andi9899
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Post by andi9899 on Feb 17, 2015 13:44:10 GMT -5
I dated this guy on and off for about a year and a half. He was either watching me or had some kind of 6th sense or something. He would pretty much blow me off unless he wanted a piece of andi. But any time I was with another guy, he would start blowing up my phone. Didn't matter if it was just a friend or I was on a date. I always joked that he could sense foreign penises.
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milee
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Post by milee on Feb 17, 2015 14:54:20 GMT -5
Never saw or heard from him again until about 3 years ago, when he sent me a message on Facebook. As if I want to talk to his crazy ass. It's amazing how differently men and women interpret the exact same event. I'm a woman, so I agree with you that this guy's behavior was creepy, stalker, crazy. But a lot of men would blow things like that off as just a guy that was "into you" and "made a few mistakes", no biggie.
I saw this in action this last weekend when a girlfriend and I had a small incident (not nearly as creepy as what you're describing) with a pair of strangers on Friday night. Police were called, etc. But then Saturday morning, the same two guys show up again and act like it was all no big deal, that they were just drunk and no harm, no foul...
My guess is that your crazy guy thinks everything was no big deal and even if it was, it's just water under the bridge now, so why wouldn't you talk to him?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 18:09:55 GMT -5
I typed another post and deleted it because it's all ancient history. But he did so much crazy, stalkerish stuff that forever from now would be too soon for me to be willing to deal with him in any kind of way.
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Icelandic Woman
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Post by Icelandic Woman on Feb 18, 2015 15:43:34 GMT -5
Oh darn I was hoping that we had gotten an answer on the mystery. I guess we will never know. But it was fun guessing.
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Lizard Queen
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Post by Lizard Queen on Feb 18, 2015 16:16:54 GMT -5
I have no suggestions. But I enjoyed reading all the ones posted by others! Lizard Queen What songs were on the tape? -Just curious! Okay--here's the crazy thing. I barely looked in my basement, but got this crazy idea that maybe the tape was in a logical place--by my stereo with the rest of my old tapes/cd's that I never listen to. Guess what? It was right on top! So, side 1: Cher and Peter Cetera -- After All Side 2: Cher--Dangerous Times I think I must have been 18 and it was the summer between high school and college. Otherwise, I might have thought it was from a guy I worked with, but I knew it wasn't him (so it must have happened before that). The only logical person would be the guy I already went out with a couple times, but that's just silly. Maybe I was supposed to call him and ask him about it? (Just wondering if my 20's could have been a little better if I did things differently.) I had a ridiculous relationship that lasted way too long after that, which is a big regret in my life. If something could have prevented that, I think it would have probably been a good thing. Who knows, though. Hindsight is 20:20... Anyway, I'm just glad I ended up with my DH! Everything worked out for the best... after I finally met him 15 years later.
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weltschmerz
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 18, 2015 17:20:19 GMT -5
I got a page of a dictionary torn out & put on my windshield once. The word "Cute" was circled with "You " next to it. Hahaha! I think it was the guy who lived in our apartment complex. But I had a BF at the time so I didn't spend any time investigating it.
Thanks for posting about this, debthaven! It's been fun to read about I did something kink of like that one time. This was shortly after my divorce so I must have been lonely or something but I was not stalking! There were these 2 cute guys that parked a slick little black sports car in front of my house. They had parked there before because they were doing something at the church across the street from my house. Anyway, in my garden I had a perfect pink rose (the only one in bloom) and I cut it and put it on the windshield of the car, it looked really good against that car. Then I just kept looking out the window until they came out again. When they came out they were so surprised! They kept talking back and forth about something (I was inside so I couldn't hear what they were saying) they were speaking Russian anyway so I'd never know. They never saw me and I bet to this day they wonder about that rose. That was a lot of fun. Russians LOVE flowers! You can't fart without someone giving you flowers.
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toomuchreality
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Post by toomuchreality on Feb 19, 2015 2:05:13 GMT -5
I was stalked by a cop for a few years. it sucked BIG time! I hope everything turns out well...
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Bob Ross
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Post by Bob Ross on Feb 19, 2015 11:14:02 GMT -5
They are items for a VooDoo curse.
You have now been cursed.
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Green Eyed Lady
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Feb 19, 2015 11:52:40 GMT -5
Maybe someone bought a used car and these items were still in the car when they bought it.. Perhaps they tried to return them to the previous owner and the address given to them was somehow messed up.
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