Jaguar
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Fear does not stop death. It stops life.
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Post by Jaguar on Dec 14, 2013 0:24:59 GMT -5
Crone I'm so very sorry.
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Miss Tequila
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Joined: Dec 19, 2010 10:13:45 GMT -5
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Post by Miss Tequila on Dec 14, 2013 10:04:30 GMT -5
I had a miscarriage at 18 in 1967. I don't talk about it because nobody seems to think it is like losing a living baby. I think about my baby it would be almost 46 now. I don't dwell on it but I think about it some. I'm so very sorry :-(. I lost my pregnancy at 4 months. I have never lost a child that I held in my arms so i onbviously can't compare the two (and hope to god I never can) but I can tell you that losing that baby crushed me. The only thing that kept me going was having a 16 month old to take care of. If anyone would like to tell me I shouldn't grieve because "it was just a fetus" they can go fuck themselves .
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Colleenz
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Joined: Dec 20, 2010 8:56:39 GMT -5
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Post by Colleenz on Dec 14, 2013 10:55:51 GMT -5
PCOS, but treated successfully with metformin. XH had very low swimmers so we were sent straight to IVF/ ICSI - DS turns eight in February
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geenamercile
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Joined: Dec 17, 2010 16:40:28 GMT -5
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Post by geenamercile on Dec 14, 2013 11:53:56 GMT -5
DH had/has issues. We were lucky with number one not needing anything, and number two was minor intervention. No plans for number 3. You know without the issues we may have waited another year or two before number two.
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Formerly SK
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Joined: Feb 27, 2011 14:23:13 GMT -5
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Post by Formerly SK on Dec 14, 2013 17:11:31 GMT -5
I was told at 20 I couldn't conceive (deformed fallopian tubes, tilted uterus, endometriosis, irregular periods). I stayed on BC until 30 just to help with my periods. At 30 DH and I decided to off them so I could chart for a year and then see a fertility doc and we got pregnant the first month. Thought LO#1 was a fluke but we got pregnant with LO#2 the first month as well. Go figure. We got DH snipped. Funny thing was, I wasn't particularly careful about my BC in my 20s. I did it for hormones, not BC. Sometimes I'd skip a week's worth of pills. It's amazing in hindsight I didn't get pregnant. Hugs to everyone with issues. My 20s were horrible when I thought I couldn't conceive. I used to cry so hard when I got my periods. It was horrible.
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