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Post by sarcasticgirl on Oct 22, 2013 13:54:51 GMT -5
I've had a couple of conversations about this recently and it really has me thinking... Back in my twenties I had a more adventurous/fun style. For example: I LOVE make up. I love every color, I love glitter, if it were socially acceptable to look like a vegas show girl, I would but (much to my chagrin) I don't. I have eye shadow in just about every color under the sun. I blend colors well so it wasn't like these stark stripes of green or blue or whatever. But the last few years, I've gone to neutrals, mostly browns. Another example- I had a rocking collection of tights. Colorful stripes, checkered patterns- super fun. I wore them with knee length skirts and knee boots, so there would be a pop of about 6 inches of pink and black houndstooth tights. Now, I wear mostly black tights/leggings with an occasional solid colored tight (eggplant or dark teal) So my questions- at what point are you too old to sport splashy colorful styles such as these?
For some reason when I hit 30, I felt like I looked like I'd be trying to look younger...
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Post by swamp on Oct 22, 2013 13:57:52 GMT -5
I think a lot depends on where you are wearing the fun styles. Going out with friends is a lot more liberal than work.
And I've found I've gravitated more towards bright colors as I've gotten older. I don't know if it's better self confidence or wanting to draw attention away from my wrinkles.
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Oct 22, 2013 14:01:03 GMT -5
You should wear whatever you want to wear. I'd probably stay away from checkered or striped tights and garish make-up at work, but other than that? Have a good time! I do admit to a certain teeth-grinding feeling walking into a professional office and seeing a receptionist that looks like Penelope on Criminal Minds, but maybe it's just because I don't have the nerve to do the same.
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Post by sarcasticgirl on Oct 22, 2013 14:01:52 GMT -5
Actually, I used to wear them to work- I work for a pretty huge law firm. My former manager used to come by my desk in the winter to check out my tights because she loved my collection. We have a lot of pretty boldly stylish women around Chicago, so it certainly wasn't out of place...
I used to pair the colorful makeup/bold tights with darker clothing. The last few years I've been trying to be more colorful, too. I mean, without the bolder accessories my wardrobe was pretty boring!
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Oct 22, 2013 14:15:19 GMT -5
I LOVE colors, I'm not going to stop wearing them because I'm 30. As far as I know there is no age limit on color. I have changed some colors as I've gotten older because my skin tone/hair color has changed, but I don't tell myself any color is off limits because I'm "too old". If I look good in it and I like it, I'll wear it. It's the style of my clothes that has changed as I get older. Certain stores I loved no loner appeal to me because the clothing doesn't reflect who I am at this stage in my life. I'd look like I'm trying to recapture my HS days. Tights can be covered up you could wear them under slacks if you needed to be more conservative or wear them under a skirt when going out.. I vote wear them if you love them. I read this blog constantly. I've found a lot of useful information. www.insideoutstyleblog.com/
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Post by kittensaver on Oct 22, 2013 14:16:48 GMT -5
Put it on.
Look at yourself in the mirror.
Ask yourself - "Do I look like I'm trying too hard?"
If yes, take it off.
If no - head out the door.
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Oct 22, 2013 14:38:07 GMT -5
All I can say is that I wish if people's choices are between frumpy and trying to look younger - please choose the trying to look younger one. But no bellies hanging out unless you look like Gwen Steffani! I wear whatever makes me happy and doesn't make me feel ugly or gross. It may not always work but that's what I shoot for.
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Post by 8 Bit WWBG on Oct 22, 2013 14:40:09 GMT -5
I just can't pull off colored tights like I used to.
The only exception is if I'm at a Renn fair.
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Post by sarcasticgirl on Oct 22, 2013 14:41:33 GMT -5
Put it on. Look at yourself in the mirror. Ask yourself - "Do I look like I'm trying too hard?" If yes, take it off. If no - head out the door. that's the hard part- figuring out if you look like you're trying too hard, or look like you're trying to look young!
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Post by greeniis10 on Oct 22, 2013 14:43:28 GMT -5
It's definitely more about your personal style, comfort level, and appropriateness of the situation rather than an actual age and number, IMHO.
Trust your gut. If you like the way you look and are recieved (mostly) positively, then keep it up! I say "mostly" because everyone has differing opinions and preferences.
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Oct 22, 2013 14:45:13 GMT -5
figuring out if you look like you're trying too hard, or look like you're trying to look young!
Ask someone. Personally without seeing them but reading the description of the outfits you pair with them I think you're fine. it's a splash of color/individuality. If you're wearing the tights in place of pants with a butt grazing sweater THEN you're trying too hard to look young.
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Post by kittensaver on Oct 22, 2013 14:48:39 GMT -5
Put it on. Look at yourself in the mirror. Ask yourself - "Do I look like I'm trying too hard?" If yes, take it off. If no - head out the door. that's the hard part- figuring out if you look like you're trying too hard, or look like you're trying to look young! At least for me - it's the same thing. It's the difference between looking at yourself and thinking "Um . . . " Or thinking "Yep." It's an almost-instantaneous reaction/thing. The "gut reaction." Definitely worth cultivating!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 22, 2013 14:50:10 GMT -5
It seems like you will have tons of time for a boring wardrobe later. I don't think of 30 as too old for fun clothes.
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Post by sarcasticgirl on Oct 22, 2013 15:01:34 GMT -5
If you're wearing the tights in place of pants with a butt grazing sweater THEN you're trying too hard to look young. NEVER!
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Oct 22, 2013 15:03:21 GMT -5
NEVER!
You have nothing to worry about, then.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 22, 2013 15:40:10 GMT -5
Your children will eventually tell you...
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Post by sarcasticgirl on Oct 22, 2013 15:43:02 GMT -5
Your children will eventually tell you... I have no children and no plans for children... Think my dog will clue me in? lord knows DH won't.
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Oct 22, 2013 15:45:15 GMT -5
I realized I needed to update my wardrobe when my daughters started stealing my t-shirts. One the one hand it's cool that a middle school girl is still willing to wear them in public, which means they can't be horribly out of style. On the other hand, a 13 year old girl thinks my shirts are cool, so they're probably not appropriate for a 30 something male.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 22, 2013 15:46:18 GMT -5
I can loan you one... Mine come in styles: Apologetic while Brutally Honest, and Sarcastic ... Take your pick
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Oct 22, 2013 15:47:42 GMT -5
Your children will eventually tell you... I have no children and no plans for children... Think my dog will clue me in? lord knows DH won't. Me either and my cats think I'm beautiful as long as I'm in the kitchen.
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Oct 22, 2013 15:48:54 GMT -5
I can loan you one... Mine come in styles: Apologetic while Brutally Honest, and Sarcastic ... Take your pick Take one of mine, I have Sarcastic, Tween girl (great variety there) and Sheldon Cooper.
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Oct 22, 2013 15:53:28 GMT -5
On the other hand, a 13 year old girl thinks my shirts are cool, so they're probably not appropriate for a 30 something male.
A 30 year old man in a Team Edward shirt is pretty creepy.
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Post by lynnerself on Oct 22, 2013 16:08:13 GMT -5
So far the only things I have given up are short shorts, halter tops, and super low-rise jeans. ETA: LOL I immediately get a pop up story at the bottom of this page "Top 10 Items You're Too Old to Wear"
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Post by sarcasticgirl on Oct 22, 2013 16:22:38 GMT -5
thanks for all the offers on the kids my DH does tease me about all of my cardigans... but I love me a cardigan.
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Oct 22, 2013 16:33:51 GMT -5
Shows how much you know, I'm team Jacob all day! If I'm going to walk around with man candy on my chest I want a guy that doesn't look like a wimpy 12 year old.
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Post by The Captain on Oct 22, 2013 16:42:16 GMT -5
Shows how much you know, I'm team Jacob all day! If I'm going to walk around with man candy on my chest I want a guy that doesn't look like a wimpy 12 year old. For that I have to revoke your man card (that is if you have one...) First my little pony, now this?
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Post by Tiny on Oct 22, 2013 17:15:42 GMT -5
Maybe it's because the styles have changed... neutral 'natural' makeup seems to be the norm right now. And the clothing color palette has gone more nuetral too... Everyone who's redecorating their homes (well, the bunch that I know) are re-painting in earthy tones greens/browns/tans. If you are seeing lots of tone downed colors on other people maybe that's what's triggering "I shouldn't wear this" versus it being "I'm trying to hard if I wear this" or "I'm too old for this". It may be more 'subconscious' than actual thought process.
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Post by whoisjohngalt on Oct 22, 2013 17:30:57 GMT -5
I loved wearing short skirts. I stopped based on my age only bc up until I had my 1st kid, I looked fairly decent in them. But all of a sudden it just seems like I was too old, regardless of how I looked.
I think it's different with make up and tights, I think even older women can pull it off.
One thing I don't like about certain way old people wear make up is when you can see it in the wrinkles. I think if you can see it like that, it's too much.
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Oct 22, 2013 17:36:54 GMT -5
The shirts she stole weren't quite that kiddish. One was a black tee that said budget ninja costume in glow in the dark block letters. And now that I just typed glow in the dark I'm retracting my first sentence.
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Post by Spellbound454 on Oct 22, 2013 17:37:08 GMT -5
Winter is here and I've got a warm red tailored coat.....makes me feel nice and bright... I don't think its the colours as long as you pick something that suits your complexion....and fits well.
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