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Post by truthbound on Jun 14, 2014 4:08:31 GMT -5
My boyfriend still spends almost all of his free time with me. He is nice, cute, smells good, smart, and funny. We used to be great friends talking and laughing all the time. Once we had sex, most of that has gone out the window. Now, he seems bored with me. He is at my house most of the time but plays games on the computer. We only have short conversations when i start random stupid ones. Our common interest seems to be going out to eat, trying new places to eat, and watching movies/TV. We dont interact much during these activities anymore. I don't feel close to him. He has female friends that make him laugh, and can keep his attention in a conversation. He knows everything about me, i think i know everything about him. He gets annoyed when i bring up this topic. I feel like we would be closer if we would have remained just friends. We're in our 30s. Thanks Sounds like you are married. Exactly. |
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Post by Shooby on Jun 14, 2014 6:01:00 GMT -5
Well i never did break up with my boyfriend. Despite all our problems, i love him, i am attracted to him, and i was desperate for him to treat me as good as his other female friends, and i was desperate for him to respect me like he respects his other female friends. Well he dumped me yesterday and is not taking me back. I am sick and anxious. I want to get over him and get back to my comfortable single days. WHY were you " desperate"? Can you not feel good about yourself without a man? If not why? But as for him , just remember when someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE them. |
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Post by zibazinski on Jun 14, 2014 6:02:40 GMT -5
Thank GOD this happened before you married him. There's a bullet you dodged.
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Post by mmhmm on Jun 14, 2014 8:53:40 GMT -5
Head high, chin up, and go get 'em, Frap. You're still you and there's a big ol' world out there to explore. It's full of all sorts of people and many adventures. This just wasn't the guy for you.
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Post by resolution on Jun 14, 2014 9:07:08 GMT -5
It sounds like this is best for the long run, although it is very painful right now. I always hated break ups but did end up stronger and more self-aware in the end.
Call up some girlfriends and make some plans to get out of the house for a bit, or look at the community college course listing and sign up for a fun evening class. Just something to distract yourself for a bit while time heals the wounds.
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Post by Jaguar on Jun 15, 2014 3:01:11 GMT -5
Frappuccino go forward and conquer whatever you need to.
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Post by 8 Bit WWBG on Jun 20, 2014 17:35:18 GMT -5
Sorry to hear it didn't work out the way you wanted; that doesn't mean it didn't work out. It won't feel like that for a while though. You'll have to hear all the platitudes, but in time you'll be fine.
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Post by jambo101 on Nov 7, 2015 9:06:56 GMT -5
My boyfriend still spends almost all of his free time with me. He is nice, cute, smells good, smart, and funny. We used to be great friends talking and laughing all the time. Once we had sex, most of that has gone out the window. Now, he seems bored with me. He is at my house most of the time but plays games on the computer. We only have short conversations when i start random stupid ones. Our common interest seems to be going out to eat, trying new places to eat, and watching movies/TV. We dont interact much during these activities anymore. I don't feel close to him. He has female friends that make him laugh, and can keep his attention in a conversation. He knows everything about me, i think i know everything about him. He gets annoyed when i bring up this topic. I feel like we would be closer if we would have remained just friends. We're in our 30s. Thanks You've grown apart,time to move on. |
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Post by gregintenn on Dec 28, 2015 17:58:40 GMT -5
The smart money says he likes you as well, but wishes you'd grow up and realize everything isn't about you.  |
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Post by billisonboard on Dec 28, 2015 18:05:04 GMT -5
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Post by Robert not Bobby on Dec 28, 2015 18:08:24 GMT -5
Once we had sex, most of that has gone out the window. Now, he seems bored with me.
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He is probably gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but...when a man has sex with a woman he likes, you can't get him off of you. I know, that can also be a bit of a bother.
It is not your fault.
Why do women always blame themselves. Be strong.
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Dec 28, 2015 18:12:42 GMT -5
Well i never did break up with my boyfriend. Despite all our problems, i love him, i am attracted to him, and i was desperate for him to treat me as good as his other female friends, and i was desperate for him to respect me like he respects his other female friends. Well he dumped me yesterday and is not taking me back. I am sick and anxious. I want to get over him and get back to my comfortable single days. The smart money says he likes you as well, but wishes you'd grow up and realize everything isn't about you.
LOL! So much for smart money.  And welcome back!
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Post by gregintenn on Dec 28, 2015 18:16:07 GMT -5
Well i never did break up with my boyfriend. Despite all our problems, i love him, i am attracted to him, and i was desperate for him to treat me as good as his other female friends, and i was desperate for him to respect me like he respects his other female friends. Well he dumped me yesterday and is not taking me back. I am sick and anxious. I want to get over him and get back to my comfortable single days. The smart money says he likes you as well, but wishes you'd grow up and realize everything isn't about you.
LOL! So much for smart money. And welcome back!
Thank ya.....thank ya very much!
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Post by gregintenn on Dec 29, 2015 11:04:23 GMT -5
Bang his brother! That'll show him! |
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Post by Opti on Dec 29, 2015 11:07:48 GMT -5
What is it with this dead thread from 2014? First Jambo now GreginTenn?  |
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Post by ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ on Dec 29, 2015 13:03:08 GMT -5
To be fair, the blame for the old-thread-bump is all on Jamfo. Jamfo had bumped it up after a YEAR of it being dormant
It was only 1 month idle when Greg posted yesterday (and he is new here, so cut him some slack). 
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