He is younger

[Deleted]

Sinfully good & you must be in great shape to grab the attention of a man 20 years younger than you. Although I do not really understand the "no race" bit. Is he from outer space? 

[Opti]

May 30, 2016 0:12:22 GMT -5 tloonya said:

What if you are 50 and he is 29...and he is single
no kids and he is not of your religion no race
is it a sin?

Wreck your brains! Here I said it!

My brain is fine. There is no sin on this, he's legal. Race & religion only matter if they matter to *you* or them(the couple).

[Opti]

OK, Tlooyna, here's one for you-

56 year old woman, 30 year old man. Overachieving man owns a garage(mechanic fixing high end cars). Go.

(I know I might regret this, so...

crested gecko

snow leopard

telematics

kumquat )

[andi9899]

20 years younger than me is illegal.

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May 30, 2016 1:45:45 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

20 years younger than me is illegal.

Ugh. Not for me it isn't. Although just barely. How depressing.

[Opti]

May 30, 2016 1:45:45 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

20 years younger than me is illegal.

So you are younger than 38?

[Opti]

May 30, 2016 2:12:59 GMT -5 @empressspunkles said:

May 30, 2016 1:45:45 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

20 years younger than me is illegal.

Ugh. Not for me it isn't. Although just barely. How depressing.

It's depressing to get older and not be dead? Optimist confused.

[andi9899]

May 30, 2016 2:20:09 GMT -5 Opti said:

May 30, 2016 1:45:45 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

20 years younger than me is illegal.

So you are younger than 38?

Yes! And I am hanging on to my 30s with everything I have!

[zibazinski]

Unless it's the movie "Tim" I'm sure you're joking

[Shooby]

If you intend it as a temporary relationship, then OK.   But, for the long term, it won't work.  Sorry.  It seems to work with older man , younger woman but not so much with much older woman, much younger man.  Maybe for awhile, but it won't last.

[resolution]

If he already has his kids or if there is a permanent reason that he doesn't want them, then you are fine. If he just isn't ready for them yet, you are going to run into problems when he wants them and you are already done.

In your specific case the sin component would be that you are already married to someone else right now.

[zibazinski]

I think it's like puppies. Cute to play with but then they become dogs.

[Anne_in_VA]

[tloonya]

Hey! Didn't mean to delete the post. Just wanted to
edit but selected wrong option.
It was about older women and younger man like 50/29.
Just had a conversation last night about it
and as always had tried to run it trough you
guys.
I agree that short term is ok.
Long run - too expensive in plastic surgeries!
Lol

[tloonya]

May 30, 2016 0:57:28 GMT -5 @rockit said:

Sinfully good & you must be in great shape to grab the attention of a man 20 years younger than you. Although I do not really understand the "no race" bit. Is he from outer space? 

I meant nor. So they are totally different.
Nothing in common. However...

[NancysSummerSip]

Is there something about a TLoony post that makes it seem like this board crosses into another dimension at times?

I'll be reading threads, posting as usual, and then, there it is...the TLoony Twilight Zone descends. A thread so far out in left field, it is not even in the ballpark anymore. It's not playing by the same game rules as the rest of us. It has taken on its own life form.

I live for this stuff. Really, I do.

[tloonya]

May 30, 2016 9:36:43 GMT -5 NancysSummerSip said:

Is there something about a TLoony post that makes it seem like this board crosses into another dimension at times?

I'll be reading threads, posting as usual, and then, there it is...the TLoony Twilight Zone descends. A thread so far out in left field, it is not even in the ballpark anymore. It's not playing by the same game rules as the rest of us. It has taken on its own life form.

I live for this stuff. Really, I do.

You are welcome. I am glad to give some
lives meaning!

[billisonboard]

Intergenerational relationships can set up interesting situations. For example, there was a time that I was living with a woman older than the woman my father was married to.

[andi9899]

I've never dated someone 20 years younger than me, but I have dated someone 20 years older than me. I had no problem with the age difference, and he said he didn't either. But that relationship ultimately ended for various reasons including him being obsessed with the possibility of me running off with a younger man.

[gregintenn]

My wife is a year older than me. Does that count?

[tloonya]

May 30, 2016 11:21:02 GMT -5 gregintenn said:

My wife is a year older than me. Does that count?

One! No only 21 would count.

Are you planning on running away with younger woman?

I am 18...

[tloonya]

May 30, 2016 10:24:44 GMT -5 billisonboard said:

Intergenerational relationships can set up interesting situations. For example, there was a time that I was living with a woman older than the woman my father was married to.

I hope she was rich.

I had always liked older men.

DH is 10 years older.

HAD one 12 years older, but 21?

One was 7 years younger, we are still communicating.

He is in Europe so there is no harm done.

21 years younger?

I think I would be laughing and laughing while pinching his cheeks.

[Deleted]

I'm totally up for a casual weekend fling with a 20 something.   Long-term relationship?  No thanks.  

[Deleted]

May 30, 2016 11:46:50 GMT -5 tloonya said:

May 30, 2016 10:24:44 GMT -5 billisonboard said:

Intergenerational relationships can set up interesting situations. For example, there was a time that I was living with a woman older than the woman my father was married to.

I hope she was rich.

I had always liked older men.

DH is 10 years older.

HAD one 12 years older, but 21?

One was 7 years younger, we are still communicating.

He is in Europe so there is no harm done.

21 years younger?

I think I would be laughing and laughing while pinching his cheeks.

I use to like older men too. Until I got to be older lol. For some reason when I got around age 40, I started getting attention from younger men. Younger including men in their kid to late 20's. That was a bit too much of an age difference for me. My sweetie is 5 years younger than me.

[Deleted]

May 30, 2016 2:21:39 GMT -5 Opti said:

May 30, 2016 2:12:59 GMT -5 @empressspunkles said:

Ugh. Not for me it isn't. Although just barely. How depressing.

It's depressing to get older and not be dead? Optimist confused.

Well, there's that but I meant that my boytoys would all be over legal age. I can't poach minors. That just gives me the willies. And God only knows about the size of their willies and those younger ages. Besides, would they actually know what to do with them besides grope themselves?

[Anne_in_VA]

DH is 10 years younger than I am.  Both Ex's were older, but not by much.  After my second divorce, I dated a lot of younger guys, including one that was just a few years older than DS.  He was fun, bit I didn't really want to raise another young'un.

[Anne_in_VA]

I found when I was in my 40's most of the men asking me out were late 20's to mid 30's.  I've never looked my age though and I still don't so maybe that was why.

[NastyWoman]

May 30, 2016 3:53:52 GMT -5 andi9899 said:

May 30, 2016 2:20:09 GMT -5 Opti said:

So you are younger than 38?

Yes! And I am hanging on to my 30s with everything I have!

So am I and next year DS1 and I will be twins 

[MJ2.0]

I can't go younger than 26 or older than 42 (I'm 33).

[andi9899]

May 30, 2016 15:58:56 GMT -5 MJ2.0 said:

I can't go younger than 26 or older than 42 (I'm 33).

Last year I was 36 and had a fling with a 24 yo. It made me appreciate older men.