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Post by Deleted on Feb 8, 2014 16:34:52 GMT -5
I take the advancement. Especially when it is a job you know you will rock. The long term gain will be huge.
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Post by Miss Tequila on Feb 8, 2014 16:38:16 GMT -5
I would take the advancement. I can't handle a job that offers no challenges. I need to be continually growing and developing or I get bored.
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Post by mmhmm on Feb 8, 2014 16:44:32 GMT -5
I'd definitely accept the challenge, were it me. It isn't me, though. It's you. You're going to need to think this through, talk it through with your family, and decide for yourself what best fits the picture you have of your life now, and in future. I really don't think anybody else can do that for you.
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Post by raeoflyte on Feb 9, 2014 4:10:17 GMT -5
It's tough with little kids at home. I jumped into a new role with a 4y/o and 6mo old. I'm glad I did it, but 8 months later I'm still trying to find a workable balance that keeps me happy.
I know the expectations for men is different, but if you choose not to take it is your company culture one that you can tell them that you are waiting until the kids are in school to tackle new projects?
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Post by Nazgul Girl on Feb 9, 2014 8:04:34 GMT -5
It sounds good, but will you get more money ? If not, will taking the job make you more valuable to your company ? Will taking the job make you more prominent or give you status in your industry ( as in job change later ) ? If the answers to these questions are all "no", I would stay put. Good luck on whatever you decide !
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Feb 9, 2014 11:13:04 GMT -5
I've always taken the opportunity--which has happened three times for me now. I have children also.
I agree with rae that you need to consider company culture and what declining the offer would mean.
Good luck! It's nice to have choices.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2014 12:21:08 GMT -5
Why do they move you to new jobs if it isn't a promotion!
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Feb 9, 2014 12:51:52 GMT -5
Why do they move you to new jobs if it isn't a promotion! Lateral moves can set someone up for a promotion. |
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Post by Jaguar on Feb 10, 2014 18:01:53 GMT -5
OK, I heard from the hiring manager, it sounds really good and exciting. I will get formal notice end of week.
Oh mama, now i'm excited for the move and hope it happens!
Good Luck.
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Post by taz157 on Feb 14, 2014 0:13:52 GMT -5
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Post by NastyWoman on Feb 14, 2014 2:58:10 GMT -5
Y' is rocking this new job thing this week. Congrats Boskone and lots of fun in your new position
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Post by Jaguar on Feb 14, 2014 3:46:45 GMT -5
I just got a call from the hiring manager... I GOT IT!
Formal papers coming from HR tomorrow for the transfer. Now I need to document my current projects, and set my current boss up to be successful in the transition.
SUPER excited!
Since deciding to accept it (if it were offered) last weekend, I've felt very good about everything.
Congrats. 
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Post by raeoflyte on Feb 14, 2014 12:40:23 GMT -5
Woohoo! That's great!
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Post by The Captain on Feb 14, 2014 14:24:55 GMT -5
It's tough with little kids at home. I jumped into a new role with a 4y/o and 6mo old. I'm glad I did it, but 8 months later I'm still trying to find a workable balance that keeps me happy. I know the expectations for men is different, but if you choose not to take it is your company culture one that you can tell them that you are waiting until the kids are in school to tackle new projects? Sent from my ADR6410LVW using proboards  |
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