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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2013 7:01:17 GMT -5
I judge everyone. I'm a bitch. I try to be better, but I really am just a judgy bitch.
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mrsdutt
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Post by mrsdutt on Jul 23, 2013 7:03:10 GMT -5
Every time I receive an email from someone who doesn't know the difference between your and you're or too/to/two or they're/their especially when it comes from a coworker. with a masters' degree. on a significantly higher pay scale. I'm really working on this. The written language is the vehicle that is used to let others know about a person. I cringe when I see these mistakes. Then I remind myself that my weakness is spelling. My question is what happened to the use of the word 'among'? Two people and the word is between. More than 2 and the word used should be among. Is this changing before my eyes? Does anyone know?
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Post by swamp on Jul 23, 2013 7:37:03 GMT -5
I waved to you, but you ignored me.
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Post by MarleyKeezy78 on Jul 23, 2013 7:42:07 GMT -5
I judge people for sport! But I will give people a fair shake if given the chance. I'm not a complete buttmunch
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Post by thyme4change on Jul 23, 2013 8:04:40 GMT -5
I guess the title of the thread should have been "Whom do you judge?"
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Jul 23, 2013 8:26:28 GMT -5
I had to work really hard to keep a straight face as a server when someone ordered a sushi grade tuna steak extra well done with two sides of tartar sauce. I wanted to tell her save her money and go buy a Starkist packet from the supermarket.
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Post by Formerly SK on Jul 23, 2013 8:33:04 GMT -5
Hypocrites.
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Post by jkapp on Jul 23, 2013 8:43:36 GMT -5
I judge everyone too...but its more of a way to pass time as I wait for the idiots in the front of the line to figure out what planet they're on
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2013 8:44:24 GMT -5
I judge vicariously through all of you Judgy McJudgertons.
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mrsdutt
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Post by mrsdutt on Jul 23, 2013 8:46:28 GMT -5
I guess the title of the thread should have been "Whom do you judge?" See, I'm getting better at not judging. That one passed right over my head!
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Post by whoisjohngalt on Jul 23, 2013 8:50:30 GMT -5
I judge whoever I find interesting or annoying. But I've never consider "judging" or "judgmental" as a bad thing.
I think you would have to be brain dead not to have a thought/opinion on something or someone you see and observe. The second you are doing that - oh my, you are judging them.
I love to watch people. I think it is simply fascinating. I wish I had more time to do it and while doing didn't look like I was doing it. My DH says that I stare, so that can't be good.
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Post by formerroomate99 on Jul 23, 2013 9:41:44 GMT -5
I judge everyone. I'm a bitch. Same here. It is annoying when my mind produces an opinion on something where I'm not knowledgable enough to have an opinoin. I tend to judge more harshly people whose decisions hurt their children. Between my family history and the instability I dealt with due to my father's illness, I have no patience for anyone who would chose to inflict that kind of drama on a kid.
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Post by kittensaver on Jul 23, 2013 9:42:10 GMT -5
Commenting and critiquing news stories and current events isn't the same thing as running the inventory of strangers at the airport or mall . True. But publicly calling out/calling shame on someone for their public stance is not judging? Hey - good to know And FWIW, I have a running commentary/inventory going all the time in my head as I move through the day. Most (!) times I just have better sense than to say anything out loud. So I judge, I just don't get called on it (most times ).
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Post by swamp on Jul 23, 2013 9:43:23 GMT -5
Me too. I can't wait until I'm about 85 and I can say whatever I'm thinking.
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Post by kcladyjane on Jul 23, 2013 9:43:46 GMT -5
Some lady in the grocery store blocked the whole isle and then yelled that I was a dumbass after I went around. Her kid was in the cart. I judged her to be a fat piece of white trash and a great example for her child. I wanted soooo badly to ram her with my cart. Instead I kept going and didn't acknowledge her existence. Dumb B##$$! My husband and I like to people watch when we go places and discuss any oddities. So I suppose we are judging them.
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Post by sheilaincali on Jul 23, 2013 9:55:29 GMT -5
I judge people that bitch about their situation but do nothing to change it. Hate your job? spend some time trying to find a new one. Broke? Fix your budget.
I have this acquaintance that pisses me the hell off and I judge the shit out of him. He is very overweight but eats nearly every meal at Chipotle (2 burrito bowls with like 2 cups of cheese on each in one sitting). Claims he is "allergic to carbonation" so he can't drink soda- but I have never seen him drink water. Only drinks gater-aid and stuff like that. Is flat broke- like DH bought some models off him because he was desperate for grocery money and then posted a picture two days later of him and his wife out to eat. Quit a sure thing job because his wife was depressed in our town so they sold everything they owned to be camp counselors for the summer at a camp two hours from here. Neither has a job lined up for after the camp closes in August and they have no money saved for a security deposit or first months rent on a new apartment.
But don't worry folks- he is sporting 4 brand new, huge tattoos on his arm. I like tattoos just fine- but if you have no income after a month from now maybe that money should have been earmarked for a place to live and not tattoos.
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Post by imawino on Jul 23, 2013 10:07:25 GMT -5
This is an interesting question, and I can't figure out the answer. Some days I am either very tolerant or I just don't have any interest whatsoever in the rest of humankind and am all "eh, to each his own, whatever, I don't care". And other days you should look out because I am judging the fuck out of EVERYONE! People who don't work out (lazy slobs) People who work out too much (OCD with no life) People who look perfectly put-together (high-maintenance) People who put no effort into their appearance at all (dirty hippies with no self-esteem) Coworkers putting in 12 hour days (workaholics) Coworkers "working from home" again (slackers) People with messy houses (again, lazy slobs) People with perfect houses (freaks) People who don't drink at all (f'ing insane weirdos) People who drink too much (alcoholics) I could go on, but you get the picture. I'm like Goldilocks with a narrow definition of what's jusssstt right some days. But even then those people probably flit in and out of my brain in a minute or two without another thought. The only people I really judge are friends and family, because they are the only ones I actually care about. Oh! Except people who are cruel to animals or are slow drivers. I judge them all as expendable and they should be gotten rid of.
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Post by imawino on Jul 23, 2013 10:08:52 GMT -5
I judge people that bitch about their situation but do nothing to change it. Hate your job? spend some time trying to find a new one. Broke? Fix your budget.
I have this acquaintance that pisses me the hell off and I judge the shit out of him. He is very overweight but eats nearly every meal at Chipotle (2 burrito bowls with like 2 cups of cheese on each in one sitting). Claims he is "allergic to carbonation" so he can't drink soda- but I have never seen him drink water. Only drinks gater-aid and stuff like that. Is flat broke- like DH bought some models off him because he was desperate for grocery money and then posted a picture two days later of him and his wife out to eat. Quit a sure thing job because his wife was depressed in our town so they sold everything they owned to be camp counselors for the summer at a camp two hours from here. Neither has a job lined up for after the camp closes in August and they have no money saved for a security deposit or first months rent on a new apartment.
But don't worry folks- he is sport 4 brand new, huge tattoos on his arm. I like tattoos just fine- but if you have no income after a month from now maybe that money should have been earmarked for a place to live and not tattoos.
LOL. Okay, I might be judging this guy now.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2013 10:10:20 GMT -5
Me too. I can't wait until I'm about 85 and I can say whatever I'm thinking. You don't have to wait that long -- Mom just turned 70 in April and she is having a field day saying whatever she wants whenever she wants!
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Post by sheilaincali on Jul 23, 2013 10:50:10 GMT -5
It's morbid but my family has a genetic history of brain tumors. When my grandpa had his he unloaded on everyone! Bitched out my uncle for breaking a window with a baseball 40 years earlier. Told another uncle that he always did a shitty job mowing the lawn when he was younger. Etc. So that's going to be my excuse- whether I get the brain tumor or not come about 68 or so I'm just going to unleash on everyone. If anyone calls me on it I'll tell them about the family history of brain tumors and they'll leave me be
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Post by movingforward on Jul 23, 2013 11:03:28 GMT -5
I am judgmental of my soon to be SIL because she butchers the English language on a daily basis, is over the top religious which apparently makes it okay for her to judge everyone else and she watches nothing but Disney movies - yep, nothing but Disney - WTF
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Post by whoisjohngalt on Jul 23, 2013 11:04:58 GMT -5
Me too. I can't wait until I'm about 85 and I can say whatever I'm thinking. You don't have to wait that long -- Mom just turned 70 in April and she is having a field day saying whatever she wants whenever she wants! why is it acceptable when an old person does it?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2013 11:06:07 GMT -5
Respect your elders?
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Post by sarcasticgirl on Jul 23, 2013 11:17:14 GMT -5
I had to work really hard to keep a straight face as a server when someone ordered a sushi grade tuna steak extra well done with two sides of tartar sauce. I wanted to tell her save her money and go buy a Starkist packet from the supermarket. I'm judging her too... and I didn't even witness the event. wtf? take an omega 3 and eat some jerky instead of ruining a perfectly good tuna steak! with that said. my husband eats his steak medium rare, but fusses for me to not leave his ahi tuna steaks pink because it freaks him out. I stopped buying ahi tuna steaks, I just can't waste them on him.
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Post by swamp on Jul 23, 2013 11:29:56 GMT -5
so every time I read the title I see "Who do you love" by The Doors.
And old people can get away with all sorts of stuff.
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Post by milee on Jul 23, 2013 11:38:17 GMT -5
You don't have to wait that long -- Mom just turned 70 in April and she is having a field day saying whatever she wants whenever she wants! why is it acceptable when an old person does it? It's not, but people tend to recognize the futility of arguing with or trying to change an old person, so instead they just accept whatever the old person wants to say and move on. Like when I first met my 80 something year old future grandmother in law (my sister was marrying her grandson). She was 4'10", always fully made up, New York Jewish and very opinionated. Within 20 minutes of meeting her, she cornered me in the kitchen and asked if that nice young man out in the living room was my husband. When she learned that he was and that we'd been married for 9 years and had no children, she asked "why not? After all, children are the most important thing in life!" I knew I wasn't going to win that argument, so tried to joke with her. "Did you see those 2 motorcycles out front? [husband] and I ride them and there's really nowhere to put a baby." She wasn't having it. Her reply, "That's the most selfish thing I've ever heard! Sell those motorcycles and buy yourself a nice car. Have a baby!" Again, knowing I couldn't possibly win this thing, I told her that she had convinced me and we'd have a baby. She grabbed my hand and said, "Mazel tov! Let's go tell your husband right now!!!" and dragged me into the living room. Less than a year later we had our "oops." I'm pretty sure it's because God was punishing me for lying to an old Jewish woman. You really can't win.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2013 11:49:21 GMT -5
Myself. Not just myself, but I judge myself pretty harshly.
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Post by whoisjohngalt on Jul 23, 2013 12:16:05 GMT -5
Milee, that's not an old woman thing, that's an "Jewish thing"
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Post by milee on Jul 23, 2013 12:19:17 GMT -5
Milee, that's not an old woman thing, that's an "Jewish thing" Huh. Didn't know that. So you're saying that instead of waiting until I'm 80, if I just tell everybody I'm Jewish, I can get away with saying outrageous things right now? Sign me up, please.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2013 12:20:50 GMT -5
I judge people whose English grammar knowledge is so bad that they ask, "Who do you judge?" instead of " Whom do you judge?"
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