yogiii
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Post by yogiii on Feb 18, 2016 7:13:14 GMT -5
I started a new job recently, same company but different location and the job is so different I may as well have no experience with anything. Anyway, I've come across two recent YM topics.
1. I'm new to everyone so again I'm seeing the fresh looks of "oh your name is weird" go across all the faces. It's kind of funny
2. I don't have pics of the kids at my desk but somehow it came up in conversation and one of my new co-workers said "Wow, I can't believe you are old enough to have kids. I thought you were single and just out of school!". Now although I'm not sure what that says about my work (actually it doesn't matter much, I'm new!), it really was one of the nicest things anyone had ever said to me! Maybe I should just say I'm 21 now, or maybe this person is really in need of an eye appt.
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GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl
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Post by GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl on Feb 18, 2016 8:48:34 GMT -5
We control the world and can see the future.
Everything in your life happens because YMOT makes it so.
Do not be frightened or creeped out, we come in peace and want only to see your budget.
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MJ2.0
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Post by MJ2.0 on Feb 18, 2016 9:32:19 GMT -5
do you have a really ethnic first/last name? I have a really common first name (you all probably know it by now) and an almost equally common last name (and even more common maiden name) so I don't know what that's like.
Maybe you should put up a sign in your cube that says "yes I have kids. No you can't see them."
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yogiii
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Post by yogiii on Feb 18, 2016 9:43:57 GMT -5
Yes it's ethnic and the nickname is also ethnic and no, I won't go by anything else people can deal .
Another funny aspect is that I did work here my first two years at the company (so back when I really was 21-22). Almost every day, I see someone in the hall who I haven't seen in 12ish years (gulp) and the overwhelming response is "Hey, you're all grown up!", after the "good to see you" and what nots.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2016 10:29:48 GMT -5
In my experience it is not good to be known as "too young". When I got my first corporate job out of college I was 20 and got hired into a professional position beyond entry level. I was 6'4 and looked 24, no way they would have hired me had I actually looked 20. My boss found out when we were out at a restaurant after work with some colleagues from out of town, they were riding me pretty hard for not drinking and my boss kept asking me why I wasn't, I finally got sick of it and said "because I'm 20". He was stunned, and also didn't treat me very well after it so I was really lucky he moved on from that role 4 months later.
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Lizard Queen
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Post by Lizard Queen on Feb 18, 2016 10:48:33 GMT -5
Don't you know that you're not supposed to get the opportunity for a good job if you have a weird name? Off to McJobs to you! I also got the "look, you're all grown up!" comment, too. I pointed out that I was actually older than some of the others in the office.
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yogiii
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Post by yogiii on Feb 18, 2016 11:08:02 GMT -5
In my experience it is not good to be known as "too young". When I got my first corporate job out of college I was 20 and got hired into a professional position beyond entry level. I was 6'4 and looked 24, no way they would have hired me had I actually looked 20. My boss found out when we were out at a restaurant after work with some colleagues from out of town, they were riding me pretty hard for not drinking and my boss kept asking me why I wasn't, I finally got sick of it and said "because I'm 20". He was stunned, and also didn't treat me very well after it so I was really lucky he moved on from that role 4 months later. Color me vain, I'd rather look good.
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GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl
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Post by GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl on Feb 18, 2016 13:39:20 GMT -5
In my experience it is not good to be known as "too young". When I got my first corporate job out of college I was 20 and got hired into a professional position beyond entry level. I was 6'4 and looked 24, no way they would have hired me had I actually looked 20. My boss found out when we were out at a restaurant after work with some colleagues from out of town, they were riding me pretty hard for not drinking and my boss kept asking me why I wasn't, I finally got sick of it and said "because I'm 20". He was stunned, and also didn't treat me very well after it so I was really lucky he moved on from that role 4 months later. Color me vain, I'd rather look good. Having met yogiii at the New England meet up last month, I can verify that she does look like she is in her early twenties. Biotch.
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tloonya
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Post by tloonya on Feb 18, 2016 13:55:37 GMT -5
How does it make YM creepy?
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yogiii
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Post by yogiii on Feb 18, 2016 14:17:06 GMT -5
Color me vain, I'd rather look good. Having met yogiii at the New England meet up last month, I can verify that she does look like she is in her early twenties. Biotch. I have a new favorite
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MJ2.0
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Post by MJ2.0 on Feb 18, 2016 14:30:51 GMT -5
In my experience it is not good to be known as "too young". When I got my first corporate job out of college I was 20 and got hired into a professional position beyond entry level. I was 6'4 and looked 24, no way they would have hired me had I actually looked 20. My boss found out when we were out at a restaurant after work with some colleagues from out of town, they were riding me pretty hard for not drinking and my boss kept asking me why I wasn't, I finally got sick of it and said "because I'm 20". He was stunned, and also didn't treat me very well after it so I was really lucky he moved on from that role 4 months later. Color me vain, I'd rather look good. it's different for men though. They want to look older. When X first started working for the school library, they thought he was 35 and that I was an undergrad. Little did they know that I was 25 and older than him
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Post by zibazinski on Feb 18, 2016 21:00:49 GMT -5
Color me vain, I'd rather look good. Having met yogiii at the New England meet up last month, I can verify that she does look like she is in her early twenties. Biotch. Did you see the picture of MJ? She could pass for late teens early twenties. Lawsy!
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GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl
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Post by GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl on Feb 18, 2016 23:14:52 GMT -5
Having met yogiii at the New England meet up last month, I can verify that she does look like she is in her early twenties. Biotch. Did you see the picture of MJ? She could pass for late teens early twenties. Lawsy! I missed it. That's okay, MJ's and Yogii's kids are young. When their kids are teenagers, they'll have grey hairs like the rest of us. ;-)
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MJ2.0
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Post by MJ2.0 on Feb 19, 2016 5:41:07 GMT -5
Having met yogiii at the New England meet up last month, I can verify that she does look like she is in her early twenties. Biotch. Did you see the picture of MJ? She could pass for late teens early twenties. Lawsy! You are being WAY too generous!
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Post by zibazinski on Feb 19, 2016 6:37:16 GMT -5
Did you see the picture of MJ? She could pass for late teens early twenties. Lawsy! You are being WAY too generous! Not a bit Other posters can back me up!!
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