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Post by chiver78 on Apr 29, 2024 14:20:12 GMT -5
ugh.....something got in the trash last night, tearing open the bag that had a Ziploc full of the rendered fat from having cooked ground beef for the pups over the weekend. whatever creature it was sat on top of the barrels to nosh on its finds, so both barrel tops are covered in mess. I'm going to have to hose them both down tomorrow after pickup, and I'm definitely putting gloves on to drag them out to the street in the am. guess it's finally warm enough that I need to use the bungee cords to hold the lids closed.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 29, 2024 12:55:34 GMT -5
yup. his Apple phone data puts him in the house going up and down stairs. the Feds actually investigated the DA's office's handling of the investigation and the defense has the county DA on their witness list. it's a complete shit show. if you can find a clip of the defense's opening statement, it was fantastic. basically saying that the homeowner and his family had been seen as royalty in the town for generations, and that KR was a convenient outsider to pin this on when they realized shit went sideways. I will have to look it up. But seriously "how long to die in cold?"? GTFOH. Small town police at its finest. oh, they have an explanation for that - KR asked her to search for that at 6am when they found him. nevermind that the data extraction shows the search happened at 2am before he was even out in the snow. I cannot wait for the defense to cross examine any of these idiots and just destroy them. ETA: for anyone interested in following live, here's a local news station's YouTube channel. they will be streaming teh entire proceedings here, zero commentary. NBC10 Boston
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 29, 2024 12:13:55 GMT -5
today's background noise (and that of the next few weeks) is the start of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts vs Karen Read. she's the woman accused of hitting her boyfriend while driving drunk in a snowstorm and leaving him to die in the snow. autopsy photos that have been released as part of defense filings show injuries clearly not related to being hit by a car, but rather being bitten by a dog in the house where she had dropped him off for an after-hours party at the house of a fellow Boston police officer. this is a basic summary of the facts that have come to light. and yes, it's 32min long. the man speaking is the investigative blogger that blew this case up in the media after he started digging. he's very inflammatory and I'm not a fan of his for various reasons, but when he does a deep dive like this - he's never been wrong. I want to watch that trial! Isn't that one where she left him with his policeman buddies, went home, and then found him in the snow the next day? Nothing shady there. Total setup, IMO. I can't even believe it is even going to trial. yup. his Apple phone data puts him in the house going up and down stairs. the Feds actually investigated the DA's office's handling of the investigation and the defense has the county DA on their witness list. it's a complete shit show. if you can find a clip of the defense's opening statement, it was fantastic. basically saying that the homeowner and his family had been seen as royalty in the town for generations, and that KR was a convenient outsider to pin this on when they realized shit went sideways.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 29, 2024 9:23:21 GMT -5
today's background noise (and that of the next few weeks) is the start of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts vs Karen Read. she's the woman accused of hitting her boyfriend while driving drunk in a snowstorm and leaving him to die in the snow. autopsy photos that have been released as part of defense filings show injuries clearly not related to being hit by a car, but rather being bitten by a dog in the house where she had dropped him off for an after-hours party at the house of a fellow Boston police officer.
this is a basic summary of the facts that have come to light. and yes, it's 32min long. the man speaking is the investigative blogger that blew this case up in the media after he started digging. he's very inflammatory and I'm not a fan of his for various reasons, but when he does a deep dive like this - he's never been wrong.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 28, 2024 17:54:09 GMT -5
lol.....I feel you, gira.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 28, 2024 17:34:34 GMT -5
there's a weird theater outside again, for Mrs Crazypants next door. an ambulance is in their driveway, and a fire truck and SUV are parked on the wrong side of the street surrounding the driveway, all with lights. there's also a dude in a fireman's reflector jacket in the street, directing traffic around the vehicles. I actually just called my mother to see if anything weird happened last weekend while I was away, and nothing. I've seen Mr walking around in the driveway, so I know it's her again, for whatever it is. what's weird is that I've seen both of them out on walks today. and she's been pacing again, at least before I left last week.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 28, 2024 17:15:18 GMT -5
eh, the hell with house productivity today. I moved the laptop outside to sit in the sun. I'll be scrolling LinkedIn, etc and hopefully throwing in some applications. today wasn't supposed to be sunny here, so this is bonus time and Vitamin D. I've been off for four days and remarkably unproductive the entire time. I have however managed to watch three entire seasons of Black Sails and sort a few totes from my bedroom disaster of totes.
I'm a little annoyed with myself tbh.
I totally get that. sometimes it's needed, though. see also, my marathon nap last Friday. you and cg list out so much physical work on a daily basis, don't sweat a few days of being a slug. your body told you to have a seat for a change.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 28, 2024 14:49:31 GMT -5
that sounds delish, soupandstew!
I'm reheating the leftover Lombardy now, with some fresh cooked pappardelle, for a big meal today, and will be restarting tomorrow with plans. I have two BSCB to use up by 04May, per the sticker. no real idea what I want to do with them, so please help break me out of my rut with some suggestions. TIA!
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 28, 2024 13:29:26 GMT -5
eh, the hell with house productivity today. I moved the laptop outside to sit in the sun. I'll be scrolling LinkedIn, etc and hopefully throwing in some applications. today wasn't supposed to be sunny here, so this is bonus time and Vitamin D.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 28, 2024 11:09:45 GMT -5
I need to get moving, also. my newspaper actually was delivered this morning (late), so I'm still sitting here with the magazine and the crossword puzzle. pups are out cold bc I've been a slug.
I need to shower, and fold a couple loads of laundry. there's not much else on tap for today TBH. the four active Boston major sports teams all played yesterday (3W, 1L) so there's nothing I really want to watch today. I'll find hockey later for background noise, I think. maybe the Sox? idk.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 28, 2024 9:07:26 GMT -5
Emily Gilmore from Gilmore Girls - claims to be DAR heh, I was right, it is KB!
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 28, 2024 9:06:57 GMT -5
I'm making a chicken sandwich at 8:45 am. It sounded good and the Walmart brand chicken patties in the blue bag taste just like a McChicken. Just in case anyone was wondering. I like their spicy ones, but they are hard to find lately. I chop one into a big salad.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 27, 2024 19:56:10 GMT -5
This is the only reason I know what DAR means 😂 And I have no idea what that photo means So, I already knew what DAR was. but this pic looks like Kelly Bishop at tea. *KB was Mrs Houseman in Dirty Dancing, with MANY other credits along the way.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 27, 2024 15:58:45 GMT -5
chicken Lombardy is in progress, currently sauteeing baby spinach with all of the minced garlic. my house smells amazing rn 🤤 added bonus - I found mushroom ravioli in the freezer. done!
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 27, 2024 15:46:20 GMT -5
this. I had a short pipe from my sump in the last house, and then after the basement flooded in the big ice storm in 2017 and I lost power (thereby making the sump useless...)......when the power came back on and the sump was working overtime, it ended up creating a pond right next to the house where the pipe ended. mooch ended up extending the PVC pipe to the low point in the corner of the yard, under the fence. **make sure when/if you do extend your pipe, that you check the slopes to make sure it all drains out. It isn't short, it goes about 25 feet away from the house, but at the end of the pvc pipe (which is buried) there's a vertical cylinder that the pipe feeds into with a grate on top and the water comes out of that (they call it a "bubbler"). Well, that thing is always full of water and until I dug a little trench the grate was under standing water too. That part is going to freeze FOR SURE. It's basically like having a coffee can sized container of water just below the surface.
I'm not sure I'm explaining this well. I should go take pictures.
I've never seen that residentially around here, but have seen it in new sites I've been involved with commissioning. I followed your explanation 🙂 I guess my question is, does the water have enough room to expand when it freezes, in the pathway that's there? if it freezes, you can chip it to make room for more if need be. but if it's gonna expand with no room and crack the hardware that's there, that will be a bigger mess.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 27, 2024 14:46:59 GMT -5
I'm feeling very torn on all this basement waterproofing. I finally have a sump after 24 years without one, but my basement is trashed and some things are going to be difficult to fix. I can deal with that, but what I'm really not liking is the discharge line setup outside. It is most certainly going to freeze up in the winter looking at how it's working now and there is no easy way I can bypass it how it is now. Not something that is going to be an issue for awhile, but just a new stressor on my plate when I'm already feeling overwhelmed. We had a very wet year with Mom's basement going into winter one year. We built a frame for the sump pump discharge hose to rest in at a pretty good angle so that the water could not pool inside the hose and freeze. The other option we thought of was a pvc pipe with a heat tape connected to the discharge. Mostly you just have to set up the discharge so the water pumps out the hose and drains completely leaving no water in the hose to freeze. this. I had a short pipe from my sump in the last house, and then after the basement flooded in the big ice storm in 2017 and I lost power (thereby making the sump useless...)......when the power came back on and the sump was working overtime, it ended up creating a pond right next to the house where the pipe ended. mooch ended up extending the PVC pipe to the low point in the corner of the yard, under the fence. **make sure when/if you do extend your pipe, that you check the slopes to make sure it all drains out.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 27, 2024 14:33:14 GMT -5
Pretty sure I'm going to burn in the afterlife. Sitting in a committee meeting and someone actually said, "you should listen to me, I'm a member of the DAR." I texted my buddy across the room and asked if that meant Dumb As Rocks and she had to fake a coughing spell for cover. Seriously, who says stupid stuff like that? people that think that qualifies them for anything simply because of who their ancestors are. sadly there's a lot of idiots like this out there.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 27, 2024 13:19:47 GMT -5
well, I think I'm finally getting the luggage out of my dining room today. last load of clothes just went in the washer, and I'm about to upend the roller case. the first of four hockey games today has just started, and that's going to be background noise the rest of the day. I may go sit outside to watch some of it, idk. I should really get moving and be more productive. I got sucked into some Investigation Discovery episodes earlier.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 27, 2024 7:33:17 GMT -5
well, nobody woke me up for food last night, so I slept again til almost 2. farted around on my phone for a couple hours and dozed off again for another couple more. I'm currently enjoying a cup of coffee while I listen to the news about an encampment of Israel/Gaza protestors on my college's campus is being broken up this morning.
on tap for today are a Home Depot/McDonald's drive-thru run (with an extra hash brown for the pups!) and then some major cleaning. today I will either fix the damn vacuum cleaner and use it, or finally decide I need a new one.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 27, 2024 4:10:42 GMT -5
oh wow. I'm going to have to check on my cousin when it isn't zero dark thirty. she posted to FB 9h ago but nothing since. I think she's in Council Bluffs now.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 26, 2024 20:02:59 GMT -5
my body decided I needed a nap earlier, so I climbed into bed for a little while. well, I woke up around 730 thinking it was morning, and checking my phone to see why the alarm hadn't gone off. 🤦♀️ neither pup rustled when I got up to pee, so I climbed back into bed. I think, unless one of them declares otherwise later on, that I'm in bed for the night. we can all do a big breakfast in the am.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 26, 2024 19:57:43 GMT -5
We're okay. The worst is over for the moment. Wilbur did not like being downstairs. He was freaking out pretty bad. No damage to our house and we still have power. It took out Eppley airfield and 35th and Broadway. took out Eppley Airfield..? 😯
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 26, 2024 14:10:05 GMT -5
Hubs and I were so used to living alone, these breaks we get from each other are likely very welcome to both of us. I'm bad but I was excited for him to go, not that daily cooking thing. DD and I have had a lot of fish this week, catfish, and cod, both so good. I just put a couple of fillets in the microwave to thaw. It's not on, I just have to put them in there to keep the cats from playing bat a steak. Don't really want them with claw marks through the wrapping, with the same claws they scratch the potty with, yuck. Hubs just called and so far the plane is a half hour late, the toilet wasn't working. that's a delay worth waiting for, better than figuring it out in the air.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 26, 2024 13:18:18 GMT -5
well, the hammer dropped a little yesterday, re: RTO. my boss heard back from the HR rep that was travelling when his first flare went out. apparently, I'll have until X date (still TBD) to comply or I'll get a written warning. boss confirmed this is internal and wouldn't affect any future reference checks, that's nice. that said, I also told him I'd figure it out if push comes to shove and I have to, but to be on notice that my productivity is going to take a hit as I'll be sitting on the fucking highway during my most productive time of day. I can request a meeting with HR, which I will be, and where I'll be politely and professionally blunt as I ask what the end goal is of RTO. b/c X, Y, Z that I've already explained here show that there is zero need for me to be in person for the job I perform. guess I'll be applying for everything that sounds good this weekend, and see what sticks. that's how I ended up here this time, trying to GTFO of that train wreck place. could be a good thing? I'm sorry. Like I said before, it seems like a good day for a virtual cocktail hour. oh, I poured one when I got back home from a walk with the goobers - the first in probably a month. I busted my ankle, then the landscapers were here all days, and then vacation. today's walk was all about sniffing ALL of the sniffs more so than walking, but that's okay. we're gonna be walking again now that I'm home. oh look, it's time for a refill! lol...
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 26, 2024 12:47:59 GMT -5
well, the hammer dropped a little yesterday, re: RTO. my boss heard back from the HR rep that was travelling when his first flare went out. apparently, I'll have until X date (still TBD) to comply or I'll get a written warning. boss confirmed this is internal and wouldn't affect any future reference checks, that's nice. that said, I also told him I'd figure it out if push comes to shove and I have to, but to be on notice that my productivity is going to take a hit as I'll be sitting on the fucking highway during my most productive time of day. I can request a meeting with HR, which I will be, and where I'll be politely and professionally blunt as I ask what the end goal is of RTO. b/c X, Y, Z that I've already explained here show that there is zero need for me to be in person for the job I perform. guess I'll be applying for everything that sounds good this weekend, and see what sticks. that's how I ended up here this time, trying to GTFO of that train wreck place. could be a good thing?
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 25, 2024 19:14:12 GMT -5
last night ended up being Kraft dinner. finally making risotto tonight - spinach/cremini/pancetta. I just put the IP under pressure, so I'll be eating soon. I'm also cooking off two family packs of ground beef (80/20) and wilted chopped kale for the pups. I'll have a bunch of leftovers for the weekend, which is nice. I figured out at least one BSCB from the package - there will be chicken Lombardy this week. creminis were on sale, so I grabbed two packages. I set aside the huge ones as I wiped down some to chop for the risotto tonight. the huge ones will get stuffed at some point with a chicken sausage stuffing, topped with sliced provolone and baked off. I'll use the rest of the smaller ones with the chicken Lombardy.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 25, 2024 17:29:28 GMT -5
I loaned DH some of my IcyHot gel to try and he found it helpful (leftover knee pain from jumping rope on concrete floor again) so after breakfast we stopped at CVS. They didn't have my kind (2.5% menthol, vanishing scent gel) but he got a tube of 4% lidocaine, 1% menthol cream. I ordered a couple of tubes of my stuff from Amazon when we got home. For those of us who don't take oral pain killers like Tylenol or Aleve, it's surprisingly effective. Author came by with a DVD player as expected and we'll try to set it up this weekend. He also brought about 8 handwritten chapters. Two were new material which I typed up, printed out and attached a note on where I recommended he insert them in the finished book. The rest already appear in the book in one place or another, but his memory is such that he can't see that so I typed them up AGAIN, printed out the chapters where the material already appears, highlighted those passages and fastened new and old versions together which my recommendation. It's so hard to see him struggle in that way. IcyHot is magical. glad you found more.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 25, 2024 7:57:25 GMT -5
today's shaping up to be a productive one. my head is screwed on straight, and I'm ready to go. pups are at daycare, and the laundry is already cranking. 2nd load is in the washer, both sets of guest sheets so far. next in line are all the towels and cruise laundry. sheets and towels are easy enough to just throw in a pile and fold/roll later. I'd like to be fully unpacked before going to pick the pups up this afternoon.
there's not too many calls in my calendar for today, so I'm hoping to get through last week's stuff in my inbox. in theory, anything super urgent got forwarded to my boss, and he'd have included me in his response.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 25, 2024 7:47:57 GMT -5
Good morning, observant invisipeeps with problematic or unusual family and coworkers ruffling the peace of your days. Welcome to Thursday. I hope you find a burst of energy today to pursue something that you love to do and end with a truly awesome dessert or beverage. And that nothing spots your lawn with yellow. Today I'm going to pack up the pictures DD wired for display and try again to remove the screws holding in the last drawer pull in the kitchen. If I could figure out how, I'd cut it out. It's very frustrating. Yesterday I brought DH to urgent care for his shoulder/back, but the wait to see someone was 2+ hours so we left. Going to try early this morning again, then bring Franklin the Dog to get groomed. He insists that he can help set up the show on Saturday but I don't see how unless he is on groovy meds. The sun shone yesterday. It's colder today, but I think the sunrise will be similar. Here is yesterday's sun rising, lighting a path in the water: not sure where you went yesterday, but there's rarely a wait at the Southcoast UC in the big shopping plaza where the highways meet near me. hopefully you have better luck today.
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Post by chiver78 on Apr 24, 2024 18:17:41 GMT -5
She sounds like a real piece of work. Let's put it this way: I am not trading one of my sisters in for her. Not in this universe or any other. lmfao! I don't answer her most of the time, TBH. but I cut her short last night as the airport bus arrived, so I figured I'd answer this afternoon as I was closing up shop. usually I can click my shit out and let her pratter, but not today. 🤦♀️ and I feel the need to point out that we are on p2167, which is the last 4 digits of the phone number at the house my parents sold during covid in order to move into the hotel. random milestone, woot! 🤣🙃😎
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