nutty
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Post by nutty on Oct 3, 2015 19:50:51 GMT -5
Wanted to touch base with you all. Friday I got the phone call that I was waiting for. Attorney called and he has agreed to the alimony figure. It went back and forth a few times but it was the only thing preventing the end of this. So I go tuesday to sign off on it and then I guess it goes to the judge who will approve and I will be divorced
I will say that a huge cry is on it's way and it's probably going to come at a bad time though.
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kjto1
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Post by kjto1 on Oct 3, 2015 21:30:56 GMT -5
Sending good thoughts your way.
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Oct 3, 2015 21:38:19 GMT -5
I'm sorry that you're hurting. I know you didn't want the divorce in the first place. I am glad that there is resolution though and you can move on to this new chapter of your life.
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Post by busymom on Oct 3, 2015 22:02:40 GMT -5
Congratulations on getting what you feel is a reasonable settlement! (Not everyone does.)
Now that the business end of this is done, you can breathe. And, cry if you want.
Next, begin thinking about the future. The world is YOUR oyster!
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chiver78
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Post by chiver78 on Oct 3, 2015 22:10:49 GMT -5
Congratulations on getting what you feel is a reasonable settlement! (Not everyone does.)
Now that the business end of this is done, you can breathe. And, cry if you want.
Next, begin thinking about the future. The world is YOUR oyster! you do you. if that means a good cry, then have at it. just please remember to pay attention to yourself as you learn what your new normal means.
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Post by Jaguar on Oct 3, 2015 22:12:27 GMT -5
Congrats and << BIG HUGS >>
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Post by Apple on Oct 3, 2015 23:16:21 GMT -5
Glad it's almost over! It can be a rough time, and different things will hit harder than others, but always remember, it's better to be alone than with the wrong person.
Best of luck.
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Post by Baby Fawkes on Oct 3, 2015 23:37:22 GMT -5
I'm both happy and sympathetic for you. Really glad to hear that things are finally resolving themselves and you are getting the settlement you wanted. Hugs your way for the fact that you are going through it in the first place and that you need to deal with all of this.
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Oct 5, 2015 8:44:38 GMT -5
Give yourself time to grieve; it is important. But not enough time to stew and pity. Get up, get out and get busy reorganizing your life. I'm not trying to minimize the grief; only saying that you have to move forward and outward, too. It won't shorten the grieving process, but it may help make it easier to deal with.
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Wisconsin Beth
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on Oct 5, 2015 8:49:20 GMT -5
It's good it's going to be completed. Best of luck as you keep moving forward.
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Post by sapphire12 on Oct 5, 2015 20:11:10 GMT -5
Glad the divorce is being resolved. Take time to grieve. Best wishes moving forward on your new life's journey.
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Post by TheOtherMe on Oct 6, 2015 19:38:31 GMT -5
Happy to hear your divorce is finally going to happen and you will be getting the alimony you deserve. Now, take care of yourself as you start your new life.
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