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Post by TheHaitian on Aug 16, 2014 12:25:33 GMT -5
My step brother became a daddy for the second time last night and we were texting back and forth and this came up: And it made me go: God if I ever have a daughter please give her enough self esteem that she doesn't think she needs a man to the point of settling for any man. Who the fucks sleep with a married man with a pregnant wife and gives him money? I honestly would have more respect for her if he was the one giving her money, at least she would be getting something out of it. Yes gold digger but at least she is getting paid. Oh well, I guess I am getting old. On that same note: WTF happened to regular boring names? Like Carl, Sara, James, Robert? You know the names you could pronounce... I have 2 nephews with crazy fucked up names that make me go: Han? What were you smoking when you thought of that name?
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Post by midjd on Aug 16, 2014 12:31:43 GMT -5
I'd be at least as worried about raising a son who treats women like that...
So she was sleeping with your stepbrother and promised him $250 for the baby? And stepbrother's wife/gf/whoever found out about it?
I'm with you on the names, though.
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Post by Phoenix84 on Aug 16, 2014 12:32:59 GMT -5
I have no clue why people do this shit. I'm not part of that world.
As I've said before, I never understood why so many women settle for such guys who don't have a pot to piss in, unemployed, have criminal records, and have no moral character while guys like me can't find a girlfriend for the life of them.
*shrugs* I guess it's one of the great mysteries of the universe.
And yeah, I agree with you on the names. I'm not sure what the recent trend is on weird or totally crazy names. I can understand not wanting to name your kid the same thing as everyone else, but at least do something that's not totally out there.
I think in a few years we're going to have a lot of kids go by nicknames they pick.
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Post by TheHaitian on Aug 16, 2014 12:38:07 GMT -5
I'd be at least as worried about raising a son who treats women like that... So she was sleeping with your stepbrother and promised him $250 for the baby? And stepbrother's wife/gf/whoever found out about it Long story short: - step brother was cheating on his wife - she found out and kicked him out (they are now separated or maybe they are back together, who knows!!! ) - his logic for cheating on her was that it was ok because the side chick was giving him money, money he was spending on his wife and kid at the time And the reason my sister in law was suspicious and found out is because my brother came home with a brand new phone and she knew he could not afford a new phone (unemployed) and started investigating. Found out the girl is the one that got him the phone. (Girl even promised him a new car... Because he had to sell his when he lost his job last year). And yes, as of yesterday they have 2 boys together...per my sister in law this was not t he first time either. But my brother maintains this was different because he was doing it to support his family aka being a gigolo. So his wife should be understanding of that and not make a big deal out of it. I LOVE MY FAMILY!!!
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Post by ArchietheDragon on Aug 16, 2014 12:41:27 GMT -5
Dude is a gigolo. You gotta do what you gotta do to support the fam. Getting a job at McDonald's doesn't pay anything and isn't nearly as fun.
Props to him for stepping up./
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2014 12:45:19 GMT -5
Are they going to be at the family reunion? Please, please can I go? I make awesome cheesy potatoes.
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Post by The Walk of the Penguin Mich on Aug 16, 2014 12:47:45 GMT -5
Dude is a gigolo. You gotta do what you gotta do to support the fam. Getting a job at McDonald's doesn't pay anything and isn't nearly as fun. Props to him for stepping up./ Why is a guy called a gigolo, but a woman a prostitute? Same thing, different connotation.
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Post by moon/Laura on Aug 16, 2014 12:48:24 GMT -5
I laugh at the statement at him describing his mistress as 'the girl that got me in trouble'. whaaaaaaaaaaa??! it takes two and if you didn't want to take the chance/didn't trust her to be on BC, then wrap it up! sorry buddy, you got YOURSELF in trouble!
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Post by TheHaitian on Aug 16, 2014 12:49:51 GMT -5
*shrugs* I guess it's one of the great mysteries of the universe. I've seen it since high school till this day. They go for the the guys that treat them like shit and cry about how there is no "good men" out there anymore... Yeah that is because you ain't looking where you are supposed to or not giving a good man the time of day. Prime example : A friend of my wife told her: I want what you have; husband, house... Settle down. Then girl I would suggest you stop sleeping with married men because they are already settled down, find one of the single ones. I agree!!! And please don't get an attitude with me because I cannot pronounce it correctly, it is not my fault your mama named you that. [actually said that to a friend getting all pissy over her name]
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Post by teen persuasion on Aug 16, 2014 12:51:18 GMT -5
Wait, I'm confused. Who does he have two kids with, his wife or his GF, or both?
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Post by TheHaitian on Aug 16, 2014 12:53:25 GMT -5
Wait, I'm confused. Who does he have two kids with, his wife or his GF, or both? Just the wife... For now or that we know of
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Post by weltschmerz on Aug 16, 2014 13:00:41 GMT -5
I'm confused as well.
What names? There was no mention of any names in the OP.
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Post by geenamercile on Aug 16, 2014 13:03:28 GMT -5
I'd be at least as worried about raising a son who treats women like that... So she was sleeping with your stepbrother and promised him $250 for the baby? And stepbrother's wife/gf/whoever found out about it Long story short: - step brother was cheating on his wife - she found out and kicked him out (they are now separated or maybe they are back together, who knows!!! ) - his logic for cheating on her was that it was ok because the side chick was giving him money, money he was spending on his wife and kid at the time
And the reason my sister in law was suspicious and found out is because my brother came home with a brand new phone and she knew he could not afford a new phone (unemployed) and started investigating. Found out the girl is the one that got him the phone. (Girl even promised him a new car... Because he had to sell his when he lost his job last year). And yes, as of yesterday they have 2 boys together...per my sister in law this was not t he first time either. But my brother maintains this was different because he was doing it to support his family aka being a gigolo. So his wife should be understanding of that and not make a big deal out of it. I LOVE MY FAMILY!!! Did you point out that makes hims a man whore. I'm not sure the advice needs to be keep it wrap but get a better job.
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Post by teen persuasion on Aug 16, 2014 13:04:26 GMT -5
I'd be at least as worried about raising a son who treats women like that... So she was sleeping with your stepbrother and promised him $250 for the baby? And stepbrother's wife/gf/whoever found out about it Long story short: - step brother was cheating on his wife - she found out and kicked him out (they are now separated or maybe they are back together, who knows!!! ) - his logic for cheating on her was that it was ok because the side chick was giving him money, money he was spending on his wife and kid at the time And the reason my sister in law was suspicious and found out is because my brother came home with a brand new phone and she knew he could not afford a new phone (unemployed) and started investigating. Found out the girl is the one that got him the phone. (Girl even promised him a new car... Because he had to sell his when he lost his job last year). And yes, as of yesterday they have 2 boys together...per my sister in law this was not t he first time either. But my brother maintains this was different because he was doing it to support his family aka being a gigolo. So his wife should be understanding of that and not make a big deal out of it. I LOVE MY FAMILY!!! So a new phone for him is "supporting his wife & kids"? Gotta love it!
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Aug 16, 2014 13:07:50 GMT -5
The sad part of Carl's OP is that I understood it. And as entertaining as his family is, I'd like to kick his stepbrother in the cojones (for committing the act) and smack him topside the head (for coming up with the "logic" that makes it OK).
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Post by busymom on Aug 16, 2014 14:50:04 GMT -5
I think we need a new family to adopt Carl! One that qualifies as "mostly" normal.
That reunion IS going to be something else!
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Post by milee on Aug 16, 2014 14:54:59 GMT -5
I'm totally enjoying this thread, just like I do all the threads about Carl's family. But I'm missing the part about how it ties in to the title of the thread "Weird things you pray for or hope for?"
Is it that we're praying we do (or that we don't) have family like this?
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Post by gacpa on Aug 16, 2014 15:20:41 GMT -5
Yes, we do enjoy your threads, Carl. You have some really good ones.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2014 15:35:41 GMT -5
And it made me go: God if I ever have a daughter please give her enough self esteem that she doesn't think she needs a man to the point of settling for any man. I'm totally enjoying this thread, just like I do all the threads about Carl's family. But I'm missing the part about how it ties in to the title of the thread "Weird things you pray for or hope for?"
Is it that we're praying we do (or that we don't) have family like this? And it made me go: God if I ever have a daughter please give her enough self esteem that she doesn't think she needs a man to the point of settling for any man.I think that's the part of the OP that ties to the title.
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Post by NoNamePerson on Aug 16, 2014 15:37:00 GMT -5
Long story short: - step brother was cheating on his wife - she found out and kicked him out (they are now separated or maybe they are back together, who knows!!! ) - his logic for cheating on her was that it was ok because the side chick was giving him money, money he was spending on his wife and kid at the time And the reason my sister in law was suspicious and found out is because my brother came home with a brand new phone and she knew he could not afford a new phone (unemployed) and started investigating. Found out the girl is the one that got him the phone. (Girl even promised him a new car... Because he had to sell his when he lost his job last year). And yes, as of yesterday they have 2 boys together...per my sister in law this was not t he first time either. But my brother maintains this was different because he was doing it to support his family aka being a gigolo. So his wife should be understanding of that and not make a big deal out of it. I LOVE MY FAMILY!!! So a new phone for him is "supporting his wife & kids"? Gotta love it! Of course it is. How else is he going to get his calls for future "paying" dates. If he's any good he should be raking in big bucks to support the family.
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Post by milee on Aug 16, 2014 15:39:06 GMT -5
And it made me go: God if I ever have a daughter please give her enough self esteem that she doesn't think she needs a man to the point of settling for any man. I'm totally enjoying this thread, just like I do all the threads about Carl's family. But I'm missing the part about how it ties in to the title of the thread "Weird things you pray for or hope for?"
Is it that we're praying we do (or that we don't) have family like this? And it made me go: God if I ever have a daughter please give her enough self esteem that she doesn't think she needs a man to the point of settling for any man.I think that's the part of the OP that ties to the title. Gotcha. So Carl is praying that his daughter has enough self esteem and common sense to avoid being with a jerk like his brother. Yeah, that's a weird thing to pray for, but makes sense.
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Post by geenamercile on Aug 16, 2014 15:44:44 GMT -5
And it made me go: God if I ever have a daughter please give her enough self esteem that she doesn't think she needs a man to the point of settling for any man.I think that's the part of the OP that ties to the title. Gotcha. So Carl is praying that his daughter has enough self esteem and common sense to avoid being with a jerk like his brother. Yeah, that's a weird thing to pray for, but makes sense. Or she is wise enough to hire a man-whore that doesn't have a wife and kids.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2014 8:27:04 GMT -5
Have you seen a pic of the floozy?
Something tells me if she is paying him in this situation a pic could be interesting to say the least.
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Post by mollyanna58 on Aug 17, 2014 8:44:08 GMT -5
So do the rest of us.
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Aug 17, 2014 11:14:57 GMT -5
Oh. My. Goodness.
and, Han is from Star Wars. Hans is a Scandinavian name.
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Post by achelois on Aug 17, 2014 11:53:51 GMT -5
I am just hoping the lottery ticket I buy this month on my birthday pays off.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2014 15:24:44 GMT -5
why is the wife still the wife? why is she willing to put up with this?
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Post by TheHaitian on Aug 17, 2014 15:38:22 GMT -5
why is the wife still the wife? why is she willing to put up with this? Why is the sky blue? Why do dogs bark? Why am I not rich? I really don't know...
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Post by TheHaitian on Aug 17, 2014 15:39:53 GMT -5
Oh. My. Goodness. and, Han is from Star Wars. Hans is a Scandinavian name. Lol, Han was my reaction LOL. Like what? Huh? Han? The kids name are: Ramari Hassan [last name] Haeden Rahlan [last name]
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Post by achelois on Aug 17, 2014 15:51:05 GMT -5
Side chicks are acceptable accessories now?
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