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Post by swamp on Sept 18, 2013 11:41:05 GMT -5
Channing Tatum used to be a stripper and I don't hear a bunch of people lamenting his lack of self-esteem or wondering why his daddy didn't love him
It's because he has a penis. Only vaginas can have low self esteem and daddy issues. And if I say that I would like to see said penis, does that mean I have just emotionally cheated? Or that I'm just a no-self-esteem-having ho-bag? I get confused. Who cares? Just show me the penis.
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Post by swamp on Sept 18, 2013 11:41:35 GMT -5
I wish DH were younger and in better shape, I'd be pimping him out for $3k in cash a night.
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Post by midjd on Sept 18, 2013 11:41:40 GMT -5
Female strippers strip because they didn't find a man while getting their fluff degrees, so stripping is the only option left...
(I have cleaned toilets at an old job and found that to be pretty degrading. I can't imagine stripping would be much worse.)
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Sept 18, 2013 11:42:11 GMT -5
Who cares? Just show me the penis.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 18, 2013 11:42:42 GMT -5
Isn't that spiritually cheating or some other rigamarole?
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swamp
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Post by swamp on Sept 18, 2013 11:43:35 GMT -5
Isn't that spiritually cheating or some other rigamarole? You'd have to have a spirit first.................
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Post by imawino on Sept 18, 2013 11:44:10 GMT -5
Channing Tatum used to be a stripper and I don't hear a bunch of people lamenting his lack of self-esteem or wondering why his daddy didn't love him
It's because he has a penis. Only vaginas can have low self esteem and daddy issues. By the way, my vagina has awesome self-esteem! My thighs....not so much.
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Post by imawino on Sept 18, 2013 11:44:59 GMT -5
Isn't that spiritually cheating or some other rigamarole? You'd have to have a spirit first................. I have a spirit!!! It's a soul I'm lacking.
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Sept 18, 2013 11:45:30 GMT -5
Isn't that spiritually cheating or some other rigamarole?
I don't want to be spirtually married to Channing Tatum but I'll happily be spiritally married to Joe Manganiello.
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Post by swamp on Sept 18, 2013 11:46:09 GMT -5
You'd have to have a spirit first................. I have a spirit!!! It's a soul I'm lacking. Ah, yes, you are a ginger.
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Post by swamp on Sept 18, 2013 11:47:07 GMT -5
Isn't that spiritually cheating or some other rigamarole?
I don't want to be spirtually married to Channing Tatum but I'll happily be spiritally married to Joe Manganiello. If I'm spiritually married, does that mean I have to pick his dirty socks up off the floor and wash his skid marked underwear? Because if it does, I don't wanna go there.
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Post by imawino on Sept 18, 2013 11:47:17 GMT -5
Isn't that spiritually cheating or some other rigamarole?
I don't want to be spirtually married to Channing Tatum but I'll happily be spiritally married to Joe Manganiello. Married !!! Whoa, hold up. You do not understand spiritual cheating. You don't have to put a ring on it! Unless....well......uh.....you know.....
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Sept 18, 2013 11:47:53 GMT -5
If I'm spiritually married, does that mean I have to pick his dirty socks up off the floor and wash his skid marked underwear
I don't think spirits use socks or underwear. .. so no! You do not understand spiritual cheating
I thought it was if you so much as think impure thoughts about another man that means you're married to him? I can think of worse things than living out my days with Alcid.
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Post by swamp on Sept 18, 2013 11:47:58 GMT -5
Isn't that spiritually cheating or some other rigamarole?
I don't want to be spirtually married to Channing Tatum but I'll happily be spiritally married to Joe Manganiello. Married !!! Whoa, hold up. You do not understand spiritual cheating. You don't have to put a ring on it! Unless....well......uh.....you know..... Can you explain to me where to put that ring? I'm not following...............
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Post by Deleted on Sept 18, 2013 11:48:07 GMT -5
KINKY!!
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Post by Baby Fawkes on Sept 18, 2013 12:02:27 GMT -5
Honestly, in Swamp's position, I'd be wondering what made her decide to choose such a degrading profession. Strippers aren't exactly known for coming from happy homes or having healthy self esteems. Swamp and I both had fathers who cared about us, but not everyone does. That is a sexist generalization. Why is it degrading? It's a job that pays the bills and some people would prefer to do that than clean toilets or cashier at Wal-Mart or some other low-skilled work that may pay a lot less. Channing Tatum used to be a stripper and I don't hear a bunch of people lamenting his lack of self-esteem or wondering why his daddy didn't love him. I have a really good friend who used to be a stripper. (no, I never did see her work ) She actually chose that route because she was really trying to start a business and needed a source of income in the meantime. She wanted a job that was in the evenings so she could focus on her main business during the day and she made a conscious decision to take on that job rather than bar tending or serving because of the money. She doesn't do it any more as her main business took off well. She owns her own Yoga studio now and has a family. Her husband knows that she was once a stripper, but doesn't care.
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Post by sunshinegal1981 on Sept 18, 2013 12:44:30 GMT -5
Lots of people working perfectly boring vanilla jobs right alongside the rest of us were once strippers. The smart ones keep that information to themselves, because of the sentiments expressed in the OP.
The way I see it, a job is only degradING if the one performing it feels degradED. I don't get to decide what should 'feel degrading' to someone else.
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Sept 18, 2013 12:46:33 GMT -5
I don't get to decide what should 'feel degrading' to someone else.
Hand over your YM membership card please.
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Post by sunshinegal1981 on Sept 18, 2013 12:49:55 GMT -5
I don't get to decide what should 'feel degrading' to someone else.
Hand over your YM membership card please. LOL. Don't I at least get three strikes?
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Sept 18, 2013 12:57:47 GMT -5
Don't I at least get three strikes?
And risk you contaminating the pedestal? I don't think so.
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Post by justme on Sept 18, 2013 13:15:05 GMT -5
I found out that my friend's husband used to be a stripper. ... His grandmother sewed his costumes.
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Post by Spellbound454 on Sept 18, 2013 13:15:47 GMT -5
LOL Hello....Nice to see you, How are the nuts?......er I meant kids.
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Post by Miss Tequila on Sept 18, 2013 13:31:48 GMT -5
I admit it...I would totally judge her for being a stripper. It doesn't sit well with me to get paid for getting nekkid for pervs...I realize they make a shit ton of money (well, at the good places, not the shit holes around here where the strippers have bruises and track lines!lol) but so do call girls.
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Sept 18, 2013 13:37:41 GMT -5
His grandmother sewed his costumes
If I was granny I'd have to wash my brain in bleach to get the image of grandson in his costume out of my head.
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Post by swamp on Sept 18, 2013 13:42:12 GMT -5
No, it's a league run by the Kiwanis Club. Her husband's small business is the sponsor.
Considering she told me that clothes are overrated and it really didn't have too much to do with the conversation, my guess is yes. And knowing her husband, my guess is yes.
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Post by NastyWoman on Sept 18, 2013 14:58:58 GMT -5
Maybe they'd pay us a couple hundred bucks a night to keep them on.... If I could figure out how to apply for that job, I'd be all over it! Hey!!! Don't you go cutting into my gigs. That's my retirement plan you are messing with
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Post by zibazinski on Sept 19, 2013 10:16:55 GMT -5
Hey, I haven't said a word about her. I think it's funny.
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Post by zibazinski on Sept 19, 2013 10:20:18 GMT -5
Plenty of people "sell" themselves in one way or another. She's just more upfront about it.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 19, 2013 14:46:20 GMT -5
One of my children's uncles was (may still be) a "dancer". No one in his family knew until one of his cousins was at a bridal shower and he was the entertainer for the night. Awkward! He has almost naked (possibly naked, I don't want to see, so I haven't looked) modeling pictures on the internet, so he's not ashamed, so I can tell it here. lol His parents were embarrassed about the pictures and dancing. An old friend of mine use to go out of town to dance at strip clubs. She didn't dance at clubs at home, I guess because she didn't want to run into anyone she knew. I've heard from other people and she said it also, that a lot of the women get high before they go onstage. To me, that says they're not comfortable with what they're doing so in those instances I think they are degrading themselves. I know a couple of other women that used to dance at strip clubs. They were doing more than just dancing. One of them is my ex-husband's 2nd wife (I was the first wife). He met her at the strip club. I don't know if he knew it when he got with her, but she has a notorious reputation among the men that live here. EEEK! He did find out just how ruthless she is after he married her. The "cousins" she was bringing to their home weren't her cousins. The women that strip to put themselves through school or whatever and go dance, make their money and go home without engaging in any of the extracurricular activities that happen or are set up in the clubs or doing anything that makes them feel bad about themselves, more power to them. I don't think badly of them just because they dance(d) in a strip club.
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