

Back atcha, Sug!

[moxie]

Five unusual turn-ons for men
By Bob Strauss

Marcel Proust wrote, “Let us leave the beautiful women to men with no imagination” — and if you’re loath to take dating advice from a French author who wrote a 10,000-page novel about a guy eating a cookie, well, you’ve clearly been brainwashed by decades of movies, TV shows and magazine ads. Me? I empathize more with all those less-than-perfect single women out there. I’m talking about those ladies who may not know that most ordinary guys are attracted to the quirks and so-called “flaws” they’re terrified will doom them to a lifetime of singlehood.

Now that I’ve opened that door, there’s no way to avoid the one supposed “imperfection” that keeps women awake at night above all others — their weight. Allow yourselves to be reassured by Dr. Judy Kuriansky, author of The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Dating, who says that “many men like plus-sized women with soft bellies. This often happens when they had a mother or nanny who had that kind of body and they felt comforted and enveloped by the mother figure — protected from the world or the insults of other children. Also, men like women with large hips for anthropological reasons — it used to mean that the woman was fertile.” And in my own experience, the vast majority of guys (at least, the ones who aren’t on TV shows or in movies) don’t care much about a few — or even 20 or 30 — extra pounds.

So what other surprising things do a significant number of men find attractive about women? Here are five for your delectation:

1. Glasses. Says Jeff, posting on the Yelp.com message boards: “Every guy loves a girl in glasses, but women never seem to know that. It’s not like we’re keeping it a secret — why would we? It’d mean fewer girls in glasses! Some glasses-lover needs to infiltrate Cosmopolitan magazine and get the word out!” For some guys (mostly the lazy ones who grew up watching teen gross-out comedies), glasses connote a nerdy personality and a high IQ, which can have their own intrinsic appeal; others appreciate them as fashion accessories, while still others have a natural affinity for them because spectacle-wearing women remind them of their mothers or early childhood crushes.

2. Freckles. Just as the deodorant-producing industrial complex has created legions of denatured, pheromone-free men (it turns out that plenty of women like guys with an earthy, musky scent), the powers-that-be in the cosmetics industry have convinced women that their natural freckles need to be buried under thick slabs of spackle and bronzer. Tonja Weimer, writer of the syndicated “Savvy Dating” column, says this is all based on a huge misunderstanding: “Freckles represent being unaffected, natural and relaxed. To some men, they also make a woman appear somewhat ‘innocent’ and less jaded.” If you don’t have freckles, try wearing less makeup, which many men also appreciate.

3. An independent streak. In my own experience, the worst thing a woman can do — whether it’s on a first date or after 20 years of marriage — is subsume her naturally ebullient personality in an effort to be more “accommodating” to her partner and avoid making waves. Most guys like a brisk, good-natured argument, and if you nip this possibility in the bud by constantly replying “I agree” or “Yes, you’re right,” the relationship (not to mention the conversation) will go absolutely nowhere. On the other hand, though, playing devil’s advocate in every conversation just makes you seem combative. So if you find yourself disagreeing more than not with your date, maybe it’s time to look for someone that’s a better fit for you, personality-wise.

4. Plain Janes. Standards of beauty in today’s media-saturated world have become so artificially elevated that many otherwise attractive women are convinced they’re “homely” because of a slightly bigger nose or a crooked smile. The good news is that most guys don’t care about this stuff; the bad news is that a small minority of men have self-esteem issues of their own and will take advantage of yours when given the opportunity. Eric Weisholtz, cofounder of GetOnTheCouch.com, says that “a man may see a woman who is kind of attractive, a bit awkward, unrefined and — whether she knows it or not — in dire need of someone to coach her toward virtue. It’s like finding a ‘make your own girlfriend’ kit.” Don’t feel like being part of a science experiment? Find a guy who likes you for who you are, not what he can make you change about yourself.

5. Assorted quirks. Fran Drescher, star of The Nanny, had a piercing, snorting, abrasive laugh — and all it did was send the ratings of her show through the roof and make her a millionaire many times over. That laugh also unmasked a secret crush that most guys didn’t even know they had: the hot girl with an unexpected quirk. Says Lisa Steadman, author of If He’s Not the One, Who Is?: “You know you’ve met someone who’s a keeper when he or she compliments your quirks. Whether it’s the snort in your laugh or the way you twirl your hair when you’re thinking about something — or the fact that you have to double-check that you hit the alarm button on the car when you get home at night — the right person will think your quirks are adorable.” Remember this the next time you’re feeling self-conscious about slurping your straw three times as you finish your iced latte. You might just have the guy next to you entranced instead of annoyed!

Men, get the women’s perspective on this issue by reading 5 unexpected female turn-ons.

Bob Strauss is a freelance writer and children’s book author who lives in New York City. He’s also written the Dinosaur guide on About.com, the online information network owned by the New York Times.


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Article courtesy of Happen magazine.


WOOT!!

Okay, let's hear what the men here have to say about this article.

[moxie]

"I thik I may like the Relax Riesling, better"

*I had it last night and I agree (they didn't have my usual WI Riesling). Goes nicely with the broiled cod that I had for dinner. I feel so much better today (back to my "normal" self lol)!! Thanks.

[moxie]

Okay...so, I wear glasses AND contacts. I get a few freckles in the summer around my nose. I am VERY independent. I am a plain Jane around the house (I don't wear make up at ALL times), but a Lolita when I go out. lol ;D Hmmmm...am I quirky? Not at all. tee hee

[moxie]

6. Happy, post-menopausal BABES (I took the liberty of adding this one).

[moxie]

Have a nice Saturday, ladies and gentlemen.

[jemima]

Okay, let's hear what the men here have to say about this article.

I'm sure they'll be ducking for the covers, Moxie.

[femmefatale]

Man, I am tired today. I think I need an energy drink.

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Okay, let's hear what the men here have to say about this article.

Hey Mox, nice bit of sense from Bob Strauss there, whoever he is. Very good. It’s the ‘imperfections’, i.e. deviations from the commercially acceptable, that make people unique - makes them who they are - and that’s what you end up loving about them, imo. Independent streak and assorted quirks are a must.

[femmefatale]

Sup, Spiral?

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Ez, lil Ms. Femmey.

Backatcha!

[femmefatale]

;D

I like me some chocolate.

[roygrip]

Hey Mox! You should come south to LA! Eureka rocks! I've got a cabin in Mendocino. Tahoe is beautiful, both my wife an my family used to summer there with our ski boats. Did you see Yosemite? south of Tahoe.

Check out The Doctors, may 15. I'm on the show, segment 3. My story of sobriety and the show fixing my nose! ;D

[femmefatale]

Hiya Roy!! How's you feeling, sweetie???

[ds]

Femme

[moxie]

Roy: I am SO MAD we missed Mendocino!! You have a cabin there? How lucky!! I read it is a MUST SEE! Eureka had some "interesting" folks there...we stopped there for breakfast.

[moxie]

I like this story...and Panama is supposed to be really nice!!

The Man Who Sold His Life on eBay – Ian Usher
April 13, 2012 by Sky Today

Fancy selling your life on eBay and seeing Iceland? That's exactly what Ian Usher did.

In July 2008, Perth man Ian Usher made international headlines when he decided to sell his entire life – including his house, job, car and friends – on eBay, following the breakdown of his marriage.

Almost four years on WAtoday tracked him down, living on a Caribbean island, to find out where the journey took him – and if it was worth it.
It’s a dream many of us have – to throw in the job, sell the house and set off into the great unknown with just a passport and a thirst for adventure.

Ian Usher met his new partner Moe on that most traditional of romantic occasions - a sled dog expedition.
Usually, reality gets in the way. But not for Ian Usher, the Perth man who made international headlines when, during a midlife crisis, he decided to auction his entire life – including his house, job, car and even friends – on eBay.

A heartbroken Mr Usher made the drastic move after his wife left him, six years after they emigrated from England to WA.
In August 2008 he farewelled his friends and left his Wellard home (which eventually sold for $399,000 the traditional way after the winning eBay bidder withdrew at the last minute) bound for Dubai.
Guiding him was a list of 100 goals he wanted to complete in 100 weeks.
Four years and 93 goals later, 48-year-old Mr Usher is now living on his very own Caribbean island and has found love again.
Along the way he visited dozens of countries while ticking off the list of goals, which included running with the bulls in Spain, cage diving with sharks in South Africa, meeting Richard Branson, having a workplace romance, learning to fly a plane and skydiving nude.
Learning French, joining the “mile high” club, developing a six pack and scoring a bit-part in a Hollywood movie were also achieved during what he described as an “incredible” two years.
“I think a couple of stand-out ones were swimming with a mother humpback whale and her calf in Japan, and riding a motorbike on the Wall of Death. My week in Pamplona in Spain was fantastic, and terrifying too, running with the bulls there,” he said.
“(Other standouts were) flying a plane solo, seeing the red crabs at Christmas Island. I could go on, it was an incredible two years.”
Mr Usher’s mission was also altruistic, and saw him raise $10,000 for charity and establish an online support network for those who, like him, found themselves “blindsided” by life.
He wrote lengthy blogs during his travels and has since also self-published a book, A Life Sold ,which was also on his list of goals.
With the last of the money raised from the sale of his house, Mr Usher bought a 2.2 acre island in the Bocas Del Toro off the coast of Panama and has spent the past few months building a house there.
“The journey here was a little random. I just happened to be reading an article on the cheapest places in the world to live, and Panama came up,” he said.
“I really didn’t want to live somewhere where I’d have to work to be able to afford to live – at least for a year or two. I was only doing some initial property research, but made an offer on a small island, which was accepted. It’s very laid back and relaxed.”
While it wasn’t among his 100 goals Mr Usher also managed to find love along the way, with a Canadian woman who helped him achieve his goal of going on a dog-sled ride in the wilderness.
“We didn’t see each other for a further 15 months, but kept in touch. When we met up again in Florida, spending a week together in Jamaica, then a further week in Costa Rica, romance developed,” he said.
His partner, Moe, is a regular visit to the island.
Mr Usher’s journey sounds like the script from a Hollywood movie – and unsurprisingly Hollywood wants to recreate it.
Disney has bought the rights to his story and may make a movie.
Looking back on the adventure, Mr Usher said he had no regrets.
“None at all. It has been the most incredible adventure – exactly what I was after. (I’ve learnt) that I am much happier and more fulfilled when sharing life’s adventure with a partner, and that I am very resilient and resourceful,” he said.
He visited Perth twice during his journey, and said he would be back again soon to see his friends.
Mr Usher said he had been overwhelmed by the support of the hundreds of people he met along the way.
“It always amazes me when people know the story of the eBay life-seller. (They say) ‘that was you?’ Most people are very interested.”
As for the future, Mr Usher wants to finish the house and landscape his island.
What lies ahead beyond that, he says, is a mystery: “I’m still making things up as I go along.”

By Ashok Chatterjee

[moxie]

"Check out The Doctors, may 15. I'm on the show, segment 3. My story of sobriety and the show fixing my nose!" ;D

COOL!! I don't normally watch it much lately, but I will tune in...COME BACK AND REMIND US A DAY OR TWO BEFORE, OKAY? *What was wrong with your nose? Did YOU meet Mitch Stiffwood at the St. Louis Arch in place of gearz??? lol

*I like this Spiral fella.

[femmefatale]

Spiral is kewl.

Hiya, Mox!

[moxie]

"You should come south to LA!"

Another trip we will start in San Diego or LA and work our way up to San Francisco. We had such FUN!! Our son is planning on heading south again for fall semester to start his Master's. He got a letter of acceptance to his first choice school the other day (the program is in the top twenty in the country). I think it will take him three to four semesters. So, we will have one out west and one in the warm south...I'll be gone a lot!!

[moxie]

Hey femme! How are ya feelin'? lol

[moxie]

Lake Tahoe is like the color of Paul Newman's eyes...and my son's and husband's too. GORGEOUS!!

[femmefatale]

Apr 21, 2012 19:00:27 GMT -5 @moxie said:

Hey femme! How are ya feelin'? lol

Doing great, Mox...You?

[Peace Of Mind]

LOL! I first read that as "The Man who sold his Wife on eBay".

[Green Eyed Lady]

No way I could have sold my ex. I'd have had to pay somebody to take him.