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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2013 19:03:42 GMT -5
Hint: in many cases it isn't voluntary...
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Post by Malarky on May 19, 2013 19:08:15 GMT -5
Ummm..pretty sure that it isn't political at all.
I'd be interested in knowing how you linked the two concepts.
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2013 19:21:28 GMT -5
Globally, I think it is cultural. For many, it is religious.
In the U.S. it seems to be standard practice even for those who do not have religious obligations. I've heard a lot of soon-to-be-dads make comments along the lines of "I don't want my son to be the weird one in gym class"
It seems like not taking action would be the more conservative practice, but in the U.S. circumcision is conforming to the social norm. While I don't think the circumcision decision is a political one for any parent, the parents that I know who choose not to circumcise their sons tend to be liberal in other aspects of their lives.
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Post by Miss Tequila on May 19, 2013 20:35:55 GMT -5
I'm not overly religious but i would have circumcised if we had a son. Actually, I would have let my husband decide and he wanted his son circumcised. We had girls so it was never an issue
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Post by chiver78 on May 19, 2013 20:37:17 GMT -5
Hint: in many cases it isn't voluntary... in the majority of cases, it isn't voluntary. most males are circumcised as infants or young children. any females that are "circumcised" - as female genital mutilation is referred to in some places - are most certainly done under duress to girls old enough to know it's not right.
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2013 20:48:00 GMT -5
The practice of circumcision originated millennia ago... long before the development of Germ Theory of medicine... whoever dreamed up the procedure probably wasn't motivated by "Health" reasons.
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Post by mmhmm on May 19, 2013 21:12:16 GMT -5
I'm going to move this thread to Current Events. There is no political connection and no market connection.
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Post by billisonboard on May 19, 2013 23:15:10 GMT -5
I'm going to move this thread to Current Events. There is no political connection and no market connection. mmhmm, Administrator How is it a current event?
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Post by mmhmm on May 19, 2013 23:31:57 GMT -5
I pretty sure, billis, there are circumstances currently being performed. Actually, this is just the place created to put things that really don't relate to politics and the markets, but don't have another place to be.
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Post by Peace Of Mind on May 20, 2013 0:06:51 GMT -5
I thought it was a penis thing and is usually a current event for many baby boys.
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Post by djAdvocate on May 20, 2013 0:53:03 GMT -5
conservative. it is a traditional thing. liberals have no use for traditions.
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Post by billisonboard on May 20, 2013 9:03:14 GMT -5
... Actually, this is just the place created to put things that really don't relate to politics and the markets, but don't have another place to be. I thought it was created so that Scottish_Lassie couldn't complain about things from P&M being dumped into Everything Else.
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Post by mmhmm on May 20, 2013 9:11:52 GMT -5
ROFL! Well, I must admit, billis, SL's frustration was certainly a part of the equation.
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Post by mmhmm on May 20, 2013 9:14:19 GMT -5
To answer the OP, in my experience you're more likely to see a liberally-oriented couple make the decision against circumcision than a conservative couple. It's become rather a tradition in this country, as has been mentioned, and conservatives are more likely to cling to tradition than liberals. That said, education is key. When the pros and cons are well explained it's easier for the new parents to make the right decision for their family.
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Post by zibazinski on May 20, 2013 9:46:47 GMT -5
I thought it was a hygiene thing.
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Post by mmhmm on May 20, 2013 9:54:06 GMT -5
I thought it was a hygiene thing. It used to be, zibazinski. Now, we have the ability to keep ourselves clean. When circumcisions began, that wasn't the case. There's no need, from a hygiene standpoint, to circumcise today.
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Post by Spellbound454 on May 20, 2013 12:34:16 GMT -5
We don't even think about it in the UK...not unless a doctor tells the parents otherwise. The incidence has risen through the immigrant population.
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Post by Deleted on May 20, 2013 12:38:31 GMT -5
It is both a liberal and conservative thing, as most liberals would like the circumcise conservatives using a rusty razor and a doctor with Parkinson's, and vice veras.
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Post by kgb18 on May 20, 2013 20:18:36 GMT -5
Me, too. I'm rather liberal. DH is rather conservative. We did some research and agreed that circumcision was the best decision. But many studies show that's not necessarily true. STD rates for certain STDs are lower if a man is circumcised (http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123802256715541879.html). And there are other infections that are lowered www.npr.org/blogs/health/2012/08/27/159955340/pediatricians-decide-boys-are-better-off-circumcised-than-not). And just to add an anecdote, my brother's friend recently got circumcised at the age of 30 because he had continual problems with general infections in that area. The doctor told him the only way to stop them was to get circumcised.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2013 0:50:04 GMT -5
A deceased uncle of mine had an experience that is now family legend. He hadn't been circumcized (born in the 1920s), and he developed chronic infection issues after becoming diabetic... at the ripe old age of 52. His doctor said that he had to get snipped or his inflammation might never heal completely. The procedure was done in the doctor's office, and the patient recuperated at home. He had scheduled his procedure to co-incide with his July vacation week. The next day, it was very hot and humid, in the upper-nineties. There was a knock on his door, and when he answered the door he discovered his voluptuous twenty-something-year-old neighbor, just back from college, soaking wet. She had been washing her car, wearing a skin-tight halter top, bra-less (it was the late 70s) and her skimpiest Daisy-Duke cut-off shorts. She asked him if he had any old towels or rags she could use to apply some wax to her car. He apologized and said no, he didn't, before closing the door... and doubling over in agony. Dammit, there were stitches in there.
Anyhow, he hadn't been circumcized at birth because his parents were "old-fashioned" (and Conservative) immigrants from Lithuania, and Roman Catholic. As a rule, people generally didn't circumcize infants where they came from... unless they were Jewish infants. While he was born in the USA, he had been born at home, delivered by a mid-wife... like in the Old Country. To his generation circumcision was still considered "new-fangled" and unnecessary.
By the time my generation came along (the "Baby-boomer" generation) all my cousins and I were all born in hospitals, delivered by physicians, and all the males were circumcized... because our mothers took the "progressive" (liberal?) Medical advice of their doctors instead of doing as their ancestors had done (the "conservative" path).
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on May 21, 2013 3:09:23 GMT -5
But the rate of infection and complications from the circumcision surgery itself are completely eliminated in the uncircumcised population. It's a pretty routine surgery, and the rate of complications is low (1.5% for newborns when performed by trained medical personnel), with most of those complications being bleeding, infection at the incision site, or the removal of too much or too little foreskin. Significant acute complications happen rarely, around 1 in 500 newborns in the US. Catastrophic complications are sufficiently rare enough that they are reported on a case by case basis, but the mortality rate is 1 in 500,000 neonatal circumcision procedures in the US. There are millions of boys born in the US every year, most of them are circumcised, so several otherwise perfectly healthy new babies die in the US every year because our society has decided that foreskins are weird looking.
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Post by Spellbound454 on May 22, 2013 11:20:55 GMT -5
I would have thought it was the other way around.
Weird?...so what... it not for other people to decide what is and isn't weird. If you are chopping bits off and there is no good medical reason.....(and there isn't because your medical councils no longer recommend it as routine) You have to wonder why.
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Post by zibazinski on May 22, 2013 11:59:21 GMT -5
I think now its more than health related. I know of no one that isn't but a lot of my friends say they wouldn't have relations with a man who wasn't, so there must be some issue with how it looks? This topic actually came up and some of my friends, old like me, of course, shuddered at the thought of sex with someone who wasn't circumcised. DS was simply done at the hospital, I don't even recall being asked. When DD was born the pendulum has swung the other way. I was glad she was a girl so I didn't have to deal with it.
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Post by Deleted on May 22, 2013 17:07:24 GMT -5
Interesting dealbreaker. Which date would you bring that up on? Or would you wait until you get a good look at the situation?
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Post by zibazinski on May 22, 2013 18:03:01 GMT -5
I'm not sure. I know I brought up an issue I had with DF before we became intimate. Something that would perhaps startle him same as that would startle me. I think if anything is out of the ordinary, it's a good idea to mention it if the situation arises.
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Post by Robert not Bobby on May 22, 2013 18:19:35 GMT -5
LOL
I think female and/or male genital mutilation is a regional and cultural thing (with the exception of Jews and Muslims who historically lived in the dusty desert and did it for reasons of cleanliness, and bizarre religious reasons…we have showers now folks…take one every day, it will do you good).
No one in Europe or any other civilized country subjects their sons to that kind of unnecessary trauma, and life altering procedure. Men who have been mutilated that way, don’t have nearly half the sensitivity and pleasure.
Leave the body in tact…nature has made you a certain way after millions of years of trial and error and evolution, for a reason.
Oh, BTW, are small penises and flabby labbia majora’s a liberal or conservative thing? Is a small mind, a liberal or conservative thing?
Was god taking a coffee break when he made conservatives in such a way that they would end up being a joke to the rest of thinking people in the world, or was he so high and distracted when he made liberals that the fools all end up believing we can make the world a better place, if we work together and stop pointing fingers…six of one, half dozen of the other.
Good thing I don’t believe in god or mutilation.
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Post by zibazinski on May 24, 2013 8:59:20 GMT -5
I seriously doubt it causes any lasting trauma to a baby to be circumcised. I bottle fed both my kids. Supposedly that means I'm a bad mom and they aren't attached to me and vice versa. Hey, they don't remember being bottle fed, either, so I guess they aren't too damaged by it.
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Post by Value Buy on May 24, 2013 10:45:06 GMT -5
As a youngster, all I remember is, when my newborn brothers (I was the oldest boy) came home from the hospital my mom had an ample supply of Vaseline to apply to the tender part the first week. Ouch
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Post by Deleted on May 24, 2013 13:19:53 GMT -5
Something was cut off ? I thought it was supposed to be that way. All the other kids in the high school gym shower were the same. ( My actual response upon circumcision info discovery) Traumatic ? Hardly, how about non-issue, forgotten 5 minutes later.
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